Problem: Article: When you’re trying on dress shirts, make sure the hem comes down at least 4–5 inches (10–13 cm) past your natural waistline. For the cleanest appearance, the endpoint should be right around your wrists when your arms are at your sides. Longer shirts may still bunch up a bit as you move around, but they won’t come totally untucked the way shorter ones will.  Dress shirts with size guides like “fitted” and “modern cut” tend to wear longer than traditional style. If you usually have your shirts custom-tailored, specify the exact length that works best for you by stretching a tape measure from the base of your neck to the point you want the shirt tails to reach. Take your baggy, oversized dress shirts to an alterations specialist and have them take in the measurements a few inches. With less material around the truck and waistline, it won’t be as noticeable when the shirt comes untucked over time.  Getting your shirts tailored is a cheap fix. In most shops, it shouldn’t cost you more than $10-20 per shirt. The most common cause of ruffling, bunching, and wrinkling is simply wearing a shirt that’s too big. Sometimes, it’s a rebellious undershirt that causes a dress shirt to ride up, rather than the cut or material. You can correct this issue by slipping the hem of your t-shirt or tank top into the waistband of your underwear. The outer shirt will be less prone to drifting if the inner one isn’t going anywhere. Stuffing your undershirt into your underwear may feel a little odd at first, but after a few wears you won’t be able to tell the difference. Not all movement can be avoided, but if you can be more conscious of the way you’re twisting, turning, and reaching, your carefully-coordinated look has a shot at making it past lunchtime. Resist the urge to stretch too tall or rest your hands behind your head when you’re thinking. Remember that the higher your arms go, the higher your hem goes as a result. Avoid bending at the waist as much as possible. Leaning too far in any direction will yank your shirt tails right out your pants. If you're still not having any luck keeping your shirt tails from escaping, it may be time to go shopping. In particular, look for modern cuts with streamlined hems that are designed to be worn in or outside the waistband. One of these styles might make a fashionable substitute to the kind of shirts you're used to wearing, particularly when sported in a business-casual setting.  The hem of your shirt should ideally hit right around the middle of your back pocket, or just below your zipper.  When wearing a dress shirt untucked, it's usually acceptable to leave the top 1 or 2 buttons undone.
Summary: Buy your shirts a little long. Have your shirts tailored. Tuck your undershirt into your underwear. Be mindful of the way you’re moving. Switch to a style you can wear untucked.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: You have the option of not giving a reason or excuse for saying no. Remember, it is your right to decline to do things, and you don't own anyone an explanation. You can simply respond, "no," but if you feel like adding more, you can still be respectful while keeping it simple.  You could say, “I'm sorry, that just won't work for me.” Another way to say no is simply, “No, I can't do that.” If someone asks if they can buy you a drink, feel free to just say, "No, thanks." If you say no immediately, it might seem like you didn't even consider the request. In order to be respectful, take a moment to think about your answer--even if you already know what it is going to be. Take a pause, and then kindly say no.  You could say, “Let me check my calendar. I believe I already have a commitment that weekend.” Try counting slowly to three before responding. This way, you'll seem to be considering the request. A respectful response is not one that sounds overly negative. When turning someone down, find a way to inject a positive attitude into your words. It also helps if you use a friendly tone of voice! For example, you could say, “Wow! A cookie exchange sounds like such a fun idea! I'm sorry that I won't be able to come. It sounds like I'll be missing a good time.” It's important not to sound rude. Don't say something like, “No, why would I want to do that?” Instead, be kind and gracious. Say things like, “That's so nice of you to think of me, but I'm really not interested in learning to snowshoe.” You can also say, “I'm afraid I can't dog sit for you. Your puppy is cute, but I don't think my cat would agree.” Make it clear that you genuinely appreciate being asked. If you have to turn someone down, express your thanks that they thought of you in the first place. You could say something like, “Thanks for considering me responsible enough to watch your kids. I'm sorry that I'm busy that evening.” You can also say, “I appreciate that you think I'd make a good team captain. However, I'm more comfortable not having a leadership role.” Saying no respectfully dictates that your be honest and direct. Do not give people false hope that you will be able to fulfill their request. If you can't help, say so.  Instead of, “Maybe I can try to make that work,” say, “I'm sorry, I have my own presentation to finish. I can't help with yours.” If someone is asking you on a date and you don't want to go, make that clear. You can say, "I'm sorry, but I just don't feel a connection. I'm going to have to turn down your offer." You can kindly turn down requests by including some friendly words. Try building the other person's confidence a bit. You can say, “You've been doing great managing your new team. I'm not available to help you run the meeting, but I know you'll be just fine on your own." Maybe one of your friends wants to take your relationship to the next level. Try saying, "I know you're an awesome person. That's why I value you as a friend, and I'd love for things to stay that way."
Summary:
Keep your explanation simple. Think before you speak. Make a positive statement. Be gracious. Show gratitude. Give a clear answer. Offer encouragement.