Problem: Article: While you might have strong feelings for this person, sometimes two people are just not compatible. If your relationship is toxic, you need to move on rather than trying to win back your ex. Some signs that your relationship is troubled beyond repair include:  abuse of any kind. If your ex has ever laid a hand on you to hurt you, or coerced you to have sex or do other things you did not feel comfortable doing, then he or she was abusive and you should not try to win that person back.  a lack of respect on either side. If you or your ex call each other names, belittle each other's accomplishments, or say disparaging things about one another to your family or friends, then there is no respect in that relationship. These are all features of an emotionally abusive relationship. Find someone who shows you the respect you deserve, and commit to treating him or her with respect as well. a history of unfaithfulness. While some relationships can move on past infidelity, broken trust is extremely hard to repair and even if you can build it back, it is easily broken again. A relationship that has experienced infidelity is likely to need extra support in the form of ongoing counseling to repair broken trust. Although you might feel defensive, those who are close to you and know you well often have good insight into your relationships. If someone you know and trust has a bad feeling about your relationship, you should take that as an indication that there could be trouble. If you know that a particular friend or family member dislikes your ex, ask to sit down and discuss why. Find out if it is based on how the ex treats you or others, knowledge your friend may have that you don't, or other evidence that might be meaningful. . If none of the steps above have worked for you, and/or if you have assessed the situation and decided it is not healthy or wise to continue trying to get your ex back, be sure that you take time for yourself emotionally to recover from your broken heart.  According to research, it is important to focus on the best parts of the breakup and relationship, especially how they helped you grow as a person, and let yourself forget the negative experiences. One strategy to help you do this is to spend 15 to 30 minutes each day for three days in a row writing about the positive aspects of the breakup.  After those three days, try to let the relationship go. Give yourself time to just be alone, spending time with family and friends and doing things you love. When you're in a healthy place, you can begin looking for love once more.
Summary: Watch for signs that your relationship won't work. Listen to your friends and family. Accept the break up and move on

Problem: Article: Place a skillet on the stove and pour in 1 tablespoon (15 ml) of olive oil. Turn the heat to medium and thinly slice 1 1/2 pounds (680 g) of yellow or red onions (about 2 large onions). When the skillet is hot, add the onions. Stir the onions occasionally and cook them for about 20 minutes. The onions should begin to caramelize or turn golden brown once they've finished cooking. Take a 3 1/2 pound (1.6 kg) beef brisket brisket out of the package and use paper towels to pat it dry. Sprinkle several large pinches of coarse salt and ground black pepper over the brisket. Set another skillet on the stove and turn the heat to medium-high. Place the brisket in the hot skillet and cook it for several minutes. Turn it over and cook the brisket on the other side until it's golden brown. The brisket will probably smoke a lot while you're searing it. Open a window or turn on your kitchen vent. Lay the seared brisket into a slow cooker with the fatty side facing up towards you. Mince 6 cloves of garlic and spread it over the brisket along with the cooked onions. Pour these liquid seasonings around the meat:  2 cups (480 ml) beef broth. 2 tablespoons (30 ml) Worcestershire sauce. 1 tablespoon (15 ml) soy sauce. Put the lid on the slow cooker and turn it on to LOW. Cook the brisket for 6 to 8 hours so it becomes completely tender when you insert a fork. Turn off the slow cooker and leave the brisket in it to rest. Resting the meat will help the juices redistribute within it so it's easier to slice. If you'd like to keep it warm while it rests, leave the lid on the pot or turn on a WARM setting. Lift the brisket out of the slow cooker and use a sharp knife to slice it into long strips. Slice against the grain of the meat so the brisket is tender and easy to eat. Or you can take two forks and shred the meat into very small pieces. Serve the brisket with juices from the slow cooker and the softened onions. Store leftover brisket in the fridge. The fat in the juices will float to the top and harden so you'll need to scoop it away before you reheat the meat. Reheat the meat in a low oven for about an hour.
Summary: Saute the sliced onions. Season and sear the brisket. Place the brisket, garlic, onions, and seasonings in a slow cooker. Cook the brisket on low for 6 to 8 hours. Rest the brisket for 20 minutes. Slice and serve the brisket.

Problem: Article: DEET is the most effective pesticide for repelling mosquitoes, but it will only last a few hours at most, and can kill beneficial insects in your yard as well. Other insecticides may cause less collateral damage, but tend to be less effective, shorter lasting, and/or designed to work on clothing rather than large areas. Check the label to see if the pesticide is approved for the intended use by the Environmental Protection Agency or another regulatory organization. The one plant proven to repel mosquitoes is the lantana plant, but be aware that this can be poisonous to pets, can cause allergic reactions, and is an invasive species in some areas. Other plants may have a minor effect, but try these only if you enjoy them in your garden or are willing to plant a large quantity:  Citronella, lemon grass, any citrus fruit, basil, rosemary, mint, or catnip may all have a minor effect. Bug zapper traps can seem effective because of loud sounds, bright lights, or sparks. However, most of the insects killed are not mosquitoes, and they can even kill insects that would normally eat or compete with mosquitoes. Ultrasound devices are simply not effective. Some mosquito-killing traps work using a fan system, very similar to the homemade trap described above. These can be effective, at least temporarily. Mosquitoes tend to avoid smoke, and will be blasted away by a strong fan. Dinner on the patio might not be as pleasant if you are sitting in a smoke cloud or wind tunnel, but if you only care about keeping them away for the next few minutes, this is one option. Citronella candles are mostly effective due to the smoke, not the scent. Any candle will work almost as well.
Summary:
Spray insecticide for a temporary solution. Consider a mosquito-repelling plant. Be skeptical of bug zappers and ultrasound machines. Use temporary measures.