Q: Take it one second, one minute, one hour, and one day at a time. Easy does it. Addiction recovery is a marathon, not a sprint. Alcoholism is a chronic disorder with a danger of relapse. In case you feel the urge to buy something that feeds your drinking problem, put a "no relapse" reminder note in your wallet so you will see it whenever you dig in there to get money. Remember that you are in control. The more confident you are in your ability to abstain and recover, the more likely you are to succeed. Understanding your role in your own behavior can help you stop making excuses and increase your self-confidence. Internal locus of control is the extent to which you assume responsibility for your actions and believe you can control your life. Having an internal locus of control better focuses you for future success. If you are not immediately successful, keep trying. You can find a way to make this work for you. It can take a long time to successfully recover from alcohol abuse.  It may encourage you to know that about a third of people who are treated for alcohol abuse problems show no further symptoms one year later.  Try visualization. A very successful technique in facing fears and overcoming challenges, visualization involves sitting quietly and focusing mentally on what you hope to achieve, watching the scene of you succeeding playing out in your mind. Recite positive affirmations to yourself. These little mantras, such as “I am taking back control of my life and my health” and “I will succeed in my effort to get sober,” help you focus on what is positive about what you’re doing and reaffirm that you’re making the right choice.
A: Take it slowly. Be confident. Don’t give up.

Q: Insert the hollow end of the bit into the drill. The Phillips head should be facing outwards. If you have a Phillips head screwdriver, that will work as well. Inside of the square bracket, you should see 1 or more screws. Place the end of the Phillips head screwdriver or bit into the end of a screw. Hold onto the bracket with 1 hand as you unscrew each bracket.  If you are using a drill, set the drill to reverse and press down on the trigger to remove the screw. If you are using a screwdriver, turn the screw counterclockwise until it pops out of the wall. Once the screws are out, take the bracket from the wall. If you are getting rid of the blinds, you may throw out the brackets.  Otherwise, save the brackets for later use. If you need to save the brackets and screws, place them in a plastic zip bag. Mark the bag with the location of the blinds so that you do not lose them. If you labeled your mini blinds, write the same label on the bag with the brackets. For example, if you marked your blinds as "kitchen door blinds," label the bag with the same thing.
A: Fit a drill with a Phillips head bit or find a screwdriver. Unscrew the bolts with the drill or screwdriver. Repeat until each screw is removed. Put the screws and the brackets in a bag to keep them.

Q: Consider magazines you have a subscription to or enjoy reading on a regular basis. You may also focus on publications you know little about but would like to start contributing articles to. Read at least three to four recent issues of the publications, with a close eye on several aspects:  Check if the bylines match the names on the masthead. If the names on the bylines do not match the masthead names, this may be an indication that the publication hires freelance writers to contribute to its issues. Look for the names and contact information of editors for specific areas. If you’re interested in writing about pop culture, identify the name and contact information of the arts editor. If you’re more interested in writing about current events, look for the name and contact information of the managing editor or the features editor. You should avoid contacting the executive editor or the editor-in-chief as they are too high up the chain and you will likely not interact with them as a freelance writer. Note recent topics or issues covered in the publication and the angle or spin on the topics. Does the publication seem to go for more controversial takes on a topic or a more objective approach? Does the publication seem open to experimentation in form and content or are they more traditional? Look at the headlines used by the publication and how the articles begin. Note if the headlines are shocking or vague. Check if the articles start with a quote, a statistic, or an anecdote. This will give you a good sense of the writing style that gets published in that particular publication. Note the types of sources quoted in the articles. Are they academic or more laymen? Are there many sources quoted, or many different types of sources quoted? Pay attention to how writers wrap up their articles in the publication. Do they end on a poignant quote? An interesting image? Or do they have a bold, concluding thought? If you’ve had a good conversation about a trend, topic, or issue with a friend recently, think about how you may be able to take this conversation and turn it into a story idea. Maybe your friend was discussing a new trend on social media or how racism is a problem at her daughter’s school. Focus on conversations that were full of passion or strong emotion and that relate to a current issue or trend. These inspiring conversations do not need to be about global problems or about a large issue. Having conversations with your neighbors, your friends, and your peers can allow you to discuss local topics that could then turn into an article idea for a local magazine. If you are thinking of writing a magazine article for a local publication, you should look through local event listings for any events that may be newsworthy. This could be a local protest, restaurant openings, local plays, or local music festivals. Starting small with local publications before you branch out to national publications could help you get started as a magazine writer, especially if you are just starting your writing career. You should also look through your local newspaper for human interest stories that may have national relevance. You could then take the local story and pitch it to a magazine. You may come across a local story that feels incomplete or full of unanswered questions. This could then act as a story idea for a magazine article. You should have a good sense of what other writers are currently writing about or posting on social media. This way, you will not miss any current ideas or trends and may be able to put a different spin on an existing article. You can also set your Google alerts to notify you if key words on topics of interest appear online. If you have Twitter or Instagram, you can use the hashtag option to search trending topics or issues that you can turn into article ideas. Perhaps you are really interested in a topic that has been written to death in many different publications, but you can’t stop thinking about the topic. Look for a new angle on the topic so it feels fresh, relevant, and new. This will make your magazine article stand out to editors and engage your target audience. For example, rather than write about the psychological problems of social media on teenagers, which has been done many times in many different magazines, perhaps you can focus on a demographic that is not often discussed in relation to social media: seniors and the elderly. This will give you a fresh approach to the topic and ensure your article is not just regurgitating a familiar angle.
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Analyze publications you enjoy reading. Consider recent trends or topics you talked about with a friend or peer. Look up upcoming events in your area. Consider what other writers are publishing. Think of a new angle on a familiar topic.