In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: If you're looking for a short bob, start by washing and drying your hair. You may want to add some leave-in conditioner. Comb your hair into a low ponytail at the back of your head. Don't get it too close to your head.  Make sure you comb all the loose hairs and get the hair as straight as possible. Once you've got it combed into a ponytail, pull the elastic an inch or two down. Cut your hair straight across below the ponytail holder. Undo the ponytail. Comb your hair into a high ponytail onto the very top of your head. Once you get it all combed straight, cut across the top, as well, about two inches from the end of your hair.  Comb it out, and you're done. This method works better in front of a mirror that magnifies. That way, you can really see what you're doing. The goal of search and destroy is to just take off what's damaged.  "Dusting" is lighter than a trim, meaning you don't take as much off. Work on small, single sections of your hair at a time. Hold them up to the mirror so you can see which ones are damaged.  Trim off the ends of curls that are damaged. Once you've got all the damaged ends in a section, move on to the next section.  Pin back any area you've already trimmed.
Summary: Try the 2-cut bob. Try search and destroy with a mirror.

If you don't love yourself, your lack of confidence and self-esteem may bleed into the interactions you have with your husband. Confidence is an attractive quality, and conversely, a lack of confidence can make you seem unattractive. Tell yourself that you are sexy, attractive, and interesting. Focus on your favorite qualities about yourself, and remember that your husband fell in love with you for a good reason.  Speaking confidently and having a confident, upright posture will help you demonstrate your self-esteem. If you are unable to remove the negative thoughts you have about yourself, consider taking up practices like meditation or therapy for a little extra help. Being able to care for yourself emotionally can help you maintain a more positive attitude. If you depend on your husband completely, you are more likely to feel critical when your husband fails to make you feel better. This criticism could push him further away. In order to work on being your own person, you can:  Spend time with your close friends and family Work on a hobby Take a class in something you are interested in Don't take your husband for granted. Value the time you spend together, and seek out quality time with him. Schedule dates or other ways to check in throughout the day. Talk to one another on the phone, Skype, or text at least once a day in order to display that he is in your thoughts. It can be hard to focus on a marriage when you have kids, careers, homes, and other responsibilities. Be sure that you don't have too much on your plate if you want to concentrate on attracting your husband. If you find the stress building up, find someone who can help share the load. This will also help reduce the likelihood of nagging, which is a buzzkill. You could:  Ask your husband to do more chores Ask a friend to help you out around the house Hire a babysitter to give you some relief Use a cleaning service to take care of chores at home Remaining curious about your husband is key to revitalizing your marriage. Don't act like he is predictable or boring: tell yourself there is always more to learn about him. Ask him to talk about his life, emotions, and experiences in order to grow your relationship and your attraction to one another. Don't keep your emotions a secret from your husband. Tell him what you are thinking and feeling. Don't be ashamed if you need extra support. Be honest and tell yourself that sharing your emotions is key to growing and developing a marriage rooted in mutual attraction. As you grow older, you might start treating life with a greater degree of seriousness than you did as a young newlywed. Be serious when seriousness is called for, but make sure that you still know how to laugh—and make sure your husband knows that you can still laugh, too. In order to keep your sense of humor alive in your marriage, you can:  Develop inside jokes Go to a live comedy show Rent a funny movie Let go of your inhibitions and act goofy or silly sometimes Show him that you still find him attractive. He will be more attracted to you in turn. There is nothing more attractive than being seen by others as attractive. In order to show your husband how attractive he is, you can:  Tell your husband how much you love him Flirt with him Make eye contact Compliment his appearance and personality Initiate sex Pay attention to your husband's needs and desires. Give him emotional and physical support when he's feeling low, even if he isn't honest about needing that support. Make sure your husband can feel love emanating from you through the sort of treatment you give him.  Take an interest in his interests. You don't need to force yourself to love everything he feels passionately about, but encourage him to talk to you about his passions by being an active listener. Do something special for him every once in a while. Plan a surprise party on his birthday or cook his favorite meal. Offer to pack him a lunch or give him a shoulder massage after an especially long, tiresome day at work. Show sympathy if he is having a hard time. You might be tempted to think that making your husband jealous will cause him to come rushing to your side. However, this sort of thinking backfires more often than not. Attract your husband with your honesty and care, not with dangerous games. Don't let problems in your marriage fester. Talk through your conflicts and problems in order to clear the air. If your husband seems distant or withdrawn, sit down with him and talk about what the problem is. Once everything is brought out into the open, the two of you can figure out how to make things better together. Understand that problems in your marriage might have nothing to do with you. If your husband no longer finds you attractive, there could be a medical problem behind it, or there can be something going on with him psychologically, spiritually, or emotionally that you have no control over.
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One-sentence summary -- Project self-confidence. Be your own person. Stay connected. Get help with chores when you're stressed out. Ask your husband questions about himself. Talk about your feelings. Laugh together. Demonstrate your attraction to your husband. Be supportive. Don't play games. Resolve conflicts quickly.

Problem: Article: Don't say cheesy things or pick-up lines that you saw on a tv show or on the internet. Avoid such cliches if you want to get her attention. Dig deeper for your compliments. Telling her she has a great laugh or a great sense of humor shows your attraction is more than just physical. Show her you aren't overly possessive by encouraging her to spend time with friends. It is a good for both of you to have a life outside your relationship. Don’t get jealous that she has male friends. Jealousy is a big turn-off. Don’t be pushy. Each of you should feel free to make your own decisions that will be respected by the other. If she says no to your advances, accept it graciously. Do not get angry if she rejects you. If you are respectful of her decision she may change her mind in the future. If you act aggressively or talk badly about her, it will only come back to bite you. Other girls may hear about your distasteful behavior and it will ruin your chances with them. A bit of cat and mouse can be fun but may get boring quickly. You can play bored or be distant to let a girl know you aren't going to desperately chase her, but you don't want to come off as uninterested it's too hard don't try.
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Be original. Give her space. Respect her decisions. Don’t be too inaccessible.