Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Do not drink around the person. Talk to others. Talk to the person. Try to involve a professional. Be encouraging throughout the treatment period. Be prepared to support a relapse. Take care of yourself. Spend time with other friends and family members.

Answer: Drinking around an alcoholic, like it or not, puts up a "you drink, why can't I?" argument for the alcoholic--it does not matter if you can handle drinking because he or she cannot. It may also lead to unhealthy drinking habits within your own life. You can help the other person by meeting and spending time in places that do not serve alcohol. This will make it easier for the person to stop drinking. Ask people closest to the person if they've noticed any concerning behaviors or if they think the person has a problem. Avoid telling them the person is an alcoholic and be careful not to tell anyone who doesn't need to know. Don't risk destroying the person's privacy. If you think the person is an alcoholic, the time has come to get others involved. The problem is too big for you to tackle by yourself, and you must get outside help for the alcoholic as soon as possible. Remind him that you're worried, that you care about him, and want him to get help. Share your thoughts on what you've noticed and ask what you can do to help. Be prepared if the person doesn't want your help or avoids you for a while. If the person is open to getting help, offer to put him in touch with a professional. Have a list of resources ready to hand to the alcoholic. It should include contact information for local Alcoholics Anonymous groups, the names of therapists and psychologists who specialize in helping alcoholics, and a list of rehabilitation centers. If the alcoholic refuses to go into treatment or even consider it, try to involve a therapist. A therapist will have experience dealing with different types of alcoholics, and will work with you to create a plan for the alcoholic. A professional therapist will know how to handle defensiveness and other behaviors that may upset or confuse close family members. If the alcoholic does agree to go to treatment and take steps toward sobriety, make it clear that you're supportive and that this is the best thing the person could be doing. Curb the person's feelings of guilt or embarrassment by showing that you're proud of him for getting help. If the person attended a rehab center and has completed a course of treatment, he may be vulnerable when he leaves. For most people, treatment is never over and alcoholism is something the person must constantly deal with. The alcoholic's family and friends should continue to support the person, even if he relapses. Relapse happens with almost every alcoholic.  Come up with non-alcoholic activities to do together. Very often, when an alcoholic has made drinking so much a part of his or her life, finding activities that are alcohol-free can feel unnatural. Being a good role model and friend can mean rediscovering that one can have fun, socialize, and relax without a drink. Encourage the person to attend AA meetings frequently and to get counseling when needed. Let him know that you're there to talk if he needs you. Being a close friend or family member of an alcoholic is exhausting and can lead to feelings of helplessness and despair. Alcoholism is often called a "family disease," since its effects go so far beyond the life of the person with the alcohol problem. Take time to do activities that make you feel good and bolster your confidence and self-esteem during this time. Consider getting therapy. It might be helpful to have someone to talk to about your feelings during this emotionally difficult time. You need to take breaks from dealing with the person's drinking problems. While you're focused on the well-being of your alcoholic family member, spending time with other people in your life can help take your mind off of things and restore your energy. Make sure you're dealing with your own personal issues during this time. Avoid focusing so much on the person with the drinking problem, that you hurt other relationships in your life or develop dependency issues of your own.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Listen to the person’s word choices. Watch for a deflection. Listen for repeated words and phrases. Listen for sentence fragments. Recognize when the person corrects what they say. Pay attention to how detailed their story is. Look for lack of details in a story.

Answer: Language in a fabricated story usually becomes more impersonal. The person may decrease the use of first-person words, such as “I,” “me,” and “mine.” The person may avoid using people’s names, instead using words like “him” and “her” with more frequency., When you are questioning a liar, they may deflect your questions to steer you off-course. They might switch topics altogether, or they might answer your question with a question. Someone who is lying may repeat certain words or phrases. It can seem as though they are trying to convince themselves of a lie. It’s also possible that certain phrases or words may be part of their rehearsed lie. A liar might also repeat the question that you ask them, likely trying to buy time to think of a suitable response. Often, liars will start to give an answer to a question and stop. They will then start over or not complete a sentence. This may be an indication that they are already finding holes in their own story and are trying to cover up any mistakes they’re saying. Spontaneous corrections occur when the liar is trying to make up and edit the story as it is being told. If you notice that the person is correcting themself often, their story may be fabricated. Adding lots of seemingly irrelevant details may also be a sign that they are lying. Pay attention to whether or not the person adds minute details to what they say. They may think that adding more details will make the story more believable. On the other hand, they might also try to be more general with their story to avoid getting caught by inconsistent details. People who are lying tend to leave out little details that truth-tellers leave in. Minor details are harder to keep track of and remember, so liars usually find it better to omit them.  Someone telling the truth might describe the music playing in the background in a certain scenario, while a liar will probably omit this detail. A story will be vague so that they can remember the details they have to say. A liar might also have inconsistent details, so pay attention to the details of the story.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Wear the correct shirt.

Answer: Cufflinks are most commonly worn with French cuff (also known as double cuff) dress shirts. This sort of shirt has extra long cuffs that fold back on the cuff material, creating layers. French cuffs don’t have buttons on the sides to connect the cuff. Instead, there are small holes on each side of the cuff, where cufflinks are added. Wearing cufflinks with this shirt means that the cufflink will be securing four layers of shirt fabric. This is a dressier look, and the most classic style of shirt to wear with cufflinks. Cufflinks can also be worn with single cuff shirts, the variety typically found at department stores. Wearing cufflinks with this style of shirt is a more casual look.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Dip the person back and hold them while you kiss if they're shorter. Jump into their arms if you're shorter and they can support you. Kiss them somewhere else when you want to show affection.

Answer:
For an ultra-sexy kiss that is easy to achieve, the taller partner can dip the shorter partner back so that they're almost parallel to the ground and support them with their arms while kissing them. Be careful not to strain your back when you do this. Brace your core muscles and use your legs to support your weight.  If you're the taller partner, hold your partner around their waist and back to support them. If you're the shorter partner, wrap your arms around the person's neck for extra support. If you're short and your partner is strong enough, jump into their arms so that your faces are level, or wrap your legs around your partner's waist and kiss them from above. Make sure to warn your partner before you try to jump into their arms if you're shorter than them! If you're the taller partner, you could also try spinning the other person around as an extra romantic way to kiss them. You don't always need to kiss the person on the lips or even on their face to show affection. If you're short than your partner, try kissing them on the hand or shoulder. If you're taller than them, you could plant a kiss on the top of their head or bring their hand up to your mouth and plant a kiss on it.