Problem: Article: A guard functions to keep spectators a safe distance away from you (the performer) while you are working with fire. This is essential, as most bystanders will have never seen fire breathing before and will not know how far the flame could reach. This person should be very familiar with the practice of fire breathing. Fire safety training for guards is a good idea; however, since the guard's main job is to keep the audience at a safe distance from you and your equipment, it is not critical that they be extensively trained in this. A spotter is a person (or persons) who is in charge of fire safety during your performance. This individual should be knowledgeable about your performance, the art of fire breathing, and should also have training in wick extinguishing. Your spotter should have a fire extinguisher on hand in case it is needed.  Spotters need to be attentive to the safety needs of the audience, the venue, and you (the performer). It is important to include your spotter in your practice sessions so he can become accustomed to your routine before you perform it with an audience. Depending on the nature of your routine, you may wish to have a special costume. Make sure the material you wear is flame resistant (meaning it will not continue burning once an ignition source is removed) or, at the very least, not particularly flammable. Cotton and synthetic materials that tend to melt easily are not recommended.  Your costume should be able to withstand 800 degree temperatures for more than three seconds without catching fire in order to be considered flame-resistant.  If your costume is not already flame-retardant, you can treat the material with a flame retardant substance made for clothing. Practice with your planned costume before wearing it for a performance. Make sure spotters and guards are also equipped with flame-resistant clothing. Fire breathing is very dangerous, and your chances of having an accident are greatest when you are first learning. Be prepared for dealing with injuries by becoming trained in first aid before you attempt fire blowing.  Your first aid training should include CPR and proper techniques for immediate treatment of burns. You should always have a first aid kit on hand when practicing or performing fire blowing. Guards and spotters should also have first aid training. If you are performing a large, organized event, arrange to have an ambulance standing by in case you or someone else is injured during your performance.
Summary: Have an audience guard. Use a spotter. Choose a flame-resistant costume. Obtain first-aid training.

Problem: Article: While stains are one thing, taking time to care for your carpet as a whole will ensure it gets its best possible longevity. Getting your carpet cleaned every 12-18 months is optimal. You can either hire a professional cleaning company or buy a carpet cleaning machine.  It's generally recommended you hire a pro if you can afford the expense. A professional job will ensure the carpet is as clean a it can be, and minimizes the risk of complications. The best way to solve a stain is to prevent it outright. Unlike a carpet, a mat can be easily thrown into the laundry or cleaned by hand. Placing mats in areas with a high risk for stains and you may well save yourself time and stress in the future.  The front door to your home is a choice area to place a mat; not only is it one of the most highly-trafficked areas in your home, it'll also come with the threat of dirt and mud trailed in from the outside. Placing mats beside kitchen and bathroom sinks is a good way to trap water. The same goes beside baths and showers, as anyone using the shower will track water and suds with them when they get out. If you have carpets, vacuuming is an absolute must. Dust and dirt can get trailed in and make your carpet feel gritty pretty fast. Vacuuming every day or two will ensure your carpet's always looking and feeling its best.  If you don't have the time to vacuum regularly, investing in a robotic automatic vacuum is relatively inexpensive and a great way to keep your carpets clean without having to invest a great deal of time into it. Left for more than 24 hours, wet or damp carpet will encourage mildew and bacterial growth. Needless to say, this isn't the sort of thing you want in your home. A dehumidifier will help suck up excess moisture if your home has a tendency for such. Stains become much more permanent the longer they're left unattended. If you solve them as soon as they first happen, you'll be saved a lot of trouble in the future.
Summary: Get your carpet cleaned every year. Place mats in high-risk areas. Vacuum frequently. Keep a dehumidifier running in your house. Clean all prospective stains immediately.

Problem: Article: You can’t move on until you’ve accepted that you and your former partner are no longer together and that the relationship isn’t coming back. Don’t call, text, email, or otherwise contact or talk to your ex. It will only make it harder for you to get yourself together and move on.  There may be a time when you and your former partner can be friends, but that time is definitely not now.  Absolutely under no circumstances visit their Facebook page. Unfriend them and stay away.  Also stay away from his or her close friends. It may be difficult if you have mutual friends, but for the time being, stick close to your own friends. You’ll avoid getting pulled back into any drama and hearing about what your ex is up to. Go through and get rid of any mementos, photos, or other reminders of your former relationship. You can’t move on if you’re still clinging to remnants of the relationship, and you definitely won’t move on if you still attach sentiment to them. Hanging out in places the two of you used to go will make it harder for you to move on. You may be able to begin going back to them eventually, but for now, stay away. Recognize the feelings that you still have about the person and/or relationship, whether it’s anger, sadness, disappointment, longing, or resentment. Don’t try to hide from the feelings. Instead, allow yourself to feel them fully; so if you need to wallow, then wallow. Accept your feelings so that then you can begin to move on. Think critically about why the relationship ended, including mistakes you made as well as mistakes your ex-partner may have made. Use what you've learned from the mistakes each of you made to begin building strategies to avoid similar missteps in the future. Using healthy outlets will not only help you deal with your feelings but also improve your own well-being at the same time.  Beating yourself up or becoming self-destructive will make the situation infinitely worse and make the process of moving on much longer and harder.  Let your friends and family be your resource--talk to them and let them be there for you. Going running, hitting the gym (hello, punching bag!), taking a hike, joining a yoga class...all excellent options. Write--but don’t send--an angry letter. Let all your ugliest feelings out and let yourself have some catharsis. But do not send the letter. It will make your situation worse rather than better and stop you from moving on. Look for a strong role model you can look up to as well as take inspiration from. Perhaps a friend or character or public figure who got back up better than ever after getting knocked down. The more you can take inspiration from people who have stumbled and caught themselves, the easier it will be to envision yourself doing the same. It’s harder to pine for an ex when you’re seeking new partners. But make sure to keep your feelings about your ex and the relationship out of your new dating scene. Avoid bringing up or grumbling about your ex with a date--don’t let the old relationship taint your new ones.
Summary:
Accept that the relationship has ended. Cut off communication. Get rid of reminders of the relationship. Stay away from places you used to frequent with your ex. Deal with your feelings. Learn from the relationship. Find healthy ways to vent. Find a role model. Date other people.