Summarize the following:
If your partner is showing signs that they are ready to make your relationship known, take subtle steps forward. Doing so may make your partner see that telling the secret isn’t a bad thing. It may also encourage them to be more open about you to others as well.  For example, posting a picture of the two of you on Facebook or Instagram is an easy way to take the first step. Inviting them to hang out with your friends or even attending a party together are also ideal ways to introduce your relationship. Only do this if you are sure your partner is ready to be open about your relationship. Otherwise, you could create problems by making your partner feel rushed. You may have thought that you could handle keeping your relationship a secret and agreed to do so. If you decide that you can’t anymore, you don’t have to stay. In some situations, it may be unhealthy to stay with someone who hides their love for you, particularly without a valid reason. Fortunately, you can make the decision to walk away. Keeping your relationship a secret may actually be a blessing in disguise when you decide to leave a relationship. Not showcasing it on social media and having people ask you what happened may help you to pick up the pieces much easier than if everyone you know was aware of the relationship. Although it may be painful to deal with a partner keeping your relationship a secret, going through this experience can help you identify what you do want in a relationship. In order to a have healthy partnership, you need to feel as if you emotional needs are being met. Plus, although all relationships come with hardship, you should feel nourished, supported, and positive about yours. When you enter into your next relationship, be sure to listen to your needs.  Gain more awareness of your emotions. Rather than taking whatever your partner says as law, decide for yourself how you feel. Think about what you need. Is being able to share your relationship with family and friends important to you? If so, make that clear up front. Listen to your gut. You inner voice will tell you whether you feel safe and secure in your next relationship. If you get a sense of any red flags, pay attention and take action.
Lead by example. Leave if you are unhappy. Know what you want the next time around.