Problem: Article: Show the audience that the deck you're holding is just a normal pack of cards. Show them all the cards to help them believe.  You can also shuffle the deck or allow audience members to shuffle the deck before you start the trick. "  They should be bewildered that you successfully guessed their card.
Summary: Hold a deck of cards face-down in one hand. Ask the audience, "Is the bottom card the Ace of Diamonds?

Problem: Article: If you see the person coming, turn around and walk in the other direction. Cross the street, or duck into a shop. If you're lucky, the negative person won't have seen your maneuver.  If you know the negative person's normal routines, avoid going to the places where she's likely to be, or go at times she's unlikely to be there. It's important to be aware of your surroundings so that you don't accidentally encounter the negative person. To avoid someone, make sure you're never available for conversation. Keep your phone handy, so you can pretend to be completely engaged in it if the person you're trying to avoid shows up unexpectedly.  Making eye contact invites communication, so if you accidentally encounter the negative person, try to avoid looking them in the eye. Instead, pretend to be busy looking elsewhere. If you know anyone else in the vicinity, get involved in a conversation. When the negative person sees you engaged in a conversation with another person, she's unlikely to interrupt with her negative remarks. Almost all friends have a mix of positive and negative qualities. If you stop engaging in negativity, chances are you'll find yourself with more positive people.  Limit your responses to negative topics to neutral ones, such as, "I see," or "Okay." When someone gives a positive response, react with enthusiasm. Negative people tend to stay "stuck" in bad things that happen, and exaggerating their plight. Positive people tend to focus on the good things that happen, even though they may acknowledge difficulty and challenges. This is because positive people tend to have an internal locus of control, which means they feel more in control of their circumstances and the things that happen to them.  When negative subjects arise, it's okay to change the subject. If you can, make sure that there are other people around when you're with the negative person. More people will help disperse her negative energy, and help you keep perspective.  When she's in a group situation, the negative person might act and respond differently to you than when the two of you are alone together. If the group energy is mostly positive, then you'll be less effected by the negative energy coming from the person you're trying to avoid. Arguments only strengthen the social ties between yourself and the negative person. If you're trying to avoid the person, you should let them know that you're done with the conversation, and simply walk away.  You're not debating your decision to avoid the person. This isn't a decision that needs be made together. Defending your decision only allows the negative person more control over your life. You don't need to justify your decision to avoid her, or prove that you're right. You have the option to avoid anyone you decide to. If you're serious about avoiding the negative person in your life, don't engage with them on social media. Allowing someone to post on your Facebook wall, or take over a conversational thread, only furthers their hold on your life.  Be prepared for the person to react negatively to being cut from your social media feed. You may need to block the person from contacting you by email as well. The person should get the message that you're avoiding her. If the person doesn't respect your boundaries, and continues to try to contact you after repeated blocks and lack of response on your part, you may need to seek additional help keeping her away.
Summary: Walk away. Don't pay attention to the negative person. Surround yourself with positive friends. Hang out in groups. Don't engage in arguments with the person. Block the person on social media.

Problem: Article: Body language can reveal a student’s intention or thoughts of being aggressive or using force.  Some of this body language is more subtle, requiring keen observation, whereas other body language is fairly overt and obvious, and clearly shows an intention to cause harm. The angrier someone is, the more likely they are to touch their head or rest their hands on their head.  It’s as if the brain is full of discomfort that must be touched.  The student may rub their scalp or clench their fists and remove them from the head area.  These are all non-verbal cues that the student is becoming increasingly angry and potentially violent. Also, if you see a student’s hands linger or hover near their waistband or inside their clothing, you should assume that they may have a weapon and take appropriate precautions. If a student removes outer layers of clothing, like a jacket or sweater, it could indicate that they are too warm.  However, if you are looking at the student’s body language and can tell they are angry or frustrated and also see them removing clothes, you are seeing a nonverbal expression of escalating frustration and potential aggression. Students are especially prone to removing clothes and jewelry just prior to physically fighting. There are two types of stares that may reveal aggressive behavior or ideas:  the thousand-yard stare and the target stare.  Both of these indicate that the student is mentally elsewhere, and, when combined with other nonverbal cues, could indicate potential danger for you and your students.  The thousand-yard stare is one in which the person is unfocused, not seeing anything directly in front of them.  It’s as if they’re looking through everything and everyone.  The target stare is one in which the student narrows their eyes and stares directly at you or another student, often in the chin area.
Summary: Assess a potential threat. Find their hands. Watch for a student who is removing outerwear that impedes movement. Look where they look.

Problem: Article: with each other. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean the sweet nothings have to end. Simple things like gazing into your spouse’s eyes, complimenting them, or touching them lightly can increase the romantic and sexual tension between you. Though you probably had a big meal at your wedding, think about saving room for wedding night dessert. Chocolate, strawberries, honey, and similar foods are great aphrodisiacs, and you can use them to make your night even more romantic. Try:  Feeding each other small snacks like chocolate truffles. Eating a piece of food together and ending in a kiss. Licking sticky foods like honey and chocolate sauce off each other. Taking a hot bath or shower together will give you the chance to be intimate while cleaning up after the day’s activities. If you’re staying at a fancy hotel or resort, make sure to use any large bathtubs, showers, and jacuzzis you may have access to. After, try rubbing your spouse with mineral oil and giving them a massage. For something elegant, try slipping into silk pajamas or a fancy robe. For something more stripped down, try a see-through bra or baby doll dress, a lace panty and garter belt set, or some tight-fitting boxers. No matter what you wear, remember that your spouse loves the way you look and will enjoy the things that make you feel sexy. Make sure you bring some normal clothes as well since you may not want to sit in skimpy underwear all night. For many people, the term “wedding night” is synonymous with sex, and for good reason! Whether it’s your first time or not, getting physical with your new spouse can be an incredibly intimate, emotional experience. Make sure you talk about your desires beforehand, but stay open to new ideas and go with the flow.  If you saved yourself for marriage, relax and take things slow. There’s plenty of time for experimentation later, so for now, just enjoy the ride.  If you’re open to roleplay, try recreating your first sexual encounter together, complete with the outfits you were wearing at the time. When people think of a wedding night, they often forget the most important part: simply being together. Beyond the food and sex, the fancy room and romantic mood, the wedding night is your first chance to be together as a married couple. Let yourself relax and be open and intimate with your partner, whether that means talking for hours about your future or simply lying together, hand in hand, until you fall asleep.
Summary:
Flirt Prepare some sweet snacks. Give each other the spa treatment. Put on sexy clothes or lingerie. Enjoy the honeymoon sex. Let yourself be emotionally intimate.