People may envy those who are charismatic by nature. One key aspect to charisma is positivity. If you exude positive energy, people will be more drawn to you.  Try to go into any situation with a positive attitude. Hope for the best at school, work, social situations, and other aspects of your life. Surround yourself with other positive people. You do not want to be around anyone who's going to drain you emotionally.  Engage in positive self-talk. If you screw something up at work, think, "This is an opportunity to grow" instead of "I'm so mad at myself for failing." People tend to envy those who are comfortable with themselves and their interests. This can also make you look more charismatic. Try not to fake interest or enthusiasm. Do not appear shameful of your own interests, moods, and passions. Be upfront with others. Showcase your unique sense of humor and style. Express your interests and opinions without shame. People will be drawn to you naturally if you give off a sense of authenticity. Confidence is enviable, and it can help build your charisma. If you don't already have a good self-image, take steps to work on feeling good about yourself.  If there's an area in your life you would like to improve, work on it. This may help improve your confidence. If you're insecure about your body, for example, try working out and eating healthier. Take action in your life. If you're more proactive, you'll feel better about yourself. Talk to someone you think is attractive at the bar. Approach someone at a networking event.  Speak more assertively. This can help you feel confident. Avoid "ums" and "uhs." Simply cut to your point. It's a small thing, but it can go a long way. Work on smiling throughout the day. Smile at co-workers at the water cooler. Smile at people you make eye contact with on the street. This can make you look happy and charismatic, which may spurn envy in others. Enthusiasm can help boost your energy. It can also boost the energy of those around you. Being enthusiastic throughout the day can increase your charisma. If you're a naturally charismatic person, this may make others jealous.  Sit up straight, smile, and make eye contact. This will make you look energetic and enthusiastic.  Go into every situation with a willingness to listen to others, learn, and try new things.

Summary: Give off positive energy. Be authentic. Work on building your confidence. Smile. Have enthusiasm.


How frequently you need to sanitize your cage depends on a number of factors including the size of the cage, the size of your birds, the number of birds you have, and how much time daily your birds are in the cage. Find a cleaning schedule that meets the needs of your specific set-up.  Smaller cages with individual birds may only need to be sanitized once a month, especially if the bird is regularly let out of the cage. Large cages for large birds or cages for multiple birds should be sanitized weekly. Move your bird into a safe area such as an alternate cage and take all toys and accessories out of the cage to wash as you would for a daily washing. Remove the old liner and leave the cage bare.  It is important to keep your bird in an area free from any exposure to fumes or excess product while you are cleaning your cage. Remember to wash any dishes and cage accessories in hot, soapy water before returning them to the clean cage. Remove debris and droppings from the cage using a pet-friendly soap or washing detergent and a scrubbing pad. Scrape them off of any of the cage surfaces, as well as off of perches and toys. Sandpaper can be useful in removing stubborn debris from wooden perches or toys. Use hot, soapy water to wash down the cage completely, then rinse thoroughly removing all soap and suds. This may be manageable in a sink for smaller cages, but larger cages may require a shower or use of a hose outdoors.  An animal-safe dish soap or detergent is sufficient for this stage in the cleaning process. For better results disinfecting, use a clean towel to lightly dry the cage and soak up any excess water pooling around the cage’s surfaces. Once the cage has been washed, spray the cage from top to bottom with a cage disinfectant spray. Disinfectant sprays meant specifically for bird cages may be bought online or purchased at a local pet or bird specialty store. Rinse the cage thoroughly with water and allow to air-dry completely before returning the bird.  Some people opt to use a vinegar cleaning solution of one part distilled white vinegar and two parts water. Another homemade solution is three cups hot water, three tablespoons baking soda, and three tablespoons lemon juice.  If you do not have the means to spray the disinfectant on the cage, thoroughly wipe down every surface with a clean towel soaked in the disinfectant solution. Remember to use protective gloves whenever handling the disinfectant. Once the cage has been sanitized, rinsed, and dried you are ready to replace all dry perches, toys, dishes, and other cage components. Place in the clean cage lining and make sure the apron and surrounding area are clean and free of debris before allowing your bird back in. Do not put wet or unrinsed components back in the cage, as these may cause harm to your bird or otherwise hinder their movement and access to parts of the cage.

Summary: Pick a cleaning schedule. Remove everything. Scrape away debris and droppings. Wash the cage. Disinfect the cage. Refill the cage.


To provide the most protection, newborns should always be in a rear facing seat. Until they're at least a year old and potentially up to age three, a rear facing seat is an option. Move up to a forward facing seat for older infants and toddlers.  How long to keep your child in a rear facing seat will depend on its height and weight, as well as the manufacturer’s specifications. Experts recommended keeping your baby on a rear facing seat as long as possible. Use one until your child reaches the upper height or weight limit set by the manufacturer. Some car seats are all-in-one, starting out in the rear facing position and converting to forward facing when your child is available. Check the owner’s manual for  instructions on how to convert your seat. Child car seats should always be positioned in the backseat, never the front seat. Many drivers like to set them behind the drivers seat to make it easy to check on them from the rear view mirror, without turning their head. Once installed, the car seat base should not move more than 1 inch (2.5 cm) in any direction. Whichever kind of car seat you are using, always pull on it a bit in all directions before placing your child inside. If it seems to move too much, tighten any straps or belts that are too loose. After placing your child in the car seat, place the two straps over their shoulders and buckle them at the lap harness. Buckle the chest clip and make sure it stays at armpit level. Tighten the straps until you cannot pinch any extra material on them at the child’s shoulders.  Make sure the straps are not twisted. The correct way to tighten the straps will depend on your model of car seat. Most have a place to pull on and latch the strap. Check the manufacturer’s instructions if you aren’t sure. For safety reasons, do not place extra material (such as a blanket) underneath the straps. If you want to cover your child, buckle them in first, then add the cover.
Summary: Select a car seat based on your child’s age, weight, and height. Pick a spot in the backseat. Check the seat's fit. Secure your child in the seat.