Q: A certain amount of unpredictability is a fantastic way to cultivate mystery.  Although being unpredictable can be negative at times, for example, if you are unreliable or flaky; spontaneous people, who are unpredictable in a positive way, are often intriguing and alluring.  Start a dance party at an unlikely moment.  It might feel silly at first but the more you do it the more comfortable you will feel.  Go to a restaurant and order the craziest thing on the menu. Encourage others to join you in your spontaneous actions.  Perhaps you will have a positive effect on them.  At least they won't be bored! Getting to know someone gives you an awareness of their habits and routines.  While there is comfort in this, after a while it can make them appear boring and familiar, which is the opposite of mysterious.  Mix it up every once in a while to keep him guessing about you. Suggest an activity he wouldn't think you'd enjoy.  If you always appear professional and corporate, suggest rock climbing or go-karting. Show your playful side. This is particularly effective if you have been holding back and appearing mysterious in other forms of communication.  A well-timed, witty aside shows people you have a sense of humor and they'll want to know more!  Try to see the humor in unfortunate or absurd situations.  Don't be offensive. Recognize that laughing is often a good way to deal with uncomfortable emotions.
A: Be open to adventures and new experiences. Confound his expectations of you. Make an unlikely quip or comment.

Q: This is vital. Your local utility service will need to inspect your yard and locate any buried wires. Do not dig in these areas or you will create an electrical hazard.  If you live in the U.S., call 811 (not 911). Have the company mark the buried wires with string or spray paint so that you don't accidentally dig through them. Find the circuit breaker outside your house, and switch the power off to the outlet and breaker box. If you don't do this, you may get shocked by the exposed wires. Decide where you want your light, then find the GFCI outlet outside your home. Install the power pack for your light on a post next to the outlet; you can also install it onto the wall next to the outlet. Do not plug it in yet.  You must use a GFCI outlet, or it won't be safe. GFCI outlets will typically have "SET" and "RESET" buttons on them. You can also test the outlet with a GFCI tester. Do not insert the light stake or pole into the ground just yet, however. Alternatively, you can use a temporary marker, such as a stone or mini flag. A UF cable is also known as an underground feeder cable. Start this cable at the power pack and finish it at the light. If the cable needs to cross a pathway, drag the cable across the pathway and continue laying it down.  Alternatively, you can mark the ground where the cable will go with spray paint or a piece of string.  If you had your utility company mark existing cables with flags, string, or spray paint, use a different color for your UF cable. Leave about 3 feet (0.91 m) between the main UF cable and trees shrubs, or sidewalks. Most importantly, make sure that you avoid any existing electrical lines. If you haven't already, now is a good time to call your utility company to check your layout.
A: Call your utility company to check for underground utilities. Turn the power off to the exterior outlet and breaker. Install a power pack near the GFCI outlet. Place your light where you want it to go. Lay down the UF plastic shielded cable. Ensure that you avoid any obstacles, such as sidewalks or trees.

Q: If you're wearing Oxfords, straight lacing is generally the preferred style. These are very formal shoes, and straight lacing is considered slightly more formal than cross lacing. If you enjoy cross lacing, it should only be used for slightly less formal dress shoes like desert boots. While you can certainly do a straight lace for less formal shoes, it's also safe to opt for a cross lace. If you have to buy your own laces, wax cotton is the preferred lace for dress shoes. You can buy laces online or at a department or clothing store. Never use athletic lace on dress shoes. It is not considered formal enough for dress shoes and should only be used on things like tennis shoes.
A: Opt for straight lacing with Oxfords. Use cross lacing for less formal shoes. Use wax cotton. Do not use athletic lace.

Q: Spray your hair lightly with water using a spray bottle, or wash your hair and let it dry until it is damp but not dripping.  Do not continue this process with soaking wet hair. Plaited hair takes longer to dry, and the curls will not form if your hair is still wet the next morning. Optionally, you can apply hair oil to keep your hair shiny and healthy.
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Dampen your hair slightly.