In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: No matter how fairly you try to handle this matter, there's a strong chance that one spouse will feel upset and betrayed by your continued loyalty towards the other. Don't feel guilty about the push-back.  Simply restate your commitment to maintaining both friendships and work hard to preserve the relationships. Even then, know that one side may no longer want to be friends because of your relationship with their ex. Respect their decision if that's the case. Being pulled between two divorcing friends can be stressful. Be sure to reach out to unbiased friends and family members to talk or hang out. Spending time with others might serve as a release from the tension of the divorce. What's more, you have probably devoted a lot of time and energy to be there for your friends. You also need someone to be there for you. Be patient with your friends and try not to expect too much from them early on. In general, divorces can be messy. As some time passes, the friction may lessen. You might even begin to feel like your time spent with each of them is “just like old times.” Having two good friends suddenly despise each other can be hectic. You might notice yourself feeling more tense, stressed, or irritated. If even after a great deal of time has passed you continue to feel pulled between the two, you might decide to take a step back.  Of course, you don't want to abandon your friendships. But, you also need to recognize when the tension is just too much for you. It may be time for you to get some distance until things cool off. You might get distance by asking another friend to fill in for you at an event or for your babysitting duties. You might also enforce your boundaries about the rules. You might tell them, "If you two won't stop pulling me into the middle of things, I'll have to get some distance. I want to be here for you, but all of this is stressing me out, too." If the stress starts to affect your functioning at work or school or you find yourself having trouble sleeping, it may help to talk to someone. A professional therapist can help you  set better boundaries with your divorcing friends. This person can also help you develop a self-care routine to better manage stress. In the initial session, you might explain, "Two of my good friends are divorcing and I feel caught in the middle. How can I be a good friend to both of them without losing my mind?"
Summary: Expect backlash from one side or the other. Get support for yourself. Give it some time. Recognize when it becomes too much. See a therapist.

" This is the person that invents the puzzle for the other person to solve. They will be tasked with choosing a word or phrase that "the players" will have to solve. The host should be able to spell confidently or the game will be impossible to win. The other players will need to guess your word letter by letter, so choose a word you think will be difficult to guess. Difficult words usually have uncommon letters, like "z," or "j," and only a few vowels. For longer games, you can also choose phrases. For example, if the executioner chooses the word "zipper," she/he would draw six blanks, one for each letter ( _ _ _ _ _ _ ). The host does not tell anyone else the secret word. Once the word has been chosen and the players know how many letters in the secret word, begin guessing which letters are in the word by asking the host. For example, you might begin by asking, "is there an 'e' in your word?" Generally, start by guessing common letters like vowels, or "s," "t," and "n." Whenever the players guess a letter that is in the secret word, the host fills it into the blank where it occurs. For example, if the word is "zipper" and the players guess "e," then the host will fill in the 5th blank with an "e:" (_ _ _ _ e _). If the players guess a letter that repeats, fill in both letters. If they guess "p," you would have to fill in both "p"s. ( _ _ p p e _ ). Whenever the players guess a letter that is not in the secret word they get a strike that brings them closer to losing. To show this, the host draws a simple stick figure of a man being hung, adding a new part to the drawing with every wrong answer. This is also where you can adjust the difficulty of the game -- the more marks you make, the more wrong guesses the player gets and the easier the game is. The classic order is:   First wrong answer: Draw and upside-down "L." This is the post the man hangs from.  Second: Draw a small circle for the "head" underneath the horizontal line of the "L."  Third: Draw a line down from the bottom of the head for the "body."  Fourth: Draw one arm out from the middle of his body for the "arm."  Fifth: Draw the other arm.  Sixth: Draw one diagonal line from the bottom of the body for the first "leg."  Seventh: Draw the other leg.  Eighth: Connect the head to the post with a "noose." Once you draw the noose the players have lost the game. If the players get every letter of the word before the host finishes drawing then they win. At any point a player can try to guess the entire word instead of a single letter, but if they guess the wrong word then the host should treat it as if they guessed a wrong letter. To make the game harder, make a rule saying that the players can only guess the secret word once before they lose. Thanks to it's simplicity, online hangman games are everywhere, and easy to find with a quick internet search for "online hangman." Many games use online dictionaries to choose words, allowing your to practice building your vocabulary while you play. You can even play games against opponents from all over the world with some apps.  Try out "Hangman" and "Hangman" free in the Google and Apple App stores for online variations on the classic game. Looking for a challenge? Search for "cheater's hangman" or specific hangman lists, like "movie quote hangman."
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One-sentence summary -- Choose one person to be the "host. If you are the host, choose a secret word. Draw a blank line for each letter in the word. Start guessing letters if you are the player. Fill the letter in the blanks if the players guess correctly. Draw part of the "hangman" when the players guess wrong. The players win when they guess the correct word. Play online or on an app to practice by yourself.

Problem: Article: Servicing the a/c while it's connected to power may result in electrocution. If it feels hot, the unit's coils are most likely dirty and need to be washed.      Some air conditioner units require the motor be lubricated. Do this now while your unit is open. The air conditioner filter should also be replaced every few months. It is usually located near the return air duct by the furnace.
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Make sure the unit is turned off either at the on/off switch and unplugging it or by shutting off the circuit breaker. Check the small copper pipe connecting the unit to the house. Rake any leaves and debris away from the unit before you start to service an air conditioner. Take the cover off the unit, and locate the air conditioner coils (they look like a car radiator). Use a soft brush to brush any dirt and debris off the outside cover. Cover the motor and wiring with a plastic sheet. Hose down the fins, coils and inside of the unit. Check your owner's manual. Replace the unit cover, and turn it on to make sure it runs properly.