If you have noticed these symptoms, it's time to go in and see your doctor, particularly if you have bone pain or unexplained swelling. When you go to the doctor, write down the symptoms you're having, including when you have them and what makes them worse. The doctor will begin with a physical exam. They will examine the area that's causing you pain, as well as look for other physical ailments. They will also listen to your heartbeat and breathing. Ask questions if you don't understand. Generally, you'll go to your general practitioner first. However, if your doctor does think it might be cancer, they may refer you to a specialist. On the other hand, they may order diagnostic tests to narrow down the issue.doc explica
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One-sentence summary -- Write down your symptoms before the appointment. Expect a physical exam. Accept a referral if your doctor suspects cancer.


If you don't want to go over alone, have a friend help you. This can also be useful if you left any big items, like electronics, at your ex's place. If you had an extremely messy breakup, a trusted friend can even agree to retrieve items for you.  Make sure you pick the right friend to help. A friend who's prone to drama may be tempted to start a fight with your ex. Instead, opt for a friend who's generally cool and composed, even in stressful situations. If your ex is giving you a really hard time about retrieving your stuff, contact a friend or family member of your ex that you are on good terms with. They may be willing to help you. If your ex is present when you're over, it's best to minimize conversation. If you want to be pleasant, stick to small talk and simple questions rather than bringing up any major issues.  For example, ask, "How's work?" or make a comment on the weather. Avoid open questions and topics that could yield negative answers. Asking "How have you been?", for example, may lead your ex to talk about their difficulty with the breakup. They also may pretend to be fine to hurt your feelings. It can be hard to let go, and you may be tempted to linger at your ex's place and make a lengthy goodbye. Focus on the fact you're there to get your stuff and not address any lingering issues with your ex. As soon as you get through the door, start gathering your things and leave as soon as you finish. If you want to say a goodbye before you go, keep it brief. Now is not the time to drag up lingering resentments or talk over the relationship. Say something like, "I'm going to take off now. I hope you're doing okay." If the two of you lived together, or if you simply left a lot at their place, you may have to make more trips. Grab the absolute essentials, like clothing, on the first trip. Then, before leaving, talk over when you can come back to get the rest of your stuff. You want to keep things as uncomplicated as possible, and physical contact after a breakup can get confusing. Avoid things like a prolonged hug hello or goodbye. If your ex offers a hug or another form of contact, keep it as brief as possible.
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One-sentence summary -- Enlist the help of a friend. Make small talk, if necessary. Try not to linger. Make more trips, if necessary. Keep physical contact to a minimum.


You can purchase an eyelash curler at any pharmacy. It looks much trickier than it actually is. Hold the eyelash curler up to your eye, sliding your lashes through the clamp. Carefully bring the curler to the very base of your eyelashes so that the clamp is close to your eyelid, but not touching it.  Slowly squeeze the handle of the eyelash curler so that the base of your eyelashes is clamped. Hold the clamp down tightly, counting to three. Then, carefully release. Slide the eyelash curler down your lashes a little bit, and repeat this process. Use the curler over the length of your lashes, and you’re all set. If you want to add even more drama (and staying power) to your lashes, blast your curler with a little heat from your hair dryer. Just like when you curl the hair on your head, this heat will give you a curl quickly and help it last all day. Just be very careful not to burn your eyelid! Choose a color of eyeliner that matches the mascara you will be using. Close your eye, and gently pull your eyelid taut with your pointer finger. Carefully apply the eyeliner to your lash line, from the outer corner to the inner corner. Repeat this process on the other eye.  Try not to make the line too thick in order to make it look natural. If you find it difficult to create a thin line, try dipping a cotton swab into makeup remover and carefully cleaning up the line after you've applied the eyeliner. If you are using pencil eyeliner, make sure that it is sharpened. If the end of the pencil is dull, you will have trouble creating a neat line to your lash line. If you are using a powder or gel, apply with a very tiny brush. This will help you create a clean, sharp line. Lining your lash line will create a solid base, giving the illusion of dark, thick eyelashes. Wiggle the mascara wand in the bottle to pick up the product. Before applying the mascara, examine the wand to make sure there aren’t any large clumps. Starting at the base of your lashes, apply the mascara by gently wiggling the wand as you slide it over the length of your lashes. Do this a couple of times, making sure that all of your lashes are evenly coated in mascara. Let it dry.  Do not slide the wand in and out of the bottle to gather product, because that will trap air in the mascara and dry it out. To take lashes to the next level, you can let your eyelashes dry and then apply a second coat– and a third and a fourth if you want! If no amount of mascara will give you the length and volume that you desire, try false lashes!
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One-sentence summary --
Curl your lashes. Line your top lash line with eyeliner. Apply mascara.