Article: When something good happens to one of your friends, like scoring well on a test or going on a date, be excited and happy for them. On the flip side, if something bad happens to a friend, like getting cut from a sports team or the school play, comfort them and be compassionate. Having a supportive, empathetic personality will make people trust you as a friend who can be there for them through thick and thin. Start by introducing yourself and asking an easy question, like, “Hi, I’m Jen. Are you new in school?” From there, try to get to know them a bit. Ask them what they like to do in their free time or what kind of music they like. Getting to know new people will expand your circle of friends and help everyone see you as the friendly, compassionate person you are!  Don’t worry if it’s hard to be outgoing at first. A lot of people have a hard time meeting new people. Start with simple, short conversations about the person’s classes or their lunch food, like, “English class was so boring today,” or “That sandwich looks really good!” Even a smile or a short answer could be the first step to making a new friend. Try not to be pushy or overly eager. Just smile and relax. The more comfortable you are, the more at ease they’ll feel too. Be curious and make sure a conversation never revolves just around you. Be interested in what everyone has to say and be present during conversation. Keep eye contact, smile, nod, and ask questions. Encouraging other people to talk makes them feel appreciated and interested in you, too.  If someone asks about your pets, for example, you could start by describing your pet and then turn the conversation back to them. You might say, “I have a dog who’s crazy! The other day he ran around the house barking for a whole hour. What are your pets like?” Some people might be naturally quiet or less adept at conversation. If they answer your questions with short answers, just smile and comment nicely, with something like, “That’s so cool. I wish I had a cat, too.” It’s okay to let the conversation die down naturally. This might sound like the opposite of confidence, but it’s not! In fact, being vulnerable is a big part of being confident. It means you put yourself out there, risking embarrassment or even judgment. Being vulnerable makes people admire you, and even want to emulate you, because it shows that you’re willing to try difficult tasks even when you’re not totally sure of yourself.  One way of being vulnerable is owning up to your mistakes and weaknesses without being ashamed of them. For example, say, “I know I’m not great at science, but I’ve always tried as hard as I could.” You can also push yourself to try new things, maybe even things you’re scared of, like talking to new people or even just trying a new food. Practice being vulnerable with the little things and it will come easier to you with time.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Empathize with others. Talk to new people. Ask questions about others. Allow yourself to be vulnerable.
Article: Positive body language not only makes you look confident; it can also help you to feel more at ease. Stand up straight, keep your chin up and push your shoulders back. Even as you step into the spotlight, if you hold yourself with confidence you will feel the part too. If you are sitting during the interview, sit up straight in your chair or even lean slightly forward. If you lean back, you will look too casual. Even if you’re nervous, remember to smile during your interview. When you first walk into the room, smile and make eye contact with each of the judges. Like your body language, a smile can actually make you feel happier and more confident. When answering questions, make eye contact with the person who asked you the question and talk to him or her. This will make it feel more like you are having a conversation than giving a speech, and should make you feel more comfortable. The judge may even respond by nodding or smiling as you are talking, which are encouraging gestures that will help you feel less nervous. It will also make you look more personable and natural if you speak to the judges. Don’t put pressure on yourself by trying to act like someone you’re not. Being authentic and real will make you more memorable than saying the things that you think the judges want to hear. Still, try to show yourself in the best light, but do so in a way that stays true to yourself. For instance, if you are asked what your favorite book is but you're not a big reader, give an answer that allows you to segue into a topic that interests you more. For instance, you could say, "I love reading classic plays like A Streetcar Named Desire because theater is a passion of mine. I see plays around my city whenever I can, and I especially like musical theater." You can gain a lot of confidence by shifting the way that you think of the interview. Instead of think of it as an interrogation or a way to judge you, think of the interview as a way for the judges and audience to learn more about you. One of the most common fear about interviews is being asked something that you don’t know the answer to. Remember that if you are asked your opinion about a subject you don’t know very much about, it isn’t the end of the world. You can still form a reply that leaves the judges impressed, as long as your answer shows a level of intelligence and thought. For instance, if the judges ask you for your opinion on a conflict or war you don’t know that much about, talk about it in a general sense by saying something like, “That’s a good question. This is a topic I’m still researching and learning about, and it's upsetting to hear about the devastation that this conflict is inflicting on this part of the world. All I can hope for is that each side of the conflict can put aside their differences and compromise with each other to stop the cycle of violence." Even you feel like you botched a question, don’t let it get to you. Move on mentally and give your whole attention to the question at hand. If you keep thinking about how you messed up or could have done better, the rest of your performance will suffer. If you mentally move on and give great answers to the rest of your questions, it’s likely that no one will even remember the question you messed up. The longest answer isn’t necessarily the best answer. The fact that a few succinct sentences are enough will help you to keep focus and stay calm throughout your interview.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Have confident body language. Smile. Give your answer while looking at the judges. Be yourself. Think of the interview as a chance to share yourself. Don’t feel like you have to know all the answers. Don’t dwell on the last question. Keep your answers short and sweet.