Problem: Article: Having positive relationships with others is a crucial component of being able to cope with being different. We need social connection, and to feel like we fit in somewhere, in order to have a positive sense of well-being. People are drawn to positive and confident individuals. You will need confidence to face your fears and meet new people.  Use positive self-talk. Avoid blaming yourself or beating yourself up. Examples might include thinking, “What a loser! I can’t do anything right!” Try mindfulness. Mindfulness can help individuals become nonjudgmental and more accepting of themselves. Simply notice everything around you. What colors or objects do you see? What do you currently feel? What do you hear? Be aware of your own thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. Everyone has something that makes them feel cool and perfect. So do it. Buy cool clothes, sing, dance, act - whatever makes you feel awesome. When you feel different and possibly social rejected, it can help to find a group of people who are similar to you (in culture, ethnicity, religion, interests, disability, appearance, values, etc). Everyone needs to feel a part of a community to have a sense of happiness and well-being.  Join a club or class of like-minded individuals. Some examples include: science, math, drama, dance, choir, yearbook and student government. Try playing a sport at school or for fun such as: basketball, volleyball, football, soccer, track, cross country, water polo, tennis, dance, or cheer-leading. Try Meetup.com, where you can identify any type of group you want including: hiking, painting, video gaming, rock-climbing, and many more. Make sure it is safe and if you are a minor ensure that your parent or legal guardian is aware. Authenticity is important in making positive connections with others. Nobody wants to interact or connect with someone who is putting on a facade. Be your very own unique self. Avoid changing your personality (talking or acting in a certain way) to try to fit in.  Scream when you want (and won't get in trouble), run everywhere, make up crazy songs. Do what you like to do! Don’t change for anyone else, only if you want to yourself. If you are quiet, be quiet. If you're a hippie at heart, then be a hippie. Create your own style. If you truly love Abercrombie, wear it, but don't wear it because everyone else is. If you like jeans and dresses, wear them.
Summary: Increase your self-confidence. Find people who are similar to you. Be genuine.

Problem: Article: Use matte powder to create a natural look and hide blemishes. Avoid adding a full face of foundation or bright eyeshadow or lipstick. People with features traditionally thought of as masculine can tweeze their eyebrows for a more feminine shape. People with features traditionally thought of as feminine should allow their brows to grow out naturally, or brush their brows upward for a bushier, boyish look. Fill in your brows but stick to their natural shape. Concentrate on the outer ends of your brows. A neutral eye shadow can help blur the gender lines. Choose a neutral color of matte shadow or amp up your look with a glossy shadow in a color close to your skin tone. Black eyeliner will make your eyes pop. Line either just the top or the top and bottom, but avoid the cat-eye look as it is traditionally feminine. Choose liquid eyeliner for a bold look or pencil eyeliner for a more subtle look. Glossy, subtle lips are a great way to get the androgynous look. Swipe on a clear gloss or choose a rosy gloss to add some color. You can also wear a tan or beige lipstick for a truly neutral look. A chiseled jaw is often seen as a masculine feature. Sweep a matte bronzer along your jawline to add definition. Avoid highlighting traditionally feminine features, such as high cheekbones. Highlight your cheekbones with a shimmery blush. Experiment with contouring to create a slender neck and less-defined jaw line.
Summary: Use foundation and concealer minimally. Go for a bold brow. Choose neutral eye shadow. Add eyeliner. Wear a neutral lip gloss. Play up your masculine features if you have features traditionally thought of as feminine. Play up your feminine features if you have traditionally masculine features.

Problem: Article: Celebrate your brother's birthday and other special days. This will make him feel appreciated.   Find out if your brother is involved with a sporting event, volunteer organization, or hobby. Show up and lend your support at these events. Send cards for special events such as birthdays, anniversaries, accomplishments etc. Don't just send a card or present. Try to find a card or gift that your brother will really like based on his sense of humor or interests. Kids can make a special card or present for their brother to show they appreciate their siblings on special occasions. Older kids, like teens, can also do this or plan a special surprise for their brother. Something homemade and carefully thought out shows more appreciation than something you can buy. Making your brother his favorite dinner or favorite snack will make him happy.  Cooking for someone will make them feel appreciated. Take the time to learn your siblings favorite foods. This shows you take an interest in them. This can be a great activity to do with your brother. Have him teach you how to make his favorite meal, then make it for him by yourself another time. Kids shouldn't cook without supervision, though this could be a perfect way for teen siblings to bond. Whether you are a kid or an adult, helping your brother do chores or a big project can help to build your relationship.  If you are a kid, offer to take over one of your brother's chores for a week. This will give him more time to do something he likes. Teens can help their brother with a school project, for example. If you are older find out if your brother is working on a big project such as a building project, landscaping, or yard work. Offer to help him get materials or work on the project with him. Cooperating on a task or project can be a relationship strengthening exercise. Offering a helping hand to your brother will show that you care about him and that you are paying attention to what he does and what he needs.
Summary:
Remember special events. Learn your brother's favorite meal. Offer to help your brother with housework or a project.