INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Too often, non-autistic people write about autism without consulting real autistic people. They may come up with inaccuracies, laughable misconceptions, or extremely negative viewpoints on differences that don't hurt anyone. Autistic people can provide you with a more accurate and well-rounded view.  The Autistic community often describes autism in a neutral or positive light. This may help you gain a more holistic sense of autism, as opposed to seeing only the negatives. Autism is a complex neurological condition that comes with several blessings along with its impairments. You may experience some or all of the following:    Deeply passionate interests. These can lead to tremendous expertise, and possibly a very successful career or fun hobby.   Helpfulness. Autistic people, in general, have a high sense of social responsibility, or the desire to solve problems and help others.   Precision. It is often noted that autistic people focus on the small parts, rather than the big picture. This can lead to remarkable detail-oriented work, where a neurotypical person might be unable to focus so clearly on the individual aspects of something.   Visual intelligence. Autistic people have tested higher on visual and nonverbal intelligence tests.   Sincerity. Autistic people tend to mean what they say, and act as a "voice of reason" without becoming mired in social complexities. Your honesty and genuine spirit can feel refreshing to others.  Creativity and a unique perspective. Autistic people can learn in unusual ways. This provides insights that neurotypicals may never realize, and can become a great asset in collaboration. Plenty of famous people have been diagnosed or thought to be autistic. Strong special interests, focus, and a unique perspective can lead to innovation and creativity.   Historically, Einstein, Thomas Jefferson, Emily Dickinson, Mozart, and more people were thought to be autistic.  Famous autistic people today include Tim Burton, Susan Boyle, Adam Young (from Owl City), Temple Grandin and more. Special interests are a clear upside of autism: you have an incredible memory about these facts, intense focus, and the ability to act like a walking encyclopedia of information whenever you want. You also get to have a lot of fun doing the things you love.  Most non-autistic people would be jealous of the way you can recall and discuss information. The social model holds that disability is not caused by defects in the brain or body, but by society's failure to accommodate and accept a certain variation. For example, most nearsighted people are not disabled: they are fully accommodated within society (glasses, contacts), and have the same opportunities that non-nearsighted people have. Their body can't do the same things, but technology makes up for that, so it is not an issue.

SUMMARY: Learn about autism from autistic people. Read about the strengths associated with autism. Read about successful autistic people. Consider your special interests. Read about the social model of disability.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: If you want to succeed in friendship and romance, you can't take every comment or joke as a personal affront. People sometimes say things they don't mean and you also might misinterpret what they’re saying. Self-blaming or exaggerating your faults can only harm your heart and your chances of meeting that great girl! Great boxers go in the ring knowing there's a chance they'll lose. Similarly, you can't expect to succeed every time. No one is a 100% match and not everyone will get along. Instead, view every encounter with a woman as a positive learning experience.  By putting yourself out there and being rejected, you’ll realize that being rejected isn’t the end of the world. You’ll never succeed if you don’t try. Not asking means never getting that first date! Shyness and hesitation occur when you think about your flaws. Instead, focus your thoughts entirely on the woman you're talking to. You'll forget about your jitters and she'll be flattered by the attention.  Remember that most people you meet are too busy worrying about what others think about them to really notice and judge you. Look around and realize that people aren’t laughing at you or judging you. Conquer your fears of speaking to girls socially by building your confidence. Training similar to cognitive behavioural therapy can guide you through confidence-building exercises and you can attend groups or personal counselling, or use an app to do it on your own.  There are also TED Talks for shyness that can inspire you and give you hints.  Practice using real-life situations and measure your shyness and anxiety before and after. You’ll see that your shyness and anxiety decrease as you practice more and your confidence increases.
Summary: Let things roll off your back. Learn to face rejection. Be less self-conscious. Cope with social anxiety.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Whether someone likes you or not says nothing about you as a person. You are still awesome for all of the same reasons. Do not let her romantic feelings change the way you feel about yourself.   Think about it from her perspective. The more you understand her, the easier it will be to realize that it is not about you.   Avoid jumping to conclusions. You don’t know why she doesn’t like you. Be careful not to assume that it is because of something particular about you. Make some space between you and your immediate reaction. Try to suppress any initial panicked emotions. Realize that your feelings will subside and wait for them to do so before you speak or do anything. Liking yourself is more important than other people liking you. When you truly like yourself, it has an awesome effect- other people want to be around you more.  Speak to yourself as a friend. You should offer yourself the same compassion, love and support you would to a friend who is going through a hard time. Imagine yourself confident and free. In your mind visualize what you would look like if you were perfectly confident and happy. What would you look like? Strive for being that person. Think about that person when you are in doubt about yourself. It is hard to be open and honest with someone you like. If she does not also have a crush on you too, at least now you know. You are in a better position because you don’t have to spend more time wondering about her.  Being open and honest is a good habit to get into. With the next girl you like, you will be better able to interact with her because you had this experience. If you feel like you are not ready to start dating other people, work on yourself. Do not worry about liking someone again until you feeling better.  Go out with your friends. Spend time with good friends who make you feel good about yourself. These people will remind you of your interests and the other things that you love. Distance yourself from her. If you are having a hard time with your emotions, tell her that you’d like some time and space from your relationship. Having her out of your life for the time being will help you focus on you. If you are feeling like you are ready to move on, pursue girls you are interested in. Hang out with groups of people that have new girls. Ask your friends about any get together coming up and attend them.  When you meet a girl you like, ask her for her number. You can be direct and say “I really liked talking to you- can I have your number so we can keep talking?” Go on online dating websites. There are a few free websites that you can join and meet people to date. Lots of people use these applications to find people who share their interests and personality type.

SUMMARY:
Do not take it personally. Work on liking yourself. Feel good about being honest. Take time to get over her. Start talking to new people.