When you really like someone, you tend to focus on their positives. This is particularly the case when you can’t have them. But this isn’t reality: everyone has flaws and it would be good for you to think about them instead of what you like about the person. Make a list of why the relationship wouldn’t work. Also, write down what you don’t particularly like about the person. Refer back to it when you’re feeling down about not being able to be with the person. If you can’t be together because the other person doesn’t want to, simply accept that there’s nothing you can do about it. No matter what you say or do, the person is still likely going to feel the same way. Stop getting your hopes up and torturing yourself by trying to convince them otherwise.  It may also help to be frank with yourself. You might say, "Get a grip, Samantha. You can't date Peter because he's married. He's off-limits." Otherwise, if the person can’t see how valuable you are, then they don’t deserve you. Remember to tell yourself this at times when you are feeling low. Having self-love right now is key to moving on. Do things that make you feel strong and empowered. Focus on nurturing yourself, such as with positive affirmations, pampering, and doing other activities that you enjoy. For example, if you have a favorite hobby, then setting aside time each day or a few times per week to do that would be a good way to practice self-compassion.  Self-love and compassion may also translate to taking it easy on yourself. Be okay with less-than-perfect work performance. Allow yourself a night off to binge-watch TV shows or movies. Call a friend to let them know you're feeling low. It may be wise to seek the help of a therapist if you are struggling with self-esteem problems. The therapist may be able to encourage you to see just how valuable you are and this may help you to move on.
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One-sentence summary -- Avoid idealizing the person. Accept that you can’t be with them. Practice self-compassion.


Don't leave your shelter until you get the official “all-clear” from the NOAA. If the winds die down it may only be the dangerous eye of the storm, which will be followed by the back side of the “eye wall” and high winds. A hurricane can take hours to pass.  The area around the eye of the storm is where wind speeds are strongest. It can also spawn tornadoes.  Wait at least 30 minutes after the eye of the storm has passed before entering rooms with windows. Even then, you should be very careful––at this point, there is still a good chance of debris breaking glass. Be careful even after the all-clear. There will be lots of hazards like downed trees, wires, and power lines. Do not go near any of these lines or wires. Call the power company or emergency services to help you, instead. Stay away from flooded areas, as well. Use extreme caution if you have to enter a flooded area, as there may be hidden debris or other hazards. The hurricane's high winds will damage many, if not most, structures. Do not enter any buildings after the storm unless you're sure they're structurally safe. Also, evacuate as fast as you safely can if a building shows signs of severe damage, in case it collapses.  Stay away if you smell gas, see flood waters, or if the building has been damaged by fire. Use a flashlight rather than candles, matches, torches, or lanterns. There may be a gas leak and you could cause a fire or explosion. Open windows and doors to let any such gas escape. Do not try to turn on the electricity unless you are ABSOLUTELY sure it's safe. Check all electric and gas connections before turning them on. Be mindful of loose or slippery floorboards, falling debris, and cracked masonry when entering a structure. Your first priority during a hurricane is to stay safe and keep your family and pets healthy. Only after this is done should you start to take stock. Check your house for structural damage. If anything is of concern, get the authorities to check it out as quickly as possible and don't go near the area until it has been fixed.  Clean and disinfect everything that might have come into contact with sewage, bacteria, or spilled chemicals. Throw out all spoiled food, as well. When in doubt, throw it out. Get your water system running and safe. Have damaged septic systems repaired, for example, and get your wells checked for chemical contamination. Start to remove and replace wet drywall and other paneling that can harbor mold. You should never enter a flooded basement – apart from the risk of electrocution, flood waters can hide debris or harbor bacteria from things like raw sewage. Instead, use a pump to gradually reduce the water level by about one third each day until it's gone.  Plug a shop vac into a safe outlet upstairs and begin pumping down the water. Keep the cord clear of the water and wear rubber boots for safety.   If you have a heavy-duty gas pump, feed the hose into the basement through a window. If you can't drain the basement safely, call the fire department and ask them to do it for you. You may be able to recoup some of the losses to your home and property if you have an insurance policy that covers flood, wind, and storm damage. Get in touch with your provider as soon as you can to file a report.  Start a list of damages for your claims. Take photos and videos, keep receipts for repairs, supplies, and even hotel costs. If you have to vacate the home, make sure your insurance company knows where to reach you. Try contacting them by phone. Many providers have toll-free, 24-hour 1-800 numbers. In a total loss, some people even paint their address and insurance provider's name on the house to attract the attention of an insurance adjuster. Try within reason to prevent further damage. Cover a damaged roof with a tarp, for example, and cover openings with plywood, plastic, or other materials.
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One-sentence summary -- Be sure it's safe to emerge. Take extra care when entering buildings. Take stock of the damage. Pump out flooded basements. Report losses to your insurance company.


You can create even zig-zag lines by moving your arm back and forth in a uniform way across the entire sheet of cake balls. You can either sprinkle by hand or dip it in the mixture while the chocolate is still in a liquid state, if you're not drizzling chocolate on top. To ensure a hard coating and for any topping to appear more uniform, place the cake balls in the freezer or refrigerator for about an hour or two.
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Drizzle additional melted chocolate on top. Use the cinnamon sugar mixture on the cake balls. Chill the cake balls again. Finished.