-- or start them! Copiers are a dime a dozen. Sure, you could look through fashion magazines and watch TV shows, but you'd wind up looking like everyone else trying to be in the cool club. You want to be a trendsetter, ahead of a curve. So do your own thing or make your own twist on what's out there. People can't try to be like you if you're trying to be like everyone else. So many of us are so concerned with fitting in that we're just in awe of those who are comfortable going outside of the mold. You don't have to wear grocery bags or dye your hair rainbow-colored to be different -- just add your own flair to what's already out there. Even if you don't have a significant other, big deal! Being single and playing the field is something to be jealous of too! So whether one boy is texting you all the time and bending over backwards for you or a dozen are trying to get your attention, drop little hints. Your buzzing phone will be hint number one! Now which boy is it again? Be subtle but clear about this. When someone asks what you're doing Thursday night, you're hanging out with the boy-toy. It's date night. No need to mention that he may or may not have showered you with roses last weekend between rounds of feeding you Belgian chocolates. People may turn up their noses, being disgusted with how it seems you're exaggerating for validation. Because sadly, people get super jealous of this stuff too easily. Even if you don't have that much money, no one has to know! Keep your things in good condition, keep up on trends, piece together your outfits carefully, and always be aware of the newest thing. Wealth is something that's understood, not spoken about. Saying, "Ohmigod, I just have so much money I don't know what to do with myself!" is not effective. But whipping out your brand-new Coach purse might just do the trick. Another thing that plagues most of us is fear. We're afraid of putting ourselves out there, being vulnerable, and doing things we're not good at. But not you! You take chances and more often than not you succeed. What's not to be jealous of? We're not talking about jumping off of bridges, here. We're talking about walking up to that cute boy and starting a chat with him. Signing up for that intramural team and picking up a new sport. Signing up for the study abroad program. Running for class president. Things most people would be uncomfortable doing, but might like to do in a perfect world -- your world. This is an important step: You don't have to be in a clique, but to avoid bad days of school, to build a network you can fall back on, make sure your best and true friends are there for you. You don't want ones that are good-looking or popular -- you want friends that you actually like and that actually like you. Respect them and keep their secrets. In order for you to have good friends, you need to be there when they need you, too. Never talk about their drama just to show that you're "in the know." You'll get to know more people, get involved in school or your community, and you'll just be an all-around fascinating person. You'll stay busy, be social, hone your skills, and have fun while doing it, too. You'll be able to talk about anything and for every story you'll know a person who knows a person who knows a person that was involved. You're so well-connected and talented. How do you do it?! Branch out! Instead of playing basketball, soccer, and softball, do basketball, choir, and Italian. Spread yourself across a whole bunch of different personalities. Be the one who plays sports, gets creative, helps the community, and builds robots in the few spare minutes she has. It's like you're a machine! Be successful at everything you do. Have excellent grades, get a main role in a play, be good in your favorite sport, and be great at making friends. This gives people a more of a reason to be jealous of you. What aren't you capable of? This will take work, which you probably figured, huh? No one said making everyone jealous would be easy! Just make sure not to burn yourself out. It's better to do three things well than six things halfway okay. People would love to catch you with your guard down, but it just won't happen. Even the tiniest of details about you are worthy of jealousy. Think of the small stuff, like having good handwriting. Smelling good. Reading the latest bestseller. Accessorizing. Making a mean chocolate cake. The more people know about you, the more they're still in awe. Sure, it's one thing if people are jealous of you from afar. They see you and they see beautiful hair, beautiful clothes, and a smiley, bubbly personality. But then when they get to know you, you don't want that to go away, so you got to back it up! It's these small things that will really put the icing on the cake.
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One-sentence summary -- Be on top of trends Make people jealous of your love life. Make people jealous of your wealth. Take chances. Have reliable, trustworthy friends. Have a wide variety of interests. Overachieve! Cover the details.


Just go to Hollow Bastion, and land at the postern. From the save point, turn left and enter the restoration site. Continue down the path and enter the Bailey. Keep heading down toward the castle gate where you will meet Demyx, and a boss battle will then ensue. Enter the Crystal Fissure and follow the only path in the area. You will then see four chests and a save point once you get to the middle of the fissure. Open the large chest in front of the save point, and get the third torn page.
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One-sentence summary -- Get to the restoration site. Find and defeat Demyx. Receive the third torn page.


Unlike infants and children, adults are capable of making independent assessments of their condition and whether assistance is needed.  Before stepping in and attempting to help, always ask if you can offer assistance. If the person is in emotional pain, they may need space and time to process emotions before including another person in the coping process.  Sometimes, just the offer of assistance is enough to help a person cope with distress. If the situation is not serious and the person welcomes a distraction, tell a joke or funny story. Comment on something funny/strange that you read online.  If the person is a stranger or distant acquaintance, ask them non-intrusive questions about their likes and preferences. Is the pain physical? Emotional? Has the person had a shock or been victimized in some way?  Ask questions but also be observant of the situation and surroundings for clues. If the person is crying and appears to have been injured or in need of medical assistance, call the emergency services immediately.  Remain close by until help arrives. If the location is unsafe, move the person to a safer location nearby if possible. In the case of a friend or loved one, it may be helpful to offer a hug or hold hands.  Even an arm around the shoulders can be a source of support and comfort. Different situations permit different degrees of physical contact, however; if you are unsure whether the person will take comfort from this kind of assistance, always ask. Without necessarily changing the subject, attempt to focus on positive aspects of what is causing emotional distress.  In the case of the loss of a loved one, for example, mention good times that were shared with the person and things about them that were loved. If possible, reminisce over funny memories that may elicit a smile or possible laugh. Being able to laugh can exponentially reduce the urge to cry and improves overall mood. Crying is a natural response to intense emotional distress and, while there are occasions where it is in opportune or inappropriate, provided no one else is being hurt, letting someone cry could ultimately be safest, most supportive option.
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Ask if assistance is needed. Identify the cause of pain. Give appropriate physical contact. Focus on the positive. Let them cry.