For a fancier party, it's usually  better to err on the side of formality. A plunging neckline or short dress may give off the wrong vibe for a more formal event. Opt for slightly more modest clothing at a fancy party. This may be especially important at an office Christmas party, as work appropriate attire may be expected. Stick to a few accessories that go great with your outfit. As holiday accessories tend to be brighter and flashier, a little bit goes a long way. Stick to one or two items that are really eye catching. If you have studded diamond earrings, for example, pairing with a diamond bracelet and necklace may be over-the-top. It's easy to miss the mark slightly when preparing for a holiday party. Try to be conscientious of your outfit. You don't want to show up over or under dressed.  Think about the occasion when assembling your outfit. A midday party may not require as formal attire, so dress pants and a nice top may be more appropriate than a dress or suit. You should also remember the party is supposed to be fancy. Avoid casual jeans or tops you would wear on a day off from work.
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One-sentence summary -- Do not choose an outfit that's too revealing. Keep accessories minimal. Do not under or over dress.


It shouldn't be too hard to find; often it's a different-colored button. If you don't remember the person's email address but have previously sent them an email, your account might recognize the saved email address if you begin to type in their name.  If you want to copy a person on the email, hit "CC," which stands for "carbon copy." If you want to copy a person on the email without the original recipient knowing that you've copied the email, hit "BCC," which stands for "blind carbon copy." This is what the email is about or concerning. This is your communication or what you want to explain to the other person. " Make sure your contact's email address is correct, and that your message contains no spelling mistakes or formatting errors. Send your email.
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One-sentence summary -- Find the "Compose" button once logged in to your email account. Type in the email address of the person you want to send an email to. Include a subject. Type the message, or body, of your email. After double-checking for errors, click "Send.


It might be easier to push your emotions away or pretend they don’t exist. You may even think of yourself as strong for not engaging with your emotions. However, it’s important to feel what you need to feel regarding your trauma. Your feelings are valid, so let yourself express them.  For example, if something makes you feel angry, express that anger. If you become overwhelmed with sadness, don’t be afraid to cry. You might wish to talk about your feelings with a friend or therapist or write them down in a journal. Do what helps you express your emotions. Negative feelings won't just disappear immediately and may come and go for some time, but this is normal and healthy. You may alternate between periods of happiness, sadness, anger, fear, guilt or others. Embracing the negative emotions can help you understand and work through them sooner. Likewise, whenever you are feeling good, enjoy it! You earned it! Many survivors of trauma find it therapeutic to tell their stories and repeat them. Talking about the trauma can help express the pain and help to restore power back to you. It can also help you remove the awful feelings attached to the event. This might mean talking about it in a support group or therapist’s office, or with friends and family.  If talking about your story gives you extreme anxiety, see a mental health professional who specializes in trauma for advice so you avoid further traumatizing yourself in the process. If you aren't sure but feel like trying, start with brief disclosures and then gauge how you feel. If you don’t want to tell your story, sometimes it can help to provide support for someone else who needs it. While many people find it helpful to talk, you might want to express your feelings through writing, singing, or dancing. Some people turn toward religion or spirituality as a way to heal and work through trauma. Your beliefs may help you navigate the meaning and purpose of your negative experiences or help you connect with something outside of yourself. You may take refuge and comfort in your beliefs of a greater plan or higher power.  Being a part of a spiritual community may help you gather with other like-minded individuals ready to help you and support you. Join a spiritual community or participate in spiritual practices on your own. Start by meditating or by reading sacred texts. Don’t let your entire life revolve around your trauma. Constantly thinking about the trauma can be draining and remove you from the rest of life. Part of healing is having things and experiences in your life that don’t involve the trauma. Enjoy some social activities like getting together with friends, going bowling, or attending concerts. Try to experience some “normal” time.  If you’re invited to spend time with friends, do your best to go, even if you don’t feel like it. Spending time doing “normal” things can help you feel like you’re moving toward a more normal life once again. On the other hand, you don't need to try to do so many things you have no time at all to think about your trauma. You might try designating a specific time to think about it, process emotions and grieve. You may eventually learn how to 'save' emotions or thought that pop up throughout your day for you to go over during your designated time. Even as you get involved with activities, take measures to feel safe. For example, go with other people you trust, stay in well-lit public areas, and allow yourself to leave if you ever feel unsafe. Self-medicating with drugs and alcohol may feel good in the moment, but it won’t make the trauma go away or help you on your healing process. Using drugs and alcohol tends to mask your problems momentarily, but can lead to addiction and other mental or emotional problems. Cope with your feelings in a healthy way and don’t turn to addictive substances for a quick fix.  Remember that addictive behaviors are not limited to drugs, but could include excessive eating, spending, gambling or technology use. Practice moderation to avoid these extremes. If you think you might have an addiction, get treatment and do activities that don’t revolve around addictive substances.
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Feel your emotions. Tell your story. Embrace your spirituality. Get involved in activities. Avoid turning to drugs and alcohol.