” This is important for a cold start, so the fuel will mix properly with air and the engine will fire correctly. However, if you used your snowblower very recently (within five minutes), set the choke to the warm start setting, or about halfway. Turn it to the “fast” setting. Many models will identify this with a rabbit symbol. You should always start your snowblower on this setting. Your snowblower will have a fuel shutoff valve. To start using your snow blower, you will have to turn this to the “on” position. If you are unsure of the valve’s location, check the manual. Always make sure to turn the fuel shutoff valve back to “off” when you are done with your snowblower. This will reduce the risk that fuel will leak. Usually, this control is a simple up/down switch, much like a light switch. Turn it to the “on” or “run” position. Some snow blowers include a key as a safety feature. These models won’t run unless the key is inserted. If you need to quickly stop your snow blower while operating it, just remove the key. This is a bubble-like switch that helps circulate fuel. Pushing it a few times should be enough. Try twice if the temperature is above 15 degrees Fahrenheit (-9 Celsius), or four times if the temperature is below this. Don’t push the primer for a warm start (if you used the snowblower less than five minutes prior to starting again).

Summary: Set the choke to “full. Increase the throttle. Turn on the fuel. Hit the ignition switch. Insert the key, if applicable. Push the primer bulb.


After about 6 to 8 weeks, your roots will start to show considerably, especially if you did full highlights. The less often you wash your hair, the healthier your hair will be. If you wash your hair too often, it will start to turn dry.  If you live in an area with hard water, consider getting a filter on your showerhead. This will help preserve your hair color. If your hair starts to feel gross between washes, consider using dry shampoo. Sulfates are harsh cleaning agents found in many shampoos that can make your hair dry. This includes clarifying shampoos as well. Since bleach makes your hair dry, you shouldn't use products that will make it even more dry. If a clarifying shampoo is labeled for dry or chemical-treated hair, then it is okay to use. Double-check the ingredient label to ensure that it doesn't contain sulfates, however. This is something that can happen to any blond hair type. Because each brand of purple shampoo is different, follow the instructions provided on the back of the bottle to determine how to use your shampoo properly.  In most cases, you'll need to apply the shampoo to wet hair, wait 5 to 10 minutes, then rinse it out. Lighter, lavender-tinted shampoos are going to be gentler than the darker, deep-purple shampoos.

Summary: Touch up your look every 6 to 8 weeks. Wash your hair every other day at the most. Use a sulfate-free shampoo when you wash your hair. Wash your hair with purple toning shampoo if it starts to look brassy.


Your first objective after a betrayal is to think about how you will communicate to your husband that he has shaken your trust. Here, as above, you'll want to focus on how his actions made you feel rather than making personal attacks. However, since in this case he has deliberately done something to hurt you, you don't need to stay perfectly calm. It's only reasonable to get emotional — especially if he has done something truly disrespectful. For example, you might start the conversation by saying something like this: "We need to talk. I don't like that you've been lying about where you've been. If I can't trust you, we're going to have problems." You're making it clear that you're upset, but you're not completely allowing your emotions to run wild. Betrayals of trust can range from relatively minor (lying so he can hang out with friends, forgetting romantic commitments, etc.) to major (infidelity, humiliating you in front of others, etc.) It's up to you to judge how badly your husband's trust-destroying behavior has damaged your relationship. However, as long as you stay together after the problem behavior, you should give your husband a reasonable chance to earn your trust again. Try to make the punishment fit the crime here. For instance, if you catch your husband sending flirty texts to a co-worker but he swears he hasn't done anything else (and you believe him), it's reasonable to avoid intimacy (sex, cuddling, affection, etc.) until you're sure that he's not interested in anyone else. If you can't figure things out on your own but preserving your marriage is important to you, don't be afraid to seek the assistance of a professional. A counselor or couples therapist can help you repair the root issues that are affecting your ability to trust each other as spouses. Seeing these sorts of professionals isn't something to be ashamed of. Many couples get professional help for a wide variety of marital issues. The fact that you're willing to get help when it's needed is something to be proud of, even if it's not the sort of thing you'd volunteer as casual dinner conversation. As mentioned at the beginning of this article, having a happy relationship is more or less impossible without trust. If your husband has done something to prevent you from ever trusting him again or if he has refused to change after repeated betrayals, it may be time to reconsider your relationship. Breaking up is hard to do — especially when you're married — but the alternative of living with a spouse you don't trust is never a good idea

Summary: Clearly explain to him how he has betrayed your trust. Give him opportunities to re-earn trust after losing it. Seek counseling. Consider ending the relationship if you can't trust him.


Kissing is an intimate act. You can move toward the act of kissing by creating some warm touch. Find any reason to touch your partner, or even just stand very close to them, to signal that you’re ready to lock lips.  Lean against your partner. Put your arm around them. Brush an eyelash from their face. Fix the tag on their t-shirt. Drawing attention to your mouth encourages your partner to think about kissing, and in turn, to want to kiss you. Draw attention to your mouth with subtle actions.  Apply lip gloss or lip balm. Eat a piece of fruit, like a strawberry. Gently bite your bottom lip. Perhaps the most sure-fire sign that you would like to be kissed is a lot of sustained eye contact. When you spend time with your partner, try to hold their gaze as much as possible. This helps to build intimacy, and signals to them that you would like to be kissed.  During a board game, during a meal, or simply when you are sitting together on the couch are all great times to practice your eye contact. Aim to hold their gaze for 10-15 seconds at a time. If you have already built up some intimacy and comfort with your partner, give cuddling a try. Lay your head on your partner’s shoulder or go in for a long hug. The more physical touch you share, the more likely you are to kiss. Try some gentle cuddling while riding the bus or watching TV. The “goodbye kiss” is a classic end to a date or hangout. As the night is coming to a close, chances are, your date will probably be wondering whether they should try to kiss you or not. Help sway them by providing lots of clues! When it is almost time to say goodbye, find ways to touch them, make lots of eye contact, and find some way to draw attention to your mouth.
Summary: Make physical contact. Highlight your mouth. Make eye contact. Try cuddling. Create an opportunity.