Q: In a healthy relationship, you’ll be close with your partner for many reasons beyond having sex. You can build closeness and trust in the relationship by talking, listening, sharing, respecting each other’s ideas, and simply by hanging out/taking pleasure in each other’s company. If you partner tries to tell you that sex is the only way you can be close, you may want to consider whether the relationship is really what you want. It can be fun just to sit in bed with your partner and do non-sexual things. Playing a board game is a great way to cozy up with your partner in bed without it turning into something sexual. Sit next to each other fully clothed, propped up on pillows, and take turns reading to each other. You can even take turns choosing which book you read. How close you sit depends on your level of comfort.  If you’re worried about it turning sexual, try staying above the covers while sitting next to each other. You could also sit on opposite ends of the bed with only your feet touching. You can read each other romantic stories for a sexy twist (and maybe to laugh at how cheesy they are). Sitting in bed, listen to an album. Go over the lyrics. Sit close to each other and enjoy the closeness of your partner’s body, but don’t go further than simply holding hands or cuddling up close. Write questionnaires out for each other or print some pre-made ones off the Internet (search “fun questions to ask your partner”). Sit on opposite sides of the bed, each with a clipboard, and fill out your answers, then pass them to each other once you’re done so you can read the responses. Cozy up in bed together with some snacks and lots of pillows, and watch a movie. If you're worried that it will turn into a make-out session, try placing some pillows between you and using separate blankets. If being separated by pillows and blankets doesn’t work, it’s okay to say it isn't working and ask your partner if he/she is into doing something else that makes your urges easier to resist. Turn your bed into a fort. Add some funky lights and cool blankets. When it’s done, sit inside and watch a movie or tell spooky stories. Sitting close to your partner in bed, you might find it difficult to resist the urge to do more than just cuddle. If you find yourself thinking about going further than  your pre-set boundaries, consider moving away from your partner or even suggesting that you two move to a different location.  If you’re worried about offending your partner by moving away from them, you could make up an excuse for wanting to move — for example, “My back hurts sitting here, let’s move over to the couch in the living room,” or “Hey I’m feeling a bit restless, let’s take a break and go for a walk!” Getting out into public spaces will make it easier to resist acting on your sexual urges. If you do end up making out and you begin to feel bad about it, it’s okay to stop and say that you don’t feel comfortable continuing. Your partner should respect your wishes immediately.  If your partner repeatedly tries to convince you to go further than the boundaries you've set, you may want to consider whether he/she is worth continuing a relationship with. While it's okay for your partner to check in with you now and then, he/she should never make you feel bad for your decision.
A: Know that sex isn’t the only way to be close with your partner. Play a board game in bed. Read each other stories. Listen to music together. Do surveys together. Watch a movie. Make a fort. Avoid the urge to let it go further. Know that you can say “No” at any time.

Article: Look for charities that help people stay off the streets and provide support for the homeless. If you’re concerned about beggars in a country you’re visiting, look for a charity that focuses on a specific need, such as providing school books and supplies for children. This will keep them in school and off the streets. To ensure your money will go where it’s needed, you could check out:  Charity Navigator, which rates charities based on their level of success and follow through. A list of top rated charities from around the world, located at GivingWhatWeCan.org. Donate money. This will help to improve your community and give you a way to support homeless people in your area. You can also donate items other than money. You could consider:  Oral hygiene products like toothbrushes, toothpaste, and dental floss.  Personal hygiene products like baby wipes or sanitary napkins. First aid supplies like bandages and antiseptic wipes. Clothing, especially old winter coats and shoes. You can serve meals, help sort through donations, and provide other services as needed. Contact your local shelter for volunteer opportunities. Get involved with charities that you donate to so you can feel the direct impact of your financial donation.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Give money to a local charity. Support a homeless shelter. Volunteer at a shelter or a local charity.

Problem: Article: While you talk to them, watch their eye movements and body language. The stereotype is that liars will typically avoid eye contact, because they feel bad about lying or they worry they'll get caught. Many people know this stereotype, and so some liars will overcompensate by making a lot of eye contact. Consider whether the person is making an unusual amount of eye contact. Some researchers have noticed patterns in the directions that people look, related to when they are remembering something and when they are making something up. However, new research has shown that this method is very unreliable, and that it isn't helpful in detecting lies.   Looking to your left (their right): Imagining something, or telling a lie  Looking to your right (their left): Remembering something Thus, the person in the above image would be telling the truth. Don't jump to the conclusion that a person is lying just because they looked a certain direction. Look for other signals in their behavior, and check for multiple signs. Keep their baseline behavior in mind, and look for changes, like...  Unusual gesturing, or lack thereof Looking away or checking the time Standing unusually still Big changes in tone or pitch of voice Sweating Unusual fidgeting Breathing fast Touching the nose and covering the mouth Rambling an unusual amount Swallowing often Body language that doesn't match their words, like shaking their head no while they say yes
Summary: Ask the person questions about the thing you're curious about. Compare their eye contact to their baseline. Notice which way their eyes are looking, without jumping to conclusions. Look at their body language for other signs.

Q: You're writing the letter to thank your customer for doing business with you, so it's no longer necessary to subject the person to advertising. Assume good rapport at this point. Make the customer feel like an insider.  Phrases like "we hope to do business with you again soon" sound like tag lines; best to leave these out. Don't say something you wouldn't say to an acquaintance. Don't include a product pitch, a mention of an upcoming sale, or anything else that could be construed as an ad. Even if you're mailing dozens of letters, it's better not to use a postage machine. That's a giveaway that this thank-you note is one of many, and it will make the customer feel less special. In fact, it may mean your thank-you note will end up in the junk mail pile. Again, the more personalized you make the thank-you note, the better it will be received. If you don't have time to address envelopes, have someone else do it. Even if you're not the person actually writing out the address, the customer will be impressed to see handwriting. Make sure your phone number and address are included in the correspondence, and give the customer warm encouragement to get in touch for any reason. If your customer does contact you, be ready to meet his or her needs promptly.
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Resist the temptation to pitch your business again. Mail the letter with a real postage stamp. Address the letter by hand if possible. Provide your contact information and be open to communication.