Problem: Article: If their speech is halting or labored, it may take them more time to get through a sentence. Give them utter patience, and don't rush them to finish what they're saying. This takes the pressure off and makes them feel more at ease. Show them that you're interested in what they're saying by looking at them, and making eye contact if they're comfortable with it.  Remember that they may have different listening body language than you do. If you aren't sure whether they're paying attention, watch to see if they react to what you say (e.g. giggling when you compliment them, asking questions) or just ask them. Sometimes, people with disabilities get sidelined and ignored, even with friends or family. This can be very isolating. Make time to include and listen to them, so they know someone cares about what they have to say.  Ask questions about what they think, and take time to listen to what they say, even if you have to ask them to repeat themselves.  Validate their feelings to help them feel cared about and understood. Due to social uncertainty, past mistreatment, or anxiety issues, some disabled people may feel scared and confused if you are angry or hostile towards them. If you're getting very upset, take some deep breaths and try saying "I need some alone time" so you can handle your emotions privately.   If the disabled person does something that upsets you, communicate it calmly and clearly. Try using "I" language in the template "When you ______, I feel _____" or "Please stop ____." Take some quiet time. If you need to speak to them to address the issue, wait until you are able to handle it with a level head. They won't be able to listen well if they are scared or confused by your strong emotions. They are facing barriers beyond your comprehension, and that can make conversation difficult. It's harder for them than it is for you. Never yell at a disabled person, or blame them for their disability.  If you find yourself feeling too frustrated, disengage. Go for a walk, do something else, or say "I need some alone time for a little while." If you notice that they seem distressed, ask them "Is something wrong?" and "Is there anything I can do to help?" For example, a disabled person might feel distracted by all the movement in a crowded restaurant, and prefer to eat at an outdoor table where there are less people. People can talk much better when their needs are being met. They have goals, interests, friends, (maybe) romantic relationships, boundaries, and preferences. They're regular people. Even if they look or act a little different, they're similar to you and other people in many ways. Ask about their interests and favorite activities, and look for similarities to what you like. You may share more favorite things than you think!
Summary: Let the pace slow down as needed. Use open body language. Take time to listen closely to them. Speak clearly and calmly to them if they're doing something that bothers you. Be patient. Accommodate their needs. Remember that disabled people are still people. Look for what you have in common with them.

Problem: Article: United Way has a free and confidential referral service known as 211 that will help connect you to resources near you that can help assist you. Dial 211 to speak to a resource specialist who can put you in touch with local organizations and resources that can service you.  You do not need to dial a “1” or “0” when you’re dialing 211. 211 can only refer people living in North America for services. The 211 helpline is active 24 hours a day, so you can call anytime. United Way has international resources that you may be able to take advantage of as well. If you live outside of North America, call their international line to speak to a resource specialist who can help direct you to local resources you can use. The international line is open all day every day, and they have language translation services to help you communicate with them. Call the helpline to learn about healthcare services in your area that you may be able to take advantage of. This can include free health screens and preventative care such as contraception. Call 211 and ask about healthcare resources in your area. You may be able to get free or discounted vaccines for you or your children through their program. You can locate affordable or subsidized housing options that you qualify for through United Way. You can also find emergency shelter if you lose your home or are the victim of a fire or natural disaster. Call 211 and explain your situation to find a solution near you.  United Way may also be able to help you with your utility bills if you’re struggling to pay them. Have your financial information such as pay stubs and tax returns ready when you call 211 to ask about housing assistance so you can reference them on the call. United Way can connect you with local resources that can assist you in meeting the nutritional needs of you and your family. They can provide educational opportunities to teach you about proper nutrition as well as refer you to local food assistance programs you may be able to take advantage of. You may be able to find locations near you that serve food to people who qualify based on income or after a disaster. If you’re looking for a job or if you want to attend a school near you, United Way may be able to connect you with local groups and programs that can help make that happen. Call the helpline and ask the resource specialist about available jobs or educational opportunities near you.  You may be able to find a local program or organization that can help you pay for your education. There may be free courses in your area that you can take, such as childcare or mechanical courses. United Way can connect you to groups, programs, and services near you that are available to people who served in the military. This can include job placement services, mental health treatment programs, or financial services that can help you get back on your feet.  Be sure to have your service history and military references handy whenever you call 211 so you can refer to them if the specialist has any questions. If you’re calling on behalf of a family member who served in the military, be sure to mention that on the call. The United Way helpline can connect you with mental health resources near you such as free mental health screenings, counseling services, or doctor referrals. They can also help connect you with resources for drug or alcohol addiction.  You may be able to find treatment centers near you that can help you overcome addiction issues. Use the helpline to find family counselor services for you or your children if you’re going through a hard time. If you’ve been the victim of a disaster or emergency situation, call the helpline to be connected with local resources who can help you. You can find information such as where to go to seek shelter and food, how to go about filing insurance claims, and what you need to do following an emergency or disaster. 211 can also connect you to local emergency response services.
Summary: Call 211 to get connected to a resource specialist in North America. Dial 800-247-7564 if you don’t live in North America. Find information about healthcare resources near you. Learn about housing assistance available near you. Ask about supplemental food and nutrition programs. Get information about employment and education opportunities. Find local services available to veterans. Seek help for mental health issues. Contact 211 for emergency and disaster information.

Problem: Article: It can be as simple as a mason jar or a tall, cylindrical candle holder (hurricane). For something more unique, you could try a small fishbowl or even a wine glass! For better results, use a tall, narrow vase. This will allow you to fill it with more decorations and have a thicker oil layer, which will increase the burning time. Make sure that the items are water-safe and heavy enough so that they don't float. If you are using a combination of different items, make sure that they look nice together. If you are going to be using the jars for an event, make sure that they match the decorations that you will be using. Don't fill the jar more than two-thirds of the way.
Summary:
Find a pretty glass container to use for your candle. Fill the jar with other items that match your décor.