Problem: Article: These forms are used to ask the court to enter a default judgment against the Respondent. The mandatory forms are:  Request to Enter Default (FL-165) Declaration for Default or Uncontested Dissolution (FL-170) Judgment (FL-180) Notice of Entry of Judgment (FL-190) You can fill out any of the forms that may apply to your case. Attach the forms to your Judgment (FL-180). The child custody forms are:  Child Custody and Visitation Order Attachment (FL-341) Supervised Visitation Order (FL-341A) Child Abduction Prevention Order Attachment (FL-341B) Children's Holiday Schedule Attachment (FL-341C) Additional Provisions -- Physical Custody Attachment (FL-341D) Joint Legal Custody Attachment (FL-341E) If you want to request child support payments from the other party, you can fill out any of the forms that may apply to your case. Attach the forms to your Judgment (FL-180). The child support forms are:  Child Support Information and Order Attachment (FL-342)  Income and Expense  Declaration (FL-150) or Financial Statement (FL-155)  Child Support Case Registry Form (FL-191)  Notice of Rights and Responsibilities - Health Care Costs and Reimbursement Procedures and Information Sheet on Changing a Child Support Order (FL-192) (there is nothing to fill out on this form, but it should be read carefully)  Income Withholding for Support (FL-195)  See Income Withholding for Support - Instructions (FL-196) for more information. When filing out an FL-195, only write the last 4 digits of the social security number of the person ordered to pay support to protect his or her privacy. If you want to request support payments from the other party, you can fill out any of the forms that may apply to your case. Attach the forms to your Judgment (FL-180). The support forms are:  Spousal or Partner Support Declaration Attachment (FL-157) Spousal, Partner, or Family Support Order Attachment (FL-343) Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)  Earnings Assignment Order for Spousal or Partner Support (FL-435)  Only use the FL-435 if you are not asking for child support. If you are asking for both child and spousal or partner support, fill out an FL-195.  When filing out a FL-435 or FL-195, only write the last 4 digits of the social security number of the person ordered to pay support to protect his or her privacy. If you want the court to divide your community assets and debts, you can fill out any of the forms that may apply to your case. Attach the forms to your Judgment (FL-180). The asset and debt division forms are:  Property Order Attachment to Judgment (FL-345) Property Declaration (FL-160)  Pension Benefits - Attachment to Judgment (FL-348) Read Retirement Plan Joinder - Information Sheet (FL-318-INFO) for more information on pension plans. Some counties require additional local forms for a legal separation. Check with your Family Law Facilitator or your county court’s website. You can locate your county court’s website by selecting your county on the California court’s Find My Court webpage. Bring two large envelopes with postage. The clerk may require you to provide envelopes and postage to save the cost of mailing the final judgment.  If there is a problem with the documents, a court appearance may be necessary, or you may be asked to fix the mistakes in your paperwork.  If your documents are completed correctly, the judge will sign the Judgment without either party having to appear in court. A clerk will mail the Judgment and Notice of Entry of Judgment to each spouse or domestic partner. Keep a copy of these forms for your records. You are legally separated as of the date the judgment was signed.
Summary: Fill out the mandatory forms. Fill out child custody forms. Fill out child support forms. Fill out spousal or partner support forms. Fill out asset and debt division forms. Fill out any required local forms. File your forms with the court. Wait to receive your final judgment.

Problem: Article: The wand does not need to touch the area, but it should be pointed away from you and toward the target area. You might make circular motions with the wand and incorporate a prayer, mantra, or incantation. These might include:  Meditations or visualizations that ground or focus you. Invocations of a god, goddess, or nature spirit. Prayers about nature and natural subject matter, including seasonal prayers and incantations during a full moon. Since wands transmit energy, they improve energy flow through the body. This can be applied to breaking down blockages in a variety of systems, such as the circulatory and nervous systems. Clear away blockages by pointing the wand at the blocked area or areas, and focusing your energy and any verbal prayers or mantras that you might like to use. In this case, you would point the wand toward yourself. Meditate on the negative thoughts and feelings, and allow the wand to draw them out. You might speak your wishes at this point as well. Reduce stress and nervousness. Wands help clear blocked pathways that help release stress, nervousness, and other negative energy. Many people do this while lying down. Run the wand over your body and focus on when and where the wand vibrates. These areas require more attention from the wand. Once the wand stops vibrating, your auras are cleansed.
Summary: Direct your wand toward an afflicted area for physical healing. Clear away any physical blockages. Expel negative psychological energy from yourself. Align chakras and auras.

Problem: Article: If you are a prideful person, you may have trouble admitting when you’re wrong. In a way, everyone has some difficulty taking ownership for mistakes. You might deny responsibility because the act of “being wrong” doesn’t align with your self-concept. But admitting you’re wrong is not a weakness—it’s simply a part of being human. Learn to admit the mistake, and apologize/rectify when you’re wrong. Simply say, “I apologize; that was my mistake.” Doing so will help you retain relationships and may even benefit your personal growth. In a way, excessive pride places you on shaky ground because you’re always fearful of losing favor or status. Because of this instability, you might be quick to defend. Defensiveness makes you appear inflexible and insecure. It also shuts down the lines of communication.  Instead of jumping to defensiveness, pause. Don’t follow your instincts, which are to defend. Take a few deep breaths. Agree—to a degree—by saying “Yes, and…” This is preferable to “Yes, but,” which comes off as defensive. Then, try to work with the other person to brainstorm an effective solution that doesn’t jeopardize the relationship.  Do your best to develop a curious attitude and to take in others’ points of view. Work on accepting criticism as a learning experience. Taking things personally makes it difficult to reflect and improve. . Mindfulness allows you to slow down and connect with the present moment. It brings awareness to your thoughts and can help you notice your prideful thoughts and reactions. Start a mindfulness practice to notice and eventually accept those parts of yourself. You can activate mindfulness during times when your pride is in control. For example, you feel threatened by a coworker who is doing outstanding work. You might slow down and tune into your thoughts and feelings. Remember that you don't have to see others' success as a threat. Think of ways you can learn from the person instead. It can help to celebrate the success of others.
Summary:
Own up to your mistakes. Lose the defensiveness.  Practice mindfulness