A bikini top may seem like an unconventional item to wear as clothing, but you can find a way to make one work as a shirt. You do not have to wear a real swimsuit, but go for something like a tube tank-top or crop top with a bikini-like feel. This can be paired with high wasted shorts or a nice jacket. Shorts are a staple of the surfer girl style. You should have at least a few pairs of shorts in your wardrobe if you want to look like a surfer girl.  The surfer girl is meant to be laid back. Therefore, you should look for shorts that do not look new or expensive. Stop by a local thrift store. You are bound to find a few pairs of shorts there that work with the surfer girl style. A jumper dress looks something like a pair of overalls. You should opt for one if you want to adopt the surfer girl style. It works well because surfer girls are often hopping in and out of the ocean and may throw on a light dress to pop into a store before returning to the beach. Go for a knit dress, as this gives you a lot of exposure to air. You should search thrift stores for a jumper dress, as clothing that looks worn adds to the laid back surfer mentality. Sandals and wedges should be a staple of your wardrobe if you want to look like a surfer girl. Invest in a variety of bright, colorful pairs of these types of shoes. You can also go for flip-flips for the surfer girl feel. As the surfer girl culture is sometimes thought of as somewhat tomboyish, plaid should be a staple in your wardrobe. Opt for plaid button down shirts, which can easily be worn over a tank-top or bikini-top.
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One-sentence summary -- Try using a bikini top as a shirt. Invest in a solid pair of shorts. Have a knit jumper for cooler weather. Wear sandals or wedges. Wear plaid.


Staring makes it obvious that you're checking a girl out. Instead of keeping your eyes on her, pretend like you're looking around the room naturally. As you're moving your head and eyes around, sneak looks at the girl that you want to check out.  For instance if you notice her at a sporting event, you can pretend to watch the game but steal looks at her instead. If you share the same lunch period you can act like you're looking around the cafeteria or looking at your friends, when you're really checking her out. Sunglasses will hide where you're looking and enable you to check out a girl without her thinking that you're looking directly at her. If you want to use sunglasses, make sure that you get ones with dark or reflective lenses so that she can't see your eyes. If you're far enough away from the girl, she won't be able to see your eyes or where you're looking. If you don't want her to notice you, wait for her to walk at least five feet (1.5 m) away before turning to look at her.  Don't follow the girl around, just check her out when she's around you. Avoid doing this repeatedly or she and her friends may think you're creepy. Instead of looking directly in the girl's direction, you can use your side vision, or your peripheral vision, to check them out. You can practice this in your room by keeping your head straight and trying to look at things on the side of you. Instead of turning your head or facing the girl, look at her from the side. There's no reason why you need to stare at someone. Instead, just take a quick glance, check her out, and then look at something else. If you check her out for too long, it could come off as creepy and isn't a habit you want to get into.
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One-sentence summary -- Shift your gaze around. Wear sunglasses to obscure your eyes. Watch her from afar. Use your peripheral vision. Check her out quickly.


If you are in the habit of using a face scrub to exfoliate your skin a few times per week, you may like an activated charcoal face scrub. You can use a regular face soap the rest of the week and use this scrub on the days that you regularly exfoliate. This activated charcoal scrub uses a skin-friendly essential. Depending on your needs, you should choose an appropriate skin-friendly oil. One of the following skin-friendly essential oils may be appropriate:  Carrot seed essential oil can help with cell regeneration and is great for smooth skin. Frankincense essential oil has antibacterial and anti-inflammatory properties. Geranium essential oil may help reduce acne breakouts. Lavender essential oil is relaxing and helps to regenerate skin cells. Myrrh essential oil is wonderful for aging skin. Neroli essential oil may be good for people with sensitive or oily skin. Patchouli essential oil can help people with aging skin. Rose essential oil can be good for people with dry skin. Tea tree essential oil may help people with acne. Ylang ylang essential oil may help control excessively oily skin. In your clean glass jar, pour the cane sugar and the activated charcoal. Close the lid and shake the ingredients until they look combined. Pour the olive oil into the glass jar. Using your spoon, mix the ingredients together. Finally, add three drops of the essential oil. Stir all of the ingredients together for three minutes until they look combined. Finally, seal the container until you are ready to use it.
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One-sentence summary -- Try an activated charcoal face scrub. Choose an essential oil for the scrub. Mix the cane sugar with the activated charcoal. Add the olive oil and the essential oil.


Press your fingertip against the underside of your cheekbone, about 1 in (2.5 cm) in front of your ear. After some probing, you should find a small indentation or notch. This is a pressure point that you can use to massage your masseter muscle.  Located on both sides of your face, your masseter muscles power your jaw, especially when you bite or chew. Based on their size, your masseter muscles are the strongest muscles in your body. Push inward and slightly upward with your fingertip until you feel a “sweet ache”—in other words, the soothing but slightly painful feeling you probably associate with a massage. If you find it difficult to press firmly enough with your fingertip, try your thumb or knuckle. Don’t aim for outright pain here—push until you feel only slight discomfort. Once you have the pressure right, you can simply hold your finger, thumb, or knuckle in place. Alternatively, try making small circles with your finger, thumb, or knuckle while maintaining pressure on the notch.  Massage the area for 30 seconds to 1 minute, then switch to your other cheek. Do this massage every night before bedtime. You can also do it when you wake up in the morning, and any other time that your jaw feels tight. Since your masseters are such dense, strong muscles, it can take a lot of pressure to soothe and loosen them. Over time, you’ll probably find that you need to apply greater pressure to get the same results. That’s fine—your masseters can handle it! Switch to using your knuckle if you can’t apply adequate pressure with your finger or thumb.
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Locate the notch in front of your ear and under your cheekbone. Press your finger, thumb, or knuckle into the notch. Apply constant pressure or kneading circles to the notch. Increase the pressure you apply over time.