Problem: Article: Arguments are often the result of underlying tensions in a relationship. If you want to settle an argument effectively you must be willing to communicate with your wife. This means staying in the present moment and avoiding discussing past conflicts.  In an argument, you might be tempted to bring something up from the past. You might be trying to prove a point or convey how a certain behavior is part of a pattern. This is bad form in an argument, however, as it distracts from the issue at hand and can make your wife feel attacked or judged. If you're inclined to bring up issues from the past, it might be because these issues were never resolved to begin with. Keep in mind that moving forward means addressing present issues and letting go of the past. The way you phrase things during an argument matters. "I" statements focus on how you feel about a given subject. This keeps the frame of reference subjective and de-emphasizes blame.  An "I" statement addresses how you feel when something happens. It does not focus on an objective judgment of the situation but rather a personal reaction.  For example, instead of saying "It's very disrespectful when you make us late for family events" try saying something like "I feel disrespected when you're not ready for family events on time." Language is important in an argument. Even if you're upset and frustrated, try to stay respectful. You cannot settle an argument if you're making someone feel disrespected.  No name calling. Calling your wife names or using profanity can sting. Even if you're extremely upset, refrain from name calling and cursing during an argument. Yelling is also a bad idea during an argument. Yelling can be subjective. You might not think you're not yelling or raising your voice but it could easily come off that way to your spouse. If your wife asks you to keep your voice down, take a deep breath and proceed calmly with the conversation. Practicing active listening is vital to effective communication. When smoothing over an argument with your wife, make sure you pay attention to what she's saying and convey that you are listening.  Use verbal and non-verbal cues to show you are listening. Nod, say things like "uh-huh" and "mmhmm." Try to understand more than you're trying to be understood. Ask for clarification after your wife finishes talking if you don't understand anything. Summarize what was said after she finishes speaking.  Be non-judgmental. Give your wife the space to feel what she's feeling, even if you disagree with the sentiment. Allow her to express her feelings without needing to justify them. When frustrated, people often fall into passive aggressive behaviors. This is toxic to communication and will only make the argument worse. Speak openly and honestly but use respect.  Passive aggressive behavior is often used as a way to avoid expressing anger. People think of anger as a negative and instead of directly saying, "I'm mad at you" or "You're upsetting me," they may lash out in silence, sarcasm, sulking, or gossiping.  There's a way to express anger in a healthy fashion. Explain that you are angry and why, using "I" statements to emphasize your feelings over objective facts. Yelling, cursing, or using derogatory language is not a healthy way to express anger. Try to stay calm while still explaining how you feel. If an argument is getting heated, you won't be able to settle it. If you find yourself struggling to keep composure, take a break. Walk away for a few minutes and take a few deep breaths. Make sure you explain to your wife that you need a minute to cool down. Then, return to the argument when you feel ready to talk effectively. While many people throw around the phrase, "Never go to bed angry," keep in mind it's okay to go to sleep and talk things over in the morning if you're both extremely tired.
Summary: Stay in the present. Make "I" statements. Use respectful language. Listen actively. Avoid passive aggressive statements. Take a time out if needed.

Problem: Article: This is just like making an ordinary white sauce. Keep stirring to prevent burning. It is important to cook the flour taste out of the soufflé sauce, just like an ordinary white sauce as this ensure a lovely smooth soufflé at the table. Once it has cooled to approximately blood temperature, add the egg yolks. The temperature is just warm enough that the sauce is still soft and smooth, but not hot enough to cook the egg yolks. Stir well to ensure the yolks are smoothly blended in. You may refrigerate this sauce overnight as well, which makes the process much easier when preparing soufflés for a special event. On the next day, allow it to come to room temperature and (as the sauce would have set), stir the sauce until smooth again.
Summary: Melt the butter in saucepan and add the flour to make a roux. Add the milk in batches and stir or whisk well until smooth and thickened. Take the sauce off the heat and add the cheese and beat well until melted. Allow to cool.

Problem: Article: Using a sharp knife, slice down the length of the vanilla pod. Scrape the beans out of the pod using the back of the knife. Pour 2 cups of granulated sugar into a container that has an air-tight lid, then bury the seeds and empty vanilla pod in the sugar. Use your fingers to spread the beans throughout the sugar to ensure even flavor. Make sure the container is sealed tightly, then let the sugar and vanilla sit for at least 1-2 weeks. The longer you set the ingredients sit together, the stronger the vanilla flavor will be in the sugar. The ideal environment for any vanilla product is cool, dark, and dry. If you have a closet or pantry in your kitchen, that's a good choice. As long as it's stored properly, the vanilla in your sugar won't go bad, and you can store your vanilla sugar indefinitely. Don't refrigerate vanilla products, as the cold can encourage the growth of a mold specific to vanilla beans. Once your sugar has taken on the vanilla's flavor, you can substitute vanilla sugar into any recipe that calls for sugar! While it can't replace the strong flavor of vanilla extract, your sugar can add a subtle kick of flavor to many of your favorite dishes.  Spread it over cut fruits for a light snack Add depth of flavor to your vanilla cake Substitute it for regular sugar in any baking recipe you think would benefit from vanilla Sprinkle it on top of cookies or muffins Sweeten coffee or tea with it Sprinkle it over regular or French toast at breakfast
Summary: Remove the beans from the pod. Bury the seeds and pod in sugar. Let the vanilla and sugar sit somewhere out of the way. Store your vanilla sugar appropriately. Use your vanilla sugar.

Problem: Article: storywrite.com is a website for people all over the world who wish to improve their writing. Check it out.
Summary:
Spend 25 percent of your time looking at past papers briefly and looking at the style of writing etc. Spend 25 percent of your time focusing on writing techniques and how to use them. Spend 25 percent of your time looking over your notes and re-writing them quickly. Spend the remaining 25 percent practicing your writing style.