One of the easiest ways to protect yourself when in a chatroom is to refuse to meet people you've met there. This is important, as predators, stalkers, and others who want to do you harm may suggest meeting up somewhere at some point. In the end, simply say no to meeting in real life. Any meeting you schedule with someone you met online should be in a public location. This way, there will be others around in case something goes wrong.  Meet in a place where security or police are nearby. Consider places like malls, coffee shops, or at large social gatherings. Don't go to a location you're not familiar with already. Notify a friend or family member that you'll be meeting someone you know from a chatroom. Tell them the location, and ask them to call you if they haven't heard from you in a certain amount of time. Bring friends with you for extra backup, if you'd like. If for some reason you suspect that someone you met online knows where you live, is following you, or stalking you, call the police immediately. While your local police may not be able to stop someone outside their jurisdiction from harassing you, they may be able to work with authorities elsewhere.  Describe the person who is stalking you. Let the police know you may have met the person online. Explain to them that you feel threatened.
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One-sentence summary -- Avoid meeting people you've met online. Never meet in a private location, if you do plan to meet someone. Tell a friend if you'll be meeting someone from a chatroom. Call the police if you think someone you met online is stalking you.


You'll see all of the folders that make up your Android's storage. Folders to look for include:  Downloads Documents Pictures DCIM (Camera) Music You can click an item to highlight it, click and drag to create a selection box, or hold ⌘ Command and click each file you want to select. Drag and drop the selected files into a folder or onto your desktop to start copying them. The time it takes to copy will vary depending on the size and number of files you're transferring.
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One-sentence summary -- Click the Go menu from the desktop. Click Applications. Double-click Android File Transfer. Scroll to browse your Android's storage. Highlight the files you want to transfer. Drag the files into a folder on your Mac.


State that you have no desire to attack a loved one.  Emphasize an interest in listening and responding to one another non-defensively.  If something comes up, but tempers are running high or the context is not appropriate for an open, heartfelt conversation, ask your loved one to agree to talk soon. State the intention of a conversation beforehand.  For instance, say something like, “I want to strengthen our relationship by better understanding ______.” Particularly if you’re hoping to discuss your loved one’s unwillingness to change – or willingness to see something differently – talk about a time you came to an awakening of your own.  Talk about a time you accepted help for something you had previously insisted wasn’t an issue. Check your terminology and framing to ensure you are not shaming your loved on for whatever it is you believe he or she needs to change. Abandon the concept of who’s right and who’s wrong. If someone refuses to change – either a behavior or perspective on a single issue – he or she may not be relying on reason or logic to make this decision. The behavior may just be part of your loved one’s belief system, so debating will not help.  Avoid starting a debate with your loved one. Don’t ask your loved one to provide proof for his or her beliefs or try to prove your loved one wrong. Ask questions. Try to better understand where your loved one is coming from. For example, you might ask something like, “What experiences did you have that have caused you to feel that way?” Making it clear that you recognize that your own perspectives are often subjective or opinionated may help loved one’s come to the same conclusion.  Begin sentences with “I think ______”, “In my opinion_____”, or “It seems to me that _____”. If a statement requires elaboration, follow with something like “So, I’m wondering about _____”, or “It seems that this might lead to _______”. Elaborations are only necessary when your loved one doesn’t respond to your initial observations or stated feelings. Send clear signals that you are willing to revisit and rethink your positions, and that you hope your loved one will have the same attitude.  If you state opinion as truth and your loved one jumps on you for it, admit that your terminology was problematic and adjust it. Say something like, “Well… yes, you’re right, I can’t be positive, but I see it like this.” It is extremely normal for moments of tension to arise in everyday conversation, especially between loved ones who spend a lot of time together.  If this does occur, quickly try to reduce the tension.  Say something like, “Jeez, we’re both being pretty stubborn!” All it takes for someone’s defenses to go up is one side refusing to give ground. Make sure it isn’t you that pushes a conversation into deadlock. Follow up any potential spots of conversational lock-up with a question such as, “Do you see it differently?” You may end up feeling most frustrated just when your loved one is closest to adjusting their behavior, when they’ve acknowledged that things need to change but may still be slipping.  Recognize that even when people are willing, change takes time. Breaking entrenched patterns of behavior in particular is a process. Incremental improvements, even only during dialogue, are worth acknowledging. Show your appreciation for a loved one’s effort and willingness to change by thanking your loved one for talking with you. Sometimes, it may be the most healthy or safe decision to change the subject or simply walk away. If your loved one is absolutely unwilling to have a mature conversation and becomes aggressive or starts to shout, then don’t risk your own stability and safety. End the conversation before it gets out of hand. For example, you could say something like, “Let’s talk some other time when we are both feeling calm.” Or, “This has been a good start, but I think we should end it here.”
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One-sentence summary -- Articulate your willingness to have a conversation free of blame. Open a conversation about your loved one with a story about yourself. Quit trying to reason. Use “I” statements when conveying your opinions. Demonstrate the way you hope a conversation will go. Laugh off brief moments of tension. Be patient. Know when to end a conversation.


Narcissistic people are generally extremely self-centered, thinking only of themselves. They have inflated egos and crave attention and admiration. They are highly self-absorbed and are always looking for ways to be the best or successful. Because of this, the narcissistic husband may not love you as much as you love him. He may care more about his needs and interests while not caring about yours at all. They lack empathy towards others, unable to put themselves in other people's shoes or understand and care about what other people are experiencing. Narcissists are so obsessed with getting ahead and gaining admiration that they get jealous of other people's accomplishments. This can lead to possessive or even abusive behavior. Narcissistic husbands can try to control their spouses by isolating them from friends and family, which forces the spouse to be dependent on the husband. They can also try to control and manipulate their spouse by not showing her affection or attention.  Some narcissistic husbands can resort to verbal and emotional abuse. They might make you cry or feel bad as a means of control.  They might also resort to tantrums in an effort to control and manipulate their wife. Narcissists use lies to manipulate their spouses. They tell half-truths or their highly incorrect version of the truth so they don't have to take responsibility for anything. Many times, the blame gets shifted to the spouse. This is unhealthy for the spouse because they end up with all the blame, responsibility, and guilt.
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Determine if your husband is selfish. Decide if your husband is overly jealous. Ask yourself if your husband is manipulative or controlling. Determine if your husband lies.