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This shows that you know how to have a great time, and can provide him with excitement. It’s easy to invite someone out for a drink or dinner, but the most memorable people are the ones who invite us to do something we’ve never done before.  Don't get discouraged if he turns you down. You can simply say, "Well, if you'd ever like to go in the future, let me know. I'd really enjoy that." This keeps the door open and puts the ball in his court. Make it something you’re excited about. If you’re afraid of heights, don't invite him to go ziplining just because it sounds cool. If you’re having lunch or hanging out right after work, you won’t be able to completely change your clothes. But you can make small, flirty changes. If you’re getting together on a day off, be sure to let your personal style shine, since you don’t have to dress for work.  If you’re going straight from work, consider letting your hair down after having it up all day. If you’re taking your lunch together, you could leave the jacket of your skirt suit at the office to show a less formal side of yourself. It’s okay to change your clothes between work and happy hour. If your clothes are dirty after a day of work, it makes sense to change before going out. If you’ve talked during the day, you can remind him of your connection by sending a short text or e-mail. Try to keep the conversation not focused on work, but instead on something you connected over.  If he mentioned a band he likes, send a text that says, "Hey! I downloaded that album you mentioned. Thanks for the awesome recommendation." Keep it brief. Even if he likes you, he may not want to be reminded of his workplace once he’s done for the day. Don’t expect long texts or e-mails. Make efforts to be friendly with the people you know he hangs out with. They don't need to know your intentions, but if they like you, they’re more likely to support a budding romance between you.  If he’s friends with some of your coworkers, this one can be easy. Remember, people tend to value their friends’ opinions, especially when it comes to relationships.

summary: Invite him to do something different. Wear something you couldn’t wear to work. Check in outside of work. Get the approval of his friends.


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Walk around to all of the ground-level windows that your home has and try to open them. If you find that one is unlocked, pop the screen out and open the window as wide as you can. Then, climb through to get inside. Climbing through a window can be dangerous. Only try this if you’re confident in your ability to climb inside safely. If you live with friends or a significant other, call or text them to see if they’re nearby. If so, ask if one of them would mind stopping by the home to let you in. While this may require that you wait a few minutes on your front porch steps, it doesn’t involve potentially damaging your property or paying expensive service fees.  Also, consider walking to a nearby coffee shop to pass the time if you live somewhere where this is possible. This is a great option if your landlord lives onsite. Give them a call to see if they’re home and ask nicely if they’d mind letting you in. Even if they don’t live onsite, they may work nearby and be kind enough to swing by and help you out. If you don’t have any roommates and your landlord isn’t available to help, it might be time to call a locksmith. Hire them to come to your home and change the locks so that you can get in. While this will effectively solve the problem, it may be pricey, so it’s a good idea to only do it if you’re out of options.

summary: Check for unlocked windows. Call your roommates. Call your landlord. Hire a locksmith as a last resort.


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People do not always leave others out on purpose. Sometimes it just happens and it is not meant to make you feel bad. For example, you might have been left out simply because there was a missed communication, such as a lost letter or unsent text message. Or, you might have been left out simply because the person was not thinking clearly and she might feel really sorry for leaving you out. Being left out can cause you to feel lots of different negative emotions. For example, you might feel sad at first and then become angry and jealous. These emotions are normal, but they will pass. Instead of denying your emotions, give yourself some time to feel them. Sharing your feelings with someone who cares about you can be helpful. Try talking to a parent, a good friend, or someone else who you feel that you can trust. Explain what happened and be honest about how it made you feel.   The person who you share with may be able to tell you about a time when he or she was left out and may even be able to give you some advice about how to deal with your situation. If being left out has been an ongoing problem or if you are experiencing distress as a result, then you may want to consider talking to mental health professional. If you are still in school, then you can talk to a school counselor. If you are no longer in school, then you can find a therapist. Journaling has a wide range of physical and emotional health benefits. It can help you to understand your feelings better, reduce stress, and improve your ability to solve problems. To use journaling to help you deal with being left out, get yourself a journal or notebook and start writing in it for a few minutes every day. Your first entry could be about being left out. You could describe what happened and how it made you feel.
summary: Consider the possibility that it was a mistake. Acknowledge your emotions. Talk to someone about how you feel. Write about your emotions.