. Though it's a bit stereotypical, a lovely woman has proper etiquette down pat. "Please" and "thank you" should be mainstays in your vocabulary. And then there's things like sneezing into your elbow and not chewing with your mouth open, but you knew that already, right? While things like using the right fork have their place, the more important things are like holding the door for the person behind you, cleaning up after yourself, and sharing. Manners make the world a little bit easier for everyone -- hopefully people will be polite right back! If you're constantly being surrounded by negativity and people that drag you down, there's no way you're going to be lovely, for starters, but you definitely won't be happy and you definitely won't be the best you. So keep this is mind -- do the people around you bring out your best, loveliest side? In other words, cut out your toxic friends. It may be awkward for a day or two, but it's totally worth it in the long run. If you sit back and think about it for five seconds and a name comes to mind, at least make strides to hang out with them less. You need to be the best person you can possibly be to truly be lovely. No one has ever uttered the sentence, "Man, that Debbie Downer sure is a lovely girl." The fact of the matter is that being lovely has a positivity about it. The lovelies of the world don't often find themselves complaining (unless something is downright unfair -- they do stand for what they believe in) -- and they don't complain because the glass is always half full. Why waste your energy on negativity? In addition to not having a negative worldview, don't be negative about others! Don't poke fun at people and draw attention their flaws or their flubs. While it may be tempting to have a good laugh at someone's expense, resist. To be lovely, you need to create lovely world. Whenever you find an opportunity to help someone, take it! You'd be hard pressed to find a good reason not to (being lazy is not a good reason!). And if you can't find one, you may not be looking hard enough! Is a friend super busy and could use a buddy to get errands done or do some easy tasks? Do you know an older person who needs a young, agile spring chicken to help around the house? And if they're not asking, initiate! Sometimes people don't like asking for help. You know who's not lovely? That friend of yours that is incurably late and doesn't seem to care when you tell her you've wasted 30 minutes of your life waiting on her. Not lovely at all. Don't show other people you don't value them -- be punctual! And show them you value them in other small ways, too! If a friend made dinner one night and you got the extras, bring over a dessert later in the week. Offer to get them coffee. Pay back the favors you get to show how grateful you are. To be lovely is to put others first...sometimes. You can't please everyone and you definitely should not be a doormat. But if someone needs or wants something from you and it wouldn't hurt you to agree, why not do it? That being said, if someone wants the shirt off your back, know where to draw the line. You have to protect yourself first and foremost -- no one else will. So if it goes against your belief system or leaves you to the dogs, don't feel obligated to do it. It's not you not being nice, it's you being smart. . Part of being lovely is being lovely to everyone, regardless of their status in life or the crazy opinions they're asserting. When you come across someone different from you, don't assign them a label. Be open-minded and try to see their point of view. If they think they're right and you don't, why might that be? Try your hardest to treat everyone the same. That means your waiter, your best friend, and the old man crossing the street. We're all humans and we all deserve attention and care. If someone does you wrong, treat them civilly. You do not, by any means, have to go out of your way to be nice to them, but do treat them as a human. Nothing more, nothing less. Just like acting isn't only when you're talking, being lovely isn't only when the spotlight is on you. It's the small moments that truly make a lovely girl lovely. The way she watches a child, the way she adjusts her towels just so, the way she goes in for a hug. It's in the tiny things just as much as it's in the big things. Being lovely is a 24/7 thing. It's not a hat you wear outside and take off when you get home. It should be part of you, not a show you put on. Find a woman who you think is lovely by nature and watch her. She's probably just like you!

Summary: Use your manners Know that you are who you are with. Don't wallow in negativity. Offer a helping hand. Value others and their time. Know when to put others first. Be gracious about differences Value the small moments.


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