Boys who are players aren’t going to be nervous, stammering types around a girl. They will seem almost too practiced, and they will flirt with you with ease because it’s a game to them, and they’ve done this before. For example:  They will always have a rehearsed pickup line or a flirty joke. You'll think he’s “prince charming” and like you can do no wrong in his eyes. They're brimming with confidence around you, talk with ease, and say everything that a girl would want to hear. However, they speak in generalities rather than including meaningful details. They do these things before they really get to know you and will go over the top to impress. Their words sound fake and artificial. A guy who is a player will seem more interested in you than anyone has before. At first. However, he will then cheat or just leave you once he gets what he wants, which is physical intimacy and/or your affirmation. For example:  He'll try to get you to feel important by showering your with flattery. He may pretend that you share interests so that you'll be amazed how much you have in common. Some flattery is sincere. Pay attention to how much, how often, and to what degree he does it. A player's flattery will be over-the-top. Be wary of “love bombing.” This is where he bombs you with endearment, praise, clings to everything you say, pampers you, and puts you on a pedestal. His flattery will focus primarily on your looks. There are certain words that a player is likely to never say to you. Although the player is very talkative, he’s not going to sacrifice being in control.  A player is unlikely to say “I love you.” There are a few players who will say this just to get what they want and not mean it, but generally speaking, a player won’t utter those words because he doesn’t want you to think this is long term.  A player won’t say that it’s up to you to decide what to do when it comes to going out. That’s because he’s not really interested in your life, hobbies, desires or activities. A player stays in control of the timing and venue. He might even require that you only meet inside his or your home so others don’t see you. If he tries to have sex with you and doesn’t have a condom, it’s less likely he’s a player. A player will always come prepared because he does this a lot. If a guy is a player, he’s probably hurt a lot of women or girls before. In order to throw you off the scent, he will project his behavior on them. He will act like he was victimized by them.  He will trash talk his exes, by calling them “psycho” or “crazy” and try to make you think that he was the victim and the breakup was all their fault. If he does this repeatedly or about more than one person, start questioning whether the person engaging in bad behavior was actually him. Pay attention to how other girls in his orbit treat you. Players tend to have lots of girls around them, especially desperate ones who seem angry at them.
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One-sentence summary -- Study his smoothness. Spot over-the-top flattery. Pay attention to what he never says. Pay attention to how he talks about past girlfriends.


Detangle your hair carefully with a wide-toothed comb after you’ve finished rinsing your hair. Don't comb your hair too often to avoid breaking or damage your strands. This can also make your hair frizzy and lose its shape more quickly than if you only comb after a shower.  Make sure the teeth of your comb are spaced widely apart so that your curls are not split into little pieces that may frizz. Comb your hair after you’ve applied conditioner while it's still wet, which helps prevent breakage. If you comb while in the shower, you shouldn’t need to comb it again once you’ve rinsed. Use your fingers to comb your hair if you don’t have a wide-toothed comb. No matter how you detangle your hair, never use a brush on permed hair. This will separate your curls and can cause your hair to be frizzy. In addition, brushing may damage delicate permed strands. daily. The best way to keep your curls bouncy and looking fresh is to scrunch them a bit with your fingers. This beauty basic can enhance your new style and create soft sultry waves. Use your hands and fingers to gently lift and scrunch up individual sections of your hair. Mist your hair with water and hold for a few seconds to better define your curls. You can also define individual curls by wrapping them around one or two fingers and holding for a few seconds. A hair dryer can sap moisture from any person’s hair. But if you have permed hair, it can damage already stressed hair and make it frizzy. Either allow your hair to air dry or put a diffuser on a blow drier to help define and protect your curls.  Set your hair dryer on the coolest setting possible. If you can, put the drier on a cool setting or hold down the “cold blast” button. A diffuser attachment disperses the airflow of the hair dryer. Install your diffuser on the end of your dryer. Either turn over your entire head for extra volume and defined curls or dry individual sections. Scrunching each section as you diffuse it will make your curls bouncy. Just like with a hair dryer, use heated tools sparingly.  Curling and flat irons can damage already stressed out tresses and may even cause your hair to break. Try using steam to your benefit. You could wrap your hair in a few rollers for curls or even just put on a shower cap. Then get in the shower and let the steam from the warm water reactivate your curls. This can add moisture and volume to your hair without causing it more damage.
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Use a wide-toothed comb. Avoid brushing. Scrunch hair Dry with gentle airflow. Use heated tools sparingly.