Because dishwashing soaps are designed to deal with the fatty, greasy food products that build up on pots, pans, and plates, they’re also a good way to deal with butter when it gets on clothing.  Dampen the stained area with lukewarm water. Apply a small amount of dishwashing soap to the stain. Rub at the stain gently with your fingers, making sure to spread the soap throughout the stained fabric. Using a sink or bathtub faucet, run warm-to-hot water over the stained area until the soap had been rinsed from the fabric. Make sure you’re not just catching the soap somewhere else in the fabric of the garment; hold the fabric taut so you can see that the suds have run off and down the drain. If you’re dealing with something as stubborn as a butter stain, treat it with a concentrated stain fighter before running it, finally, through the washing machine. You can purchase prewash stain removers in the laundry aisle at the grocery store, or you can make your own at home.  If you wish to make your own prewash stain remover, mix the following ingredients together:  1 1/2 cups of water 1/4 cup of liquid castile soap (if you cannot find this in a store, it can be easily purchased online) 1/4 cup of vegetable glycerine (again, available for purchase online) 5-10 drops of lemon essential oil   Once the ingredients have been mixed, apply the product to the stain, rubbing it into the fabric gently with your fingers. Let the fabric soak for at least an hour (see specific brand instructions if you purchased a product in-store) before putting the garment through the washing machine. The hotter the water, the higher the likelihood of the butter stain coming out, so use the hottest temperature allowable for the fabric of the stained piece of clothing. However, check the garment tag carefully to make sure that the fabric won’t be damaged by high temperatures. If so, use a lower temperature setting. If the stain hasn’t been removed yet, you don’t want to run it through the dryer; the heat will cause the stain to set more permanently in the fabric. If the stain has not yet been removed, repeat the process of applying dish soap, rinsing, pretreating the stain, and washing one more time before putting the garment through the dryer. After a second round of treatment, the stain should be removed.

Summary: Rub dishwashing soap into the stain. Rinse thoroughly. Pretreat the stain with prewash stain remover. Wash the stained garment in the washing machine. Check the stain before drying.


You can create an account to print photos with a reputable photo printing company such as Snapfish, Shutterfly or Kodak. There are certain big box stores that will have online portals to order photos online, such as Meijer. The images can then be picked up in a store near you or shipped to you.  Visit the website of the company you have chosen to print your photos. If you are not already a member, click “Join Now” or “Sign Up,” usually in the upper right or left corner of the website. If you are a member, log into your account. Once you are logged in, follow the prompts to upload your images. This option is often found at the top menu on the website and should say something like “Order Prints” or “Upload Photos.” Click on the appropriate menu item to begin uploading your images. You may also be prompted to crop your photos at this time.  Select the photographs that you would like to print, then select the size and quantity. You may have to do this one photo at a time, depending on how the service provider designs the process. Glossy photos will have a very shiny appearance whereas luster will have a much more subtle shine. Since you will not be able to physically see the difference, keep in mind that is generally best to choose a glossy finish if you want to display vivid colors but can retain fingerprints, whereas luster will not show colors as vividly but can better resist fingerprints. When you are finished uploading your images and are satisfied with the size and quantity of each one, review your order. This information should including shipping costs and will require you to enter your credit information. Make sure that everything is correct before finalizing the order. Once you are finished, all that's left to do is wait for your prints to arrive!

Summary: Sign up for an account with a photo printing company. Upload your photographs. Review your purchase.


Since your relationship is primarily sexual in nature, it’s important to have the best sex you possibly can. One easy way to do this is to be honest about what you’re enjoying and what you can live without.  If you have any sexual fantasies, share them with your partner. He may be willing to try things with you that previous partners passed on. Make sure you reciprocate. Don’t be a selfish lover – give as much as you’re getting. Just because your sex friend is not your boyfriend doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make an effort. Brush your teeth, wash your hair, and take a shower before showing up. Make the same effort you would make for any other sexual partner.  This courtesy should be extended both ways. If you feel your sex friend isn’t making an effort for you, it may be time to end the relationship. Don’t feel like you have to dress up the way you would for a first date. You’re not trying to impress your sex friend, you’re just practicing common courtesy. Some people feel hesitant to explore certain sexual urges, especially with long-term romantic partners. Your friend with benefits is the perfect person to try new things with, so be open to experimenting.  Don’t rely on old favorites - change up your sex position each time you have sex. Try having sex somewhere other than in the bedroom, on the bed. Experiment with toys and role playing. The best sex is sex free from worry – be open and honest about your sexual health and make sure your partner does the same. Have your partner wear a condom to protect against possible STDs.  Continue to use the condom, even if both of you have recently been tested. Your relationship is not exclusive, so it’s important that you protect yourself as much as possible. Do not do anything you and your partner aren’t comfortable with or haven’t talked about. Make sure everything is consensual and everyone feels safe.

Summary: Be honest about what you want. Practice good hygiene. Be sexually adventurous. Practice safe sex.


Lay two pieces of newspaper on top of each other, then fold them in half. Tear the paper with both hands until the paper is in tiny pieces, and repeat this exercise until you have ripped up all of the newspaper. Grip a resistance band with one hand, your fingers and your palm facing up. The other end of the resistance band will go underneath your feet. You should be standing with your elbow at your side and bent to 90 degrees. Use the other hand to grip right below your wrist as you curl your wrist and fingers up against the resistance band.  Perform 3 sets of 10 repetitions. Do this for both hands. This exercise will strengthen your wrists as well.
Summary: Tear apart a newspaper. Use a resistance band to strengthen hands.