There are many different styles of pick up artistry and different teachers or “gurus” teach or advocate for different methods. Research the different styles of seduction and focus on the one that feels most organic to who you are as a person.  Some of the different gurus include David DeAngelo, Mystery, Ross Jeffries and JT Tran. David DeAngelo believes seduction is a numbers game and that you'll only improve by meeting and talking to lots of different women. Mystery is the most famous pick up artist working and has "trained" many of the other pick up artists working today. He advocates dressing ostentatiously and engaging women in conversation immediately upon entering the room. Ross Jeffries prefers to talk to women during the day, specifically in quiet places like coffee shops. JT Tran believes in teaching men self-confidence and communication skills in order to improve their experiences with women. There are many forums on the Internet devoted to analyzing different methods of study. Do research before pursuing a specific method. Some gurus also offer boot camps for aspiring pick up artists. These camps are expensive, usually costing upwards of $3,000 and don't offer much beyond what you can  for free online. A wingman is a huge asset for a pickup artist; they’re there to set you up, to make you look good and to help you get comfortable as you’re meeting and talking to new women. Choose a friend you can trust and who likes to have a good time, but not such a good time that they can’t focus on the task at hand.  Try to find a wingman with a serious girlfriend. That way, you won’t be competing for the same women. Don’t choose a wingman who is more attractive, fashionable or charming than you. Find someone who is your equal. Learning to talk to women is a skill like anything else, and the only way to get better is through study and repetition. Set time aside each week to go out and pick up women. Bring your wingman with you, or attempt to do it alone, but either way, get out there and practice.  Set clear, accomplishable goals. Decide to talk to five women a week, or aspire to get one phone number every day. The more time you devote to your training, the more your anxiety will dissipate when talking to women. It’s impossible to pick up women from the comfort of your own home, so a key step in becoming a pick up artist is leaving your house. Try to go out and meet new people several times a week; the more places you go, the more opportunities you’ll have to meet women.  Try going to bars and clubs on weekends; they’re usually crowded, so you’ll have lots of opportunities to meet and speak with different women. Take out your headphones while you’re walking. You can’t have a conversation with someone if you’re not even aware they’re right next to you.

Summary: Choose a method of study. Find a good wingman. Practice talking to women often. Get yourself out there.


Comb your hair into a nice high ponytail. Secure it with an elastic hairband. Gather about a quarter of the hair below the ponytail. If you're having trouble separating the hair, you may need to take out the elastic hairband. Tie the main/big part of the ponytail with the elastic band. At this point, you should have a segment of hair loosely hanging below the ponytail. Take the loose segment of hair and wrap it around the elastic band. Depending on how long your hair is, you may need to wrap it around the hairband several times. Use bobby pins and pin them to the ends of the hair you wrapped. This will secure it and help hold the ponytail in place. Look to make sure there are no fly aways or bits of hair sticking out from your ponytail. Make sure the hairband is completely covered by your hair.

Summary: Make a high ponytail. Separate a small part of your hair from the ponytail. Secure the ponytail. Cover the hairband with your hair. Secure the covered ponytail. Check your ponytail.


Treat your new business like a real job and set working hours for yourself. Depending on where you are in your business, everyone will have a different daily to-do list. In general, reach out to new prospective customers and existing customers, post on social media, and build your contact list every day. Getting started in network marketing is the hardest part. Keep your goals in mind while you work. Have information about your product and program on hand and be able to answer questions. Be able to tell prospective customers what is different about your product and what makes it worth the investment. Always tell your customers how much you appreciate their business. Keep existing customers in the loop by providing information about new products at least once a month. Return all calls and emails within 24 hours. Create a calendar for posting consistently on social media. Set a time every week to review your business plan, look at what is working and what isn't, and evaluate what needs to change. Consistency and professionalism are 2 keys to being successful in business. You don't need to spend a lot of money to advertise effectively. Use word-of-mouth and depend on your customers to tell their friends and family about your product. Have a website and active social media pages for your business. You can promote your business and direct new customers to your website through Facebook groups and MLM forums. Always have business cards on hand to give out or leave around town.  You can leave business cards or a small promotional poster in local coffee shops, libraries, and apartment lobbies. Be sure to ask for permission before posting anything. If you have the budget, try promoting your business through paid social media ads. Social media can be a powerful tool for selling and recruiting. Join local, national, and global groups to network with people around the world and find potential customers and recruits. Use your own pages to advertise your business. Create a mailing list for interested customers. You can use a mailing list to keep your customers up to date on new products and promotions. Many network marketing companies rely on parties to make sales and recruit new distributors. Come up with fun themes and throw parties that you would want to attend. Offer prizes, play games, and make food and drinks. Having fun with your business is an easy way to stay enthusiastic about what you are doing. If you start bringing in enough money to make ends meet and then some, look at what parts of your business could be improved. For example, you might be able to invest in some new products, increase your advertising budget, or attend an event. Always make sure your needs are met first before you spend more money on your business. You can attract new recruits and motivate existing distributors in your group by offering prizes like money, recognition, products, and even travel. Be clear about what achievements your members need to reach to be eligible for these prizes. Only offer what you can afford to give. There don't have to be big prizes when you're first getting started. For example, you can offer $20 worth of product to your top seller.
Summary: Work every day. Provide excellent customer service. Stay consistent with your business activities. Advertise your new business broadly. Harness the power of social media to attract new customers. Have fun with your business. Invest some of your profits back into your business. Recruit new members to your group by offering incentives.