In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Cool your heels for a bit first. Feelings aren’t facts, and sometimes they come and go. Before you take an irreversible step, be sure that your feelings for your best friend are actually of a romantic nature.  First, consider whether or not you strongly care for or love your friend simply because she’s a great person or is always there for you. Next, determine if your feelings are arising out of loneliness because you’re not seeing anyone, jealousy because she’s in a relationship, or fear because you  think the dynamic of your friendship is changing. Before you tell your friend how you feel, think about whether or not she will or can be receptive to your romantic feelings. Is she currently in a happy relationship in which she’ll feel blindsided by your news?   If she's in a relationship, you might try to figure out if she's happy in that relationship. If so, back off and wait until she's single again. Even if she's in an unhappy relationship, giving her some time could ensure that the two of you have a healthy start rather than you being a rebound. Reflect on your interactions with your best friend. Has she ever sent any signals that she might be interested in you, too? For instance, maybe she once said she'd date you if you weren't friends. If you’re a female, too, has she shown any indication that she’s interested in same-gender relationships? Seek out additional opinions from people who care about you. Tell people who know the two of you how you’re feeling and see if they think she feels the same way or if it's worth jeopardizing your friendship. Only get input from solid, trustworthy people and be sure you think can look at the situation objectively. Exploring a romantic relationship with a friend can be the absolute best thing ever, or the worst thing. If she’s into you as well, this may open up a brand new door that makes your existing relationship even more satisfying. If she’s not into you, this could change the dynamic of your friendship moving forward. But, if you really like her, these possible consequences shouldn't change anything. If it doesn't work out, you might need time apart for awhile, but at least you will have taken a bold step towards something you wanted!
Summary: Wait it out to see if your feelings are real. Consider her availability. Question if she might be interested. Get advice from a third party. Know the possible consequences.

This process can take a while due to the size of the roast, so get started ahead of time. Leave the roast in its original packaging while it thaws. You will have an easier time rubbing in the spices and cooking the meat after it is unfrozen.  If you’re in a hurry, you can try defrosting it in the microwave. Heat it at a low temperature until it is no longer frozen. Another way to speed up defrosting is to submerge the meat under cold water. Do this only if your roast is in a watertight container. Change the water out as it warms. The wait time brings the roast up to room temperature, causing it to cook more evenly. It won’t be out long enough to make bacteria an issue. You can vary the resting time between 30 minutes and 2 hours, depending on how much time you have available. If you need to get the roast in the oven right away, that is fine. It will still cook well and taste good. If you have a basting brush, use it to easily coat the outer surface of your roast. A brush is helpful if your mixture is too liquid. You can also pour the paste onto the roast and try to spread it using a knife or other tool. Dry rubs and pastes can usually be worked into the meat by hand. If you’re not shy about getting your hands dirty, you don’t need to reach for a brush.
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One-sentence summary -- Defrost the roast for up to 2 days in the refrigerator. Remove the roast from the refrigerator an hour ahead of time. Rub the entire surface of the top round roast with the paste.

Problem: Article: If you’re completely stumped about what to get the bar or bat mitzvah, consider asking their parents. That way, you can still surprise the guest of honor while ensuring that you’re giving them something they would truly like. Consider asking for gift ideas when you send or call in your RSVP. This can also be helpful to make sure that the child doesn’t get dozens of the exact same thing. Whether they’re into athletics, drama, stamp collecting, or animals, get them something that shows you’ve taken note of their passions. If they’re an avid sports fan, maybe you could get them a jersey from their favorite team. If they’re a fashionista, consider getting them a gift card to their favorite boutique. Remember, this is a religious celebration but it is still their birthday. Get them anything you think they’d enjoy! This is the first day of their adult life, and you can use your gift as a way to impart some adult wisdom. Consider giving them something that has been significant in your own life. Do you have a favorite book that had a big impact on you? Give them a copy, with a letter explaining why you chose it and what it meant to you. Maybe you have a favorite Jewish recipe, and you could provide them with the recipe and cookware. By giving the child a meaningful gift, you are also showing them that they are growing up, and you recognize that!
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Ask the child’s parents about their interests. Buy something related to a hobby or interest of the child. Give the bar or bat mitzvah something with a story or lesson behind it.