Problem: Article: Your partner may develop sudden new interests or friends if he or she is cheating.  He or she may begin working longer hours.  If you ask your partner where he or she is going, your partner may give you a vague answer such as "Out." or "Meeting up with some people."  When you try to contact your partner when he or she is out, your partner may send your call to voicemail or not return your text messages.  Your partner may frequently say, "I didn't hear the phone." or "Sorry, my battery died." Note whether this is a consistent pattern, or whether it lasts only a short time. Your partner may well have a project at work taking up more of his or her time. However, s/he should feel comfortable telling you that this is what's happening. If not, this could be a sign that your partner is cheating. Your partner may begin to leave the room to talk on the phone or never leave the phone behind when he or she leaves the room.  If your partner is on the computer, he or she may shut down the computer when you walk by or enter the room.  Your partner may be becoming secretive because he or she feels the need to hide things from you.  Make sure the secretiveness is something new.  If your partner has always been private, it may be more difficult for you to notice anything. If you ask your partner who was on the phone or what he or she was doing on the computer, your partner may respond by saying, "No one," or "It's work related." or "Wrong number." or "Why are you asking?" A person may feel guilty or more irritable when he or she is having an affair.  Keeping a secret can take a toll on a person. To deal with his or her feelings, a cheating partner may start fights with you, criticize you, or even accuse you of cheating.  A cheating partner will try to make you feel bad about yourself or that you have done something wrong.  During arguments, your partner may try to make it seem like you are the problem in the relationship instead of him or her.  Remember that your partner is acting this way because of the lie that he or she is living. You should not feel guilty about anything. Your partner may become less affectionate when he or she is having an affair and pull away from you if you try to show affection.  Your partner may not initiate sex or feel distant even when you do make love.  Your partner may no longer greet you with a hug or a kiss or may not be interested in holding hands.  An increase in your partner's sex drive or an interest in trying different sexual things may also be a clue. If you tell your partner that you have noticed a difference, he or she will probably deny it or suggest that you are being sensitive or unreasonable. Has your partner started going to the gym more or changing his or her diet?  Has your partner gone shopping for new a wardrobe or began wearing different cologne or perfume? Your partner may also buy new clothes but never wear them around you.  He or she is probably trying to look good for someone else. Notice if your partner smells differently when he or she comes home as well. Check the phone when your partner is sleeping or in the shower. You do not want to get caught snooping. Look through the call log and text messages for names or number that you are not familiar with.  If your partner is smart, he or she may delete text messages and clear his or her call log.  You can also check email, Facebook, or Twitter.  See if there has been any contact with new people. If you have access to his or her computer, check the web browsing history as well. Check his or her phone for dating apps (e.g., Tinder, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, etc.) as well. These could be used to meet other people. If your partner deletes his or her call log, you can get call records from the phone carrier. Going through your partner's phone is an invasion of privacy.  If your partner is not cheating, he or she may feel betrayed by your lack of trust. A cheating partner often stops putting effort into the relationship.  He or she may no longer take interest in your life or feelings. Your partner stops offering you emotional support. For example, you may tell your partner about an issue that you are having at work or at school, and he or she may tell you it's not a big deal.  Your partner may not be interested in discussing the future of the relationship or making future plans. If your intuition is telling you that something is off in your relationship, listen.  Science has shown that people can tell if their partner is cheating. You should not rely on your gut alone. However, if you have a feeling, begin paying attention to any other signs that your partner may be cheating.
Summary: Notice if your partner spends less time with you. Notice if your partner has become more secretive. Notice if you and your partner are arguing more. Recognize changes in your physical relationship. Notice if your partner puts more effort into his or her physical appearance. Check his or her phone. Recognize a lack of interest in the relationship. Trust your gut.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: When you leave the house for a long period, give your cat a treat.  If your cat busies itself with nibbling its treat instead of darting out the door, your problem is solved.  You could also give your cat a puzzle feeder on your way out in order to distract it from the fact that you’re leaving.  A puzzle feeder is a small device -- often a rubber ball or oblong shape -- with a small hole and hollow middle into which bits of kibble or cat treats are placed.  The puzzle feeder gives the cat stimulation -- potentially for hours -- as well as a yummy snack.  The puzzle feeder will keep it from running outside. There are many forms of entertainment available for cats, though not all will actually capture your particular kitty’s attention.  Experiment with a variety of entertainment options and see which keep your pet engaged.  For instance, bring a few plants inside.  These will provide interesting smells for your cat.  Avoid plants like amaryllis, chrysanthemums, irises, lilies, and tulips, which can be toxic to cats.  Hide some treats throughout the house.  You can hide them in puzzle feeders or just easily accessible in unusual locations. Offer your cat a variety of toys like rolling balls, scratching posts, and a few wadded-up balls of paper.  Your cat might also enjoy watching TV.  If you have Animal Planet, NatGeo, or other nature programming, these are best.  DVDs made specifically to entertain cats are also available, featuring footage of other animals. Create a kitty enclosure or walk your cat regularly.  Your cat runs outside because he or she wants to get out and explore.  They want fresh air, sunshine, and new, exciting smells!  Fortunately, you can reduce your cat’s desperate jailbreak attempts by letting your cat experience a bit of the great outdoors.  If you have a screened porch, give your cat access to it.  Ensure there are plenty of perches in it so that your kitty can see outside. If you don’t have a screened porch, you can easily obtain some plastic or wire fencing and make a small enclosure which allows your cat to spend time outside without running out the front door.  Provide access to the enclosure via a back door or open window.  If your enclosure’s walls are at least seven feet high, you do not need to include a roof. Walking your cat is another way to give him or her time to explore the great outdoors.  Attach the leash to your cat’s collar or harness and let them drag it around for a bit, getting used to the feeling of it.  Give your cat a snack or some wet food while you’re adjusting the harness in order to distract them from the process.  Then, head outside and enjoy some bonding time with your kitty.  Walking your cat gives it the opportunity to get the outdoor experience, and allows it to exercise its brain in new, healthy ways.
Summary:
Distract your cat from the door. Provide entertainment. Let your cat explore the great outdoors.