Write an article based on this "Hang out where he hangs out. Introduce yourself. Ask him questions. Be an active listener. Let your positivity shine."
Skater guys tend to spend most of their free time at the skatepark of their choice with their friends. Give yourself the opportunity to “bump into him” by hovering around his favorite hang out spot. First impressions matter; it can take only three seconds for your crush to make up his mind about you the first time he meets you. There are two main ways you can introduce yourself, depending on how quickly you want to make your intentions known:  You can be extremely casual if you don't want him to know you like him just yet: “Hey, what's going on, mind if I hang out with you?” You can be completely blunt and honest. This lets you know right away if he's interested in you, and you can put a comedic twist on it as well: “Hey, I like you. Want to hang out?” People love to talk about themselves and their passions. Asking questions shows that you have more than just a passing interest in what he has to say. Some questions you might want to ask him include:  ”How long have you been skateboarding?” This shows your interest in what he does and learning more about him. ”How often do you hang out here?” Not only will this tell you how passionate he is about skateboarding, but gives you a chance to know when you can next bump into him. ”What do you do when you're not skateboarding?” This gives you a chance to find out about common interests the two of you might share. Even if you're not interested in skateboarding, you should still pay very close attention to what your crush is saying. Active listening means you're paying attention to what he's saying, asking important questions that show you're listening, and absorbing the information he's giving you. It might sound strange to do this at first, but people definitely appreciate someone who isn't on their phone while they're trying to have a conversation. Not only will being positive and supportive bring him up and let him enjoy spending time with you, but it actually makes you more attractive to him. Try to see things in a positive light and avoid nagging about your insecurities. There's nothing wrong with having insecurities, but don't let them affect your actions.