Sometimes, your cat will get something in its eye that will cause irritation. It could be a splinter, for instance. It could also be something like sand, glass, metal, or really any small object that attaches to the cat's eye.  You'll see watering, of course, as well as redness and swelling. The cat may try to scratch at its eye, and the eye might twitch a bit. It’s best to see a board certified veterinary ophthalmologist if there’s something wrong with your cat's eye. Cats are sometimes able to get scratches or ulcers in their eyes. They can accidentally catch their eyes with one of their own claws, or an eye could be scratched by another cat (either in play or in a fight). They can also catch their eye on other objects. Even not enough tears can cause a cat to get an ulcer in its eye, as the eyelid rubs against the eye without lubrication. The veterinarian will obviously need to remove any object in your cat's eye. A simple flush may do it, but they may also need to use tweezers. In some cases, the eye may need to be sewn up. The vet will also likely prescribe antibiotics, either in eye drop form or a pill. In some cases, the eyelid may need to be sewn closed for a period to heal. Sometimes, the eyelids or hairs around the eyes are what cause the eye to tear up. In those cases, it may be appropriate for the cat to undergo surgery performed by a board certified veterinary ophthalmologist in order to correct the issue, though it cannot always be corrected. Sometimes, a cat will just have watery eyes that cannot be changed. If your cat is this way, you should wash around the cat's eyes each day with a warm, wet cloth. Make sure to dry off the area, as well.

Summary: Check for signs of an object in the eye. Watch for signs of a scratch. Treat scratches and objects. Decide if surgery is an option. Care for chronic watery eyes.


Give yourself enough room to hang each your knives so you can easily grab them. There should be enough space for you to select a knife without knocking over any others.  Popular areas to hang knives are over the sink, above the stove, or on the backsplash behind your counter. Keep the knife strip out of reach of children. Find a magnetic strip large enough to hold all of your knives or buy 2 shorter strips to split your knives into separate rows. Knife strips can be purchased at specialty kitchen stores or online. Make an initial mark on your wall where you want one end of the knife strip. Use the level to make sure you have the magnetic strip straight. Use a pen or pencil to draw the line where you want the strip to hang. Add flair to your kitchen by hanging the strip diagonally or vertically if your space allows you to. Apply adhesives, such as Command strips,  to both ends of the magnetic strip. If you have a longer magnet or you plan on supporting a large number of knives, apply at least 1 more mounting strip in the middle.  Some mounting strips come with Velcro attachments for a firm fit that you can also easily remove. If you want to secure the strip further, attach it to the wall with screws and a drill. Press the adhesives on the wall and hold it firmly for 30 seconds. Wait 1 hour before hanging any knives so it adheres to the wall fully. Organize your knives so they are not awkward to grab. Keep them in size order so you can easily find the correct place to return the knives after they’ve been cleaned. When removing the knife, pull the handle straight so the tip of the blade doesn’t stab into the wall.

Summary: Find an area in your kitchen to hang the strip. Purchase a magnetic knife strip. Use a level to mark the wall where you’ll hang the strip. Attach mounting strips to the back of the magnet. Adhere the magnetic strip to the wall. Hang your knives with the blades pointing up.


If you've fallen for a player it's likely that he's already talked to you and made you feel special. That's what players do, and chances are you are not the only girl he's talking to. A player will try to impress you with his outward appearance, his ego, and his money. Take some time to try and get to know him on a more personal level. Whether you are at a coffee shop or a bar, try sending a drink to his table. Make sure he knows you sent the drink over. The idea is to get him to approach you.  When he walks over to thank you for the drink, use the opportunity to strike up a conversation.  Don't let him make the conversation about sex. Try to talk to him about his friends, or what he likes to do. Pay attention to what he says, and be wary if he starts to lead the conversation in the wrong direction. Rather than asking questions, speak in sentences. Tell him what you should do. Don't ask him if he wants to join you, tell him what you should do together. If you know he is free on a certain night of the week, make a suggestion that the two of you go out. Try telling him something like, "We should go get a bite to eat, or maybe grab a drink." Keep it casual, and take the pressure off the situation. Buy two tickets to a concert or a movie, and mention it when you talk to him. Say something like, "I was supposed to go see this band on Saturday with my friend, but she can't go anymore. You interested?" Be careful taking a player into crowded spaces, especially bars. Just because he came with you doesn't mean he won't be talking to other women. If you're just not up to the task of asking him out, drop a few hints to let him know you'd like to spend more time together. Mention a movie you've been wanting to see, or a club you've been wanting to go to. Don't be too obvious about it. Let him think it was his idea all along.

Summary: Be on guard. Send him a drink. Be direct. Lure him in using an extra ticket. Make him ask you out.


You will need to work with your doctor and therapist to determine the underlying mental illness that led to your mental breakdown. This will help you determine what the best mode of treatment is, including the right therapy, medication, and other treatment options. You will need an official diagnosis from your doctor or therapist. You will need to describe your symptoms and behaviors that led to your mental breakdown to determine your underlying disorder. There are many forms of psychotherapy that can be used to help after a mental breakdown. The one you use will depend on a mixture of your personal preference and the underlying mental disorder that led to your breakdown. Talk with your doctor about which treatment is best for you. These forms of therapy include:  Talk therapy, where you and your therapist work through your issues by talking Cognitive behavior therapy, a form of psychotherapy which focuses on changing your thoughts in order to change your behaviors Interpersonal therapy, which focuses on your relationships with others After your breakdown, you should look into a mental health support group. This will help you connect to others that are going through similar things and provide you with the support you need to recover. Talking to others about your problems can help you gain perspective and get helpful advice about how to cope. Ask your doctor for a referral to a local support group. You can also look into national foundations, such as the National Alliance of Mental Illness (NAMI) for local chapters with support groups. Depending on the underlying cause of your mental breakdown, you may need to start taking medication. This will help relieve the symptoms of the mental illness that contributed to your mental breakdown and can help you level out your moods.  Your doctor and psychologist will let you know which medications you will need. These can include antidepressants, anti-anxiety medications, or other similar medications.  If you are uncomfortable with any medication prescribed to you, ask you doctor if it is necessary. If your doctor won't listen to your reservations about it, get a different opinion.
Summary: Determine the underlying cause. Go to therapy. Join a support group. Consider medication.