Q: Your interest may be unrequited, but if he does flirt with you, put an end to it. You can simply stop flirting back, or you can tell him you no longer feel comfortable with this behavior. It’s okay if it feels difficult to stop the flirtation. Just realize that the flirtation will only end up hurting you, him, and his girlfriend in the end.  Don’t become the other woman or mistress. You may get to be with him, but it is unfair to everyone involved. Even if he offers to leave his girlfriend for you, consider if this step would be worth it. Think about it this way: if he is willing to leave his girlfriend for you, what would he do to you when he finds "the newest thing"? At some point, you may find yourself wondering why he is with his girlfriend and not you. This is not a healthy way of thinking. Don’t look at her pictures and compare yourself to her. You are a unique and wonderful person on your own. It could be that you and the guy are just not meant to be. If his girlfriend is your friend, try to maintain the friendship without taking your feelings out on her. It will probably take some time to get over him. Don’t feel like you have to feel happy again very fast or move on immediately. Let yourself cry, feel sad, or even wallow in bed for a day if you need to. Letting yourself feel sad is the only way you can truly feel better later on. If the problem persists for too long, reach out to a professional for help. Don't put yourself in a situation where you have to be around him in the early stages. It would too tempting to flirt with him or rekindle your infatuation. If you share a class or work together, make an effort to limit your time around him to as little as possible. This helps you to move forward with your life. After some time apart, consider if you want him in your life. It may not be a good idea to keep him in your life if you had an affair with him. If he was a friend, then it would be okay to try to maintain the friendship. Slowly begin to spend some time with him again to see if you would feel comfortable with a platonic relationship. It’s okay to decide that you can’t have him in your life if the friendship doesn’t work out. Remove him from your social media and phone. You can be friendly if you have to spend time together, but don’t make contact with him if you don’t think it’s healthy for you. Explain to him your choice if he asks.
A: Stop the flirtation. Don’t compare yourself to his girlfriend. Allow yourself to feel sad. Spend time away from him. Accept him as your friend. Cut off contact.

Q: If you are going to wear a leather skirt to the office, make sure it is suitable for the workplace. Select a leather skirt with a long hemline, such as a knee or midi skirt. The skirt should be cut in a more conservative silhouette —avoid leather skirts that are too tight or have an inappropriately high slit. Choose a simple, elegant top that complements the luxuriousness of the leather skirt. For a timeless look, tuck a crisp white button-up into the waistband of your leather skirt. If you’re frequently cold, wear a cardigan, jumper, or fitted blazer over the blouse.  In the fall and winter, pair your leather skirt with a delicate cashmere sweater or a chunky, oversized knit. In the spring and summer, wear a lightweight blouse or high-neck tank. When you are at the office, keep your accessories simple and minimal. Slip on a pair of basic pumps, cute booties, or high boots. Wear a statement necklace or a few dainty pieces of jewelry. If you are planning to go out after work, put less conservative shoes and jewelry in your bag.
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Choose an appropriate skirt. Pair it with a classic or conservative top. Accessorize simply.