Write an article based on this "Buy lots of basic, black pieces of clothing. Stock up on distressed clothing. Play around with graphic prints. If you wish to identify with a scene known as "Nu Goth", look for plaid items. Buy collared shirts in black or other dark colors. Wear corsets Buy black leather clothing in any fit you like."
article: This color has long been considered a staple of gothic fashion. Work it into your new wardrobe as the main color of your outfit. Invest in plenty of plain socks, pants, tops, and skirts during your first shopping trip. You can’t start building outfits you like if you don’t own the essential pieces of clothing.  T-shirts are a great piece of clothing to start building your wardrobe with. They are easy to find, inexpensive, and come in many styles. For a more feminine style, buy an over-sized T-shirt and pair it with high socks or fishnet stockings, boots, and jewelry. It’s perfectly acceptable to not want to wear all black all the time. Add a bit of variety to your outfits by mixing in other colors, such as red, grey, white, violet, blue, or pink. Distressed, or ripped, tops and bottoms are one of the most commonly worn styles across almost every gothic subculture. Look for denim jeans or shorts with tears on the legs, or tops with tearing along the body or frayed edges. Consider wearing distressed denim jeans with a black T-shirt, combat boots, and studded bracelets. Occult patterns are a staple for gothic fashion. Keep an eye out for any patterned/graphic clothing featuring pentagrams, moons, stars, skulls, or crosses. You can wear a moon phase-printed casual dress with long black socks and black creepers. Accessorize with moon- and star-shaped jewelry and black lipstick. Plaid is one of the most popular types of patterns in this emergent subset of the goth scene, and can be found as outerwear, tops, bottoms, and much more.  Red, blue, purple, green, gray, and black plaid are all great to incorporate into your wardrobe. Pair a black top with a plaid skirt or pants. Alternatively, you can layer plaid flannel over your favorite top or dress with high socks and boots. Collared shirts are a great unisex option, and can be found in a wide array of styles. You can find them in solids, patterns, or even in color-blocked designs—though you should be careful with colorblocking. Stick to dark colors or shades of black with subtle accents in neutrals or white. Wear a collared shirt with dark denim or a black skirt of any length. for a dressy touch. Corsets are a staple of the feminine side of gothic fashion. They are also flexible enough to be worn in either a formal or casual outfit, and can be found in a wide range of sizes and styles. Wear a corset over a simple dress, or with a top and skirt or jeans. Corsets will also look great layered over a formal dress or a lacy blouse and ruffled skirt. Leather is another popular choice of materials in the gothic scene, and is quite versatile. It can be worn in the form of jackets, pants, shorts, or skirts. You can even find it in distressed and non-distressed styles.  Pair a leather jacket with a T-shirt and jeans, or over a dress. Complete the ensemble with combat boots. You could also wear leather pants with a cotton T-shirt and creepers.

Write an article based on this "Be okay with "losing. Recognize and  deal with guilt correctly. Visit a  counselor."
article: " A common problem for people who have recurring arguments is that one or both people are mainly concerned with winning the argument. Focusing on winning means that you're more likely to hit below the belt or break the typical rules of communication to get your point across. Shift your perspective and be fine with losing the argument.  If you "lose" the argument, it means that you haven't jeopardized your ethics for the sake of winning. "Losing" puts you in a position to learn or grow from the situation. "Losing" also means taking the high road. Even if your partner fights dirty, you shouldn't. Many times when you get into an argument with someone, it escalates because you start to feel guilty. This guilt pops up because you believe you did something wrong or you think you didn't measure up in some way. Once you feel guilty, you try to relieve your guilt by making it about the other person: how they are flawed or what they have done wrong.  When an argument occurs, immediately pay attention to how you feel and cope with that feeling in a way that doesn't involve hurting your partner in turn. For example, you might softly caress your own shoulder as a way to show compassion for yourself or silently remind yourself "I am only human." Changing the way you react to those feelings of guilt will lower the chances of you lashing out and turning a small disagreement into a major fallout. If you and another person regularly get into arguments, you may need a professional to help you build healthier conflict resolution skills. Have the courage to admit you need help and ask your loved one to go to counseling with you. You might say, "Sweetheart, I feel like we argue about the same things over and over. I really want us to have more positive interactions. What do you think about going to counseling?"

Write an article based on this "Use a washcloth or paper towel. Find a twig. Make do with your finger."
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A rough washcloth will do a better job of cleaning, but a paper towel will do if a washcloth is not available.  Wrap the washcloth or paper towel around your index finger, dampen it, and add toothpaste if you have some. Brush your teeth as if using a toothbrush: begin at the gums and work down, cleaning each individual tooth with a circular motion.  Don’t forget to brush your tongue. Rinse your mouth thoroughly when done, swishing back and forth. Before there were toothbrushes, most people brushed their teeth with twigs. In many parts of the world, they still do, using twigs from oak, arak, or neem trees. Research shows that twigs from the arak tree contain natural fluoride and antimicrobial agents, and brushing with them is as or more effective as brushing with a toothbrush and toothpaste.  Pick a young, flexible branch about 6 to 8 inches long (15 to 20 cm). You want one without real bark, only a thin skin.  Peel the skin off and chew on one end of the stick until the fibers separate, turning the end into a little brush. Use it to brush your teeth.  You can also use a toothpick to clean between teeth, but use caution so as not to hurt your gums and make them bleed. If no paper towels, washcloths, or twigs are at hand, you can always use your finger. Be sure to wash your hands very well first, then use your index finger as you would a toothbrush: begin at the gums and work down for the upper arch and work up for the lower arch, cleaning each individual tooth with a circular motion.  Be sure to rinse your finger before moving from your top to bottom teeth, and from the front to the back of your teeth.  Rinse your mouth thoroughly when done, swishing back and forth and from one cheek to another for at least 30 seconds.