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No matter where you’re staying, make sure everything is neat and tidy before leaving for the wedding ceremony. If you’re staying at a hotel or resort, check to make sure they’ve set up any special amenities you ordered. If you’re staying at home, make sure you:  Finish any daily chores. Tidy up the house and remove clutter. Dust and polish the furniture. Vacuum, steam-clean, or mop the floors. Wash your fabrics and clothes. Even for something as big as you wedding night, some simple flowers can make a major difference. Try filling the room with your spouse’s favorite flowers, or lay rose petals on and around the bed. Though fake flowers can work, real flowers will provide an extra special touch. Scents are a powerful but subtle way to change someone’s mood. To add just a scent, try burning a stick of incense or placing drops of essential oil on your sheets. To enhance the visual atmosphere as well, trying burning scented candles or filling bowls with scented potpourri. If you don’t have a favorite scent, try an arousing one like ylang-ylang, lavender, jasmine, or sandalwood. Music is a great mood enhancer, and that’s certainly true for your wedding night. Pick some romantic albums you both enjoy and let them play in the background throughout the night. For a more personalized sound, create a playlist of songs that bring back memories of your time together, such as the song you had your first dance to. Mood music doesn’t have to be traditionally romantic. If you both swoon at the sound of heavy metal, put on Metallica instead of Michael Bublé.
Make sure the room is clean. Fill the room with flowers. Add fragrance to the room. Play some mood music you both enjoy.