Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Get the facts. Learn to recognize the signs. Expect it to hang around for a lifetime.

Answer: As mentioned, there are two types of herpes simplex virus, known as HSV-1 and HSV-2.  Generally speaking, HSV-1 is the cause of oral herpes (roughly 80% of the time), and HSV-2 causes genital herpes (also about 80%).  HSV-1 and HSV-2 are both spread by the transmission of infected fluids through skin-to-skin contact. You can get herpes when blisters are present and when sores are not present.  Genital herpes is considered a sexually transmitted disease (STD) because fluid exchange during vaginal, anal, or oral sex is the primary mode of transmission.  Oral herpes most commonly spreads through kissing, or sharing utensils or drinkware. It is estimated that one-in-six Americans age 14-49 have genital herpes. The most common sign of a genital herpes infection is a cluster of reddish sores in or near the genital area.  These sores or lesions eventually blister, break (sometimes resulting in oozing), and scab over before disappearing.  Oral herpes lesions, which typically form around or in the mouth, are often called “cold sores.”  These are not the same as canker sores, which only form inside the mouth and are not caused by HSV.  After the initial outbreak, which usually occurs within several days of infection, the symptoms will disappear and recur, often with decreasing frequency and intensity.  Flu-like symptoms can also accompany the lesions, especially during the initial outbreak. There is no current cure for herpes, and the virus often remains within an infected body for life.  It can remain dormant for months or years and then recur without warning.  Outbreaks may be triggered by stress, fever, sunlight, or trauma, among other causes.   Some people with herpes never display any symptoms, while many experience only mild, infrequent symptoms. Herpes should not be brushed aside as insignificant, however.  Pregnant women with genital herpes, for example, run a greater risk of miscarriage and can spread neonatal herpes, which can occasionally prove deadly, to their unborn children. Pregnant women who have herpes may need to take an antiviral medication during pregnancy to prevent transmission. If you have a herpes outbreak during labor, then a cesarean section would be performed to prevent transmission to the baby.  Additionally, herpes skin lesions break and bleed more easily than healthy skin, making the spread of HIV during sexual activity more likely.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Dress professionally. Sleep and eat well beforehand. Prepare what you need. Arrive early. Make eye contact, shake hands, speak clearly, and be positive. Refer to your application documents, portfolio, website, etc. Take notes during the interview.

Answer: Unless explicitly told otherwise, you should dress for the interview in “business wear”: conservatively and professionally, in a suit or equivalent clothing. Dressing too informally for an interview will be taken as a sign of unprofessionalism or a lack of interest in the position.  Pay attention to your grooming. Make sure your nails are trimmed, your clothes are clean and pressed, your breath smells good, and your hair is neat. You want to make a good impression at the interview. If the interview does not take place in-person, but rather via a video-conference, you should still dress appropriately. Even if the interview takes place over the phone, dressing as though the interview were in person will put you in the right frame of mind. It is essential to get rest before your interview, so that you will be alert, energetic, and confident. You should also make sure to eat beforehand, so that you are not hungry or weak during the interview. You may not want to eat a large meal, but a protein-rich snack at least will give you some energy. If your interview takes place in person, remember to bring a portfolio with samples, copies of your resume, as well as your notes and any other materials (such as a pad and pen to take notes) for the interview. If the interview takes place over the phone or a videoconference, be sure to charge your device(s) beforehand. Showing up late for an interview will not be perceived well by your interviewers. Try arriving for your interview about 10 minutes early. This will give you some breathing time to mentally prepare for the interview. If the company has a receptionist or assistant, you can let him or her know that you are there for an interview while you wait. If your interview takes place over the phone or a videoconference, have everything set up in a quiet, private, professional location at least 10 minutes before the interview is supposed to start. These are simple tips to help you do your best during the interview. Making eye contact and shaking hands firmly helps show your confidence. Speaking clearly makes you easy to understand, and also conveys confidence. Being positive suggests to your interviewers that you will be a good fit, so avoid talking badly about previous employers, work projects, etc. during the interview. Sometimes, search committees interview many people, and so referring them to specific documents can help you stand out. Even if you are one of only a few candidates, the specificity is beneficial. You may want to have a pad and pen with you during the interview so that you can take notes. Jotting down a few notes can help you keep track of the questions you are being asked—just make sure that you don’t appear distracted, or stare at your notes instead of making natural eye contact with your interviewers.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Be wary of men who seem perfect. Watch out for signs of codependence or very quick commitment. Monitor jealousy and insecurity levels. Talk to a potential partner about feelings. Do not tolerate violence or signs of violence. Look for a history of abuse.

Answer:
Obviously, not everyone who seems perfect is abusive. But some men who are abusive care about outward image and popularity, and make it a point to have many friends. He may be so concerned about his image that he will be less concerned about maintaining a healthy relationship. This is also related to a tendency for abusers to be very controlling; they control their own image very carefully.  Likewise, they expect to be able to control other people completely. Men who are abusers tend to get into relationships very quickly.  This is related to extremes in behavior that are also common to abusers. Someone may have abusive characteristics if he:  Pushes you to commit to exclusivity or living together very quickly Claims that your relationship was “love at first sight” or that he can’t live without you Makes you feel guilty for not feeling ready to commit as quickly as he is Does he overreact when you spend time with others? Does he dislike your friends for no apparent reason? Does he accuse you of cheating? These can be signs that he is overly jealous.  An even greater indication that his jealousy is excessive is a tendency to twist or manipulate the way he expresses his jealousy. Some ways that he may manipulate or reframe his jealousy include:  Saying that his jealousy is a sign of his deep love Masking jealous behavior as concern Claiming that he is curious about how you spent your day and who you talked to when he is really monitoring your behavior and interactions Saying that he doesn’t like you spending time with others because he misses you too much himself Pretending to stop by to surprise you with a gift or a visit when he is really checking to see what you are doing Many abusive men have difficulty expressing their feelings. Before entering into a serious relationship with someone, you should have many conversations with him in which you can evaluate his personality and determine whether he can talk to you about things that are related to feelings. This also shows that he is willing to feel vulnerable, something that many abusers are uncomfortable with. If a potential partner shows signs of violence towards you, others, or even inanimate objects, you should likely avoid a relationship with him. For example, if he gets mad and punches a wall or table, he could be showing a tendency to become violent in the future. Another potential warning sign for violence is the use of force or control, even in a supposedly playful way, with sex. People who are abusive in relationships are often abusive in other situations. Try to find out about a history of abuse in other relationships, towards family members, or towards animals.  Most men who have been abusive to others in the past will continue to be abusive in the future. If you decide to enter into a relationship with someone with a history of abuse, encourage him to participate in a batterer intervention program.