During a heated argument, it can be tempting to say some hurtful things.  Instead of attacking with your words, carefully select what you want to say and make it a constructive message.  You can still speak your mind and express yourself honestly, so long as you aren't using your message to hurt your partner.  Use “I” statements such as “I feel....” or “I would like...” Ask for input.  Say something like “What do you think about...” Listen carefully and openly to anything your spouse might say. Be honest and speak your mind in a calm and fair manner. When things get too emotional, a discussion might turn into a shouting competition.  Yelling at one another will do another but cause harm to the relationship.  Loud outbursts should be avoided at all costs when trying to improve your marriage.  Yelling will not convey any useful message you may have hoped to get across. You are allowed to have and feel emotions.  However, they cannot become angry outbursts during a discussion. If one person tries to make all the choices in a relationship, it can lead to the other party feeling dis-empowered or undervalued.  Choices that can involve both people, should.  Try to keep both your own and your spouse's needs in mind when discussing any plans.  Work towards options that are best for both partners. Don't try to force a choice to get your way.  Decisions should be cooperative, not competitive. Whenever your spouse is talking to you, practicing active listening can help her feel like she is being heard.  You will be able to more fully engage in a conversation with your spouse by carefully listening to what she is saying and giving cues that you are paying attention.  Restate things your spouse has said.  "I just want to make sure I understood..." Summarize what you heard.  "It sounds like..." Use encouragers like "oh", "I see", or "mmhmm" Validate what is being said.  "I'm glad you brought this up." Allow for silences.  Don't jump in the moment your spouse is done talking. Passive-aggressive behavior is when you may act nicely to a person, while feeling resentful and working in secret to undermine her.  Often times, being afraid of direct conflict or expressing one's feelings can result in passive-aggressive behavior.  By avoiding engaging in passive-aggressive behavior, you can help reduce the harm that it can cause to your marriage.  Watch your behavior and try to find what causes you to act passive-aggressively. Practice being assertive and honest with your negative feelings. Realize that being passive-aggressive is a form of lying. Keep in mind that it's perfectly normal and healthy to have disagreements.
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One-sentence summary -- Speak constructively. Avoid yelling. Make decisions together. Actively listen. Avoid being passive-aggressive.

Article: Yang and Wu styles of tai chi are probably the most popular forms of tai chi.  The Wu style is a variant of the Yang style.  In addition, they're the most commonly practiced forms of tai chi worldwide.  These styles use wide slow flowing movements which make them the best styles for beginners.  Yang and Wu styles are also great for helping those overcome tension or stress in their lives.  Both use meditation as part of the practice Because both Yang and Wu styles are so popular, the majority of classes, DVDS and videos will incorporate these two styles of tai chi most frequently. This is a more active form of tai chi and may not be for everyone.  It doesn't necessarily fall into the slow, gentle flowing movements of some tai chi practices.  The Chen style of tai chi uses some explosive and fast moves - like jump kicks.  This may be out of the fitness range of some people. If you're already fairly fit or athletically inclined (or looking for a more exciting form of tai chi) consider the Chen style. The Chen style uses wide, expansive movements that can be hard on the knees and lower back.  Be careful when performing this style. Tai chi is an easy type of exercise to do.  However, it's very different from any other more traditional forms of activity.  It's important to meet with a trained teacher, if possible, so you know how to do tai chi correctly.  A tai chi teacher will be able to guide you during a class or individual session.  They can teach you how to breath and use your breathing to promote calmness. A good way to find a decent teacher is by talking to that teacher's students but also speaking to the teacher yourself.  Ask about the classes, the personality of the teacher, and how the classes are conducted. Although it's important to learn correct form and how to maximize the benefits of tai chi, if you cannot afford to take a tai chi class or cannot find one, you have very little risk of injury or other adverse effects by doing this exercises yourself. Since tai chi isn't a overly popular form of exercise, you might have some difficulty finding a local teacher or class.  However, tai chi is easy enough that you can do it in your own home.  There are many tai chi videos and DVDs that you can purchase so you can perform this exercise in the privacy of your own home. When purchasing your DVD decide whether or not you should be purchasing one for beginners, pregnant women, older adults or those with special health problems.  Many tai chi practices are designed for a very specific condition. There are also many tai chi videos online.  You can download many videos or go to websites for live streaming.  This may be a good option if you don't want to settle only one DVD. Many forms of exercise require specialty equipment or clothing.  Tai chi doesn't require specialty clothing, however tai chi teachers do recommend the following:  Wear clothing that allows you to comfortably flow through the series of movements.  Do not wear restrictive clothing that feels tight or prohibits a full range of motion.   Yoga pants, running shorts and other more traditional exercise clothing is permitted. Wear comfortable, flat bottomed shoes or go barefoot.  Whatever works for you.  Avoid wearing jewelry or watches as they may interfere with some of the movements done with partners. Once you've gotten into a routine of doing tai chi or have found that you enjoy this practice, set yourself up for doing at least 20 minutes of practice per session.  It's typically recommended to do at least 20 minutes of practice as it is believed that this allows your blood to flow through your entire body in this time period.  This is an essential part of tai chi practice.  It is also believed that it takes 20 minutes for your body to be fully warmed up and have increased blood flow to all your muscles.  It is thought that this is responsible for the "good or happy feelings" many practitioners experience at the end of a tai chi workout. Like any new exercise routine, it can take a few tries to get the moves and routine down.  Be patient with yourself as you experience and try out this new alternative form of exercise.  Although tai chi isn't considered a difficult or high-intensity physical activity, it is something very different from most traditional forms of exercise.  Be patient with yourself as you grow and learn in your practice.  In addition, it may take time for you to get the breathing down and be able to quietly meditate as you move through the movements.  This also takes time and practice. It's recommended to set a regular time each day to practice so you become more proficient in this relaxing form of exercise.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Learn about Yang or Wu style tai chi. Consider the Chen form. Find a trained teacher. Consider purchasing a Tai Chi DVD. Wear the appropriate type of clothing. Aim for at least a 20 minute workout. Practice being patient with yourself.