INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Depending on your relationship, you could plan to talk to her at home, if she is your significant other, or you could make plans to meet her for lunch, for example. Avoid letting on that you want to talk to her about her secretive behavior, if you are making plans in advance. This will likely cause her to decline your invitation and make it harder for you to talk to her to find out what is going on. There is the possibility that she could become explosive when you bring up the topic, so do your best to diffuse the situation by remaining calm.  However, this does not mean that you should be evasive or vague about what you are getting at. You need to be clear and straightforward about her secrecy so that she fully understands the conversation. “I get the feeling lately that you're keeping something from me. My relationship with you is important to me, so I'd like to talk about it.” “You've had some interesting reactions to comments I've made lately. I don't want to offend you, but it seems like you might be keeping a secret. Can we talk about it?” “I've noticed recently that you've been extremely nervous most of the time I've been around you. Is something going on that you would like to talk about?” You are having this conversation with her because you are concerned about what is going on, and you want to resolve it, so help her understand that with your words and gestures.  “I've noticed lately that when Bryan is around, you become distant and closed-off. I'm wondering what has happened to bring on this change in you toward him? I'm here to help you.” “Recently, you've become a little secretive when we talk about our plans with other people. I'm concerned, and I want to know if there's something that you need to tell me.” “The last time that we were in Mrs. Smith's class, you seemed really jumpy and fidgety. I'm here for you, if you want to talk about what happened to cause that.” “You told me the other night that you stayed in and read a book until you fell asleep, but Stacy said that the two of you went out dancing. I'm hurt that you lied to me, and I'm wondering why you felt the need to do that.” Remember to stay calm, and give her the opportunity to respond to you without interrupting. If she continues to appear secretive, let her know that you are observing particular behaviors that indicate she might be lying, like an inability to maintain eye contact, making frequent pauses in her response, or giving too many details. Then, ask her again to be honest with you.  If she continues to withhold what is really going on, then you need to consider the value of this friendship or relationship. What does it say about your relationship with her if she will not tell you the truth? “I heard you say that...” “I understand that you feel...” “I appreciate that you agreed to talk about this with me, but I get the sense that you're still not being completely honest. Can you share the whole truth with me?” “I'm really glad that we're getting the opportunity to talk about this. However, it seems like you have more you want to say but haven't yet. Go ahead and share.” In the event that she does share with you what she has been hiding, give yourself time to process it, especially if it is something negative.  Consider her reasons for hiding it from you and the validity of those reasons. Should she have been honest with you from the beginning, or is her secrecy understandable? Evaluate the relationship, whether it was right of her to hide information from you, and what can be done to repair any hurt that was caused.

SUMMARY: Find a time to talk to her. Bring up the topic calmly and rationally. Explain your thoughts and observations in way that shows her you are concerned. Listen attentively to her response. Give yourself time to process what she shares.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Divorced men are at greater risk for a range of health problems, so strive to make your health a priority.  Eat a real, whole foods diet, get at least 8 hours of  sleep nightly,  exercise daily, and create a routine to manage stress. Reconnect with yourself by taking time for interests and passions that you neglected before. Restart your weekend karate classes, join Toastmasters if you love public speaking, or carve out time for a hike on Saturday mornings. Spending time doing things you love will help you to move forward with your life in a positive way. You might feel overwhelmed about taking on duties that your spouse once took responsibility for. If you're having trouble, seek out help. Most communities offer resources like child care assistance and personal finance workshops that can help you adjust to new roles. Consider asking around at your local library to learn about practical classes or services offered in your area. Whether you're splitting custody with your ex or only seeing your kids on weekends, you still need to devise some structure when they're in your care. Brainstorm a few ways to make them comfortable when they're at your place.  Stock your fridge and pantry with kid-friendly foods, set up a space for them to do their homework, or purchase games or movies that you can enjoy together during leisure time. You'll also want to come to an agreement with your spouse about parenting strategies, so your kids are receiving relatively consistent rules and discipline.
Summary: Support your health and wellness. Develop your hobbies. Access resources if you need them. Establish a routine with your children.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: The best trailers propel you along, leaving your begging to watch more. They do this through a perfect attention to rhythm. Trailers are often edited like music videos, meaning that the cuts line right up with the beat of the song. Once you know what song you're using, return to the video and cut it so that each transition fits your backing music. Can you tell a short story in the trailer? Think of great trailer's you've seen and how they function. The start with a bang, slow down and explain the conflict, then gain steam until a climactic final shot. This is, in essence, the structure of many real movies. Having this mini roller-coaster ride can make your trailer more compelling, which makes the movie seem more interesting as a result. Not all trailers need to show clips from the actual movie, though most do need a few seconds of footage. The trailer for Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind features a fake commercial for the memory-wiping technology. The Social Network Trailer starts with a minute or so of someone browsing Facebook. Sometimes, starting with clips or images that aren't from the movie helps build suspense, capturing audiences used to hearing "In a world where..." every time. Too many trailers try and fit in everything-- the best jokes, scenes, and plot points-- and end up ruining the entire movie. You want the audience to be curious about the movie, not like they just sat through the spark notes version of it. The best trailers will focus on 1-2 elements, exploring them well, while still hinting that there are other aspects of the movie worth seeing. This is mostly about feel, but you should always ask yourself while editing: "Does this give too much away?"

SUMMARY:
Focus on the rhythm, not just images to keep the audience engaged. Make the trailer a mini-movie. Use original footage instead of clips from the movie. Retain an aura of mystery.