Article: This is an easy way to shape your identity without legally changing your name. Whether you identify as Alexander or Alexandra, you can call yourself Alex. Samuel and Samantha can be called Sam. Jordan can easily become Jordy or Jordi. If nothing else, this can be a solid interim step while you think about a more permanent name change. You could ask them what they would have named you if you were assigned your correct gender at birth. Or you could ask them what they would name you taking your personality and gender identity into account. You could run names you've been thinking of past your parents, they've known you the longest and will know if they fit you best. Don't feel the need to cater to any rules or norms, and remember that you don't need to keep things close to what they've been. If there is a name to which you have always been particularly drawn, choose that name. You don't have to choose a name that is similar to your birth name. If your birth name is "Martin" and you are transitioning to female, you do not have to choose "Martha" when you have always loved the name "Laura". If your birth name is "Cecilia", you do not have to choose "Cecil" if you've always liked the name "Ashton". If you are going through a sex change, you may feel empowered to explore parts of your personality that you were afraid to embrace before. Think about the identity that you intend to cultivate, and choose a name that fits with your vision for the new you. You may have connotations about certain names: tough, sweet, adventurous, etc. Pick a name that helps you become who you want to become. Name yourself after someone inspiring. If you grew up idolizing Marilyn Monroe, don't be afraid to change your name to Marilyn.
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Try out a gender-neutral nickname. Ask your parents. Choose a name that you love. Pick a name that suits your new identity.
Article: Use a sharp chef's knife or serrated knife. Cut an X shape into the flat side, or belly, of the chestnuts. Cut as deeply as you can without cutting the chestnut into pieces. Wear rubber or leather gloves while you cut to avoid cutting yourself because chestnuts can be slippery. Put the chestnuts in single layer in a glass baking dish. It doesn't matter if the chestnuts are touching, but they should not be on top of each other. Cover the dish with a layer of waxed paper. Put the glass dish covered with wax paper into the microwave. The chestnuts are ready when the shells start to pull back. You can microwave the chestnuts for a minute more if the shells haven't pulled back after 6 minutes. Allow the chestnuts to cool for a minute because they may be very hot after removing them from the microwave. Use a small, but sharp knife to peel off shells and as much of the inner brown skins as possible. This may take some effort, so work slowly and carefully in order to avoid injury.
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Make an X on the belly of the chestnut. Put the chestnuts in a glass baking dish. Microwave the chestnuts on high for 6 minutes. Use a knife to remove the shells.
Article: Planned touches can come off as accidents if you play them off correctly, and they're a great way to flirt if you're feeling nervous. Try lightly grazing the other person’s arm when reaching to grab something, or putting your foot near theirs under the table.  You can also graze knees while sitting at a table or next to each other. Walking side by side is an easy way to graze each other's arms or hands. When you’re talking with someone, touching their elbow, shoulder, or arm is a simple way to start physical contact. It only needs to last 1 or 2 seconds. Touch lightly so you’re not putting too much pressure on the other person.  For instance, you might come up to someone and touch their shoulder while saying hello. If you’re sitting across from someone, touching their hand while you're laughing or talking works well too. Make sure you’re close enough to the person so that you’re not awkwardly reaching. There are lots of opportunities to lead the other person by taking their hand, such as if you’re leaving a restaurant, showing them something at a museum or art gallery, or just want them to follow you. Take their hand gently so that you're not pulling them too harshly.  For example, if you wanted to introduce them to another person, you might take their hand and say, “Come with me please, I want you to meet Rob.” Taking someone’s hand shows a more intimate sign of affection. Instead of the hand, you can also guide the other person using their elbow or the small of their back. Sitting close to someone so that your legs or arms touch can give off flirtatious vibes. Sit next to them so that your shoulders, elbows, or thighs touch theirs, either just slightly or very closely.  This works well if you’re sitting on a couch, in a booth at a restaurant, or on a bench in a park or other space. It’s best to start out small and sit so that your body is just barely touching theirs. This is a more intimate form of flirting, and it works best if you know the person relatively well. Snuggle up against them while on a couch or bench, resting your head on their shoulder if you'd like. Cuddle while watching TV, listening to music, or having a conversation where you’re sitting comfortably. Keep your kiss casual by doing a quick peck as a greeting, or by giving them a kiss on the cheek to say goodnight. This is a good way of flirting with someone who you've already established some sort of relationship with. If you're close with them, you might kiss them on the nose or forehead as well. As long as the other person is okay with being hugged, this is a great way to show your affection while being respectful and warm. Give them a hug when you first see them, and again while saying goodbye.  You might hug someone when congratulating them or sharing good news. Make your hug last just a few seconds, working up to longer hugs after you've known each other for awhile.
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Graze the other person accidentally to spark interest. Touch the person on the arm to show them you're interested. Take their hand when you’re walking somewhere. Sit close to each other. Cuddle up against them when sitting next to one another. Kiss them on the cheek to take flirting to the next level. Hug the other person to make them feel welcome and comfortable.