The most important thing to consider when choosing how to dress without a bra is how an outfit will make you feel. Don't wear anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or self-conscious. Choose something that flatters your body, suits your style, and makes you feel great when you put it on. For example, if low-cut tops make you feel self-conscious, then they're not the best choice for you. Try a low-back top or spaghetti strap dress instead. There are some types of tops and dresses that don't look as good with a bra, so wearing these when you go braless might be a good idea. Try wearing low back and backless tops, or go for a strapless or spaghetti strap dress or top. Some other items that might look better without a bra include:  Dresses and tops with plunging necklines. Tops with laced-up fronts, backs, or sides. Tops and dresses with keyholes in the back. Halter tops and tube tops. Some items of clothing have built-in bras, breast cups, or elastic bands that eliminate the need for a bra. Try looking for clothes that have some built-in support to make going braless a little easier.  A tank top with a built-in bra can help you transition into bralessness. You can still to wear them afterwards under sheer tops.  Bodysuits and leotards provide built-in support and make cute additions to braless outfits. Try one under a thin, button-down top for a breezy look. Layers are great without a bra because they can hide your bralessness. This wardrobe technique is especially useful in the wintertime. For this reason, winter might even be the best time to try going braless, if you're nervous about the transition.  A thick sweater will hide your nipples, so this might be a good braless clothing choice if you are worried about your nipples showing. A T-shirt over or under a long-sleeve shirt is also a great braless combo. Jackets and cardigans are another great layering option, and can keep your warm when the weather takes an unexpected turn.
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One-sentence summary -- Pick something that makes you feel good. Try a classic no-bra top or dress. Look for items with built-in bras and support. Consider starting with a layered braless look.


Place a measuring tape or a piece of string over the top of the headband. Measure it from end to end. This will be your guideline for your crown. Your crown design must fit between the two lines you made. If the design extends past those lines, your crown will be too big. Be sure to include a thin line along the base, so that your crown will stick together. Try not to make the crown too tall, or the hot glue will flop over even after it set. You can use regular clear hot glue, or you can use glitter hot glue. Go over the design two to three times to make it thick and sturdy. Be sure to draw a line across the bottom of your design. This will help hold your crown together. You will also be using this to attach the crown to the headband. You can fill it in with solid glue, or with squiggles, loops, and swirls. Whatever design you choose, make sure that it touches the outline of your crown, or it won't hold together. Most hot glue sets pretty quickly, depending on how cold it is in the room. Some glues will turn opaque once they harden, while others will remain clear. Place the crown back on the parchment paper and decorate it. You can paint it, cover it with glitter, or even glue some rhinestones on. To go with the ice theme, chose colors such as blue, turquoise, white, and silver. Here are some decorating ideas:  To give your crown a translucent color, use colored permanent markers to color it in. Avoid using paint pens, as those are not translucent. To give your crown a solid color, use acrylic paints and a paintbrush. You can use regular acrylic paint, metallic acrylic paint, or even glitter paint. Give your crown some sparkle with glitter. Paint your crown with Mod Podge or white glue, then shake some glitter onto it. Tap the excess glitter off. The best glitter for an ice crown would be super fine iridescent glitter. Glue tiny rhinestones or pearls along the base of the crown. You can use hot glue or superglue. Decorate the crown with rhinestones or tiny snowflake confetti/sequins. You can put a large rhinestone in the center, and use smaller ones towards the edges. You can also put some rhinestones on the points. Use hot glue or superglue for this. This will give the hot glue something to grip on to. Place a drop of hot glue on one end of the headband, and press the end of a ribbon into it. Wrap the ribbon around the headband, like a candy cane, overlapping the edges by a little. When you get to the other side, trim off the excess ribbon, and secure the end with more hot glue.  Choose a ribbon that is ¼ to ½ inch (0.64 to 1/27 centimeters) thick. Try to choose a color that matches your crown. Flip your crown over so that the back is facing you. Draw a thin line of glue along the bottom of the crown. Press the crown to the top of the headband. Make sure that the crown is centered. When you lay the headband flat on the table, the crown should be sticking straight up. Even though you made the crown on a headband, you won't be wearing it like a headband. Instead, put the crown on top of your head, like a halo or tiara.
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One-sentence summary -- Get a thin, plastic or metal headband and measure it across it. Place the string or measuring tape on a sheet of parchment paper and mark off where the headband begins and ends. Draw your design on the parchment paper. Use a hot glue gun to trace your design. Fill your design in. Let the glue harden, then peel it off the parchment paper. Decorate the crown and let it dry. Consider wrapping the headband with some ribbon. Hot glue the crown to the headband. Wear the crown.


If you are planning a dinner party, you should consider pairing your food and wine. This means selecting certain dishes that will compliment the wine. There are several types of food that pair wonderfully with Merlot, notably beef.  Start researching food and wine pairings. Read some cooking magazines and scroll through websites that offer a variety of recipes. Search for recipes that highlight beef. You can use it as an appetizer or main dish. Cocktail meatballs would be a good choice for a starter. If you want to impress your guests, there are several flavorful beef dishes you could choose as an entree. Consider serving a grilled steak with a blue cheese butter. If you don't want to serve beef, chicken would make a lovely main dish. Try a classic roast chicken. Take into account what type of event you are planning. For example, maybe you are just inviting guests for hors d'oeuvres. If so, consider a selection of cheeses. A wine and cheese party can be a simple and elegant event.  Cheese and wine naturally complement each other. Consider offering a hard, aged Cheddar with your Merlot. You should include one soft cheese in your selection. Camembert goes nicely with Merlot.  You can add a variety of other cheeses to pair with your wine. Try a Gruyere or Pecorino Toscano. There are many benefits that come from thoughtfully pairing food and wine. If done properly, you will be able to draw out unnoticed flavors in both your dinner and your Merlot. You want to balance flavors and textures so that they complement one another.  Typically, wines pair well with foods from the same region. For example, if you are serving a French Merlot, consider cooking some French dishes. Pay attention to each of your courses, including the starter. You could begin with a traditional Caesar salad. The flavors in the dressing will complement the Merlot. Certain foods are difficult to successfully pair with wines. Avoid tomatoes, vinaigrettes, and artichokes.
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Serve beef with Merlot. Choose complimentary cheeses. Plan a balanced menu.