No matter how much you feel that you shouldn't have to get the "OK" from your guy to do something or make decisions, it would be best to at least talk to him about it and ask him first. Men want to feel that they are doing things because they want their partners to be happy, not because they feel forced to do them. Use non-verbals like "the lip" and "big eyes" to persuade your man when words aren't working. He loves to play the role of "knight in shining armor." While you may feel strong and independent without his help, allowing him to feel that he is taking care of you and protecting you will make him happy. Appreciate chivalrous gestures, like when he opens the door for you or lets you enter a room first. You will have an easier time getting your man to do something if you convince him that doing it is his idea in the first place. Use subtle clues that will gently push him to make the right decisions.  If you want him to fix your car, and you're tired of asking him directly, say something like, "I saw a broken-down car on the interstate today. You know, it makes me feel paranoid about mine." You can also say, "I'm starting to think that I need a new car. How long will we have to save money for a down payment?" He's a lot more likely to fix your car because he's either a) motivated to protect you or b) concerned about spending too much money. Don't tell your friends (especially if he's standing right there) that you have him wrapped around your finger. Don't talk as though you can make him do anything or control him. The last thing your guy wants is to be emasculated in the eyes of your friends or family. Don't constantly talk about your ex or compare your current man to your ex. Also, don't date a new man if you're not really over your ex. Your new guy doesn't deserve to be blamed for someone else's actions or held to someone else's standard. Comparing him to your ex will make him feel like less of a man, so don't do it.

Summary: Partner with him to make decisions. Make your man feel big and strong. Let him take initiative. Respect his independence. Avoid dwelling on past relationships.


Because your wig stand may be a different shape than your own head, it’s smart to try the wig on first and determine where you want the bangs to land on your forehead. If you’re not sure of which style of bangs are right for you, try uploading your picture to a website that does virtual hairstyles—you can “try on” several different looks to see what you like best! Use T-pins or sewing pins to secure your wig in the lace line and in front of the ears. You could also place a pin through the crown of the wig for a little extra security. Check that your wig stand is straight and not leaning off to one side! Depending on what style you’re going for, you may want a thicker or thinner section of hair to cut. For full-front bangs, try to use more hair. For side-swept bangs, you can get away with a thinner section. Use a comb or brush to detangle the hair thoroughly before you start cutting. Keep in mind where that bobby pin is, and position the wig hair between your middle and index fingers at that length. Then take your scissors and cut up at a 45-degree angle toward your fingers to create the edges of your bangs.  Be careful to not accidentally snip your fingers as you cut! If you’re concerned about the bangs being too short, cut slightly below the bobby-pin. Once you’re done, you can put the wig on and check the length and decide if you want to go any shorter. Each time you move on to cut the next section of your bangs, bring along a little bit of a section that’s already been trimmed. That way you’re more likely to keep your bangs even. Take your time when creating bangs in your wig—it might take a little longer, but remember that it’s much harder to fix a wig than it is to fix or grow out natural hair. After you’ve finished cutting your bangs, use a comb to brush them down into place. You could even try on the wig at this point to see if you need to adjust the length any further. Combing the bangs helps pull down any long hairs you might have missed that still need to be trimmed. Use your scissors to carefully trim long, wayward pieces of hair that you missed in your initial cuts. Put the wig on to double-check the length, and you are good to go! Bangs can be super fun! You can pin or braid them back if you need to, and they can add a lot of style to your look.

Summary: Try the wig on and place a bobby pin in the hair at the length you like. Set your wig on a wig stand and pin it in place. Brush forward the section of hair you want to use to create your bangs. Take a small section of the hair and cut upwards toward your fingers. Use a piece of an already-cut section to guide the rest of your cuts. Comb the bangs down so you can see if they are even across. Trim any long hairs you might have missed, and you’re done!


Use a soft brush extension and a low power setting when running the vacuum over memory foam. Clean as much extra debris as possible to keep it from getting ground into the mattress when you clean. In a spray bottle, combine 4 fluid ounces (120 mL) of laundry detergent and 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) of cool water. Shake well and make sure that the two ingredients are fully mixed before spraying. Spray the stain and gently soak up the liquid with a towel. Keep repeating this until the stain disappears. Since you may not be able to completely remove all of the detergent, make sure to use a gentler, unscented formula. Look for detergents labeled “hypoallergenic.” Mix together 1 part baking soda and 2 parts water until it forms a milky white liquid. Work the solution into the stain using circular hand movements and leave it to soak for half an hour. Use a slightly damp cloth to remove the solution. Soak up any remaining liquid with a bath towel. Set the memory foam product in a bright, open space to dry before using it. Make sure it is completely dry to reduce the risk of mold and mildew. Direct sunlight will help dry the foam more quickly and dispel odors. Some stains may need several rounds of washing to fully disappear. Let the mattress fully dry after each time you use the detergent solution followed by the baking soda paste.
Summary: Vacuum first to remove dust, hair, and lint. Spray the stained area with a laundry detergent and water solution, then blot. Soak stubborn stains with a baking soda solution. Let the memory foam dry completely. Repeat the process if the stain is stubborn.