Q: Something sparked your thoughts of your girlfriend cheating, and a hunch can only go so far. Ask friends and pay attention to your girlfriend's actions. Keep track of things as they happen. Wrongfully accusing her will cause relationship problems. Times have changed, and people accept open relationships. If your relationship has only begun, perhaps she didn't see it as cheating. Reflect upon your history together and be open to her perspective if there is a misunderstanding about the relationship. People need to choose the relationship model that best suits them. In order to verify if she is cheating, you will have to talk to her in person. It won't be easy, but it is a must. Be confident in your questioning, and be ready to hear her out. Ask her What went wrong with our relationship? Is this an ongoing incident? How did this happen in the first place? Listening to each other will be very key in order to know what lies ahead for the two of you.  One meeting might not be enough. Be ready to talk about this over several meetings.  Keep your focus on talking about what happened, your feelings, and her perspective on what happened. Avoid assigning blame at this point, as it will shut down the conversation. If you get your hard evidence and plan to bring up her cheating without warning, you will catch her off guard. Chances are she might deny it. Have questions ready along with your proof. Ask her to explain specific days in which the incidents occurred. She might take some time to admit it especially if she is still cheating or seeing the other person. Bring that up, too. Either case, approach her when you are absolutely ready as possible. The issue going on between you and your girlfriend should be the focus. Realize that the root of the problem stems from your girlfriend and her actions. The other person should be neither involved nor confronted; it can only cause more problems. After emotions calm down, you will begin to focus on you and your next decision. Choosing to either work through the incident or leave her will not be easy. Pick the option that will be less hurtful and more fruitful for your future.
A: Gather any kind of evidence. Make sure your relationship has been established. Confront her about the issue face-to-face and in private. Prepare for denial. Leave the other person out of it. Decide to stay with her or move on.

Q: Spend some time poring over your resume. Pick out the skills that make you a good fit for the company, and write them on a separate page.  For instance, maybe you want to include things like, "Excellent at managing people," "Great communication skills," and "Adept at technology." You can also include your education in this section. Under each skill, list how you became proficient in it. Maybe you learned on the job or took a course in it. Maybe you taught yourself the skill. For example, maybe you're great at managing people because you've been in a management position for 5 years, as well as took continuing education courses. When writing a letter of interest, your goal is to present yourself as a person who would fit well in the organization, not for a particular job. That means that you need to figure out how the skills and experience you have make you a good fit.  Go back to the research you did on the company. Consider what kind of person they're looking for based on what you know about their culture and their job listings. Make the connection for the company between your skills and the company's need. Basically, establish why the company should consider you for an open position. For example, if the company seems to like team players, emphasize how you work well with others because you've been in team-centered companies for the past 10 years.
A: Highlight your most important skills on your resume. Consider the jobs and experience that gave you those skills. Connect the skills you choose to the company.

Q: Asking her out in person is key to successfully getting a date. Although you may be shy or intimidated, you can’t let those feelings rule you. A date is a potentially intimate moment when two people get to know each other a little better. You should start it off that way. If you’re going to ask her out in person, pick the right time and place. Picking the right time and place to ask her out is one of the most important things in getting a date. You don't want to ask at the wrong time or place, or you might blow your chance. There are a number of things you should consider when asking her out in person:  Don’t pick a time or place where she is distracted. If you’re in a bar or club with friends, try to find a moment when you're alone. Otherwise, some of your or her friends might invite themselves and make it a group date. Don’t ask too early in your encounter. Ask toward the end of your encounter when you think you will part ways. Otherwise, you might seem too desperate. Perhaps you got her phone number at a club, and want to contact her the day after and set up a date. This is alright, but make sure your phone call and texting is confident and pleasant. You’ve done the hard work of making first contact and getting her number, don’t blow it now.  Start off the conversation in a light way. Joke about something (appropriate). Try to get her laughing or relaxed. Demonstrate your interest by asking her questions, but nothing too prying. Focus on light things. Invite her out. Tell her you’d like to get to know her better. Based on personality, you can ask her to suggest something, or you can suggest something you think she likes. If she declines, she might tell you why. If it’s a scheduling issue, ask her when a good time is for her. If not, drop it and politely end the conversation – unless you want to pursue a friendship. If she accepts, try to end the conversation politely. Texting might be a way to follow up with her after you met the night before. It is a noncommittal way to communicate that many people are comfortable with. However, there are a number of things you can do wrong that will blow your shot at getting a date.  Consider texting her the afternoon after you met her. By avoiding an immediate text, you're showing that you're thinking about her, but you're not obsessing. Start off with a light or humorous comment that will relax her and remind her of who you are. For example: "Hey! Remember that devastatingly handsome guy you met last night?" Don’t write a long message to her. Instead, be clear, concise, and articulate what you want – a date with her. For example: "I'd like to take you out so we can get to know each other better." Don’t be forceful. Avoid telling her what she should do or what she'll be missing if she does not go out with you. Allow her time to respond. Don’t jump the gun if she doesn’t text back in 3 minutes and then shoot her another text. Wait a few hours or more. Chances are, if she wants to go out with you, she’ll respond. The last thing she wants is to date a guy who is wishy-washy about what he wants. Be clear about when and where you will meet. Feel free to ask her opinion, but if she defers to you, don’t defer to her again. Pick where and when you want to go, and set the date.  Set a specific time. Set a specific place. Let her know where you'll be going and what you'll be doing so she'll be prepared.
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Ask her out in person, if you can. Pick the right time and place to ask her out. Call her with confidence. Text concisely. Avoid being vague about when and where you’ll go out or meet.