If your back and shoulders are bothering you, massage your ears on the pressure points that target these areas. The pressure points are found on the top of your ear, near its tip. Massage the tips of your ears to address back and shoulder issues. You can massage your ears for anywhere from a few minutes to half an hour. For a very sore back and shoulders, focus on these pressure points longer. If your back and shoulders are not a major problem, only linger near your ear tips for a few minutes. If you have joint pain, the pressure point for this is found in the upper middle part of the ear. To address joint pain, gently massage this area. Apply pressure to this area for only a few minutes to see a potential change. For best results, apply pressure once a day. For severe internal pain, you should always talk to a doctor. However, if pain persists after medical treatment, reflexology may help you ease some of that pain. The pressure point for organ pain is where the bridge of your ear meets the outside of the ear. Massage this area for a few minutes. For sinus and throat problems, focus on the pressure point in the lower-inner portion of the ear. Apply gentle pressure here. For some, this helps clear out sinuses and allow easier breathing. Any chronic sinus or throat problems should be addressed by a doctor. Digestive issues can be aided by applying pressure to the point just above the earlobe. Spend a few minutes gently massaging this area. For best results, massage this area as digestive discomfort occurs. The earlobe is closely associated with the head and heart. Pressure headaches may be helped by massaging the earlobes. If you have very intense headaches or chest pains, see a doctor.
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One-sentence summary -- Focus on your back and shoulders. Deal with joint pain. Address your organs. Help with your sinus and throat. Deal with digestion. Focus on the head and heart.

Q: Note if they use “I” statements, such as “I realize now what I did was wrong and I regret what I did.” You should also listen to their tone of voice and their body language. Most people maintain eye contact and use a sincere tone of voice when they are apologizing. Avoidance of eye contact, or a flat or sarcastic tone, may signal that a person isn't being serious.  An authentic apology should be direct and heartfelt. For example: “I realize now that what I did was wrong and I regret it. I apologize for my actions and hope you can find a way to forgive me.” Keep in mind that body language can vary based on a person's background and disability. For example, someone with social anxiety might avoid eye contact while being sincere. This may be a sign the apology is not genuine. If someone doesn't really want to apologize, they may be quick to point out how you were wrong, or blame you for most or all of what happened. This type of phrasing could be a sign that the apology is not heartfelt and is really a way for the person to pass blame onto you or to not have to deal with the consequences of their actions.  For example, a passive aggressive apology might be: “Well, I asked you to go to the party with me, but you refused. I went alone and lied to you about it. If you'd said yes in the first place, I wouldn't have had to lie. Sorry.” In the above example, this person may not be giving you an authentic apology and may just be leaning on a bad habit of using an apology to get out of a sticky situation. For all the analysis you can do on a person's intentions, often your gut instinct can be a good gauge of whether or not to trust and accept the person's apology. Take a moment to consider the apology and listen to your gut feelings about the person and their apology. Ask yourself:   Is your gut telling you the person is being honest and sincere? Do you have any feelings of doubt or confusion around the person? Does the apology to you sound sincere? Before you accept the apology, you may want to consider the context around the apology and how well you know the person. For example:  If the person apologizing is a close friend who already has a history of bad behavior, ask yourself if they're using apologies to try to avoid facing consequences. If a family member or partner is apologizing to you for something out of character and rare, you may be more amenable to accepting their apology. People make mistakes or hurt others for a variety of reasons. It's important that you are willing to move past the person’s mistake, especially if they offer a sincere apology. If you are still questioning whether or not you believe the person’s apologetic tone, you may want to have a longer conversation with them about your concerns.  This may be a better approach than accepting an apology you do not believe is sincere and remaining resentful or upset, despite appearing to be okay with the situation.
A: Pay attention to the phrasing of the apology. Watch for any passive aggressive phrasing in the apology. Rely on your gut instinct. Consider if you are ready to accept the person’s apology. Don't be afraid to give yourself time or have a longer conversation.

Article: There are a lot of poems focused on the theme of death, grief, or sympathy that are appropriate for funerals. Think about whether the deceased person had any favorite poets or specific poems. Pick one that reflects the deceased person and their passions or personality.  You could also write your own short poem about the person if you want to express your own emotions. If you don’t have room to include an entire poem, use 1 or 2 of the most meaningful lines from the piece instead. Choose a phrase that the person who passed away was known for, as long as it’s appropriate for the occasion. For example, you could use what Grandma Jane said every time she put a pie in the oven: “Everything tastes better with love!”  Only use quotes or phrases that most people will be familiar with. Avoid inside jokes that only you know. If the famous phrase includes curse words or something inappropriate, or if it could offend someone in the audience, don’t include it. If you have something you want to say to the person who passed, use the eulogy as an opportunity to share it. Keep it to 2 to 3 sentences and make sure it contains a message that the rest of the audience can relate to.  For example, now is not the time to tell Grandma Jane that you stained her good apron. Instead, say something like, “Grandma, I’ll miss your blueberry pie, but more than that, I’ll miss the way you used to hug me when I was sad or how your laugh was the best sound in the world. I can’t wait to see you again one day.” Look up towards the sky while you address the person to feel more connected to their spirit. If religion was a big part of their life and beliefs, incorporate it into your eulogy by ending with a quote from a spiritual leader or a passage from a religious text. For example, if they were Christian, you might use a Bible verse as the final sentence.  You could also end the eulogy with a brief prayer in the deceased person’s honor. Only include themes that you’re comfortable with. If you didn’t share the same beliefs as the person who passed, choose a different way to end your eulogy.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Recite a short poem if the person who passed away loved poetry. End with a quote from the deceased if they had a famous saying. Address the deceased person directly for an extra emotional ending. Use words of faith if the deceased person was religious.