Q: Notice when she acts strange or distant. Is it when you start talking about the new girl in class? Maybe she’s jealous. Or does she sigh every time you say you’re playing video games? Maybe she wishes you’d spend more time with her. Analyze the signals to see if you can uncover the issue.  Listen to the tone in her voice or any changes in how she communicates with you. For example, if she usually texts you back right away but doesn’t respond to messages whenever you mention meeting her mom, maybe you need to slow down the pace. Additionally, watch her nonverbal cues to help you understand what she's feeling. For example, she may be pulling away from you and refusing to make eye contact if she's upset. Do not ask her friends if they know what's wrong. It could backfire if they tell her and she interprets it as you going behind her back! Figure out when she has a chunk of time available, preferably at least 30 minutes so you don’t feel rushed. Ask if you can get together to talk somewhere that you won’t be interrupted or overheard, like at the park or in your living room. For example, call her and say, “Hi Ally. Do you think you could come over to my house tomorrow after school for like an hour?” Though you may feel awkward or nervous, it’s best not to beat around the bush. Tell your girlfriend that you’re worried you’re going to lose her or that it feels like something about your relationship has changed. Be as specific as possible, but try not to blame her. You could say, “I feel some distance in our relationship and it worries me. Have I done something to upset you?” or “Has something been bothering you lately?” Don't say things like "you always do this" or "you never do this." Shifting the blame may make her feel defensive, which can make it harder to work out the problem. Instead, give her examples of what you're talking about. Say, "I noticed that you've been really quiet the last few times that we've hung out. Is something wrong?" or “I feel like you’re not that into me anymore. Have your feelings changed?” Sit in a relaxed position with your arms uncrossed and your body relaxed so she feels comfortable. Maintain eye contact to convey that you're listening and that you're interested.  You can also lean in slightly or hold her hand to show you're completely focused on her. Avoid negative signals, like looking away, pursing your lips, or furrowing your brow. Even if she starts accusing you or if she says the problem is your fault, let her talk and get it out. Don't become defensive. Sit and listen to her and try to put yourself in her shoes so you can understand where she’s coming from. If you don't understand why she’s upset or if you aren't sure what she expects from you, ask! Be open and honest while you talk and ask her to do the same. You can also ask questions to show her that you’re listening. For instance if she says, "I'm just a little frustrated because we never get to spend time alone," you could respond with, "I didn’t realize it bothered you that we do stuff with our friends so often. Do you want to set aside a few nights a week just for us?"
A: Pay attention to her behavior to figure out what’s bothering her. Find a time and place for the two of you to talk privately. Address the issue directly. Use "I" statements and specific examples to keep the focus on the issue. Maintain open and friendly body language so she doesn't feel attacked. Be a good listener by allowing her to share her feelings. Ask questions if you need clarification or don’t understand her point of view.

Q: After using your powdered buttermilk, make sure to place it in an airtight container before putting it away. You can usually use the container it came in, as that's generally resealable, but you sometimes may need to transfer the buttermilk to a Tupperware container or something similar. Powdered buttermilk lasts longer if it's kept away from heat and light. Find a cooler place in your kitchen, like the back of a pantry that's far away from the oven, to store your buttermilk. When powdered buttermilk is expired, it will be discolored and give off a strong sour odor. Discard powdered buttermilk that's no longer good. In the original container, it should last for two years. However, if you transfer buttermilk to an airtight plastic container it can last up to 10 years.
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Keep your powdered buttermilk in an airtight container. Store your powdered buttermilk in a cool, dry place. Throw it out when it looks discolored or smells bad. Store buttermilk in a plastic container for a longer shelf life.