When you find yourself time and time again in situations that always seem to escalate into drama, take a step back. Consider each situation on its own. Then compare it with the others. Identify what is similar or constant from one situation to the next so you know exactly when and where to improve your attitude when new situations arise. Ask yourself:  “Do these situations always occur between me and specific people?” “Do they tend to happen at the same time (such as stressful periods like finals at school, unemployment, or the holidays)?” “Am I the only common factor in all these instances?” In the heat of the moment, avoid making a scene over nothing (or losing credibility by overreacting to something that does indeed need to be dealt with). When someone upsets you, take a breath or two before you respond to them. Think of yourself in the third person, as though you are watching yourself from the outside. Examine the reasons why this incident has upset you so you can deal with it in a thoughtful manner instead of acting impulsively. Ask yourself:  “Would I be as upset over this if other parts of my life (school, work, family, etc.) weren’t so stressful at the moment?” “Am I really this upset over this one incident, or am I already angry with this person over something else entirely?” “Would this person do the same thing to me if they knew how much it would upset me, or would they refrain in the future if I simply explained why I don’t appreciate this?” Ride your initial emotions out a little. Identify the reason why you felt upset to begin with. Then think of what steps you can take to actually improve the situation, rather than simply extend it. Choose actions that will solve the matter here and now and reduce the chance of it happening again in the future. Consider whether or not:  Sharing your thoughts and feelings in a calm, straightforward manner will make the other person reconsider their own actions.    {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/08\/Like-Him-Before-You-Love-Him-Step-2-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Like-Him-Before-You-Love-Him-Step-2-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/0\/08\/Like-Him-Before-You-Love-Him-Step-2-Version-2.jpg\/aid17543-v4-728px-Like-Him-Before-You-Love-Him-Step-2-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"546","licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}  Assuring them that they are safe to communicate honestly with you, too, will reduce the risk of future incidents. Walking away from the situation entirely is the only real way to deescalate it.
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One-sentence summary -- Identify the source early on. Think before you act. Act constructively.


Performing a factory reset, or security wipe, will remove all of your personal information and reset the phone to the state it was in when it came out of the box. In the Security Settings menu, select Security Wipe. Check the boxes for each of the items that you want wiped from the phone. If you want to completely erase your information, ensure that all of the boxes are checked. To perform the wipe, you will need to enter the code. Type “blackberry” into the box and then select Wipe. Your BlackBerry will reset multiple times during the wipe process. Once the phone has rebooted, your data will be gone.
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One-sentence summary -- Open the Options on your home screen. Select Security Settings. Choose what you want erased. Enter the code. Wait for the phone to complete the wipe process.


Make your bonfire in an open space away from trees, and have an adult light it. The day the holika is burnt is called "Choti Holi", literally meaning, "Small Holi". The next day is called "Rangwali Holi", meaning the "Holi of colors." Traditionally, 40 days before the Holi celebration, there would be a log placed in the center of town to signify it was time to collect wood for the Holika bonfire. Gather enough wood and combustible material to create a medium-to-large sized pile for your Holika bonfire.  Place any wood or flammable scrap materials on top of the log, so you have a large pile of wood ready to burn. Clean your home before the festivities. On the eve of Holi, place a combustible statue of Holika, the sister of the demon king Hiranyakashipu, in the pile of firewood. Burning Holika in the bonfire symbolizes the triumph of good over evil. She is said to have tried to kill Prahlad, the son of Hiranyakashipu (her brother). Prahlad was a devoted follower of Lord Narayana which infuriated his father who craved all the praise for himself. He plans to kill his son but he escapes because of his faith while holika gets consumed in the fire for her wickedness, despite her gift of escaping fire. You can tie the logs together so they stay in place vertically. Light a match and throw it into the pile of wood to start the fire. You can pour a fire starter like kerosene on the wood to help get the fire going. Focus on the destruction of evil as you see the fire burn.  Make sure to stand far from the wood when trying to start the fire so you don’t get hurt. Also, keep a check on cables or wires around the fire, if any. Wear cotton clothes and hold back your scarves, long hair, etc. Gather friends, family, or the community together to watch the Holika bonfire light.
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One-sentence summary -- Collect and stack the wood. Place the statue of Holika on the wood. Light the bonfire.


Alternatively, you can begin uninstalling the program by double-clicking. If you have User Account Control turned off, this may not be necessary.
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Click Start>Control Panel. Select Programs (or Uninstall a program - skip to Step 4). Select Programs and Features. Choose from the list of programs and software you intend to uninstall by clicking and selecting Uninstall from the options above. Select Continue when a window appears.