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If necessary, make a list of pros and cons for each so you can figure out which would be the best for you, considering all aspects of the representation and the potential relationship. Understand that cost is not your only concern, nor should it be your primary concern. You're dealing with the distribution of everything you've earned and accumulated over your entire life, so it's worth the investment to make sure it's done right. As you prepare to make your final decision, you may realize you didn't get all the information you needed at the interview. If that's the case, you shouldn't hesitate to call or email with follow-up questions so you can make a fully informed decision. If none of the prospects you interviewed feels completely like the right choice, you might want to go back to your long list and interview a few more attorneys until you find one you feel more comfortable with. Once you've made your decision one way or the other, let that attorney know rather than leaving her hanging. Even if you haven't decided who you want to hire, if there are attorneys you've interviewed who you definitely don't want to hire, go ahead and let them know. Before you pay your attorney any money, make sure you know exactly what she's going to do for you, how long it will take, and what documents she will draft. You also should make sure you understand the extra fees for any additional services that might come up while the attorney is working for you. Make sure there's a system in place for notifying you in advance if extra work must be done or if an issue pops up that needs to be dealt with but is outside the initial scope of the attorney's representation. For example, if you have no children when you initially consult with an estate planning attorney, find out what will happen if you have a son and need to incorporate him into your will or make arrangements for a guardian if you die before he turns 18. The written agreement should be signed both by you and your attorney. If you are expected to pay a retainer or other up-front fee for her services, she'll expect payment when the agreement is signed. If a retainer is required, make sure you know how much will be returned to you if you decide to go with someone else or abandon your plan before the attorney has finished his work.
Compare the attorneys you interviewed. Follow up with your prospects if you have additional questions. Consider interviewing other attorneys. Let your prospects know your decision as quickly as possible. Get the final details of the representation in writing. Sign the agreement and pay the retainer or other fee.