Problem: Article: Be clear with yourself about all the qualities that you need in a partner.  You may find that there are more important things to you in a relationship than attraction.  Does your date have any of the qualities that you’re looking for?  You may want a partner who is:  supportive kind intelligent outgoing polite If you seem to always find yourself in relationships that don't fulfill you, you may be putting too much importance on immediate attraction.  Intense attraction to someone can sometimes blind you to the fact that you may not be compatible with them.  What initially attracted you to your former flames? What worked and what didn’t work in your past relationships? Does your current date have different qualities than your former partners? Maybe you want things from a partner that are contradictory.  For example:  Do you want someone who’s very driven to succeed in their career but who also has plenty of free time to spend with you?  If you have traits that you look for in a partner that is contradictory, you may have to choose which ones are more valuable to you.  You’ll have a tough time finding someone who’s dedicated to physical fitness but who will enjoy eating with you at your favorite fast food restaurants. If you want someone who’s extremely social, you can’t expect them to also like spending weekends alone with you at home. Do you have a mental image of your perfect partner that is impossible for people to live up to?  If so, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.  Understand that even though a person might not have every trait you look for in a partner, they could still have a lot of great qualities. If you’re unwilling to bend, you could be miss out on a really amazing person.  You may be shutting yourself off from being attracted to people who don’t meet your intense qualifications. You might be holding people to such a high standard because of your own insecurities.  It might be easier for you to look for reasons to shut a person out than face potential rejection from them.
Summary: Define what is important to you in a relationship. Think about your past. Look for contradictions. Be flexible.

Problem: Article: An x-ray is often the first test a doctor will order. Many bone cancers will show up on an x-ray. While a doctor may be able to see a tumor, the x-ray will only tell the doctor if it's there, not if it's malignant (cancer) or benign (not cancer). A biopsy is when the doctor removes a sample of tissue from a tumor to send to a laboratory. The lab then tests the tissue to see if the tissue is cancerous or not.  The doctor may perform a needle biopsy, where they insert a large needle into the tumor to remove tissue. They will apply an anesthetic first. On the other hand, they may perform a surgical biopsy. In this case, they will cut into your skin, and then take either a piece of the tumor or the whole tumor. Before the biopsy, they will give you appropriate pain meds or anesthesia. If your doctor suspects the cancer has spread, then they may order a CT scan. However, they may also order one to help do a biopsy, since they can use it to show them where the needle should go. A CT scan is basically a series of x-rays that the computer forms into a 3D image of your body. Another scan the doctor may use is an magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) scan. These scans use radio waves and magnetic fields to produce images, and they are useful for looking at soft tissue. These scans show whether the cancer, if there is any, has spread to surrounding tissue. If your doctor locates cancer, they may order a bone scan to get a closer look. A bone scan is a type of x-ray, but they use a needle to inject a bit of radiation into your veins so they can get a more detailed look. After your doctor has reviewed your tests, they should be able to tell you if you have cancer and what stage it is in. Stages range from stage I to stage IV, depending on the severity of your cancer.  Stage I is cancer completely confined to 1 bone. Also, the cancer is not aggressive. Stage II means the cancer is confined to 1 bone, but the cancer is aggressive. In stage III, the cancer has developed in multiple places on the same bone. Stage IV cancer means it has spread to other areas of the body.
Summary: Be ready for an x-ray. Expect a biopsy. Ask about a computed topography (CT) scan. Be ready for a MRI. Agree to a bone scan. Ask your doctor what stage of cancer you're in, if you have it.

Problem: Article: Pseudomonas are most dangerous for people who are in hospitals and have weakened immune systems. Newborns have a higher risk. As an adult, you may have a higher risk if:  You are being treated for cancer You have HIV/AIDS You have cystic fibrosis You are on a breathing machine You are recovering from surgery You have a catheter You are recovering from severe burns You have diabetes mellitus Tell your doctor as soon as possible because you will need prompt attention. Pseudomonas can manifest as many different types of infections, depending on where they are located in your body. You may have:  Pneumonia. This may be associated with an infected breathing machine. An eye infection An ear infection A urinary tract infection that is introduced by a catheter An infected surgical wound An infected ulcer. This may occur to patients that are on prolonged bed rest and develop sores. A blood infection that enters through an intravenous line Your doctor may take a swab sample and send it to the lab to confirm exactly what strain is infecting you. The lab may also be able to help determine what drugs are likely to be effective against the infection. Pseudomonas are often resistant to many commonly prescribed drugs. For many of the drugs that are effective, it is important that your doctor know your complete medical history, particularly if you think you could be pregnant or if you have renal (kidney) impairment. The doctor may prescribe:  Ceftazidime. This is usually effective against a common form, Pseudomonas aeruginosa. It may be administered as an intramuscular injection or through an IV. It may not be appropriate for patients who are allergic to penicillin. Piperacillin/Tazobactam (Tazocin). This is also effective against Pseudomonas aeruginosa. It may interact with other medications, so give your doctor a complete list of what you take. This includes over-the-counter medications, herbal remedies, and supplements. Imipenem. This is a broad-spectrum antibiotic which is often administered with cilastatin. The cilastatin increases the half-life of the imipenem and can also help it better penetrate tissue. Aminoglycosides (Gentamicin, Tobramycin, Amikacin). The dosages of these drugs may need to be adjusted according to your body weight and the health of your kidneys. Your doctor may monitor your blood and hydration levels during these treatments, as side effects can include kidney damage (such as nephrotoxicity) or ear and hearing damage. Ciprofloxacin. This can be taken orally or intravenously. Tell your doctor if you have epilepsy, renal impairment, or think you may be pregnant. Colistin. This can be taken orally, intravenously, or in a nebulized form. Some patients, such as those with cystic fibrosis, may need to change their diet and activity levels to ensure proper nutrition and promote healing.  If you are on a ventilator to help you breathe, your doctor may recommend a diet that is higher in fats and lower in carbohydrates. Carbohydrates can increase the amount of carbon dioxide your body produces, making breathing more difficult when you are on a ventilator. If you have a systemic infection, you may need to limit your activity levels. This may not be the case for a localized infection.
Summary:
Talk to your doctor if you may be at risk. Alert your doctor if you think you are infected. Discuss medications with your doctor. Make dietary and activity changes as recommended by your doctor.