Don’t wait until the very end of the conversation, once the energy has started to die down, to ask. Instead, deliver your request during the high point, when you’re both relaxed and having the most fun together. Once the sparks are flying, you’re feeling at ease, and you’re both laughing and smiling nonstop, pose your question.  When you reach the point where you think, "I'm having such a great time talking to this girl that I don't even want to interrupt it by asking for her phone number," you should ask immediately. If you get her number in the middle of your conversation, you’ll be able to keep chatting and connecting for a little while longer. Don’t head off right after you get her number. She might think you’re in it just to “score” rather than to really connect.  If you feel a lag in the conversation, or she keeps looking around the room, checking her phone, or trying to make eye contact with her friends as an escape, you've missed your chance. Wait until your next conversation to improve your chances of getting her attention and her number. If you really like the girl, instead of simply asking for her digits, invite her to go out with you. Make your intentions clear by asking her to agree to a date. In the middle of your great conversation, say, "I’ll have to go soon, but I really want to keep up this conversation over dinner or drinks next week. What do you think?” If she says she likes the idea, say “Great! Let’s exchange numbers so we can coordinate.”  If you ask her out on a date, getting her number just becomes a minor logistical detail instead of a big deal.  If you’ve been messaging on social media, say something like, “Let’s take this offline -- I’d love to get your cell number so we can arrange a proper date soon.” This approach eliminates the uncertainty around your request. She might be reluctant to give you her number if she doesn’t know why you’re asking. Just make sure you follow through and stay true to your word. If you say you’ll arrange a date, text her within 24 hours with the details. Instead of asking for a favor or pleading for her number, take a more confident, assertive approach. Try something like, “Hey, I need your number so we can coordinate our date next week.” Or, if you’re not discussing a specific date, say, “I’m starting to really like you. I’m gonna need your number so we can keep this up.” Either way, she’ll be flattered by your forward approach and will know that you’re serious about getting together. For a less assertive approach, phrase your request like this: “Let me get your number” or “I’d like to get your number.” Just be sure to follow up with your reason: “... so I can ask you out sometime” or “... so we can talk more soon.” This is a great way to sneak your request into your conversation. While chatting, think of an article link, video, meme, or anything else you could text her a link to. Make sure it’s something she’d enjoy or get a laugh out of. Mention it casually and explain specifically why you think she’d like it. Then, once she’s excited about it, transition into getting her number in order to send her the link or media. If you know she likes a certain guitarist, you could say, “I just saw this incredible cover of one of their songs on YouTube, I think you would love it! Can I send it to you?” Then pull out your phone and say, “So, what’s your number?” For this tactic, it works best if you have a pen and paper handy to jot your number onto. During your conversation, pull out a scrap of paper or a cocktail napkin. Or try playfully grabbing her stack of sticky notes or see if she’ll let you scribble on the corner of her notebook. Then write down your number neatly, along with your name and a cute message that relates to the conversation you’ve been having.  You could say something like, “555-555-1234. For bad guitar playing and great conversation! -Alex” or “John, your not-so-secret admirer: 555-555-1234.” Don’t just slip her your note and run; watch her reaction and see if she smiles or laughs. If she does, ask cutely, “Can I have yours, too?” If she looks a little uncertain, play it cool and explain that you’d love to coordinate a date sometime. Instead of asking for her digits with “Can I have your number?” try phrasing it as a suggestion for something you could do together: “Let’s swap numbers so we can set up that date next week,” or “Hey, how about we exchange numbers so we can keep talking?” Be sure to deliver your suggestion with an upbeat, encouraging tone so she’s more likely to agree.  To get her number after connecting over social media, explain that you’re interested in swapping numbers to take your conversation out of the app and into the real world. If you present it as a fun thing you could both do, she won’t feel like you’re putting her on the spot. If you don’t like the more assertive approaches, try this out. It’s a less direct way of asking the same question.
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One-sentence summary -- Bring up the topic during the middle of your conversation to improve your chances. Try framing your request around specifically asking her out on a date. State that you need her number to make plans together to show that you’re into her. Offer to text her a link or video to get her number while sharing something cool. Give her your number first to prompt her to give you hers if you’re feeling forward. Ask if she wants to exchange numbers if you prefer being more indirect.


One of these styles will suit you best if you plan to use your boat for freshwater fishing in lakes and rivers. You’ll be able to navigate the boat into narrow channels and streams, although the boat may not be suitable for holding more than 1 or 2 people. Anglers also typically prefer center-console or dual-console boats. If you plan to use a boat for freshwater leisure but don’t plan to fish from it, opt for a reliable pontoon boat. Large pontoons can hold as many as 10 or 12 people, so they’re also a popular option for family parties or spending a day on the lake with your friends. New pontoon boats range from $20–$30,000 USD, but used models will cost less. If you want a fast boat that you can cruise in, check out cabin cruiser, cuddy cabin, and dinghy or dory designs. These are day-use boats that will allow you to cruise over the open ocean for hours at a time. Smaller cruisers can also be taken in rivers or large lakes. If you want a high-powered boat for fast cruising in the ocean, spring for a speedboat or sport boat. If you’ll be using your boat primarily for watersports on lakes, and want the option to tow an individual behind you, a mid-size towboat will be your best option. These boats will create a sizeable wake behind you, and feature a deck large enough to house several people. Bowriders and towboats would not be suitable for staying overnight on. New models will cost around $54,000, but a used model will cost substantially less.
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Opt for a flat boat, or a bay or bass style if you’re an angler. Purchase a pontoon for slow-paced relaxation. Buy a cabin cruiser, cuddy cabin, or dinghy for ocean cruising. Purchase a bowrider or towboat for towing wakeboarders or water-skiers.