Q: Most people tend to associate drinking with some sort of activity, setting, feeling or time of day. Just thinking about socially drinking can lead to increased cravings for alcohol. So, your own thoughts can be triggers to drinking. Negative feelings such as stress and anxiety can also trigger cravings for alcohol.  Clubbing or going to bars is also often associated with drinking and it might be difficult to stop your cravings when visiting such places and witnessing everyone around you drinking. That is why, at least while your cravings are really strong, you should do your best to avoid such trigger settings. You might feel sure that you won’t be tempted to drink, but it is still best not to test yourself, at least in the beginning. This is not to say that you should avoid your friends or having fun, just try to do it in places that don’t remind you of alcohol. Memories from your past can also contribute to cravings. If you start remembering all the good times you had drinking with friends and partying, stop and try to focus on your negative experiences with alcohol instead.  Think of all those times when you felt physically horrible because of alcohol, or call to your mind the times when you made huge mistakes because you were drunk. Concentrate on how these situations made you feel and tell yourself that you don’t want to feel this way again. If you don't like dwelling on negative memories, try concentrating on the future. Try to picture, as vividly as you can, all the wonderful things that will happen to you in the future and think about how alcohol will get in the way of these hopes and dreams. Social support is integral to combating cravings for alcohol. Have you ever been on a diet? As most people who have will let you know, dieting together with friends or family members is much easier than doing it by yourself. This way, when you are craving a piece of moist chocolate cake, you can talk to someone who will help you overcome the craving. The same goes for other types of cravings as well, including those induced by alcohol.  The first thing you should do on your path to overcoming alcohol cravings is pick one or several people whom you trust and love. Share your experiences with them and ask them not to judge you, because this can only push you further into your cravings, instead of making things easier. Next, tell them that you need their support whenever you feel a craving coming on. They can take you out, simply talk on the phone or engage you in any other way. This type of encouragement will go a long way in helping you deal with the cravings. If you don’t yet feel ready to tell a friend or family member about your problem, you can contact an Alcoholics Anonymous group near you. A.A. has a spiritual component and many of the 12-steps involve a relationship with a higher power (which can be anything greater or more powerful than yourself such as a group of people or Mother Nature). Spirituality and religiosity can assist individuals in reducing cravings for alcohol.  The people there have lots of experience in dealing with this exact sort of problem. Even if you don’t feel you are an alcoholic you can give this option a try, as additional support never hurts. Feeling emotionally supported is an incredibly important aspect of overcoming any hardship. That’s because we, as human beings, need other people in order to feel well, especially during difficult periods of our lives. Therefore, the emotional support you get from a support group like Alcoholics Anonymous is something that can make or break your willingness to fight the cravings. You are probably used to drinking alcohol while doing certain activities and being around certain people. Over time, your brain gets used to being stimulated by alcohol in these exact situations and therefore craves a drink whenever you are performing this activity. However, this is dangerous and addictive behavior and the best way to break it is by changing your routine.  For example, if you like having a few drinks while reading, try to change things up a bit – you could read your book in the park or go to a library, where you won't be able to take alcohol with you. Another option is to make yourself some tea, freshly squeezed juice or another non-alcoholic beverage. This way your brain will still get what it is used to because you will be drinking something. With time, you will be able to substitute another drink for alcohol and not even miss it. Alcohol cravings are something that you may need to deal with long after you have sobered up. However, they will get easier to deal with over time, so it's important to be patient and to have faith in yourself.  Even though it can sometimes feel overwhelming, you should always remember that you are much stronger than the cravings and life without alcohol holds much more diversity and happiness. Some of the techniques to deal with cravings might seem a bit silly or awkward at first, but don’t write them off without trying them at least ones or twice – it might turn out that the one that seems the silliest works best for you.
A: Learn what your triggers are and try to avoid them. Think about the past and focus on the future. Seek support from someone you trust. Contact a local branch of Alcoholics Anonymous. Try changing your routine. Be patient and stay focused.

Q: Keep a good balance between casual and formal, bombshell and girl-next-door, absolutely stunning and subtly sexy. Don't be afraid to take chances with your style, but above all, be sure that what you're wearing is the best possible outfit.  If you feel like getting that extra top or those one pair of jeans will set you over the top, go for it. It's okay to reward yourself, especially if it makes you feel good. If you have a sense of what type of girl he likes, try to dress the part. Don't be anyone you're not, but try to incorporate elements of that style into your wardrobe. Make sure you smell good by taking a shower at a good time every day. If you can't take a shower for whatever reason, give the smelly parts of your body, especially your underarms, a mini bath by lathering up with soap and rinsing with a bit of water. Make sure your hair isn't greasy. Greasy hair, for the most part, is not attractive. If you have very oily skin, you may need to shampoo your hair every two days (or every day if it's really bad). Your face is a big part of what will attract him to you, so make sure that it looks as pretty as possible. There aren't any big changes that you can make in 10 days, but definitely focus on:  Eliminating pimples and acne. If you have breakouts, wash your face twice a day, moisturize after each wash, eat healthy, and use acne-busting products.  Use minimal makeup to cover up blemishes or imperfections. Guys like girls with natural looks, so don't cake the makeup on. Use it sparingly but effectively. Get your facial hair under control, if necessary. If your eyebrows are shaggy, consider getting them sculpted. If you have visible hair on your lip, consider removing it.  Make your lips look luscious and kissable. A small amount of lip balm and lip gloss could send your lips into unstoppable kissable territory. Maybe you love the way that your hair looks. If you don't, it'll be important to find a hairstyle that fits your face. Short hair might be an option; adding curl and volume might be another! 10 days won't be a lot of time for you to get back in shape, but it will be a good start. What's important is that you're treating your body with love and giving it what it needs. Try any combination of the following if you feel like you want to get back in shape.  Join an intramural sports team/league. If you love playing soccer, try to join a league. If basketball is good fit, get together with another group of basketball lovers. Join any team that makes you want to exercise. Consider joining a gym or using gym equipment. Joining a gym will let you take advantage of lots of different equipment, all under one roof. Use the gym to do cardio exercises like running (treadmill, incline), swimming, and cycling (spinning). If nothing else, try to walk for 30 minutes every day. Walking for 30 minutes every day gives your body a small, but important, bit of exercise. If you can't join a sports team or gym, and don't want to do cardio, then walking will help you exercise.
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For 10 straight days, wear your absolute best clothes. Always be clean. Pay attention to how your face looks. Find a style for your hair that works. Start exercising.