Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Calm down. Show the right body language. Use a calm voice. Bring your horse to an enclosed paddock or ring on a 30 feet (9.1 m) line. Lead the horse around the pen. Move toward the center of the pen while encouraging the horse to move away. Position the line. Work the horse in circles around you. Continue to push the horse on gently. Look for other signs from the horse. Change your body language. Reward the horse. Get the horse to follow.

Answer: Going into it with a nervous or angry attitude is not going to get you anywhere. The Join Up depends on the horse viewing you as the calm at the center of the storm, so you must present a safe and trustworthy person to approach. Take a few deep breaths and make sure the horse knows you're confident and relaxed.  Remember that the horse will almost always mimic you. If you're jumping everywhere and shouting, the horse will respond by running and acting aggressively. Maintain relaxed body language and don't show fear. If you show fear or hesitation, then the horse will take this as a sign of submission from you, and it will take a lot longer to join up. Stand tall but in a non-aggressive, non-confrontational manner. This means making your movements soft and fluid rather than tense and jerky. Keep your hands close to your body. A horse may take fright at objects perceived as being waved around, so presenting a uniform silhouette poses less of a threat. Use a sing-song, happy, calm tone of voice. As soon as you shout or berate the horse, you have broken the Join Up because the horse understands your attitude as well as the tone and timbre of your voice. Your aim at this stage is to familiarize the horse with the arena, so the animal can see it holds no surprises. You also want to show the horse you are calm and not a threat. The horse might be a little scared or confused. Lead the animal around the safe, enclosed area for a few minutes. Change direction a few times as you lead to set yourself as "leader." You may also want to talk to the horse in a gentle voice as you do this to help calm the animal. You want to encourage the horse to move toward the perimeter. To do this, you may need to firmly "shoo" the horse away. You do not want to frighten the animal, but merely point out that it needs to be somewhere else, in the same way a mother may send her foal away. The process of moving the horse away presents you as lead mare. You will still have the longline attached to the horse’s halter. As the horse moves away from you, throw the line out behind the animal while keeping hold of the clip. Position the line to the far side of the horse. This will cause the line to trail alongside the animal’s body, behind the tail, and across the hind quarters. Flicking on the long line now has the effect of geeing the horse forward. Encourage the horse to move in a circle around you. Continue to push the horse on gently, working in circles around you. As the horse becomes familiar with what's expected, you will see its body language start to change. The horse may angle its head toward you and twitch the inside ear (the one closest to you) toward you as if awaiting instructions. This is a sign that the horse is ready to negotiate his position and do what you want. You will see the horse angle his head to you, which is a sign he is ready to negotiate his position according to what you want. After 5 or 6 circuits (if using a 50-foot diameter pen), change direction by blocking the horse using body language, but not actually getting in the way. After another 5 or 6 circuits change direction again, and start to coil the line and maybe drop eye contact down to the neck/shoulder. Other signs the horse is paying attention and looking for your guidance include making the circle smaller, turning the inside ear toward you, licking or chewing at the air, and lowering the head perhaps even touching the nose to the ground as if looking for somewhere to graze. The fact that the horse is relaxed but looking to you for instruction means the horse has started to trust you. Now you are both ready to move onto the next phase and test that trust. When you see these signs, drop eye contact completely and soften your body language. Try bringing the hand nearest the horse across your stomach with fingers closed. Turn your back and take a few steps away from the horse while remaining alert (watch out he/she may lose attention on you while you are not looking). This will cause the horse to come toward you slowly and 'join up'.  If everything goes according to plan, when you turn your back and walk away, the horse will step toward you and follow. This is the same way a foal follows the mother when she moves off. You want to reward this behavior so that the horse is more likely to repeat it in future.  If things don't go to plan and the horse ignores you, start working the animal in a circle again and go back to the beginning. However, if the horse is starting to tire, stop and try again another day. You can rub between the eyes or offer a nice stroke on the neck. This is how horses naturally groom each other or assure a lower status horse. They do not approach the lead mare unless she is very relaxed and not exerting her authority. Stand next to the horse on the near side, facing forward. Walk off and circle around the horse’s nose to the right. The horse will follow when you have established that you are the leader. Complete a small circle and reward the horse. Do this in both directions.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Create some ground rules. Create mutually-agreed boundaries. Look for the good she does and praise it. Talk about how she makes you feel.

Answer: If you live with your mother-in-law, establish some ground rules for living together. If you know there are things that might cause conflict, talk about them beforehand and make sure everyone understands the rules and why they are in place.  For example, tell your mother-in-law that the children do not eat sugar past a certain time and that she is not to give them any before bed. Set the ground rules with your spouse and present them to your mother-in-law together. If it is your mother-in-law's house, respect her rules and authority in her home. If the home belongs to you and your spouse, make sure she understands how you like to run your home. Both you and your mother-in-law may enjoying having your own space and ways of doing things. Ask your mother-in-law how you might make her comfortable in the home while enforcing your own needs and desires. As long as your boundaries don't conflict, try to respect her space and independence.For example, your mother-in-law may be comfortable helping pay for groceries, but she may not want to hand over control of her money. Respect this request by establishing ahead of time what she can contribute monthly to the household budget. Look for the good things about her, not just the bad. If she’s always cleaning despite you telling her not to, thank her for her care and contribution. Find the positive ways she adds to your life, your partner’s life, and even your kids’ lives. If possible, do this in her presence and be genuine. If she buys you and your family things, say, “Thank you, that was thoughtful of you.” If you’re in conflict with your mother-in-law and it’s not resolving over time or on its own, it’s time to talk about it. If she tends to criticize your marriage or your parenting, let her know how this makes you feel. Be kind and honest and tell her what you’d like instead. Aim to find resolutions to your problems.  Do your best not to accuse her or blame her. Instead, share how you feel using “I” statements. For example, say, “I feel undermined when you say in front of my spouse and kids that I’m not a good parent. Even if we disagree, please respect my parenting.” You can get your spouse involved to provide a different perspective. They can also talk to her on your behalf.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Understand that your toddler must wear a helmet at all times. Explain the safety rules to your toddler. Offer a reward for good behavior. Stick to the path when biking with toddlers.

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With your toddler still being physically weak, it is important to remind yourself to never omit a helmet at any stage or time when you are out on the bike outing, be it even for a short ride in the house or playground. This should never be taken lightly as omitting the use of a helmet could lead to serious brain injuries. Before heading out to bike, you should also explain to your child that riding a bike comes with its own risks if they do things wrong.  It is important to instruct your children to not to try to get out of the straps or buckles of the bike seat or trailer. If you find your child to be trying to move around a lot and is somewhat distracting you, help them stay focused on their surroundings by pointing out important landmarks or beautiful plants along the way. Tell them to keep their hands on the handlebars or sleep rolls and to try not to snatch things along the way. A good and snug harness or seat belt can often eliminate this from happening. You can also encourage your child to behave during the bike ride by promising them a reward. This can either be a treat or extra TV time if they do well along the way. However, this may not be necessary as your child gets used to riding a bike and begins to appreciate the beautiful views that he comes across during the travel. As a final thought, it is important to note that your bike outings should be limited to a bike path instead of any other terrain when you have a little one with you. This minimizes the risk of accidents and helps to keep your toddler safe.