You might hate to see your child struggling, but slip-ups are part of the learning process. Let your adult child make their own mistakes and then figure out how to fix them. This will improve their resilience and give them a sense of agency. This does not mean that you cannot be there to offer advice and help. It just means that they will have to do the work themselves and that you will not solve your adult child’s problems for them. Talk with your child about saving money, living frugally, and avoiding debt. Start doing this as early as possible. It is best to begin talking to your child about these things when they are still young. However, if you did not do this with your adult child, then you can do things to help them now. Help them come up with a weekly or monthly  budget so they’ll be prepared to manage their money when they move out. Charging your child a reasonable amount of rent is a good way to prepare them for paying bills later. Offer to look over your child’s resume, do mock interviews with them, or help them pick out professional clothes. If you know people who might be able to help with networking, give your child their names and phone numbers. Avoid doing any of the actual work of job hunting. For instance, don’t call your professional contacts yourself – let your child do it. If your adult child is working hard to become less dependent on you, cheer them on. Poor self-esteem often contributes to low achievement in young adults, but genuine support and encouragement can help give your child the confidence they need to make it on their own. You might say something like, “I’m so proud of you for getting this big job interview. Even if you don’t get the job, it’s still a great start!” Failure to launch syndrome is often caused by underlying problems like mental illness or substance abuse. If you think your child may be struggling with depression, addiction, or a similar issue, help them set up an appointment with a therapist. Seeking help for your child may even be a requirement if they are living with you.
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One-sentence summary -- Avoid sheltering your child from mistakes and consequences. Teach your child good financial skills. Help your child prepare for  finding a job. Encourage your child’s efforts. Consider whether therapy could help your child.

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Article: If you are in a noisy setting, now is your chance to get people’s attention. You can do so with a carefully rehearsed shout, a clinking of a glass or an exclamation like, “Give me a thumbs up if you can hear me in the back.” . Start with a friendly and sincere tone. Answer the question, “Why are we all here?” Feel free to start with a quick, funny anecdote to set the mood. Recognize anyone who helped put on the event. If the producers of the event want to identify big donors, now is the time to sincerely thank them. From the time you start presenting until the event finishes, you should be in good humor and have a smile.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Call the event to order. Welcome the audience Introduce yourself. Introduce the people who put the event on. Smile.

Article: There are 6 universal human emotions: happiness, surprise, anger, fear, sadness, and disgust. These fall into two categories: positive (happiness, surprise) and negative (anger, fear, sadness, disgust) emotions. To identify these in others, you need to know what kinds of actions and behaviors they are associated with. These include:  Positive emotions reduce stress, improve mood, and increase our memory and awareness. For example: happiness, surprise, sympathy, kindness, love, courage, confidence, inspiration, relief, etc.  Negative emotions increase stress, allow us to recognize threats, and deal with challenging situations. Examples are: sadness, fear, anger, contempt, disgust, etc.  The two most important regions of the brain for expressing and understanding emotion are the amygdala complex and the prefrontal cortex. Damage to either of these areas can impair someone's ability to read emotion. In general, people express emotion through the eyes and/or mouth. The region of the face in which a person displays emotion is influenced by culture. For example, people focus on the eyes in Japan, while people in the United States interpret emotion in the mouth. When reading emotion, look at her entire face and not just the eyes. Stand far enough away so you can see her face, but have a normal conversation. About 1 1/2 to 4 feet is a good distance to keep between yourself and the other person. Next to facial expressions, tone of voice is the second most important way people express emotion. People use their voice to both show and control their emotions. However, some emotions are not conveyed through voice. For example, people can easily identify relaxed, stressed, boredom, contentment, and confidence from tone of voice. Emotions weakly expressed through tone of voice include fear, friendliness, happiness, and sadness.  Similar tones of voice can express different emotions. For example, a tense/harsh voice is associated with anger and hostility as well as confidence and interest. A whispery or soft tone of voice can be associated with a range of emotions. These include relaxation, contentment, intimacy, friendship, sadness, and boredom. A soft, breathy voice (where the person takes loud breathes while they talk) is associated with fear, shyness, and nervousness. When you look her does she portray a friendly atmosphere, or is she more reserved? Emotion can be experienced unconsciously – without you being aware of it. Using your best judgment and going with your gut feeling can sometime be the best way to read emotion.  Recognize emotion in others by noting your reaction. Often, we mirror the emotions of others in our facial expression, tone of voice, and behavior.  Emotions are contagious. We’re affected by emotion in other people. Our mood and behavior changes depending on how someone else is feeling. This is why if someone smiles at you, you are likely to smile back! Emotions can influence health in both positive and negative ways. If a friend or family member is sick or feels tired all the time, she might be stressed-out or depressed.  Physical symptoms of mental illness and depression include: headaches or migraines, low energy, stomach problems, back pain, changes in eating habits, and alcohol or drug use.  Mental and emotional symptoms of mental illness and depression include: confusion, sudden and extreme mood changes, isolation from friends, unable to cope with everyday problems, and increased anger or violence. Teach yourself to recognize emotions in others by becoming more aware of them in yourself. The four branches of emotion intelligence are: (1) be able to perceive emotions in yourself and others; (2) use emotions to promote thinking; (3) understand the significance of emotions; and (4) manage emotions. Strategies to improve emotional intelligence include:  Put down your phone and step away from your computer. Improve your social skills and ability to read nonverbal cues by engaging in face-to-face communication on a daily basis.  Don’t back away from uncomfortable or negative feelings in yourself or others. These are important and necessary. If you feel sad or angry, step back and think about why you are feeling this way. Then, try to counteract the negative emotion with three positive ones. Listen to your body – a knot in your stomach may be stress, or a fluttering heart may be attraction or excitement. Keep a journal or record of your thoughts and feelings. Several times a week, stop and write down what you are doing and how you are feeling. You can include other information such as how much sleep you had the night before, or what you had for breakfast. Ask a close friend or family member – someone you know and trust – to read your emotions. Sometimes other people know us better than ourselves. Their answers can be surprising and insightful.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Recognize positive and negative human emotions. Focus on the eyes and mouth. Listen to the tone of voice. Observe and note the general behavior and demeanor. Assess the other person’s physical well-being. Develop and improve your emotional intelligence.