Q: Wardrobe staples are items that never go out of style, which means you can rock them at any time and feel confident that you look stylish. It’s really easy to build an outfit around staple pieces, especially if they’re solid colors that you can mix-and-match with other items in your closet.  Classic staple pieces are basic white T-shirts, black leggings, neutral-colored cardigans, long-sleeved button-down shirts, blue jeans, and black leather jackets. Don't cater too much to the trends—these usually last just a season. Wear trendy pieces as accents and mix these up with your basic pieces. Once you determine a base item, you can easily build complementary pieces around it to complete your outfit. This could be a top, bottom, or even a cool pair of shoes. Picking the rest of your ensemble will be a snap once you have the initial element laid down! For example, you might decide you want to wear black skinny jeans, a colorful halter top, or a patterned sweater. Contrasting colors break up your outfit and keep it from looking uniform. When choosing contrasting colors, try to stay within the same shade range. If you start with a neutral, pair it with a contrasting neutral.  For example, pair a jewel-toned color with another jewel-toned color. If your base piece is pastel, choose a contrasting pastel piece to go with it. Pairing a white top with black jeans is a simple way to make your neutral outfit pop. Neutrals work in any season. Wear a pastel pink skirt with a pastel blue polo shirt for a cute spring look. A burgundy long-sleeved shirt under a sleeveless forest-green corduroy dress would be great for fall. Avoid wearing multiple patterns or prints simultaneously. If your base item is a cute plaid skirt, make sure your other elements are solid. Choose solid colors pulled from the pattern of your base item to pull your look together. For example, if your plaid skirt is mostly navy blue with forest green and tan as secondary colors, choose a top that matches 1 of the secondary colors to tie the look together. You can always tuck in your shirt completely, but if you’re styling a casual outfit with a loose top, experiment with tucking half of the front of the top into your pants. That way, your waist isn’t lost in baggy layers and your outfit looks a little more polished. For example, half-tuck a loose sweater into regular fit blue jeans for a cozy, stylish look that doesn’t swallow you whole. Layers can quickly elevate any outfit and create a more stylish vibe. Cardigans, hoodies, tights, vests, and jackets are typically considered to be third layers. Select colors that tie into or contrast with your outfit. Opt for fabrics with a different texture than your base items.  For example, pair a pumpkin-colored cable knit cardigan with a burgundy silk top and dark wash skinny jeans. Elevate a basic white T-shirt and blue jeans with a black leather moto jacket. Top off your outfit with a well-cut blazer or fuzzy cardigan in a contrasting color. Create a streamlined look by selecting layers that make sense with the cut and style of your base pieces. It can be fun to pair contrasting styles, but wearing layers in similar styles always looks put-together and effortless!  For example, avoid wearing bulky or baggy layers on top of fitted pieces. If you're wearing skinny jeans and a fitted shirt, top it off with a slim-cut cardigan or perfectly tailored blazer for a polished ensemble. If you're wearing an edgy graphic T-shirt with your favorite band's name emblazoned on the front, pull on a leather jacket and biker boots to complete your street-ready look.
A: Buy staple pieces that you can mix-and-match for an effortless look. Select a base item to build the rest of your outfit around. Opt for pieces in contrasting solid colors to create visual interest. Pair print or patterned base items with solid-colored pieces. Try a half-tuck so that your shape isn’t swallowed up by a baggy top. Choose a third layer in a complementary or contrasting color and texture. Go with cuts and styles that flatter each other when building layers.

Q: If your ex is digitally abusing you, you should stop all communication with them. Don't respond to their texts, their messages, e-mails, or calls. By not reacting or responding to them, you help lessen their power over you.  Ignore all calls, texts, posts, and messages. Don't answer the phone or respond. If your ex sends you an email, read the email and save a copy, but don't respond to it. If your ex is digitally abusive after a breakup, delete and block them from contacting you in any way. Block their number and remove it from your phone. You can also block them from your social media accounts, like Facebook. Get a new e-mail address or social media account name if they won't leave you alone. When you are dealing with digital abuse, you shouldn't post about where you are on your social media accounts. This can let your ex know where you are and may put you in danger. If you want to post about something you have done, do it afterwards when you are no longer there. Ask your friends not to post that they are with you on social media. Ask them not to post photos of you or tag you in posts while you are out. Check your social media notifications and feeds occasionally to make sure that request is honored. To help protect you from your ex, you should make your accounts private. Most social media, like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, allow you to lock your account so only people you approve can see your content.  Change any passwords that you think your ex may have to your social media sites or e-mail. Check the privacy settings on your social media account. For example, block your ex but understand that they may have friends in common with you. Make sure you know exactly who you share information with when you post on social media. Taking action to protect yourself on social media can help prevent your ex from hacking into any of your accounts. One form of digital abuse your ex might engage in is publically bashing you or talking about you on social media. If this happens, don't engage with them. Instead, as hard as it may be, ignore them. When you respond to your ex, you are giving them the attention they want and showing them that they are getting to you. This just encourages them to keep harassing you. One way to help put an end to digital abuse is to take a social media break. This takes away your ex's outlet for attacking you, and you can take a step away from the situation.  During your social media break, focus on yourself. Going through a breakup is hard, and it's even harder when you experience abuse. Do things for yourself to make yourself feel good. Spend time with family and friends so you won't be alone and you can take your mind off the situation.
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Stop all communication. Block your ex. Avoid posting where you are on social media. Make all of your social media accounts private. Avoid responding to them on social media. Take a break from social media.