In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Communication styles are learned from our earliest years so it might be difficult to tell what assertiveness looks like.  If a child observes aggressive interactions, they will most likely adopt that style. Someone might respond aggressively to you when you get when you want. The other person is put on the defensive and feels intimidated.   An aggressive response might look like this:  One person says, “Our guests will be arriving any minute. Do you think you could get me a clean shirt sometime this century?” The other person responds with, “I have to finish getting the food ready. Why don't you get off your lazy duff and get your own clean shirt?” Both people are communicating aggressively. Each is aiming to get what they need without regard for the other person. When someone gets what they want out of a situation, this might leave you feeling resentful, angry or taken advantage of. If you respond passively, you won't stand up for your own needs.  A passive response might look like this:  One person says, “Our guests will be arriving any minute. Do you think you could get me a clean shirt sometime this century?” The other person responds with, “Fine. I guess the food will just be late. Don't blame me if everyone complains.” The first person is still being aggressive and the second person responds passively. One gets what he wants while the other doesn't stand up for her needs. Even if the other person is being aggressive or passive, respond with assertiveness. Assert your rights and feelings by telling the other person what you don't like. Tell the other person what you need.  One person might say, “Our guests will be arriving any minute. Do you think you could get me a clean shirt sometime this century?” The other person can respond assertively with: “The clean shirts are hanging in the closet. I need to finish getting the food ready.” Although the first person's request is still aggressive and sarcastic, the second person is able to respond assertively. She could further assert her rights and feelings by telling the first person that she doesn't like the sarcasm and that she would appreciate it if he would see that they are both busy getting ready for the party. In an assertive response, both you and the other person feel respected and heard.  Even if you have learned to respond aggressively or passively, you can still learn to communicate assertively and respectfully. One person says, “Our guests will be arriving any minute. Do I have any clean shirts?” The other person responds with, “Yes, there are several in the closet. I need about five more minutes with the food.” Both people address their needs while respecting those of the other.
Summary: Recognize an aggressive response. Recognize a passive response. Determine if you're using one-sided assertiveness. Recognize assertive responses.

Attend church regularly and help the church with their community initiatives. Be an active volunteer and get to know the leaders and members of the church.  Becoming friendly with church leaders and staff could improve your chances to become a pastor later on. In addition to getting to know church members, regularly practicing the religion and learning the doctrine can help prepare you to become a pastor Certain denominations have restrictions on who can become a pastor. For instance, in certain types of Christianity, only non-divorced straight men can become pastors. Other religions may have looser or more strict restrictions. The pastor of your church will be able to tell you what these restrictions are for your religion. Non-denominational churches typically have looser requirements to become a pastor. Many pastors have a bachelor’s or master’s degree in theology or related field. Find a university or college that offers an accredited theological program and apply to the program. While a higher degree in theology isn’t required to become a pastor, it will greatly improve your chances of becoming one. Sign up to a counseling class or training with a local university or college. Getting trained in counseling will give you the tools that you need to help people with their life problems and will mentally prepare you for some of the scenarios you may find yourself in as a pastor. These problems could include things like abuse, addiction, marital problems, and other important life issues. To become a pastor, you’ll need to be completely devoted to your religion. Without an internal desire to spread the religion and help others, you’ll fail as a pastor. The path to becoming a pastor can often be long and arduous, so keep this in mind before you start your journey. Consider other job opportunities and make sure that being a pastor is the only thing you want to do.
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One-sentence summary -- Become a good standing member in your church. Talk to your pastor to see the restrictions for your religion. Get a degree in theology to improve your chances of becoming a pastor. Get additional training or education in counseling. Have a close connection with your religion.

Q: You can buy large wooden letters at a craft store. You can decorate with them paint or glitter and use them to spell words. For example, four people could stand together and spell out the word "Prom." If you want, paint the letters in your school's colors. A fun shot can be one of everyone jumping in the air. If you want a creative pose, have all your friends line up. Then, have everyone jump while you take a picture. It can be hard to get the exact right jump shot. Try having people jump up and down while someone takes multiple shots. This way, you'll have a lot of options. Don't be afraid to add props to your pictures. You can hold up things that represent your high school experience. For example, if you're on the hockey team, hold up a hockey stick. If your mascot is the panther, hold up a stuffed panther.  You can also make use of any props near your surroundings. For example, if your home has a swing set, take pictures of people playing on it. Try funny props to lighten the mood. Hold giant pairs of sunglasses, for example, or put on fake mustaches. Not all your prom photos have to be dead serious. To add some fun to your photos, use glitter and confetti. Take handfuls of glitter and confetti and throw them in the air while pictures are being taken. This can give your photographs a magical, fairy tale-like feel. Be careful to throw glitter away from your clothing. It can easily get stuck to dresses and suits.
A: Pose with letters. Jump while taking a picture. Try adding some props. Use glitter and confetti.

Problem: Article: Open up one of the containers that the doctor gave you. There should be a small shovel-like tool attached to the cap of the container. Use the shovel to scoop a small bit of stool into the container. Try to take some stool from each end and from the middle. The size of the sample will vary somewhat with the test. Sometimes your doctor will give you a container with a red line and liquid on the inside. You will want to put in enough stool to raise the liquid to the level of the red line. If not, aim for a sample approximately the size of a grape. Flip over the contents of the hat/plastic wrap into the toilet. Flush away the stool and deposit the hat/plastic wrap and any other garbage into a trash bag. Tie the trash bag in a knot, and put it somewhere that you cannot smell it. Whenever possible the sample should be returned immediately. If you are not doing so, it should be refrigerated. Put the container with the stool in a sealed bag and store in the fridge. Label it with your name, date, and time of collection. Consider an opaque bag so that no one can see your stool sample. Under no circumstances should you wait more than 24 hours before returning the sample to a doctor. The bacteria in your stool will grow and change. Usually your doctor will want the sample back within two hours to get an accurate result. Follow up with your doctor to get the results of your stool sample.
Summary:
Deposit sample in the container. Dispose of your collection device. Refrigerate the sample. Return the samples to your doctor as soon as possible.