Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Think about whether you will go. Identify the type of occasion. Respond in a timely manner.

Answer: Your first step and decision will be to determine when you are going to the actual event. You should reflect on whether you’ll go to the event as soon as you get the RSVP email.  Consider the location of the event and if you’ll have to travel. For example, if someone invites you to an out-of-town wedding, you may need to buy airplane tickets to get there. This could be costly. Plan to make sure you don’t have any other events that time and day. Talk to your partner and other members of your family to make sure they are available. You may wind up declining for some members of your family and accepting for others. Different types of occasions require different tones and levels of formality. Thus, you need to think about the occasion before replying to the invitation. This will help make sure that you’re not making a social misstep.  Is it an informal event. For example, is the occasion a BBQ that your neighbor is having for no reason and sent out an informal email about? This type of event may merit an informal tone in your reply and you may have less time to respond. Is it a formal event. Events like weddings, birthday parties, Bar or Bat Mitzvahs require you to respond in a formal tone just as you were invited. After you’ve made your decision and reflected on the event, you’ll need to respond in a timely manner. Ultimately, this is one of the most important aspects of replying to an RSVP email, as you need to give the person sufficient notice of whether you are attending the event or not.  Read the invitation for a “RSVP by” date. This date is not a suggestion. Make sure you RSVP by the date. Respond as quickly as you can. While the person who invited you may have given you a month or two to respond, this doesn’t mean you should take that entire window of time. Instead, you should respond as soon as you’ve made a concrete decision about whether you will attend.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Make a packing list. Take your passport and travel documents. Determine what clothing to take. Pack versatile shoes. Organize your toiletries. Don’t forget entertainment and important miscellaneous items. Add a few romantic items.

Answer: In order to ensure you don’t forget any important items, you should make a list of everything you plan to take on your honeymoon. The list will help you organize your belongings and you can check things off as you pack them. If you are traveling internationally you will need to have your passport and other travel documents, such as tickets for flights, hotel confirmation, and rental car information. You should also have your health card, credit cards, and travel insurance information. Take photocopies of important documents, like your passport, in case anything happens to the original. Your trip destination will determine the type of clothing you need to pack for your honeymoon. Consider the weather and activities you plan on doing, to help pack appropriate clothing. It can also be helpful to pre-plan outfits, to avoid over packing. Some essential clothing items, for a 7-10 day trip, may include:  Shirts: 4 t-shirts or tank tops, 2 long sleeved shirts or sweaters, and 2 nicer tops for dinner. Pants: 2 pairs Shorts and/or skirts: 4 or 5 pairs Underwear and socks: 7-10 pairs Sleepwear: 1 or 2 sets Swimwear: 1 or 2 bathing suits Formal wear: 1-2 full outfits Jacket: 1 Shoes are bulky and take up a lot of room in your luggage. Try to cut down on the number of shoes you take, by packing shoes that work with lots of different outfits and activities. However, depending on your trip, you may need a few different shoe options. These could include:  Casual walking shoes: 1 pair Running shoes: 1 pair Sandals: 1 or 2 pairs Dress shoes: 1 pair Toiletries can add up, so make sure to use travel sized items when possible. This will help conserve some space in your bag. If you are tight for space, you can also purchase some items on your trip. You should consider packing the following toiletries:  Toothbrush and toothpaste Soap and shampoo Hairbrush and hair supplies Razor and shaving supplies Deodorant Cosmetics Perfume or cologne Sunscreen, aloe gel, and bug repellent Medications - Asprin, antihistamine, antacid, antidiarrheal, any prescription medications, etc. Birth control/condoms You will want to bring some form of entertainment to use on a long flight or to enjoy while lounging on the beach. You may want to pack:  A book and/or magazine A camera and charger A music device, such as an ipod or phone, along with headphones and charger A deck of playing cards Sunglasses Travel/guide book Electric power converter/adapter A hat, such as a baseball or sun hat. A tote bag or small backpack, for taking to the beach or other day trips during the vacation. This is your honeymoon so you may want to pack a few items to help spice things up. Some options include:  A formal outfit to wear to a nice dinner, such as a dress or suit. New lingerie, sleepwear, or bath robes as a surprise for your partner. Massage oils or lubricants.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Scrape off the old foam with a wire brush. Vacuum the headliner panel to remove small pieces. Repair any damage to the panel with aluminum tape.

Answer: The headliner panel will have lots of small pieces of foam and adhesive on it. Use a gentle scraping motion to remove all of the bits of old foam stuck on the panel.  Be careful not to scrape too hard or you could damage the panel. You can use 80-grit sandpaper to remove small bits of adhesive. Use the hose attachment on a vacuum cleaner and run it over the entire surface of the headliner panel. The vacuum will suck up all of the tiny bits of loose foam and debris that can affect the adhesion of the new panel you install. Vacuum the corners and edges of the headliner panel as well. If there are cuts, rips, or tears in the headliner panel, they need to be repaired in order for the new headliner to adhere correctly. Take a strip of aluminum tape and apply it over the damaged area to create a smooth and uniform surface.  Use your hands to smooth the tape after you apply it so there aren’t any creases or bubbles. You can find aluminum tape at hardware stores, department stores, and online.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Plan ahead. Watch what you say. Stroke their ego while guiding them. Do not expect to please them.

Answer:
If you have reason to think that a difficult business client is a narcissist, try to plan ahead in your dealings with them. It is important to avoid openly argument or disagreement. This will only make them angry or, worse, lead them to turn on or undermine you. Try instead to anticipate. Imagine what sort of demands they might spring. This will allow you to be prepared upfront without having to enter a confrontation or give ground, both of which, in view of narcissists’ inability to empathize, could be disastrous for your business relationship. Choose your words carefully. A narcissist will read criticism into very innocuous comments, resulting in a tantrum or a potentially damaging, unprofessional display. Tread lightly around a controlling business partner or client, knowing that the least word could set them off. You might not have a choice about dealing with a client, and your job may depend on getting along with them. Literally watch what you say, as well: take down the minutes of your meetings and telephone calls. Communicate very clearly about your project, timetables, and your client’s expectations. This will give you support in case they make new demands or accuse you of breaking an agreement. Controlling people are often perfectionists; some of them, like Steve Jobs, are indeed visionaries. In a business situation it may be best to play to your controlling client’s narcissistic tendencies. Stroke their ego without being servile. For example, lead them to think that your ideas and suggestions are really their own. Try to finesse them to the desired end rather than being goaded into an argument. The perfectionism of a controlling client will make it difficult to please. Expect constant demands on your time and to hear that your work is not good enough. Do not be surprised if the client tries to threaten or bully you or to accuse you of mismanagement. Challenging a narcissist will get you nowhere because, to them, they are always right and you are always wrong. By the same token, however, do not show hesitation or weakness. If you must, gently hold your ground and insist upon your initial agreement, using notes as back up.