INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Extroverts may tend to approach conflict through confrontation and problem-solving while introverts tend to shy away from conflicts. In turn, introverts may feel harassed or nagged while the extrovert may feel like he or she is being stonewalled. If you are an introvert, be willing to engage in conflict with your partner, and realize that your partner likely wants to find a resolution, not argue.  If your partner is quick to discuss issues and it irritates you, ask your partner to thoughtfully consider the issue before immediately bringing it up. Some things are better left unsaid or can be worked out on their own. Likewise, if you’re both extroverted, don’t bring every little thing to the surface. Count to ten or ask yourself some questions before going to your partner, such as, “Will this help improve our relationship?” In addition to understanding your conflict styles, be honest about what conflicts are like for you. If you’re an introvert, let your partner know what sets you off or shuts you down. You can encourage your extroverted partner to give you a nudge to open up or respond back.  If you’re introverted, say, “I tend to shut down when you are upset. I know that doesn’t help us solve our problems, so please gently invite me to engage the situation, even if I seem mad and upset.” If you are both extroverted, you may want to approach conflicts when you are each calm and settled. Don’t let anger flare up and don’t jump into discussions that could be better if you slowed down. If both partners are unwilling to compromise and continue to butt heads, this may be a relationship issue. For example, an introvert may retreat as a way to avoid problems in the relationship while the extrovert may spend more time with friends to avoid problems. If you’ve tried to find compromises but your partner won’t budge, consider the longevity of your relationship and how the changes you want will affect it. Talk to your partner about your efforts and how you feel about not finding compromises. Say, “It’s important that we find some degree of resolution about our differences, and I want us to treat each other with respect.” If the problems continue to come up despite your best efforts, it may be time to see a therapist. A therapist can help you work through problems and see things more clearly from your partner’s perspective. You may learn new ways to approach or interact with your partner or try new things to understand your partner’s needs better. Seeing a therapist doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed or that you should be ashamed that you are struggling. It’s brave to ask for help and take steps to improve your relationship.

SUMMARY: Recognize conflict styles. Talk about how you handle conflict. Consider if you have a relationship issue. Talk to a therapist.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: You can divide violets at the beginning of spring to allow your violets to propagate further. Cut back the foliage about halfway before dividing to reduce the stress on the plant. Take a cutting near the root and grow them in a pot indoors six to eight weeks before the last frost to have them ready by spring. Because violets are perennials, well-cared-for violets can live longer than two years. At the beginning of spring, add a liquid fertilizer to your soil to ensure your violets have enough nutrients to spring back.
Summary: Propagate your violets to add to your garden. Fertilize in late autumn with liquid fertilizer.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: These will provide a reliable and fashionable base that you can build dozens of outfits on. Go for versatile staple pieces that you can dress up or down to fit different types of occasions.  When choosing your staple pieces, avoid fads and focus on selecting items that flatter your body type and reflect your personal style.  Staple pieces will vary according to lifestyle and personal style. A few great examples would be a sharp black blazer, a pair of skinny jeans that fit you perfectly, a well-made hoodie, a pair of neutral colored ballet flats, a solid toned sweater, dressy black trousers, patent leather dress shoes and a pair of black or brown boots. Everyone cycles through t-shirts, tank tops and other basic items every year, but try to also pepper your wardrobe with some quality items that are well-made and that will last you for several seasons. Since quality garments tend to be more expensive, get the most mileage out of them by selecting basic pieces that never go out of style.  For example, instead of buying a new jacket every fall, spend a little extra cash on that black leather jacket you’ve been wanting. It will last you for years and always be fashionable.  A cashmere cardigan or sweater, while on the pricy side, will always look sharp and the quality material will endure for years. Choosing outfits is much easier when almost everything you have can be mixed and matched. Go for items that are solid colors so that they are interchangeable. When you do buy patterned shirts, ties or dresses, make sure you have multiple ways you can wear them to get several different looks.  For example, if you buy a floral printed dress, make sure to have a few different matching cardigans in a solid colors, a few pairs of different colored tights, and a colorful belt or two already in your wardrobe. Or, if you buy a colorful neck tie, make sure you you have a few different dress shirts and suits it will match. Not only can you get multiple looks from that one dress by changing up the accent pieces, but those accent pieces will also match other outfits in your wardrobe. Picking out an outfit is so much easier when you can find what you’re looking for quickly and easily, so get organized. Group similar items together, and then color coordinate them. For instance, put all of your skirts or dress pants together in one section of you closet, and then arrange them by color.  You may also find it helpful to create sections in your closet based on function. Group together all of your work clothes in one area, your casual t-shirts and jeans in another, workout clothing in another, and so on. If you have storage space, removing seasonal clothing from your closet when not in use can help you better organize things. For example, when summer comes, store your sweaters and coats out of the way. This will open up your closet and make it easier for you to pick out outfits.

SUMMARY:
Invest in staple pieces. Choose quality items over quantity. Buy pieces that can be easily mixed and matched. Organize and color coordinate your closet.