If you want to describe a current state of being that is in doubt or is hoped for, you would use the present subjunctive. This tense is used far more often in Spanish than it is in English. While a literal translation is "to be," in this tense and mood it means more like "may be." For example, you might say, "Dudo que ella sea rica" to mean "I doubt that she is rich."   Yo sea: I am/may be.  Tú seas: You are/may be.  Él/ella/usted sea: He/she/you are/may be.  Nosotros/-as seamos: We are/may be.  Vosotros/-as seáis: You all are/may be.  Ellos/ellas/ustedes sean: They/you all are/may be. Just as with the perfect tenses in the indicative mood, you form past, present, and future subjunctive tenses with the helping verb haber. To form present perfect subjunctive (in Spanish know as pretérito pluscuamperfecto/antepretérito), use the present subjunctive of haber along with sido. Use this tense to describe a state of being in the past that is connected to one in the present, or will have happened at some point in the future. For example, you might say, "Dudo que hubiera sido rica" to mean "I doubt that she has been rich." The past perfect subjunctive is used for hypothetical or conditional states of being in the past. Use the imperfect subjunctive (in Spanish know as pretérito perfecto compuesto/antepresente) conjugation form for haber along with sido. For example, you might say, "Haya sido rico," or "I have been rich."  The future perfect subjunctive (in Spanish know as futuro compuesto/antefuturo) form of ser is used to talk about a state of being that will have been in existence in the future, or might have or could have existed in the future. Combine the simple future conjugation form of haber with the past participle sido. For example, you might say, "Yo habré sido rico," to mean "I will have been rich."
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One-sentence summary -- Start with present subjunctive. Combine the correct conjugated form of haber with “sido” for perfect subjunctive tenses.


Rejection is always a possibility when you put yourself out there. You will not like everyone you meet and vice versa.  If rejection happens, have a healthy outlook. A person may decline your invitation for many reasons.  A person may be too busy to hang out or have prior commitments. If someone does reject you, it is not because something is wrong with you.  Maybe the two of you were not a good fit. Be proud of yourself for trying to make friends and try to learn something from the experience. Keep trying to befriend the same acquaintance. Try to make plans with someone a couple of times before giving up.. The only time you should give up sooner is if you're given a clear indication that your goodwill isn't wanted. Keep trying to make friends with other people. Even if one person rejects your friendship completely, that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. After you've given up on one person, continue trying to make friends out of your other acquaintances. Making new friends is exciting and scary at the same time. Try different strategies to meet new people. The hardest part is actually going to that first group meeting and getting out of the house. It is okay to be nervous, just push through your feelings and go.. There will be times when you look silly, are embarrassed, or feel awkward.  Some interactions will go really well and others will not.  All of that is perfectly fine, and it is not a big deal. Social media is great in a lot of ways, but oftentimes, it acts as a crutch that prevents people from pushing themselves into real life social situations. When you feel lonely, turn off your computer and head out, call up a friend, or try to meet with an acquaintance. You must get out of the house to meet people and form friendships. Social media websites offer the greatest benefit when they keep you more connected to your friends. If your social media accounts only give you an excuse to avoid real, meaningful contact with people, they're doing more harm than good. Forming friendships is a process. Both you and the other person must put in time and effort. It usually takes 6 to 8 significant interactions for people to come friends, and it may take years before you feel as if you can really confide in another person. Most adults have a fairly small social circle. Even when you've had some success, you may only be close with two or three different friends.  You may have different friends to meet different needs in your life.  Some friends are for regular happy hour or lunches, while you may go hiking with another friend. Working on a couple of close friendships or gathering a huge circle of casual friends are both options. Do whatever makes you happy. Keep in touch with your old friends and continually work on your relationship with any new friends you make. If you have hung out with someone and had a good time, invite them out again and keep in touch.  Some friendships will take more time to grow than others.  Some of your new friendships may start out great and then burn out.  This is completely normal. Try to schedule regular times to meet with your friends. If both of you are able to meet each Friday for an hour, go for it. For friends who are a bit busier, set aside at least one regular time to meet each month, like each second Sunday afternoon or every third Thursday evening.
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One-sentence summary -- Try not to take rejection personally. Be brave. Stop soothing yourself with social media. Maintain a realistic attitude. Value your friends.


Use a sharp knife to make a vertical cut along the lengthwise portion of the pork loin.    {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/4\/48\/Butterfly-or-Fillet-a-Pork-Tenderloin-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\/v4-460px-Butterfly-or-Fillet-a-Pork-Tenderloin-Step-1Bullet1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/4\/48\/Butterfly-or-Fillet-a-Pork-Tenderloin-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\/aid665796-v4-728px-Butterfly-or-Fillet-a-Pork-Tenderloin-Step-1Bullet1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":344,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"545","licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}   until it is of even thickness, figure about 1/3-inch thickness for the loin meat.
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Place the pork tenderloin onto a cutting board. Stop the vertical cut about 1-inch from the end of the pork loin. Open the cut meat and lay flat. Pound the meat Chill meat while preparing stuffing. Add favorite stuffing to the butterflied (filleted) pork loin meat then roll up. Tie the pork loin with butchers twine. Cook as directed in recipe.