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While you obviously want to be kind to the person you are attracted to, it is also important to extend that kindness to others.  This proves that your altruism is genuine and reflects on your character as a whole.  Appreciate the other person's friends and loved ones.  They are friends and loved for a reason.  Find your own reasons to like and support the people who this person finds important. Be kind to strangers.  Avoid judging people you don't know.  Find ways to be kind to strangers and express that you care about the world around you. They may be dealing with something physically or emotionally or both.  The main difference between men and women is reflected in hormones.   Understanding what she is dealing with can be a great comfort to both of you.  The shifting in hormone balance surrounding the time of a woman's period can greatly effect her mood and personality. A woman's brain even shrinks during pregnancy! Sometimes people just need to be heard.  Allow the other person to express their grief or concern and avoid the urge to solve the problem.  Just listening comforts and affirms them without making them feel like they are the problem. That’s right, passions.  What a great place to start.  Everyone is passionate about something.  Learn what they love, then find out more about it.  You will empower your potential partner and turn up the steam as they get excited about their favorite things and include you as part of them.  What are you into? What do you love about it? Can you teach me? Pay attention to their mood.  If they need a little space, don’t be afraid to give it to them.  You may seem a little aloof, which will draw them back to you.  If they need attention, give it to them.  If they need to be held, draw them close.
Show kindness to everyone. Understand the other person as best you can. Listen without the intention of fixing the other person. Explore their passions. Check in.