Java is a computer programming language developed by Oracle that is widely used on the internet and in a variety of devices. Many websites will not function properly without the latest version of Java installed on your system. For the average user, Java occurs only in the background. Installing Java allows you to run Java scripts in webpages. Most browsers will ask you if you want to run the Java scripts that are on the page you are visiting. This is because java can be used for malicious reasons. You should only run Java programs from websites that you trust. Oracle regularly updates Java with stability and security fixes. These updates keep your Java installation running smooth, and also protect your computer against possible malicious activity.

Summary: Learn the basics of Java. Learn how to use it. Keep your Java installation up to date.


Go ahead and preheat your oven so that it can heat up while you prepare the cake batter. Line a 17 in (43 cm) x 12 in (30 cm) sheet pan with parchment paper and grease it with butter.

Summary: Preheat your oven to 425 °F (218 °C) and grease the sheet pan.


Even professional game makers usually start off with a dud. Before you seriously consider publishing a game, play it a lot. Ask other people what they think its strengths and weaknesses are. You might be biased toward believing that it is better than it is.  When experimenting make sure that there aren’t any situations where the rules are unclear or simply don’t work. Be sure that games don’t go on for an agonizingly long time or that they don’t stop being competitive before the game is over. When new people play the game, see if they can understand the rules. If it takes more than one game to understand how things work, the rules might be too complicated. If you want to mass produce your cards, a simple drawing won’t be sufficient, though it might be a good place to start. There are free software programs online that you can use to create jpeg image files that can be sent to publishers for easy and affordable production. There are now websites like www.gamecrafter.com that will produce card sets made from jpeg images that you send them. The process is affordable, approximately $7-$25 for a single card set. It can even cost less if you order in large quantities. Alternatively, look online for a list of board game conventions. Here you can meet some major publishers who might be interested in picking up your game. However, you will need to approach them with a very professional looking game in hand and a good pitch about what makes your game special.

Summary: Experiment with your game. Use design software. Find a publisher.


You may want to forgive yourself because of actions against another. You must first realize that you are not to blame for other people’s actions. We all make mistakes and we all have times in our life that we do not act our best. Realizing this may be the step you need to being the self-healing process. Learning from past mistakes is good, but dwelling on them can stunt self-forgiveness. It may stop you from being aware of present realities. Your life may become stagnant as you find yourself obsessing about what you did or did not do. Instead, focus on the present and what you can do in the future to make a better life for yourself. Consider a “fix it and move on” approach to life. If you experience a similar encounter that caused you emotional turmoil in the past, focus on what you can control. Try and fix the issues that you know you can handle and try and let the rest of it go. You do not want to keep repeating the same mistakes. Self-awareness of present actions can help for future healing.  If you cultivate a strong sense of self and accept the actions you choose to take now, it will help you to build a better future and help you forgive past actions or reactions. You do not want to dwell on mistakes, but you must learn from them to move forward in a healthier way.  One way to forgive yourself is to identify the trigger, or cause, of emotions in the first place. If you identify what you did in the first place, then you can change your outlook for the future. Ask yourself: “What did I do the first time, and what may I do to avoid the same outcome?” This will help you directly pinpoint situations in which you feel uncomfortable. Once you’ve identified the situation, you can more easily plot out a solution. Ask yourself:  Do I feel anxious or guilty when I approach my boss? Do I feel strong negative emotions when I talk with my significant other. Does spending time with my parents make me feel angry or upset?
Summary: Realize that no one is perfect. Do not dwell on past mistakes. Plan for a bright future today by not being stifled by the past. Learn to be mindful. Investigate your past choices. Identify situations where you feel strong emotions.