Article: and let other people get to know the real you. People are attracted to others who know who they are, and pretending to be someone else might make others think you just want approval or attention. Recognize your strengths and be true to who you want to be, no matter what situation you find yourself in. If you feel nervous, try some of these confidence-boosting strategies:  Practice good posture and avoid looking at the ground when you walk. Make eye contact with others without staring them down. Be the first person to say “hi” to the new kid or to initiate a conversation. Stick up for others instead of teasing or bullying them. Avoid apologizing for things you don’t actually need to apologize for. It isn’t always easy, but if you can master this skill, you’ll make the people around you feel more seen and appreciated. If you’re always waiting for the next cool thing to happen, others might feel like they’re second best. Try to practice awareness of your surroundings and minimize distractions, like using your cellphone, when you’re talking to someone.  If you focus on being present with others, they’ll sense that you’re a genuine person. If you struggle to put your phone away, like many of us do, try turning the ringer on silent when you are in a situation where you should be focusing. Passionate people are automatically more attractive to others—their enthusiasm is contagious! Even if you think that your passion is silly or nerdy, go after it with gusto. You’ll be surprised at how inspiring it can be to others to see someone chasing after their dreams.  If you want other people to love you, you have to love yourself. That includes accepting and embracing all parts of yourself, including your passions. Make time to do the things you love. Set aside time every week to practice or enjoy your particular passion. Not everyone will love you, but the people who matter will. Part of being an authentic and loved person means that you have to make good decisions about who you’re going to surround yourself with. Don’t participate in toxic relationships or pursue others who ignore you or are mean to you. It can be hard to find good friends. If you’re struggling, try joining a club or going to local events. Be friendly and confident and remember that it can take a while to get to know new people. It’s simple but true: a smile can brighten someone’s day. Smile with your eyes and don’t be afraid to show your teeth. If you’re worried about how you look, practice in the mirror. There may be times when you just can’t bring yourself to smile, and that is okay. If you’re feeling sad or worried, accept those feelings and don’t force yourself to appear happier than you really are.
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Believe in yourself Focus on staying present with the people around you. Share your passions with the people around you. Spend time with people who are genuine and who support the true you. Offer a warm smile to the people you see every day.

If you are already friends and want to take things to the next level, then ignore this step. However, if you just met or are only casual acquaintances, spend time together in a group or ask her out indirectly. This might require you to have a good opener or conversation starter.  Start with a pre-opener: whenever you see her, make eye contact, smile, and say “hi”. Next, start a general conversation. Compliment her on her achievements, or ask about her interests (music, movies, books, hobbies, etc.). Use this general conversation as a starting point for developing a closer relationship based on common interests and/or shared goals.  Be patient. Some girls are naturally more open about themselves and talkative, whereas others might be more shy or hesitant at first. Never use cheesy pick-up lines. Not only does this set a bad impression, but it can also be offensive. You can be upfront and ask her out directly, or use a more indirect approach such as asking what she is doing this weekend and if she has any plans.  Which approach you choose depends on the situation and personalities. Other indirect examples include: asking whether she's been to a certain restaurant, and wondering if she wants to check it out with you; or phrase it as an opportunity, such as “we are both free this weekend and the weather looks nice, so why don't we do something together”.  Remember, at this stage you are only asking her to go on a date (to a movie, concert, dinner, etc.), not if she wants to be your girlfriend.  Make it clear you just want to hang out. Don't talk about relationships or ask her to be your girlfriend. Do not corner a girl or make her feel trapped (physically) when asking her out. She might say no because she feels uncomfortable and intimidated.  If she seems reluctant to go on a date with you, invite her to do something with a group of friends. Organize a picnic or go to a dinner and a movie with a couple friends. On your first date (or first time you hang out), your goals should be to make sure she has a good time, you express your feelings in a way that are clear but not over the top, and you do not try anything too extravagant, expensive, or romantic. Go on a group date or do something in a public place rather than inviting her to spend time with you alone. Take the lead in deciding what you will do and where you will go on the date. Do your homework – ask her if she has any food preferences, make reservations if necessary, and avoid places that are upscale and pricey.  Make an effort with your appearance – wash and comb your hair, brush your teeth, do not wear too much cologne, and wear clean, unwrinkled clothes. Do not overindulge in alcohol, be considerate, and practice good manners. These involve not dominating the conversation, turning off your phone and giving her your full attention, and be kind to others.  Avoid discussing controversial topics, such as politics, old relationships, complaining about your job, or sex. Instead, focus on good topics such as the news (and her opinion on current events), family, travel (either places you've been or want to go in the future), or your thoughts on love and what makes a good relationship.
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Get to know her in an informal setting. Ask a girl out on a date. Make a good first date impression.