Problem: Article: If you made an arrangement with the person before they came into your home, then bring this up to them. This may help them to see that they are infringing on your space and decide to move on. For example, you could say something like, “Remember when you first arrived and I said that I had a busy week ahead of me, but you assured me that you would only be here for the weekend?” A great way to get your guest to leave is to tell them that your life is getting in the way of being a good host to them. In the end, they may take the hint and pack their bags.  Let them know that your work and family life are so busy that you can’t be the type of host you want to be at the moment. They should consider visiting again in the future. Tell them that other house guests will be arriving soon. For example, let them know that your in-laws are coming to visit and need to stay in the room they are staying in. Say “John, I’m so sorry, but my in-laws are coming to stay for a week starting Friday, we’ve got to have our guest room available to them.” Share your plans to begin a home improvement project on the room they are staying in. For example, tell them you’re about to convert it into a home office or a gym. If you’re serious about it, you may even want to hire a contractor to go and take measurements of the space. One of the realities of hosting is that your guests will undoubtedly cost you money. Because of this, it seems obvious that you should request contributions of your guest if they overstay their welcome. However, if you just want them to leave then this might not be the best option. If you are okay with them staying longer if they help to cover the costs of their stay, then there are a couple of things you can try.    Explain to them the cost of them staying. Detail the cost of extra water, power, and any other resources they are using. Set your nightly or weekly rate above low-cost alternatives. For example, if an extended stay charges $200 a week, you should ask $250. Understand that this might not work for some people, like parents or older relatives. Requesting money is best reserved for younger relatives, siblings, and children. In addition to monetary contributions, your guest should also pitch in and take care of some household chores. This should make a lot of sense, as someone who lives in a home should take part in taking care of the home. Some chores might include:  Lawncare Taking the trash out Washing dishes General household cleaning.
Summary: Remind them about any pre-existing arrangements. Tell them you have other obligations to attend to. Request monetary contributions. Ask them to do chores.

Problem: Article: The wax may set up sooner than that, but you will need to wait for the sand to dry as well. If you pull the candle out too soon, the sand may not stick properly. Use a spoon to loosen the sand around the candle, then carefully lift the candle out. This will prevent the candle from making a mess on your table when you use it. Depending on how hot your wax was, you may have a subtle sand texture, or a thick shell of sand. You can do this with a small spoon. Try doing some organic designs, such as swirls and loops. Depending on how long or short your wick is, you may need to trim it down. If it is too long, it will become a fire hazard. If th candle wobbles too much, turn the candle over and look at the bottom. If you see any lumps or bumps, you will need to smooth them out using a knife. Always place a candle stand under your candle to catch any drips or melted wax.
Summary: Let the candle sit overnight. Remove the candle from the sand carefully the next day. Gently brush the excess sand off using a soft-bristled brush. Consider carving designs into the sand to expose the candle underneath. Trim the wicks to about ¼ inch (0.63 centimeters), if necessary. Flatten the bottom of the candle, if necessary. Use your candle.

Problem: Article: In a relaxed state, your mind is more open to new ideas and directions. You want an environment that is comfortable and relaxing. Make sure it is a quiet place where you won't be disturbed. Music is a great tool for relaxing your mind. Use music that helps you focus. Only use music if it helps you meditate. Do not use music if it distracts you. Either sit crossed legged on the floor or in a chair with your legs uncrossed. Make sure that you are comfortable and well supported. It's best to keep both feet on the ground if you are sitting in a chair. If you do not want to keep your eyes open, find a room with enough light to come through your eyelids. While relaxed, you might fall asleep. While you sit comfortably, try to relax and let go of your thoughts. Breath deeply and regularly. Focus your attention on a point right below your navel. Once you are aware of this spot, only pay passive attention to it. If a thought comes to you, do not engage it. Acknowledge the thought and let it go. You want to avoid active participation. Any active participation might make you tense and distract you. Once you feel completely relaxed, repeat your autosuggestion to yourself.  Put as much emotion as you can into the autosuggestion. Visualize yourself performing the autosuggestion. You want to give yourself enough time to focus on the autosuggestions so that you can absorb them.
Summary: Use meditation to autosuggest. Find somewhere comfortable. Use music. Sit comfortably. Keep your eyes partially open. Make yourself relaxed. Detach yourself. Repeat your autosuggestions. Spend at least twenty to thirty minutes in meditation regularly.

Problem: Article: Make sure all the chicken pieces are about the same size so they will cook evenly. Mix to combine thoroughly, then cover the pot. Bring to a boil over medium high heat, then reduce heat to med-low and simmer for 40-50 minutes, or until chicken is almost cooked. Set the sauce aside to be strained, reduced, and poured over the chicken later. In a large frying pan, heat the oil to medium high. Then, brown the chicken on all sides. Set the chicken pieces on a plate covered in paper towels. If you’re in a more casual setting, you can just add the chicken back to the cooking pot after the sauce is ready. Remove the bay leaves, and the peppercorns if you find them too spicy.  If you want a smoother sauce, strain it with a strainer. If desired, skim any excess fat from the top with a cold spoon or a fat separator. Remember to add the salt after you reduce the sauce, as it will get saltier from the soy sauce as it boils down.  If you prefer a thinner, less salty sauce, add a little water and reheat. For a thicker sauce, heat the sauce on medium-high heat until it is reduced to your desired consistency. Stir occasionally, making sure not to let the sauce burn on the bottom. Either pour over the chicken on your serving platter, or put the chicken back into the pot. Adobo is traditionally served over steamed rice. Pour a little extra sauce over the rice, if desired.
Summary:
Place chicken into a 4 ½ qt heavy bottomed cooking pot with a lid. Add water, vinegar, soy sauce, garlic, bay leaves, pepper. Braise the chicken in the covered pot. Remove the chicken, but reserve the sauce. Brown the chicken pieces. Drain any excess oil from the chicken. Place the chicken onto your serving dish. Strain the sauce. Adjust the sauce to your desired thickness, and add salt if desired. Combine sauce with the chicken. Serve and enjoy!