You can do this by clicking the Start menu (the Windows logo at the bottom-left corner of the screen) and selecting Skype from the apps list. If you haven’t yet signed in to Skype, enter your login details and click Sign In. You’ll find it under “Recent Conversations” in the left panel of Skype. If you don’t see the group in this area, you can search for it using the Search bar at the top of Skype. You’ll see it at the top of the conversation window. This displays a list of everyone in the group. This opens the persons profile. You’ll see it beneath the word “Skype” on the right side of their profile. You’ll need to type this exact username in a moment, so be sure to write it down if it’s hard to remember. You can do this by clicking the arrow at the top-left corner of the person’s profile. Replace “<username>” with the new admin’s Skype username. The person you selected is now a group admin.  You can view a list of all admins by clicking the group’s name at the top of the conversation. To add an additional group admin, repeat this process using another group member’s Skype name.
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One-sentence summary -- Open Skype. Select the group chat. Click the list of participants. Select the person you want to make an admin. Find the person’s Skype username. Return to the group chat. Type /setrole <username> MASTER. Press ↵ Enter.


Over time, the step sequence changed and became more formalized. Instead of short, sliding steps, they became a simple 4-count, “two-step” forward and backward motion. It’s not necessary to use this pattern if dancing in the original style. However, it’s important to know it as most people dance the cumbia this way today. This appears to be largely due to the addition of other musical instruments to the cumbia, such as the guitar, accordion, tambora (a large, two-sided drum), maraca, conga (a Cuban hand drum), horns and the piano. Stand with your feet close together, which is the neutral position. You can hold your skirt with one or both hands and wave it. Or you can bend both arms at the elbows and roll them inward in circles close to your body – in the space between your shoulders and hips. Women can tilt their wrists up for a feminine flair. As you step back, pivot your left foot so that your right curls slightly behind your left and a little to the side. It should be about a 1–2 feet (0.30–0.61 m) behind your left. As you’re doing the dance, be enthusiastic and smile flirtatiously. Lift your heel and step forward on your toes to the neutral position. Pause for a beat to switch your weight from left to right. Do this as you did with your right foot, but now pivoting your right instead. Pause when your left foot comes to the neutral position. Then repeat the basic moves, starting with your left foot.  Move your hips and torso from side to side to the rhythm as you do the steps. Mouth or count to yourself for each beat: 1 when your right foot goes back, 2 when your left steps in place, 3 when your right moves forward, and 4 when it comes to neutral. When you repeat and move your left foot back first, start counting from 5-8.
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One-sentence summary -- Learn the step pattern. Start with your feet together. Step back with your right foot. Step in place with your left foot. Bring your right foot forward to neutral. Step back with your left foot. Bring your left foot forward to neutral.


When you know your man is with another person, it’s normal to want to feel superior to them. However, trying to best his partner is unlikely to get him to leave and will probably make you miserable. Instead, focus on being your best self and doing things that are important to you. If it’s meant to be, he’ll love you for who you are.  Don’t stalk your man’s partner on social media or ask your friends to check up on them. Similarly, don’t ask him about what his partner is doing. When you find your thoughts straying to questions like, “Why does he pick her?” try to turn your attention to what’s going well in your life. Tell yourself, “I’ve had a great weekend,” “I just got a raise,” or “I have the best friends.” You might feel guilty for letting yourself fall in love with a guy who is unavailable. This is normal, but torturing yourself isn’t going to make things better. Remind yourself that you just want to feel love and you deserve to be happy. Tell yourself, “It’s impossible to control who you fall in love with. I deserve to find love, so I’m not going to feel guilty for falling in love with someone who’s unavailable.” Depending on how your affair began, it’s possible that he doesn’t realize you’ve fallen in love. It can be really painful to love a man who isn’t giving you that love back. Talk to him about how you feel and what you want. This can help you either move forward in your relationship with him or figure out if it’s time to move on.  You might say, “I know we started this as a fling, but I’ve fallen in love with you. I want to discuss our future.” It’s possible that he’ll get upset when you tell him the truth. This can be really hard to hear, but you will get through this. If he has a negative response, call your friend for support. Your situation might feel really stressful, and you don’t have to do this alone. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, a therapist can help you deal with your emotions and change your thoughts. Additionally, they can help you decide what’s best for your future and pursue your goals.  If you feel like no one in your life supports you, a therapist may be the answer. They’ll focus on what’s best for you in a non-judgemental way. Ask your doctor for a referral to a therapist or look for one online. Your therapy appointments may be covered by your insurance, so check your benefits. Being in love with a married man can leave you with a lot of conflicting emotions. You might feel happy that you found a man you love, but it may also be hard because he has another family. Look for a friend who will support you during this time. This can help you work through your feelings. You might say, “I really need to talk about my relationship, but I know not everyone understands it. Can I trust you?”
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Avoid trying to compete with his partner. Forgive yourself for falling in love with a married man if you feel guilty. Be honest with him about how you feel if you’re hurting. Talk to a therapist if you’re struggling with this situation. Find a friend you can confide in without feeling judged.