Q: You both love travel, spending money, socializing, and adventure. You and your Libra are so in sync you actually make other people jealous. Though you can both be very flirtatious, the romance and spontaneity in your relationship will hold your interest. Share ideas, debate, and be careful not to wear each other out!  Keep in mind both Gemini and Libra can be indecisive. If your Libra isn't stepping up with the decision making, you'll have to make the calls to keep things from going stagnant.  Pay attention to your finances. Since you both love luxury and spending money on the finer things, you may be in danger of getting into debt. Indulge each other, but take care that you are being responsible with your money. You and your Libra will never run out of things to discuss, and you're both very social and and fun-loving. Choose date activities that will stimulate conversation and allow you and your Libra to really dig into issues--check out thought-provoking films, outsider art, or read the same book and get into a deep discussion. Try to keep your rebellious streak in check--you may not care much what other people think, but this is very important to Libras. Don't mock her for caring about things like manners or her desire to be popular. While you're both seeking a connection, Libras are looking for mental compatibility and can appear detached to someone seeking a primarily emotional connection. Cancers can be moody, while Libras are obsessed with harmony and not rocking the boat. You will have to work hard to understand each other's points of view to make this difficult match work.  Being very social and flirtatious is part of a Libra's nature--try not to get angry or see it as a sign of disloyalty if your Libra wants to go out and spends lots of time with friends. Libras are actually very loyal! Ask your Libra for what you need--he is unlikely to intuit this on his own. Capricorns are very serious and career-minded, while Libras are social butterflies and think more about relationships than their careers. Libra's need to be complimented and like constant validation and Capricorns aren't always generous with praise. If you want this relationship to work, you'll have to open yourself up to being a little more social and save some of your energy and attention for your partner instead of focusing only on work.  Try letting your Libra's friendliness and sociability work for your career. She'll be a great date for work functions--your boss, your coworkers, your clients, everyone will love your charismatic libra.  A traditional role of breadwinner and homemaker can work for you two, but it may also cause things to become stagnant and dull. Make sure you're breaking up work with vacations and not spending every weekend away from your Libra.
A: Get ready for a passionate, lasting connection if you are a Gemini dating a Libra. Find your best friend and lover if you are an Aquarius dating a Libra. Prepare for a volatile relationship if you're a Cancer dating a Libra. Allow your Libra's lightheartedness to loosen you up if you are a Capricorn trying to date a Libra.

Q: Fill the sitz bath with warm water and place it over the toilet. This will allow you to sit and soak just your genital area. Add 1 to 2 tablespoons of epsom salts in the water and stir the mixture till the salts dissolve. Sit on the bath for 10 to 20 minutes, twice a day. You should do sitz baths three or four days or till the cyst improves. You can buy a sitz bath at a pharmacy or medical supply store. If you don't have a sitz bath, you could also just run a few inches of water in your bathtub. More research is needed, but ACV can be used to try to reduce the size and swelling of vaginal cysts. Either run a sitz bath and add 1 cup of ACV or you can soak a cotton ball or swab with ACV. Apply the soaked cotton ball or swab directly to the cyst and hold it there for 30 minutes twice a day until you notice swelling reduce. While ACV is a popular home remedy, scientists caution against relying on vinegar as a medicinal treatment. Fill a hot water bottle with hot water and wrap it in a clean towel. Place this against the cyst to provide some pain relief. You might also try applying a heat pack, so long as you keep another cloth between the pack and your skin. Take care not to burn the delicate tissue in the vaginal area. You can also dip a flannel or cotton cloth in hot water, wring the water out, and apply it directly against the cyst. Mix 1 to 2 tablespoons of aloe vera gel with 1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon of turmeric powder. Stir until the mixture forms a paste. Use a cotton ball, tampon, or swab to apply the mixture to the cyst. Leave it on for 20 to 30 minutes once a day. Don't rinse or clean off the paste. Just let it run out naturally.  You may want to wear a sanitary napkin so that the bright turmeric doesn't stain your clothing. Studies have shown that turmeric (curcumin) is an anti-inflammatory. This can reduce the irritation caused by vaginal cysts. Since it may take a few days for the cyst to clear up, you may want to take OTC pain relievers like ibuprofen or acetaminophen. If you feel severe pain that doesn't go away after taking OTC medications, contact your doctor. Always follow the manufacturer's instructions regarding dosage and how often to take the medication. Never rub the cyst, even when cleaning or washing the area. Gentle soaks in the sitz bath or tub are enough to keep the area clean. You should never douche. Douching is unnecessary, can irritate the cyst, and is considered to be harmful to women's health in general. Since you'll want to avoid irritating the cyst, consider using a sanitary napkin instead of a tampon, if you're menstruating.
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Soak in a sitz bath. Use an apple cider vinegar (ACV) soak. Use a warm compress. Apply an aloe vera mixture. Take over-the-counter (OTC) pain relievers. Avoid irritating the cyst.