Problem: Article: Offer condolences through a card can make you feel even more at a loss for words than if you were standing in front of the person. But if you take the time to write a brief, thoughtful note, you’ll be helping a friend or close acquaintance in a time of need. Here are some basic things to keep in mind as you offer condolences through a card:  Don’t use the word “death” or “dead” - say something more tasteful, like “loss” or “passed away”. If you knew the person who passed away, you can write a brief memory or anecdote about that person—as long as it’s tasteful. Tell the person who suffered the loss that you’re thinking of him and that you are there to help. If you know that someone close to you has suffered the loss of a loved one, then you should communicate your condolences over the phone if that person lives far away. You should call that person to say you’re sorry and sound sincere and talk slowly. Give the person all of your attention over the phone and make sure you’re in a quiet place when you have some time to talk. Avoid offering condolences through text. If you have a very casual relationship with that person, and he texts you and mentions the loss, then you can say you’re very sorry through this method. But if you know the person suffered a loss and you’re close, take the time to make a phone call instead of initiating contact through texting, which could offend the person with its casual nature. Though it may feel strange to give your condolences on Facebook, people now often tell all of their Facebook friends that they’ve suffered the loss of a loved one. This puts you in an awkward position—if the person knows you’re on Facebook a lot and you and the person post on each other’s comments often, then you’re almost being rude by not responding. Here’s how to offer condolences on Facebook:  If you don’t have a close relationship with the person but do post on his wall or comments from time to time, then simply join the masses of other people who have posted something like, “I’m sorry for your loss.” If you’re a bit closer with the person but not close enough for a phone call, you can send the person a private message saying that you saw that the person lost a loved one and that you’re very sorry for the loss. Obviously, if someone has posted a status about losing someone and has even written some kind words about the person, do not “like” this status. Even if you just like the sentiment about the person who passed away, this may give the person the wrong message and can be deeply offensive.
Summary: Offer condolences through a card. Offer condolences over the phone. Offer condolences on Facebook.

Problem: Article: There are some universal signals that are used frequently. This is a classic flirt used by women: a girl smiles at you and then lifts her eyebrows quickly while locking into eye contact. Don’t rely on someone to initiate flirting. This will not always happen candidly. Be on the lookout for eye contact and a smile. Don’t be afraid to make the initial flirt with someone. Never limit yourself to where you should try to attract someone. You never know when the magic spark will light up. There is still a chance even if you’re working late and on the subway at night.  Never shy away from an opportunity to attract a woman.  Flirting in an unusual place like a subway or waiting room shows confidence. You never know until you try it. Don’t come off as too strong. It is important to seize the moment, but do it in a way where the girl doesn’t feel uncomfortable. Employ active listening when talking to someone. This will give you more of an opportunity and show her you care. Listen to obtain information, to understand her, for enjoyment, and to learn.
Summary: Look for signals of flirting. Never shy from an opportunity.

Problem: Article: Wet the end of a microfiber cloth or towel and gently wipe it across your shoes. Get your shoes slightly damp but not soaking wet so the toothpaste can foam up. Try using toothpaste on fabric, mesh, or sneakers. Put the dab of toothpaste directly onto your shoes where there are heavy stains. Spread the toothpaste thin so it coats the entire area before working your toothbrush in small circular motions. Work the toothpaste into the shoes’ fabric thoroughly before letting it set for 10 minutes. Make sure to use a non-gel toothpaste that’s white. Other colors may leave stains on your shoes. You can use the same wet cloth as before to wipe the toothpaste off of your shoes. Make sure to get all of the toothpaste off your shoes so it doesn’t leave any marks. Set your shoes in front of a fan or in a well-ventilated room. Leave the shoes to completely dry. Once they’re dry, your shoes should look a few shades lighter. Leave your shoes outside in the sun to speed up the drying process.
Summary:
Wipe your shoes with a damp cloth to get them wet. Rub a pea-sized dab of toothpaste into the shoes with a toothbrush. Wipe the toothpaste and dirt away with a wet cloth. Let your shoes air dry completely for 2-3 hours.