Article: When families grow and gain new members, it can require some adjustment, particularly for the new addition. Remember that your partner loves you for who you are, and that you should not try to be someone else.  At the same time, look for opportunities to make connections to his or her family. Although every family does things differently, many families accept new members by immediately treating them as a new sibling or child.  If you are an only child and have never had siblings before, think of sibling relationships as being like living with a best friend for most of your life. Everyone tries to get along, have fun, and take care of each other, with lots of compromises. Accept that hugs, jokes, and some teasing may come along with being the new sibling, but that it is coming from a place of love and welcome.  Reciprocate in turn when possible. Especially if you have just married into a new family, be sure to plan for at least an hour a day of “Me” time during visits.  "Me" time may be when you say “I’m going to have a quick nap” and then rest for a few moment, thinking back over the events of the day, releasing any possible stress that may have built up. You can even ask you partner to join you, especially if there is something you are confused about any want to ask questions. Over time, as you and your partner's family become better acquainted, these quiet moments may not even be necessary. The relationship between a parent and biological child can permit a degree of honesty unmatched by any other relationship.  While your partner may be able to tell their parents anything, remember that they are getting to know you, and tact can be important maintaining peace. Remember to never lie to your partner’s family, but also remember to break difficult truths with respect and kindness. When we begin a relationship with a partner’s family, we usually want them to like us as much as possible.  Yet, while compromise is important, it is equally as important not to sacrifice your entire personal comfort for someone else.  For example, are your partner’s parents asking you to come visit for the holidays when you both really want to stay home? If you and your partner agree, be kind, but firm, in letting the rest of the family know that you will be delighted to join them at a different time, but can’t make the requested date. This may cause disappointment at first but, in the long-run, establishes reasonable expectations and mutual respect. There are points on which you will never agree with a partner’s family.  This is not a sign of failure or incompatibility.  Instead, think of it as a challenge, to love and be tolerant in spite of differences.  For example, do you already know that your partner’s parents have different politics than you? If anyone asks, say “You know, I’ve never been entirely comfortable talking about politics.  Mind if I sit this one out and listen?” If pushed, gently remind others that you respect their beliefs and feelings, love them dearly, hope they can respect your feelings as well. Compromise is a key part of maintaining healthy family relationships.  This may mean accepting that your partner’s family has completely different holiday traditions, or that Aunt Margaret will always makes her macaroni and cheese for special occasions (even though that was what you always made).  While you should never give up all the habits and rituals that bring joy and meaning to your life, you may find that you need to adjust how and when you observe your own traditions. For example, if Aunt Margaret always makes the macaroni and cheese, ask your partner what kind of dish you could make that could become a family staple. Another compromise is to have your own Christmas tree and cookies for Santa at home but still enjoy lighting the menorah and having noodle kugel with your partner’s family. Welcoming a new person to the family can be a joyous but also stressful occasion.  It can remind your in-laws that they are aging, or that their child/brother/sister lives far away, or that there may be limitations on how much family time that can be spent together, which can bring mixed feelings into play. While you should never be a door mat or accept disrespect, understand what families go through when a new person is added and attempt to give in-laws the benefit of the doubt before becoming upset or angry.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Balance individuality and closeness. Be open to new family relationships. Give yourself “Me” time. Be honest. Set boundaries. Agree to disagree. Be open to change. Empathize.

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Discuss prescription topical drugs with your doctor. Inquire about prescription oral drugs if your acne is severe. Look into chemical peels to help even out your skin. Ask about laser and light treatments to minimize scars.