Q: This will protect your nails from any damage and help them to grow long and strong.
A: Paint your nails with something that helps encourage nail growth.

Q: Sometimes people seem flaky because they have a condition like depression, anxiety, or ADHD. Similarly, they may have trouble staying organized or might live a very busy or chaotic life. While their behavior may be unfair to you, they aren’t doing it to be hurtful. Try to be understanding about the deeper reasons for their behavior. Don’t try to diagnose someone with a mental health condition. Just understand that it’s possible that the person has an underlying reason for acting the way they do. You deserve to feel respected and shouldn’t have to carry someone else’s weight. When your flaky person does something that hurts you, tell them what they did and how it made you feel. Then, ask them if they can work on improving this behavior going forward.  Let’s say your partner is flaky and often forgets to do the dishes. You might say, “When the dishes are still dirty in the morning, I feel really stressed and worry that they’ll attract bugs. Then, I end up doing them for you. What changes can we make to help you remember to do them?” Similarly, let’s say your friend is always late when they’re meeting up with you. Say, “I feel unimportant when you don’t show up on time. What can we do to help you arrive on time?” You probably wish they’d stop being flaky, but it’s a very difficult behavior to overcome. Chances are, they’d prefer if you were more flexible with them. To help both of you get what you want, compromise by acknowledging that they are flaky when you make plans. Here are some ways to do that:  Create padding in your schedule so they can be late. Plan an activity that you can do while you wait for them. Let them pick places and activities. Don’t base plans around them. Avoid agreeing to rides with them. Include other people in your plans so you can still go if they flake. Generally, flaky people know how to have fun. They’re often spontaneous and impulsive, so they can help you have new adventures. Take advantage of these traits by letting them help you have a great time. For instance, invite them to do karaoke or visit a new bar. Cleaning up someone’s mess can be super frustrating. You might even feel resentful about having to help a flaky partner or coworker. However, it’s not your responsibility to take care of their problems. If they neglect to do something, leave it for them to fix.  As an example, let’s say your roommate left their clothes in the hallway. Don’t pick them up! Leave the clothes there until they come get them. Similarly, your coworker might have done only half of a report. Send them an email with your boss copied on it that says something like, “This is the report that I have received from you. Half of the data is missing. Is this your final version?” This alerts your boss to the issue so you get credit for any extra work you do. Most people who are flaky will eventually become more responsible. However, they might take longer than other people their age. Remember that everyone is different, and it’s okay for someone to be strong in some areas and weak in others. Be patient with them as they learn to be more organized and self-controlled.  If your partner is flaky, this might mean running a more relaxed household with fewer chores. Similarly, you might decide to wait on commitments like marriage and children. If your coworker is flaky, you might avoid giving them tasks that require a lot of organization. The best way to help your flaky person improve their behavior is to reward them when they do something well. When they arrive on time, keep plans, or remember something important, tell them that you really appreciate their effort. This may encourage them to do these things more often. Say something like, “Thank you so much for coming to my birthday party tonight. I saw that you were early, and that makes me feel so good!”
A: Show compassion because they might have a deeper issue. Talk to the person about specific behaviors that bother you. Work around their flakiness so it’s less of a problem. Invite them to do something fun if you’re spending time together. Let them experience the consequences of ignoring their responsibilities. Give them time to grow into their responsibility, if possible. Show appreciation when they follow through on something.

Q: We all know this. But to make a woman love you, you need to understand how women process information. It's probably different than you do.  There is a reason women like to talk. Women's brains are wired to be more verbal.  Girls learn to speak earlier and are good at learning foreign languages, research has found. Although you don't need to fill every second with words, just be aware that women like it when men process feelings through words. Try to be a good conversationalist - especially if she's angry. When men shut down during arguments and go silent, it drives women crazy. Write her a love note. Remember, women love communication and words. Become the master of the text message. If she asks you about your day, don't just say it was fine. If she asks you how she looks in that new dress, don't just say she looks fine. Give her some details and back up your answer, and she will feel close to you. Women have different attachment styles. Understanding hers will help you appeal to her.  Secure. A woman with a secure attachment style is confident, and she isn't going to be too clingy (or want you to be). She won't be calling repeatedly or waiting outside your apartment for you to get home. Ideally, this is the kind of attachment style you want a woman to have. If this is your woman, you should show her that you're secure also. She won't have much tolerance for insecurity. Anxious. Women with anxious attachment styles are insecure and likely to want a relationship to proceed very fast. They need a lot of reassurance, so give it to them. Dismissive. This kind of woman will fight her attraction to you because she prides herself in her independence and feels smothered by a relationship. You will have to be persistent and make sure you also give her space. Fearful. Women with fearful attachment styles are those who have gone through some kind of relationship trauma. You should go slow and demonstrate that you understand what she has been through. Women like to feel unique, and the female brain responds positively to flattery. Women can never get enough compliments.  Tell her she has pretty eyes. If you pull out a single trait, it tells her you really mean it. Compliment her intellect. Women are used to their looks being talked about, but she also wants to feel valued for her mind. This will tell her you aren't just interested in her physically. Always tell her she looks good in an outfit, even if she looks awful. It's just not worth it. If their friends like a guy, a woman is more likely to think he's something special too.  Never, ever flirt with her friends. It will get you banished.   Let her friends know how much you like her. They are probably protective of her and wary that she could get hurt. If you reassure them that you really are into her, they will like you more (and probably tell her besides). Men tend to focus on one task at a time, but women's brains are wired to think about many things at once. She will get annoyed if she wants to talk about one thing, but you're still focused on another.   An example of this would be if you are watching a basketball game, and she brings up another topic. If you ignore her or say little back, she will be frustrated. Women speak in "hint" language. They will often ask questions that are really nudges for you to get a point. Learn how to perceive what a woman is hinting. For example, if she says, "It's cold in here, don't you think?" she probably wants you to turn the thermostat up for her, not just answer "yes." Women are intuitive thinkers, so if you compliment her intuition, she will appreciate it. They also like to over analyze relationships. Indulge her in this.
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Realize that women think differently. Figure out her attachment style. Compliment her. Win over her friends. Realize her brain goes in tangents.