In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Try to see the situation from the other person’s perspective. Sometimes uncontrollable things happen that make breaking promises unavoidable. Alternatively, sometimes people just have impure motives. Either way, when you are able to be empathetic, it’s so much easier to let go of grudges.  Think about the person’s intentions. Was the person’s intentions good but something happened that caused them to have to abandon the promise? Understand that a broken problem is probably not about you. A person who breaks a promise is probably more focused on her own specific internal or external situation and may not realize how much the broken promise impacts you. For example, if someone promised to meet you for an outing and at the last minute bowed out, perhaps it was because she was having car problems or maybe money was tighter than she realized and she was too embarrassed to admit it. Remember that everyone breaks promises at some point or another. Think back to a time when you had to break a promise. It didn’t feel good when you had to go back on your word and it probably didn’t feel so great to this person either. Keep in mind that everyone is human and sometimes things happen. If the person is a chronic promise breaker, consider what’s going on in the person’s life that makes her constantly go back on her word. Such behavior could be reflective of other chronic things going on in her life that she needs help with. Maybe it's something internal like she has poor boundaries or something external such as marriage problems. Try to experience compassion by considering how she may be actually feeling right now. If you’re still so frustrated about the empty promises that you struggling with this, here are some ways that you can cultivate greater compassion:  Look for things that you have in common with the person. Maybe you both like the same music or drive the same model car. There are numerous things that you may have in common. Research shows that even something as simple as tapping your fingers to the same rhythm boosts compassionate behavior. Don’t blame the other person for your misfortune. Even if her failure to keep her word created a negative result for you, recognize that there were other options available that you chose not to utilize. For example, if you were depending on her to take you to the job interview because your car was in the shop and she did not arrive, keep in mind that you could have made sure that you had a backup plan. Remember, you’re not a victim. See the individual as a person and not “a promise breaker.” When you see her as a person who is struggling in some areas you may be more willing to forgive then if you see her as a promise breaker who just doesn’t care. There are many psychological and physical benefits to allowing yourself to forgive someone who has wronged you. When you are consciously aware that your own well-being actually improves when you let go of grudges, you may be more motivated to move forward with the forgiveness process. Here are some of the benefits of forgiving others:   Greater psychological well-being Decreased depression Less anxiety Lower levels of stress Greater spiritual well-being Improved heart health Lower blood pressure Strengthened immune system Healthier interpersonal relationships Increased self-esteem and feelings of self-worth Research shows that the benefits of forgiveness are so marked because it lowers negative emotions and stress. Forgiveness is releasing the desire to seek revenge or ill will toward the person that you feel has wronged you. In addition, when someone has broken a promise, especially if they were close to you, you may experience a sense of loss and grief. Forgiveness is the natural resolution of the grief process.  Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you’re weak. It's actually a very powerful choice that will ultimately help your well-being. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to forget what happened. In fact, it is very important to put up boundaries with people who are not dependable. You can still be friends with someone and not ask them for help. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to reconcile the relationship. You can let go of a grudge without maintaining the relationship, if you believe it is unhealthy or toxic. Forgiving a person does not mean that you have to condone their actions. Forgiveness is so that you can move on with your life and it doesn’t mean that you have to make excuses for the other person. You can forgive and still take action to protect yourself from future hurts. After you have done all of the preparation work, now it’s time to actually let go. Decide whether you want to tell the person directly or if you’d prefer to privately release the grudge.  Here are ways that you can express your forgiveness:  Tell the person that you forgive them. Call the person up or ask to meet with her in person. Take the opportunity to tell her that you are no longer holding a grudge and that you forgive her for breaking the promise. If the person is deceased, unavailable, or if you’d prefer to just release the grudge in private, you can verbally express your forgiveness to yourself. Find a quiet place where you will have some privacy. Simply say out loud, “I forgive you, ____.”  You can go into as much or as little detail as you feel comfortable. Write a letter. This is another great option. You get to decide whether or not to send it or discard it. The point is to give yourself the opportunity to actually release the grudge. If you decide to maintain the relationship or if it is a close family member who you will spend a lot of time around, it’s important to safeguard yourself by establishing boundaries. Boundaries will help you rebuild a sense of safety so that the broken promise is less likely to recur. This will help you rebuild trust and begin the process of reclaiming your personal power.  For example, let’s say that your cousin promised to watch your children so that you could attend an important event but she cancelled at the last minute. One of the boundaries that you could establish is that she give you a 24 hour notice if she has to cancel in the future (assuming there is no emergency) so that you can make other arrangements. You could let her know that if she does not keep this agreement then you will no longer ask her to babysit your children and will no longer be available to babysit her children either. Keep in mind that as you begin to reestablish trust, the boundaries may change. It’s especially important to set boundaries with chronic promise breakers. Yes, everyone has things that she needs to work through, but you don’t have to allow yourself to repeatedly be taken advantage of while she works through it.
Summary: Practice empathy. Show compassion even if the person is constantly breaking promises. Recognize the benefits of forgiveness. Make the decision to forgive. Release the grudge. Rebuild trust by establishing boundaries.

Problem: Article: Proper hydration is key to preventing muscle cramps. If you're prone to muscle cramps, you may not be getting enough water. Work on upping your water intake throughout the day.  Start off your day with a glass of cold water. Carry a water bottle with you to work or school. Sip it throughout the day. Take advantage of water fountains. Each time you see a water fountain, stop and take a sip. If you dislike the taste of plain water, try flavoring water naturally with fruit and vegetables. Many people experience cramps in bed. If you're prone to leg cramps during the night, make sure to give your legs a good stretch before getting into bed. Some light exercise before bed can also help stretch muscles and prevent cramps. Go for a light jog or walk before bed or ride a stationary bike for a few minutes. A lack of calcium or potassium in the diet can potentially cause muscle cramps. Upping your intake of both may help prevent cramps.  Go for low-fat dairy to increase your calcium intake. Opt for things like yogurt and skim milk. To get more potassium, get foods like turkey, bananas, potatoes, and orange juice. While further studies are needed to confirm this, some evidence indicates drinking pickle juice can help with muscle cramps. It's possible that pickle juice affects nerves in the stomach and throat, which can send out signals that disrupt muscles and cause cramps. If you don't mind the taste of pickle juice, you could try drinking it to see if it lessens cramping.
Summary:
Drink more water. Stretch or exercise your muscles before bed. Consume more calcium and potassium. Drink pickle juice.