Q: . Red beans and rice are a classic Cajun dish that's spicy, hearty, and cheap to make. It's perfect for all kinds of add-ins as well, meaning that it's an easy recipe to tweak for your tastes. For a basic version:  Sauté one small minced red onion, two cloves of garlic, two celery stalks, and a chopped bell pepper in a pot with some olive oil. Stir in about a pound of cooked kidney beans. Alternatively, you could add these vegetables to the kidney beans while they're cooking, as described above. To this mixture, add 2.5 cups of water, a cup of white rice, and one ham hock, if desired. Bring the mixture to a boil, reduce the heat to low, and simmer for 20 minutes, covered, until the rice is done. Season with salt, pepper, cayenne, and hot sauce, to taste. Garnish with chopped cilantro. ake bean salad. Kidney beans make for an excellent and simple chilled salad, which is a great side at any barbecue or cookout. After cooking kidney beans ahead of time, try the following bean salad recipe:  Mix one cup of kidney beans with one cup of garbanzo beans, one cup of black beans, a cup of chopped bell pepper, and a half cup of chopped green onion. Dress the beans in three tablespoons of red wine vinegar, two tablespoons of olive oil, a teaspoon of sugar, a teaspoon of lemon juice, and salt and pepper to taste. Let sit in the refrigerator overnight, then mix thoroughly, and serve cold. Any oil-based commercial salad dressing would make for a fine substitution for the vinegar and olive oil, if you prefer. Italian salad dressing works nicely. As you cook a pot of kidney beans, add onions, garlic, and other aromatic vegetables to start the base for this delicious and simple Indian recipe. Rajma is a staple, commonly served with roti or other flat breads. After cooking a pot of kidney beans, in a separate pan:  Sautee a minced white onion, three cloves of garlic, and a one-inch piece of grated ginger in some ghee. To this, add three small tomatoes, chopped, a teaspoon of cumin seeds, and a tablespoon of ground coriander, a half teaspoon of turmeric powder, and a teaspoon of red chili powder. Add your kidney beans directly into the tomato base. Add 2-3 cups of water, or use the liquid from the cooked beans to help thicken. Cook over low heat, uncovered, for 30-40 minutes. Season with salt, pepper, and a teaspoon of garam masala. Serve with rice, roti, or naan, and top with chopped cilantro and lime. . A super-common use kidney beans in the United States is to use them in a chili. Whatever variety of chili you favor, kidney beans make a wonderful addition (except in Texas, where it's frowned upon). To make a basic chili:  Brown one pound of lean ground beef in a pot, adding one minced white onion, three cloves of minced garlic, and 3-4 tablespoons of red chili powder. Cover with 3-4 cups of water, and add 2 cups of cooked kidney beans. Simmer on low, uncovered, for 1-2 hours. Salt, pepper, and hot sauce to taste. Other good additions include garbanzos, black beans, corn, and macaroni noodles. Chili goes well with tortillas, corn bread, and baked potatoes. Basic vegetable soup can be lived up with the addition of kidney beans. If you're trying to make a supper that'll clear out the cabinet, a vegetable soup is a great option, and one that you can whip up with a variety of ingredients. For a basic version, try this: In a pot, Sauté a minced onion and some garlic in olive oil. Add 1-2 chopped carrots, and a cup of chopped white potato. Add 2-3 cups of chicken/vegetable stock, or water, and simmer. Add whatever vegetables you have on hand: canned, frozen or fresh green beans, corn, and a cup of kidney beans. Season with chopped basil, salt, and pepper to taste. Salted and spiced with a bit of cayenne pepper, kidney beans make for a nice side dish all on their own. Kidney beans are high in Vitamin C, folate, fiber, potassium and protein. Need a quick meal? Cook up a pot of beans and a pan of corn bread. Easy and tasty.
A: Make red beans and rice . Make rajma curry. Make chili Make a bean soup. Just eat them as a side dish.

Q: Accept the grief, sadness, loneliness, regret, anxiety, guilt, insecurity, or other negative emotions in the order they come to you. Let yourself be sad, and let yourself heal. Ultimately, the surest path to getting over someone is to be honest with yourself. Don't bottle up your emotions. Ask your support system for advice, and try to understand what went wrong. If you aren't sure what to do next, these people may have the wisdom and insight to guide you.  Talk to parents, older siblings, aunts, uncles, grandparents – anyone that you feel comfortable asking for insight. You may even feel comfortable asking a favorite teacher or a leader in your community. Be careful who you trust. If you are spilling your guts to someone for whom your crush is a mutual friend, make sure that this person won't pass along what you say. It may be harder to get over the guy if there's gossip floating around. Consider that there are hundreds of thousands—even millions—of people with whom you can fall in love. He may seem like the one, but this doesn't mean that he is the only one. Nor does it mean you'll never find someone like him again. Think about why this crush didn't work out. Maybe you were into him, but he wasn't into you; maybe he was in a relationship already, or he had eyes for someone else; maybe you said something to turn him off, or he did something that made you decide that he was bad news. Whatever the circumstances, you cannot take back what has happened. You can only absorb this, learn from it, and grow.  Think about what you would have done differently. You might be able to successfully navigate a crush situation in the future by analyzing what went wrong with this guy. Think about the sort of person that you want to pursue. Maybe this guy just wasn't right for you, even if you found yourself attracted to him. Consider which qualities will guide your future crushes, and which personality traits you want to avoid.
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Embrace your feelings for him, then let them go. Talk about your feelings with a friend, a relative, or a counselor. Remind yourself that this crush is just another fish in the sea. Learn from the experience.