Lawyers are known for their arguing skills, and this isn’t just limited to the workplace. They enjoy having lively debates, so if they disagree with you on an issue, don’t take it personally. Stand firm and argue your side effectively.  Cite reliable sources, offer statistics, and be as objective as possible, rather than letting your emotions take over. Don’t be intimidated by their law degree. Be confident in your own knowledge and intelligence and be comfortable discussing a wide range of topics. Identify topics that are off-limits, such as politics, religion, or family issues. If you’re happy to debate anything and everything, then great! But be honest if you just want to avoid a subject altogether. Your date should respect your wishes if something makes you uncomfortable. Decide whether you will discuss work while on dates or leave it behind. Some couples do better if work is kept out of the relationship, whereas others thrive on discussing what they did during their professional day. Have this conversation as early as possible so that you’re both on the same page about it by the first or second date. For example, you could say, "Work stresses me out too much. Can we just leave any work-talk behind when we go out?" Lawyers have their own language, often called “legalese,” and they may toss some of these terms into conversation when they talk about work. If you don’t want to constantly ask what they mean, learn some common legal terms and even some of the fundamentals of Latin.  Visit the library and check out Merriam Webster's Dictionary of Law as well as a couple beginner’s Latin books.  Some examples of legalese are affidavit, de facto, habeas corpus, fiduciary, corpus juris, and ex parte. Lawyers like clear facts. Rather than playing any mind games, come out and say how you feel about them and where you see the relationship going. They might not articulate their feelings in a romantic way, but they’ll appreciate your honesty, and will probably be straightforward with you as well.  For example, after a first date, you could say, "I really enjoyed this. When are you free again?" After several dates, try saying, "I like what we have, and I'm not interested in seeing anybody else." Let go of disappointment as often as possible – missed dates, stress, and late nights are part of the job for them. But if you’re feeling truly hurt by something, let them know. Tell them what particular behavior or situation upset you, instead of starting sentences with “You always…” or “You never…” Try saying, "I was really hurt by that comment," or "That was a really important date to me, and I'm disappointed you missed it."
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One-sentence summary -- Participate in debates with them. Set boundaries for sensitive topics. Create a rule about discussing work on dates. Learn some legal terms. Define the relationship. Speak up when you’re feeling hurt.

Article: To lower both total alkalinity and pH, you will need to add an acid. Liquid muriatic acid (hydrochloric acid diluted to 20 percent) and dry sodium bisulfate are among the most popular choices.  The acid combines with the water, thereby increasing the concentration of hydrogen ions and lowering the pH. Similarly, the acid reacts with bicarbonates in the water and reduces the water's total alkalinity in the process. You could also look for a generic “pH decreaser,” “alkalinity decreaser,” or “combination decreaser” chemical at a pool supply store. The pH will drop faster than the alkalinity, so you need to fix the alkalinity first. Once you balance the alkalinity, the pH will gradually adjust to it.  Always follow the instructions on your pH/alkalinity chemical when preparing the correct amount. As a general rule, you will need 1.6 lbs (725.75 g) sodium bisulfate or 1.3 qt (1.23 L) muriatic acid for every 10,000 gallons (37.85 kL) of water to drop the total alkalinity by 10 ppm. Scoop water out of your hot tub into an 8 gal (30.28 L) plastic bucket until that container is three-quarters full. Pour the full amount of pH decreaser into the water in the bucket and let it dissolve. You must add the acid to the water. Pouring the acid into the bucket first and adding the water can cause damage to the bucket and may result in ineffective mixing. Make sure that the pump and filters are running. The hot tub should be set at its usual temperature and speed before you continue. It is crucial, however, that no one is in the hot tub while you are balancing the water. Slowly pour the diluted decreaser into the center of the hot tub. Pour the acid in gradually instead of dumping it in all at once. Adding the acid too quickly can cause damage to the sides, bottom, and equipment in the hot tub. Allow the pump to circulate the water for three to six hours after you add the decreaser. During this time, the pumps should circulate the water and acid together more thoroughly. Only after the two have been well combined will the pH and alkalinity be consistent throughout the hot tub, and you need to wait until these measurements are consistent before moving on any further. Test the alkalinity first, then the pH.  If done correctly, the alkalinity should already be balanced. The pH may not be balanced yet, however. If either the alkalinity or pH is still high, repeat the process. Continue as needed until the water is well balanced. You should completely drain the water in your hot tub at least once every four to six months. Afterward, fill the hot tub back up, balance the pH and alkalinity as needed, and continue to monitor the conditions as usual.  You will need to balance the pH and alkalinity of your water nearly every week if you use the hot tub regularly. Adding chemicals to the water so often can cause excess build-up, and you will likely notice that it is becoming more difficult to balance your water conditions. Once you notice this difficulty, it is time for you to change the old water out for fresh water.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Choose the right chemical. Determine your initial measurements based on total alkalinity. Mix the chemical together with a small amount of water. Turn the hot tub on. Add the diluted chemical to the hot tub. Give the water a chance to balance. Test the alkalinity and pH again. Periodically drain the water.