Write an article based on this "Face your fear. Educate yourself on human anatomy and physiology. Make a plan of action. Practice. Remember to have fun."
article: Determine what you are afraid of and challenge it. When it comes to being fearful of sex, you need to know what has caused you to be afraid. Identifying specific fears will help you focus on finding a solution.  Sit down and make a list of the things you fear about sex. For example, you may not know how to approach the subject, you might be afraid of doing something wrong, or you're embarrassed of how you look naked. Challenge your fears by listing possible solutions to resolve your fears. For example, if you don't know how to approach the subject with someone, ask a trusted friend how they do it, or find someone who does it well and model his behavior. Even watching a romantic movie might help. If you are afraid of doing something wrong, you need to study the subject and figure out what techniques work best for you. Preparation and knowledge will lessen any fear. The structure and function of the human body have been studied for centuries. There are volumes of information you can refer to if you are unaware of some or all parts of the female or male anatomy.  If your fear is related to not knowing enough about a woman's and man's external genitalia, then it is time to get educated. The female genitalia includes: the vagina, a tubular organ connecting the genitals with the uterus; the uterus, a hollow muscular organ where a fetus grows during pregnancy; the vulva includes all the visible external aspects (mons pubis, labia majora, labia minora, clitoris, urethra, vaginal vestibule, perineal body); glans, the tip of the clitoris that is a highly sensitive organ. The male genitalia includes: the penis, cylindrical mass of penile tissue; the testes, oval, glandular organs contained inside the skin pouch called the scrotum; glans, the structure at the tip of the penis. The four stages of sexual response are: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and refractory period.  An orgasm is a genital reflex governed by the nerves in the spinal cord and is experienced differently by women and men.  Once you understand the basic structure and function of relevant body parts, you will feel more in command of yourself and your fears about sexual activity. Most fears are conquered by devising a plan of action. Overcoming a fear of sex is no exception. Identify what your main objectives are, set up steps to take and follow your plan.  Make a list of the things you fear. Is your fear related to the possible sexual encounter you might have during a date? Therefore, does the thought of asking someone on a date scare you? Are you concerned with looking good, having bad breath, or sweating too much? Approach your dilemma one step at a time. For example, if you are afraid to ask someone on a date, start by first asking a stranger what time it is. Although you won't be asking the person on a date or to have a sexual encounter, you will gain experience approaching someone and asking them a question. This is the first step toward your goal. Working toward a solution will help lessen your fear. Creating a plan of action helps you feel like you can do something to improve your situation. To overcome a fear of sex you need to gradually work your way through the process. Research indicates that overcoming a fear is aided when a person faces the fear in an imagined situation or a live experience. Developing a positive habit is the desired goal.  Learn how to please yourself. Determine what feels good to you by touching yourself, imagining an interaction with someone, or using sexual accessories designed to arouse. With a willing participant, build your experience over time in the areas of communicating your feelings, holding hands, kissing, massage, sexual touching and eventually intercourse. Do not pressure yourself into doing too much too soon. This may only add to the fear you are feeling. Sexual interactions are supposed to be enjoyable so relax and engage in the excitement of it all. Focusing on having fun will distract you from being fearful. Lightening the mood during a sexual encounter will allow you to feel free. For example, be playful and silly and laugh at yourself. It will set you both at ease.

Write an article based on this "Go for miniature sized lights to avoid overwhelming your windows. Try LED lights for a bright, blueish color. Go for incandescent lights for a warm, orange glow. Get battery operated lights if you do not have a plug nearby. Pick white lights for a classic look. Opt for colored lights for a bold look. Measure the windows so you know how many strands and hooks you need. Buy the lights and hooks online or in stores."
article: Miniature lights will provide enough light to illuminate your windows without being too bright or too big. Miniature lights are often narrow and long in shape to provide a nice twinkle when they are turned on. LED lights will have a blueish tint, especially if you go for white lights. They are also usually more durable and last longer than incandescent lights. LED lights may also be a better option if you only have 1 power source, as they are energy-efficient. Incandescent lights have bulbs that are slightly orange. These lights give off a warm twinkle when placed in windows, so they may be ideal if you prefer warmer looking lights. Keep in mind incandescent lights may not last as long as LED lights. You may need to replace incandescent lights more often, or each season, to keep them looking warm and bright. Battery operated lights are a great option for lights around windows and doors, as they do not require a power source. They often come in small strands made for wrapping around standard sized windows and have a small battery pack attached to them that you can hide behind a curtain or window sill. Look for battery operated lights at your local hardware store or online. Go for white lights around your windows if you want a simple, clean look for your home. You may also opt for white lights if you are putting up colored lights in other spots on your home or in your yard. For an eye-catching look, go for multi-colored lights or lights in traditional Christmas colors like green and red. Try a strands of red, white, and blue lights for your windows for a fun holiday look. You may also use colored lights in the same color to give your windows a uniform look, such as all blue or all red lights. Use a measuring tape to measure the length around your windows to determine how long the christmas lights need to be. You may need to buy several strands or rolls of lights to line your windows, especially if you are putting lights around multiple windows. You should also factor in how many hooks you will need per window. Usually about 6-8 hooks per a window is a good estimate.   Light hooks are important as they are specially made to keep the lights in place when you hang them. They are usually made of plastic and are white or transparent so they are less noticeable. You may want to tack on a few extra inches onto your measurements for the lights so you have more than enough. This can ensure you have the extra length needed to plug the lights into a power source. Christmas lights can range in price from $10-$20 USD for 50 to 100 lights per strand. Check online at holiday light retailers or in big box stores for Christmas lights that fit your budget and needs. Light hooks are often sold in bulk in large boxes of 50-100 at hardware stores or online. Go for hooks made to hold Christmas lights in place, as they will have slots large enough to fit the lights and ensure they stay secure.

Write an article based on this "Make sure you inform people you live with. Plan activities for the visit. Invite your girlfriend over to your house. Clean your house."
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Similar to any other time you might invite someone over to your house, you should let those you live with know.  It's polite to inform them and allows them to properly plan their own time during the visit. This will be determined largely by what you and your girlfriend like to do during your time together.  Make the visit a fun one by doing things you both love.  Try some of the following examples:  Watch a movie or TV show. Cook dinner together. Dance to some of your favorite music. Once it feels appropriate to you and you have established a good relationship with your girlfriend, you can invite her to your house.  Let her know when and what you have planned.  Don't have any expectations when you ask.  The response is entirely up to your girlfriend. If she says yes, enjoy your time together. If she doesn't want to visit you at your house, do not become upset.  Suggest another place and time to meet. First impressions matter and having a dirty or messy house can make any new guest uncomfortable.  Make sure your house is clean before inviting your girlfriend over to make the visit comfortable.  Try to clean up the most common areas of the house:  Vacuum or sweep floors. Clean and dust surfaces. Tidy up items around the house. Do any dishes or laundry. Take out garbage as it can cause your house to smell bad.