Problem: Article: Express empathy and explain that you want to help, but that can't understand them when they whine. Without frowning or looking angry, calmly ask them to say what's wrong using their nice voice.  Say, “I really wish I could help you, but I don't understand you when you talk like that. Can you please use your nice voice?” Ask them to use their nice voice twice. If they don't respond after 2 requests, shrug, say “Well I guess you don't want my help,” and ignore their misbehavior until they change their tone. Try to remember to grab crackers, dry cereal, fruit, or another snack before leaving the house with your child. If you're at home and lunch or dinner will be ready in 15 or 20 minutes, give them something small, like a few crackers or carrot sticks. When they ask nicely, say, “Of course you can have a snack! Thanks for asking so nicely!” Try to think ahead and pack a coloring book and crayons, puzzles, or a toy to keep your child busy when you leave the house. If you don't have something entertaining on hand, think of a task or game that could distract them. For example, if you're at the grocery store, say, “I've got a special job for you! I need you to pick out 5 of the very best apples. Can you help me?” The best way to deal with a cranky, tired child is to stick to their napping schedule. Whenever possible, take them to the bank, store, and other boring places when they're well-rested. If you can't avoid taking them out before their nap, try redirecting their whining with an activity, task, or game. If your child isn't whining because they're hungry, tired, or bored, chances are they want a toy or candy. While they're whining, keep the item they want out of their access as best you can. If it's something they can have, explain that they can have it if they ask nicely.  Say, “I can't understand what you're saying when you talk like that. Maybe if you use your nice voice and say 'please,' I'll know what you're asking for.” If they can't have the item, try expressing that you understand that they're upset, then briefly explain why they can't have it. For example, say, “I know you want another balloon, and I'm sorry you can't have one. If you got an extra one, there wouldn't be enough for the other kids.”
Summary: Tell them you can only understand if they use their nice voice. Offer a snack if they nicely say that they're hungry. Give them a task or activity if they're bored. Schedule a nap before running errands, if possible. Let them have the toy or treat they want only if they stop whining.

Problem: Article: Unless something your friend is doing is hurting themselves or others, there is no reason to give an unwanted, negative opinion. Putting undue pressure and judgement on them will make them start to dislike your presence. Try to be supportive and non-judgmental, even if you deeply disagree with something that they did. Show your respect by letting the friendship stand stronger than any one mistake.  If your friend messes up, forgive them – even if he or she, say, forgets your birthday. If they don't study for an important test, help them out. If your friend embarrasses him/herself in front of their crush, or in front of a group of people that they like, then help them out. Tell them that people will forget about it. Make sure you don't constantly talk about what happened, and just drop it as soon as it happens. Warn your friends if they make a decision that seems like a bad idea. If you know someone well, then your opinion is valuable. However, your responsibility as a friend does not include depriving someone of the opportunity to make mistakes and learn from them. Make sure that you respect your friends' right to make their own choices. If they need to do something, then let them do it. Arrange a time when you can interact one-on-one. Then, if you're sure that they are okay with being alone with you, try easing into a friendly conversation about where you think things went wrong. Humble yourself for a few minutes, and try to speak with your friend as though everything were normal. Do not accuse. If you want to restore your friendship, you'll need to let go of your anger. Rash words and unfounded accusations may cause the person to put up a defensive wall. However, it's reasonable to bring up an offense if it directly caused the falling-out. If a friend feels like he or she is being held back, he/she might react by creating distance or fading from your life in an attempt to get some space. This might hurt – but sometimes people will do this without even realizing it. Respect their journey, and give them some space. Allow them to spend time with friends other than you.nThey can still be your friend, even though they want to hang out with other people too. If your friend doesn't respect you, then you shouldn't respect them. Respect is earned, not given. If your "friend" steals your boyfriend/girlfriend, then they do not deserve your respect or friendship.
Summary: Refrain from judgement. Give respectful advice. Talk about your disagreement. Learn the boundaries. Remember that respect goes both ways.

Problem: Article: Unplug the console from both the television and its power source. The bottom side of the Xbox is covered with manufacturer warning stickers. You will be removing the feet and stickers to reveal six screws. There is a rubber foot in each corner. Use a flathead screwdriver to pry the feet from the case. Under each foot, you will find a screw. You should see a screw under each sticker. You can save the stickers by attaching them to wax paper. Torx screwdrivers have a 6-point star shape and the screws are commonly used in computer equipment and other electronics. Set the screws aside so that you don’t lose track of them. Remove the top by pulling up while gently shaking. The entire top part of the case should come directly off. If you are having difficulty removing it, check to make sure that you removed all six screws from the base.
Summary:
Power off the Xbox. Place the Xbox upside down on a flat, sturdy surface. Remove the rubber feet from the bottom of the Xbox. Peel off the Serial and Warranty stickers with a utility knife. Unscrew the six screws using a Torx 20 screwdriver. Turn the console upright.