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You’re likely eager to get to know them as a partner, so asking them to hang out as friends might sound like a step backward. However, it’s actually a great way to get to know them and find out if they’re open to dating. Invite them to do something as friends and use it as an opportunity to build a foundation for a relationship. Say, “Would you like to play mini golf this Friday?” or “I heard you like live music. Do you want to go see this local band with me?” Ask them to do more things together so you can get to know them better. Additionally, text or call them often to help your relationship grow. As you do this, be open about your sexuality and listen to how they talk about theirs.  Ask them to do things like go out for dinner, see a movie, or go bowling. Say things like, “I’ve known I liked girls since I was 12 and developed a crush on a girl in my dance class. Have you ever had a crush on a girl?” Start by giving them small compliments to see how they respond. If they seem receptive, try out a cute nickname to see if they like it. Finally, get a little closer to them physically. You might say something like, “You look so great today! This shirt is really flattering on you,” or “Every time I see you walk into the room all I can do is smile.” After you’ve gotten to know them really well, decide if they seem open to dating someone of the same sex. If they do, go ahead and ask them on a real date. You can do this in person, via text, or as part of a romantic gesture.  Say, “Spending time with you has been so great! Would you be interested in going on a date? If not, that’s totally okay, and I’m happy to just be your friend.” You could also text, “Getting to know you these past few months has been amazing. Wanna try a date? If not, we’re still on for game night.” You could send flowers with a note that says, “Would you like to have a first date with me? If so, text me a picture of the flowers. If not, our friendship can go on like nothing happened.” It's likely that you're going to develop feelings for people who aren't into you. While everyone goes through this, it can feel especially painful when it seems like everyone you like is straight. If you get rejected, remember that it's not about you, so there's no reason to doubt how awesome you are. Instead, remind yourself that you're an amazing person who's worthy of love, then spend time with your friends to lift yourself up. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there again! Go out and meet some new people. Soon, you'll find someone else who catches your eye.
Ask them to go out as friends if you’re interested in dating them. Get to know them by spending more time with them. Flirt with them after you’ve gotten to know them a bit. Invite them out on a date if you think they might be open to it. Cope with rejection by celebrating yourself and connecting with friends.