Problem: Article: Figure out your values. These are the guiding principles and beliefs that drive you forward in life, such as being honest or family-oriented. If you find it hard to pinpoint your values, ask yourself a few questions:  "What traits do I appreciate most about myself? What traits do I appreciate about others?” "What accomplishments am I most proud of? Are there any common threads or themes in these accomplishments?” "What would I like to change about my community, region, or nation?” "What would I save from my burning home if all living beings were safely removed?” It may help to write out your values (e.g., in a journal) or map them out in collage form. The key to a fulfilling life is living according to your values, but this also means steering clear of people, practices, or situations that compromise your values. Spend some time thinking about where you draw the line, the things you will not negotiate on.  For instance, if you value honesty, a non-negotiable of yours might be to avoid relationships with people who are consistently dishonest or deceptive. List out your non-negotiables and keep them handy so that you can ensure these lines aren't crossed. Enjoy a fulfilling life by doing work that aligns with your values. Be sure that you are able to share your gifts in a meaningful way—whether through a day-job, an after-hours hustle, a hobby, or volunteerism.  For some people, meaningful work might be starting a business or career that serves others. For other people, meaningful work might involve sharing their passions with others outside of a day-job by making art or demonstrating their talents. Not everyone can make their day-job feel meaningful—that's okay! Just be sure you showcase your talents in some way in your daily or weekly activities. Take a good look at your social relationships and question whether they are nourishing and positive. If not, add and subtract as needed. Don't feel guilty about it, either. You must remove dead weight and toxic relationships to truly thrive and make room for healthy connections. If your social circle needs a major overhaul, don't sweat it. Make small changes to connect with new people, like asking an interesting coworker to lunch or joining a new club or Meetup. A well-rounded, fulfilling life includes charitable service, so find ways to give back to the people around you. This can be as simple as graciously helping out a neighbor or friend in need or volunteering a few hours each week. You will feel most fulfilled if you give back in ways that promote your values, so donate your time and money to causes and organizations you believe in.
Summary: Identify what's most important to you. Figure out your non-negotiables and stand behind them. Find work that helps you make an impact. Gather a tribe of like-minded people to help you stay positive. Volunteer or help out those in need.

Problem: Article: You must first understand what you did wrong in order to change it.  Define the mistake. Did you say something wrong? Did you accidentally make a mistake on a project at work or at school? Did you forget to clean the bathroom like you promised? Understand how and why you made the mistake. Did you do it on purpose and then later regret it? Were you simply not paying enough attention? Think to yourself something like, "How did I forget to clean the bathroom? Did I not want to clean it and avoid it? Did I get too busy?" If you are not sure what you did wrong, ask someone (friend, family member, teacher, co-worker, boss) to help you find out. For example, if someone is upset at you, you can ask,"I sense that you are upset with me, can you explain?" This person may then say, "I'm upset with you because you said you would clean the bathroom and you didn't do it." Look at your patterns of behavior and how you have had similar issues in the past. Are there other times when you forgot to do something? Write down any patterns or themes you notice that keep coming up for you. This may help you identify a larger goal that you need to work on (attention span, certain skills, etc). For example, perhaps you tend to forget tasks that you don't want to do such as cleaning. This could indicate you are avoiding the task or that you need to become more organized in order to remember to complete certain responsibilities. Understand that your mistake is your own. Take the responsibility that is yours and avoid blaming it on someone else. If you play the blame-game then you cannot learn from your faults, and you may continue making the same mistakes over and over again.  Write down the parts of the problem that you contributed to, or the specific mistake you made. Identify things you might have done differently to produce a better outcome.
Summary: Identify your mistake. Remember your past mistakes. Take responsibility.

Problem: Article: Most types of waterproof wax come in a plastic container or tin. Dip a clean rag into the waterproof wax and massage the wax into all of the exterior leather surfaces of the boot. Work the rag in a circular motion, and fully rub the wax into one section of the leather before moving on to the next. Apply waterproof wax to the boots once a year. Waterproof wax will seal the boot leather for many months. Waterproof spray comes in an aerosol can and can be sprayed directly onto the boot leather. It can be applied more quickly than wax, so opt for a spray if you don’t have much time to spend waterproofing your boots. Waterproof sprays may not need to be rubbed into the leather at all. Consult the directions on the packaging. The disadvantage of waterproof sprays is that they do not soak into the leather as well as a wax. Consequently, a spray will need to be applied several times during the course of a single winter. Whether you apply a waterproofing wax or a spray, you’ll need to give the leather time to absorb the chemicals and dry before wearing the boots. Air dry the boots until all of the wax has been absorbed and the leather is completely dry to the touch.  Place the boots in the path of a fan to speed up the drying process. The tongue should be propped open, and the fan should blow room temperature air on the boots. Never use a blow-dryer to dry the boots. The sudden application of heat can crack the leather.
Summary:
Apply a waterproof wax to the boot leather. Consider a waterproof spray instead if you’re in a hurry. Let the boots dry before wearing them.