Write an article based on this "Be yourself so you can have good self-esteem. Act confident around others. Treat other people politely and respectfully. Have an optimistic attitude so you seem more positive. Focus on the other person when you have conversations. Be outgoing so you’re open to trying new things. Look for new hobbies to seem more interesting to other people."
Don’t try to change how you look or act just to try and impress other people since it may not come across as genuine. Try your best at everything you do and know that it’s okay if things don’t go perfectly the way you planned. Avoid comparing yourself to other people and focus on the things that you enjoy doing and make you unique. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about yourself rather than people that bring you down. Confident people seem more engaged and assertive, so it can make you seem more attractive to other people. When you make a decision, avoid backing out or changing your position on it randomly since it may make you seem like you’re unsure. Practice being confident by talking to people you haven’t reached out to, making eye contact, and trying new things.  Avoid being overly apologetic since it can make you seem uncertain or anxious. Don’t compare yourself to other people since you don’t know what they may also be dealing with. Others are usually more attracted to people that are caring rather than those who are rude. Give people your full attention while you’re talking to them and avoid getting distracted. Use your manners when you’re interacting with them by using “please” and “thank you” when you need to. Try helping others out without them asking if you notice them struggling with something. Avoid talking about people behind their backs or making fun of them since it can make you seem uncaring. People who have a positive outlook on life seem more attractive than others with a negative attitude. Look at the bright side of each situation so you can find things to be happy about. Practice smiling throughout the day to make it seem like you’re happy and have a positive attitude. If you have a negative experience, focus on what you learned from it and how you can apply it to your life in the future.  For example, if you fail a test, you can reframe it to focus on tough questions that you answered correctly. Then you can plan on studying more for future tests. It’s normal to feel sad or upset sometimes, but don’t let it affect your entire mood. Actively listen to the other person while they’re talking by maintaining eye contact with them and nodding along with them. Try to repeat words they’ve used in the conversation to show them that you’re listening and paying attention to them. Ask the other person questions so you can get to know them better and make them feel cared about.  Spend more time listening than trying to talk over someone else, since it can make you seem rude or self-centered. Avoid bragging about things since it could be a turn-off to other people. Open up to people that you trust so you can get to know them on a more personal level. Say yes to things that you wouldn’t normally do or try a new activity that you’ve never done before so you can try something new. Look for new opportunities that you can try at your school or in your community, and give them a chance to see if you enjoy them. You can also try reaching out to new people that you haven’t talked to before and starting a conversation with them. People who have interests and hobbies they care about tend to be more attractive to others. If you already have a hobby, make sure you set aside time so you can focus on it throughout the week. If you want to find a new hobby, ask your friends what they like to do and see if you can join them. You can also look for groups or clubs at your school that sound interesting to see if it’s something that you want to learn.  Look for a variety of different hobbies so you can learn a lot of new skills. Developing new hobbies can also help you meet more people with similar interests.