If you are lonely or have been single for a long time, it might be easy to settle or get desperate for anyone that shows interest. However, this could lead to a disastrous and unsatisfactory relationship. Maintain your personal standards by doing the following:  Look for a partner who will respect you and your interests. Being with someone who does not respect you shows desperation to be with anyone that shows interest. Look for someone you can talk to about your interests and who will not belittle you. Find a partner who enjoys spending time with you. If  you are in a relationship with someone who you only see when it is convenient for them, then you may just be desperate for any company rather than good company. Look for a partner who shares the same values or goals as you. You do not want someone who will disrespect you and your core beliefs. Although it is easy to identify desperate actions when looking for a relationship, desperation can manifest in ongoing relationships. Do not desperately hold onto a relationship that is no longer working. Consider ending a relationship if:  Your significant other is emotionally or physically abusive. This is not only dangerous to your emotional and physical health, but also something you do not have to live with. Your partner does not respect you, your friends, or your family. Do not be desperate to please others in your relationship; do not be desperate to get a guy that your mother would approve of. It is important to be in a relationship for reasons that work for you, not to desperately be in a relationship for the sake of not being single. Your partner is a negative presence in your life. Do not desperately make excuses for your partner in hopes that s/he will change. Supporting your partner is one thing, but making continual excuses is another. This will cultivate a negative body image and negative thoughts. Instead, list what your strengths and what makes you unique.  Identify what aspects of your life you compare yourself with others. Is it your looks? Your intelligence? Once you pinpoint these feelings, it is easier to get rid of them. Understand that you are in control of your actions and feelings. It easy to think that society should tell us how to look and feel; but, you are the only person who can make decisions for how you think and act. Try and replace negative thoughts with positive ones. This will help create a good habit that will build self-confidence and happiness. It is easier to build a good habit when you have people cheering you on! Do not isolate yourself; instead, surround yourself with positive people who will help you make good decisions about your life.
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One-sentence summary -- Maintain personal standards. Do not rationalize bad treatment. Stop comparing yourself to others. Surround yourself with positive people.


For most users, the Time filter is enabled by default. You can add it to any photo or video Snap that you take in Snapchat. Tap the large, circular shutter button on the Camera screen to take a photo Snap, or press and hold it to record a video Snap. You'll reach the Time filter going either direction, so just start swiping until you get to the Time filter. You'll usually find the time between the Altitude and the Battery filters, though the order may vary depending on the permissions you've allowed.  If the date is displayed instead, tap the date until the time appears. After adding the time, you can add a second filter if you'd like. Hold the screen with one finger and then use another finger to continue swiping. This will cycle through the remaining filters that you can add. You can add stickers, drawing, and text to your Snap before you send it to your friends. Tap the buttons at the top of the Snap to access different effects and editing tools. Tap the Send To button to select recipients and send your Snap off.
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One-sentence summary -- Open Snapchat. Take a Snap. Swipe left or right to start cycling through filters. Stop swiping when you see the time. Send your Snap.


If there's one thing an aquarius values as much as intellect, it's loyalty. When dating an aquarius, you can expect a loyal partner. You will have to show loyalty in return, or an aquarius is unlikely to be interested in your longterm companionship.  Once an aquarius shows vulnerability, you have their loyalty. Do not betray this loyalty at any cost. Stay true to your aquarius partner. Do not harbor secrets or resentments. When necessary, rise to the defense of your partner. An aquarius will not waste time with someone incapable of loyalty in a relationship. Longterm, you'll need to keep up with an aquarius. An aquarius wants to learn over the course of a lifetime, and longs for a partner they can learn from each day. Work on cultivating your intellectual interests. Read a lot, keep up with current events, and get involved in cultural activities in your community. If you're not intellectually interesting, an aquarius will move on to a new partner. Most people need some alone time in a romantic relationship. An aquarius needs more alone time than average. Do not be surprised or offended if your aquarius partner needs a few nights a week alone. This is normal, and should be respected.  Avoid bothering an aquarius when they're caught up in alone time. If you interrupt an aquarius while reading, for example, you're likely to be met with hostility. Understand an aquarius is not rebuffing you when they need alone time. This is merely how an aquarius recharges and re-energizes. If you try to force an aquarius to choose between you and their dreams, they will not choose you. An aquarius is a passionate and ambitious individual, who needs a partner willing to support their various endeavors. They want someone willing to share their adventure, and meet new challenges with curiosity. When dating an aquarius, be open to any new pursuits.
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One-sentence summary --
Be loyal. Keep an aquarius mentally stimulated. Give an aquarius alone time. Support your partner's ambitions and independence.