An important thing to remember is to avoid sharing information about the kiss with other people. Sharing details about the kiss, or telling others about conversations you’ve had about it, will only endanger your relationship. Remember, the kiss and the post-kiss conversations were done in trust.  By not sharing, you’ll eliminate the possibility of gossip that could hurt or offend either of you. Avoid involving others in the post-kiss discussions. It is best to deal with the situation by yourselves. The only way you should tell others about the kiss or the post-kiss conversation is if both of you agree to do so. Ultimately, one or both of you might wind up in a relationship shortly after your kiss. While it is perfectly natural to feel a little bit jealous of the other person’s new squeeze, you need to keep those feelings in check and resist jealousy as much as you can. In the end, being jealous or resentful will only undermine your friendship.  Don’t act out or be passive aggressive toward your friend after they’ve entered a new relationship. Tell yourself that you want your friend to be happy. If their new partner makes them happy, this should make you happy. Treat your friend’s new love interest as a friend as well. Being mean will only endanger your relationship If you have any concerns or issues with your friend’s new love interest, it is best to keep the thoughts to yourself or to discuss it with your friend. An important part of staying friends is that you need to continue your relationship in the context of your social circle. This means that you should continue to do things with each other and with your other friends.  Continue to do the same activities you’ve done before. If this includes going to the movies together (with other friends), do so. Don’t try to win over or steal a friend in order to get someone on your side if you think the friendship is going south. If you were the one who previously invited friends to certain activities, continue to invite everyone and don’t exclude the person you kissed.
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One-sentence summary -- Avoid sharing information with others. Resist the urge to be jealous. Maintain activities with mutual friends.


The last thing you want to do is to tear a hole into your wall only to find that it's not feasible to put a door there. Before you go about drilling and tearing down, check for the following things:  Check if there's enough room in the wall. You need just over twice the width of the door (so it can hide). Check if the wall is load-bearing or just a partition. If it is load bearing, you'll need a new header and a means of temporary support while the door is being worked on. Check for wiring or plumbing. A wall with pipes in it is not a good place to put a door. Wiring can be easily detected with a cheap voltage sensor. If you're replacing a door with a pocket door, you'll need to get rid of the existing door. Start with removing the molding and, with a reciprocating saw blade, cut the shims. When the nails are cut, you can remove the door frame. Door jambs aren't nailed against the studs in the wall – they're just spaced with wooden shims.
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Check the wall. Remove the existing door, if applicable.