INPUT ARTICLE: Article: To secure the veil to your hair, you’ll be connecting it to a hair comb. Opt for a metal comb, since these are typically sturdier than the plastic ones. Don’t get a comb that has decorative embellishments at the top—these will get in the way of attaching the veil and will end up being at least partially hidden by the netting. Take a length of the ribbon or lace of your choice and pull it between the teeth on one end of the comb, then tie a knot to hold it in place. Continue to wind the ribbon between each of the comb’s teeth until you reach the other side. Tie another knot and cut off the excess. If you like, you can also add a dot of hot glue to each of the knots to make them more secure. Thread a needle with a sturdy thread that matches the color of your veil. Secure the thread to the netting at one corner of the veil (next to the longest edge) and make stitches through the netting along each of the 3 short sides.  Your veil will now be gathered into a rounded “cage” shape. Don’t cut the thread just yet—you’ll be using it to attach the veil to the comb! Take the bunched end of the netting with the needle and thread still attached and line it up with the top edge of your comb. Make a series of simple stitches to attach the netting to the ribbon or lace on the comb.  To make sure the veil is sewn on securely, stitch all the way across the top of the comb 3 or 4 times. When you’re done, tie a knot in the end of the thread close to the edge of the comb and snip off the excess. You can also reinforce your knot with a dot of hot glue.

SUMMARY: Choose a simple wire hair comb. Wrap a strip of lace or ribbon around the top of the comb. Bunch the top edges of the netting together with a series of stitches. Sew the netting to the fabric on top of the comb.


INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If you’re invited to a dinner party, bring a gift or a dish, like wine or a dessert, and pay close attention to your table manners. Stay away from your phone during conversation and be friendly and cordial to everyone you meet. with others in the social scene. Talking behind other people’s backs and dumping friends to move up the social ladder is the worst socialite stereotype. Avoid behaving this way yourself by remembering that a truly confident socialite doesn’t need to put others down to feel strong. When others try to involve you in gossip, simply say, “From my experience, he’s a wonderful person,” or, “I don’t know her very well, but she seems sweet.” Keep your comments positive and don’t say anything bad about anyone--it may come back to hurt you if you do! Strive to make one good connection with each person you meet: maybe you both scuba dive, enjoy baseball, or frequently visit art museums. These similarities will help people remember and like you. First, utilize the connections you do have, from work, school, or family. Keep in touch with them regularly and attend social events with them, asking them to introduce you to their friends and acquaintances. Get contact information for new acquaintances and treat them to lunch or coffee. When they plan a guest list for their next party, you’ll be at the front of their mind. As your circle of acquaintances grows larger, remember to keep stay close to your best friends. You’ll need someone who understands your ambition to be a socialite, who will have your back no matter what, and who you can trust and confide in. Conventional wisdom says that you should date--and, eventually, marry--into a rich family. Sure, it’s a bonus if your spouse or partner has connections in the world of old money, but it’s definitely not what you should look for in a life partner. Instead, date someone you care about and who is interested in at least being social by coming with you to parties, meeting new people, enjoying the challenges and excitement of working your way up in society together. Post them to your own social media or pose for a photographer at an event--the photos may even end up in the society section of a newspaper or magazine. Be relaxed and confident. Say, “We both look amazing tonight. This needs to be documented,” or “I told myself I’d get one more picture tonight. Are you in?” The last thing you want is to come off as desperate to established socialites, and the best way to prevent this is to exude confidence. Sit up straight, walk tall, and act like you belong. If you believe it, so will everyone else.

SUMMARY:
Have impeccable manners. Avoid drama Be charming and memorable in conversation. Connect with people who can broaden your social circle. Make a few good friends and stick with them. Date someone who understands your ambition. Take pictures with other socialites. Be confident.