Don't break right out into the "I love you"s and don't talk about the future you want the two of you to have. You want to avoid speaking in definite terms about the future because this creates a lot of pressure and expectations for him...which is stressful and can scare him away! Instead, speak in terms of what you want to try or what you hope might become real eventually. "I hope we can try being more than friends,", etc. Don't be creepy when you tell him how you feel. This means no begging, no bargaining, and try not to touch him or get into his personal space until you know he feels the same way. You also shouldn't cling around him if he needs time to think about what you said. If you can, tell him how you feel in person. Using social media or a text can come across as not being very serious or, worse, being a joke. This is not how you want to start things with him. You don't want to rush into telling him and if he returns your feelings, don't rush into a serious relationship. If you're going to go through the torture of confessing, you want to be sure that you really like him first, right? This is can be a long process and one that will continue even if you start dating. Just focus on getting to know him for who he really is, by spending time with him and talking about things that are important to you: what you both want for the future, what your beliefs are, and what you like to do for fun.

Summary: Don't pressure him. Don't be creepy. Don't use social media or a phone. Don't rush into things.


Sometimes an apartment just isn’t enough space to hold all of your things. Some apartments have extra storage space that you can rent, or you may need to consider renting a storage facility. Regardless of where you find extra storage space, it’s important to consider these costs as part of your overall rental expenses. In some complexes, you’ll need to pay an additional fee to park your car. If you don’t own a car, this will obviously not be a concern, but if you do, ask about the complex’s parking policies. Some apartments only charge for covered or garage parking, but others will request a per car fee as part of your monthly rent. If your apartment complex has a pool, gym, dog park, or other amenities available for all occupants, you are likely paying to maintain these areas as part of your rent. Ask how much of your rent goes towards shared amenities. If you regularly go swimming, workout at the gym, or take your dog to the dog park, these expenses may be worthwhile for you. However, if you don’t think you’ll use these spaces, you may want to look for rental properties with fewer amenities.

Summary: Consider additional storage fees. Pay for vehicle parking. Understand the costs of shared spaces.


Most pinto beans will reach this stage between 90 and 150 days.  Bush beans mature at once, giving you a single harvest. Pole beans yield several harvests and should be picked regularly so that more beans can grow. Note that mature beans can barely be dented when bitten. If the weather starts getting damp before the seeds fully dry, pull the entire plant after most of the foliage has already died and hang it by its roots in a well-ventilated, dry location. The bean pods can finish drying this way. You can shell pinto bean pods individually by hand or in batches.  To shell the beans in batches, place the pods in an old pillowcase and walk on it for a minute or so, crushing the pods open. You can remove the chaff by pouring the beans back and forth between two containers or by letting them sit out in a breezy area. Place the beans in a freezer-safe container and let them sit in your freezer for several hours before transferring them to long-term storage. This added step can help prevent problems with weevils and similar pests. Place the shelled, cool beans in airtight jars and store them in a dry, cool place, like a pantry or cellar. Dried pinto beans will usually last at least one year if stored properly but may last even longer.

Summary: Wait until the beans dry out. Shell the pods. Freeze the beans temporarily. Store the beans in a cool location.


A blue outfit can draw attention to your eyes, but the wrong shade of blue for your eye color can wash them out. A good rule of thumb is to avoid dull blues, neon blues, and blues that match the exact color of your eyes.  If you have green-blue eyes, avoid turquoise or aqua blues--they’ll overwhelm your eyes. Try purple blues. If your eyes are gray-blue, try a baby blue. Bright blue eyes will look amazing in a royal blue outfit. Navy blue looks good with any color blue eyes. If you have blue eyes, you most likely have a cool-toned complexion. Warm-toned clothing can clash with cool-toned skin. Avoid oranges, reds, and yellows so you don't distract from your eyes. Jewelry, hair clips, hats, and scarves in browns, oranges, and warm metallics will draw attention to your blue eyes--especially if they’re near your face! They're a great option if you'd rather not wear an entire orange-toned outfit.  If you wear glasses, consider getting gold or tortoiseshell frames to bring out the blue in your eyes. Try a gold hair clip near your face to bring out your eyes. An orange or rust-colored scarf will draw attention to your eyes. Adding touches of blue to your outfit will draw even more attention to your eyes. Try wearing blue jewelry, shoes, or bags. You can also pick clothes that have blue patterns or stripes. Turquoise jewelry is a great way to bring in a little blue. An all-black outfit can give you a dramatic flair that draws attention to the only spot of color on you--your beautiful blue eyes! This look works especially well with bold, dramatic eye makeup.  This look is best for those with light, bright, green, or purple-blue eyes. Gray and dark blue eyes can be lost in all black. If you don't want to wear an all-black outfit, try wearing a black hat or scarf to frame your face.
Summary: Choose blue shades that complement your eye color. Avoid warm-toned clothes. Use gold, brown, or copper accessories. Add small pops of blue to your outfit. Try wearing all black.