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Figure out what makes him feel the most loved. Fill a hole in his life so he realizes how much he needs you. Share secrets to create intimacy between the 2 of you. Be your best self to make him see how awesome you are.
Everyone has a different way that they like to receive love, whether it’s through touch or receiving gifts. Pay attention to what you or other people do that makes him happiest to determine how he likes to be loved. Then focus on doing more of that so he feels like you truly understand him. For example, if he likes being told that he's special, make sure you say things like, "Thanks for helping me with my homework. You're so smart!" or "I love the way you always know how to cheer me up." If you can give him what no one else can, he will likely develop very strong feelings for you. For example, if he doesn’t have anyone who supports his dream of being a professional athlete, be his biggest cheerleader.  Think about your strengths, too. If you’re a great listener, you can be the person he tells all of his deepest feelings to. For example, if he always mentions how he has trouble talking to his guy friends when he's sad, you can say something like, "I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. I won't judge!" Don’t try to “fix” him. There’s a difference between being there for someone versus trying to change them into who you think they should be. Being open and vulnerable shows him that you trust him and want to be closer to him emotionally. Tell him things about yourself that not many people know and make sure you really listen when it’s his turn to open up.  Start small, then share bigger, deeper things about yourself as the relationship progresses. For example, on the first date, you might confess that you love trashy reality shows. Then on the 10th date, you might tell him about your parents’ divorce. Instead of completely focusing on how to get him to fall for you, think about yourself. How can you be the best version of yourself and be the confident, self-assured girl he wants and deserves? Work on yourself as much as you work on your relationship by pursuing your own interests, spending time with your friends, and learning to love who you are.  Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Instead, improve the parts of you that you don’t like. For example, instead of spending your weekend stalking his ex on Instagram, use that time to work on your painting skills. He’s more likely to fall for a girl who has passions and interests and loves herself first.