Q: The break up conversation will likely be intense and difficult so set the scene by choosing a time and place where you can be alone and talk in private. This could be a quiet bench in a park or a private spot in a coffee shop. Choose a location that feels neutral and secluded enough to give you both space to talk and listen. Choose a private place to talk in public rather than having the talk in your home. If the man reacts negatively, this can help keep you safe. Because you are the one instigating the break up, you will need to take charge of the conversation and be clear about your intentions. Try to keep your voice calm and controlled, as getting emotionally may signal to the married man that he can try to comfort you and avoid the break up conversation. Using a calm and clear tone will make it apparent that you are serious about your desire to end the relationship. For example, you may begin by telling the married man you need to discuss your relationship and your unhappiness or discomfort with the situation. "I would like to talk to you about our relationship. I am not happy with our relationship and I think we need to address the status of our relationship." To ensure you are understood clearly by the married man, focus on “I” statements, such as: “I feel that you are not committed to our relationship and I am not comfortable being the other woman,” or “I think we should end our affair. I am tired of all the lying and sneaking around.”  At this point, the married man may try to persuade you to change your mind or use excuses he has used in the past. Resist this by providing reasons why you think it is time to end the relationship and by being clear that you have made your decision. Using “I” statements will show you are being accountable for your decision and are expressing your feelings without blaming or accusing the married man. This will keep the conversation controlled and prevent it from devolving into a shouting match. Once you have stated your intentions to end the relationship, be firm about your decision by rejecting any excuses the married man may use and walking away if he tries to persuade you to change your mind.   For example, you may say: "It's no use arguing about this anymore. I'm not going to change my mind and I hope you can respect my decision by not contacting me in any way. I think we both need time apart to accept the break up." You may want to cut communication with him to give him time to accept your decision and to avoid being tempted to renew the relationship. Avoid calling, texting, or emailing him, and do not answer any of his messages if he reaches out to you. Doing this will show him you are serious about your decision to end the relationship and will also help you to move on from the relationship.
A: Set up a time where you are both alone and can talk privately. Express yourself clearly and calmly. Use “I” statements. Be firm about your desire to end the relationship.

Q: Girls with darker skin can wear very bright colors on their eyes and look great. The best bright colors for dark skin are bright jewel tones like blue,emerald, or purple. Bright colors really pop against dark skin and give you a dramatic look. Using two complementing colors on your eye will create a fun, dramatic look. Try pairing gold and purple by applying the purple on your eyelid and layering the gold on top, closer to your eyebrow. Wearing neutral eye shadows in shades of brown or nude can highlight your eyes and still look very natural. Blending several different neutral colors can create a unique look to wear everyday. Stay away from whites or very light neutral colors. These colors can create a dry or ashy look on darker skin. Metallic, or shimmering, eye shadows look amazing on dark skin because they are such a contrast to your rich, dark skin color. Eye shadows with shimmer really gleam on darker skin making it a perfect choice for a date night. Try using metallic jewel toned eye shadows to give you a dramatic look.
A: Be bold with bright colors. Blend complementing colors. Try using neutral colors for a subtle look. Use metallics to add some fun.

Q: Take screenshots of important customer service numbers and links. If you need to cancel the order, you will have easy access to the company’s cancellation procedure. Some e-commerce websites are better than others for canceling orders. Most big name retailers and Amazon has a cancellation procedure in place, while some consumer-to-consumer sites, like eBay may not allow order cancellations on some purchases. If the retailer doesn’t list a cancellation policy, but you follow up, courts and credit card companies often still file in favor of the customer. If the company says that cancellations are not accepted, it is unlikely that you will receive support through your credit card company. Your best bet for a full cancellation and refund is to catch it before it ships. Sign into your account and find your order listed. Then, click “Cancel” or fill out the cancellation form with your name, email, phone number, confirmation number, order number and a reason for the cancellation. Make sure to include your name, email, phone number, confirmation number, order items, order number and a reason for the cancellation. This is faster than email if the website has a 24-7 customer service line. It is a good idea to try both the email/order cancellation form method and call to ensure your cancellation is received. The customer service rep may give you a confirmation number by phone. Keep this for future reference. Note that some refunds take 30 days to show up on your billing statement. Follow up if the money is not credited within 15 to 30 days.
A: Keep copies of all order confirmations. Know your merchants. Try to cancel the online order as soon as possible. Search for an online form on which to cancel your order. Write an email that includes these details to the customer service department if the website instructs you to do so. Call the customer service number provided on the confirmation email or order page. Look for a cancellation confirmation email. Check your credit card bill to ensure that you have been refunded the money if you successfully cancelled the order before shipping.

Q: Seriously consider paying a professional proofreader. These are Goodreads, Facebook, Twitter, and Google Plus. Begin making friends. At this stage, it is acceptable to ask questions about your book, but avoid self-promotion. Amazon's own Kindle forum doesn't allow self-promotion. It's not moderated, and it can be a hostile place for independent writers.  Use an RSS aggregator such as Google Reader. This will allow you to check as many blogs as you like from one place. Post helpful, relevant comments on blog posts that interest you, always linking back to your own website. That may seem daunting, but something as simple as a PowerPoint presentation put to music can be very effective. Look at other authors' work for examples.
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Make sure that your book is as polished as possible. Join the major social networks. Join forums, introduce yourself, and begin chatting. Start a blog. Build a blog reading list. Consider preparing a trailer.