Problem: Article: It might be hard for you to recognize when you're saying "yes" to something you really don't want to do. People who are prone to being codependent are often people-pleasers. Although being helpful to others isn’t a bad thing, always saying “yes” often is. You can’t be everything to everyone, and trying to do so may be a sign of codependency.If you’re currently in a codependent relationship, you’ll likely say “yes” to anything the other person wants, even if it hurts you. For instance, you might have an adult child who refuses to work and always asks you for money. If you're codependent, you might give them money every time they ask for it, even though you’re short on cash. You probably worry because you care. However, you might spend more time thinking about others than you do about yourself if you're codependent. Additionally, you might feel responsible for helping them as much as you can. Pay attention to how often you worry about the people in your life to help you figure out if you may be codependent. As an example, you may lie awake worrying about your partner who has a mental illness having an episode or your sister who's an alcoholic having an accident. You're likely worrying out of love, but consistently worrying about others takes its toll on you over time.
Summary: Recognize if you have trouble saying “no” to people. Notice if you’re always worrying about someone else.

Problem: Article: This will keep you looking and smelling your best, and more importantly, prevent infections and other illnesses.  Shower daily. If you don't want to wash your hair everyday, then wear a shower cap and rinse your body with soap and water. Brush your teeth every morning and evening. Brushing in between meals can further improve the health and appearance of your teeth and gums. Wear deodorant. Smelling your best is just as important as looking your best. Maintain your waxing, shaving, and/or tweezing regimen. Getting rid of unwanted body hair can instantly make you look and feel more attractive and leave you with smooth, touchable skin. . This means dressing appropriately for the occasion, your body type, and your age. Use your best judgment to determine what clothes are most appropriate for you.  Buy fewer but better quality clothes which will last; wearing cheap, throwaway items isn't good for your new image Don't try to squeeze into clothes that don't fit you. Start to wear skirts or dresses rather than pants. They bring out your femininity and show off your curves better than pants do and you will feel much more elegant and feminine. And nothing says 'lady' more loudly that a girl wearing a smart skirt when all her friends are wearing jeans. Don't go bare-legged. Always wear tights or pantyhose. Don't feel obliged to wear high heels if you find them uncomfortable - flat shoes are just as good. Don't wear sweatpants or tracksuits unless you are at the gym or exercising. Wearing these around all day suggest that you pay very little attention to your physical appearance. Iron your clothes to remove any wrinkles, and be sure to wash your clothes if they are stained. Elegance requires minimalism; wear makeup to accentuate your beauty, not to cover it up. Don't show excessive cleavage or wear bare-midriff tops. These types of revealing clothes suggest that you are not dressing for yourself, but rather, to attract men.
Summary: Maintain your personal hygiene. Dress elegantly Keep your clothing clean and pressed. Don't wear excessive makeup or revealing clothing.

Problem: Article: Some Italian restaurants offer whole pizzas as an appetizer for the table to share. If that’s the case, you can grab a slice and hold or fold it to eat it. Try to stick to one slice until everyone in the table has gotten a piece. If you’re wearing nice clothes and worried about dropping some toppings on yourself, you can use a fork and a knife to eat your pizza, as long as there are appetizer plates for you to set the slice on. In any formal dinner setting where pizza is the main entree, rest the slice on your plate and use the fork and knife to cut it into smaller pieces. Avoid picking up the slice with your hands, which can be unnecessarily messy. This will keep you from getting sauce and toppings on your clothes or face while eating, and is easier for talking while eating. In a formal dinner setting, if you don’t know the proper etiquette for eating your food, you can always look to the host to see what’s acceptable. When the pizza gets to the table, let the host take their piece first, which will give you time to make note of what they do. Try to avoid staring at them while they eat, which can be considered rude. Instead, focus on getting your pizza onto your plate and then glance at them to see how they’re eating it. Depending on where you're from, the right way to eat pizza might be a controversial topic. If you're at dinner and someone is eating pizza differently than you would, avoid making comments about it. Follow the host's lead and eat the way they're eating to be polite. If someone makes a comment about the way that you eat pizza, take it in stride. Many people have strong opinions on the right way to eat a pizza because of where they're from. Just remember, all that matters is that you're enjoying the delicious slice in front of you!
Summary:
Eat an appetizer pizza by holding it if you’re at a restaurant. Show your manners by eating pizza with a fork and knife if you’re at a business meal. Follow the host’s lead if you’re unsure of how to eat your slice. Keep your pizza opinions personal to avoid conflict.