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Talk about why it’s nice to have flexibility and time in your schedule. While you may not have children, you do have time to pursue your goals and interests. For example, attending a 9 pm movie or weekend away is stress-free and painless.  Say, “I know that not having children means I miss some things. But it also means I gain other things, and I really enjoy that.” You can also say to your brother, “Not having kids of my own means I can be a great Uncle to your kids.” It’s true you can’t ‘have it all,’ but you can take the best of what you have. Not having children means you can put more time and effort into your partnership and/or friendships. Instead of spending your time shuttling children to sports practice and school activities, you can deepen your other relationships and be more present in the lives of others.  Say, “I love being available to babysit your kids and spend time with you and my other friends.” If you have a partner, say, “Not having children means that my spouse and I spend a lot of quality time together. We also have more intimate, adult conversations without worrying about our kids hearing them." Many people choose not to have children due to environmental reasons--they may not want to contribute to overpopulation. Every human being on the planet consumes resources and creates waste. However environmentally friendly people try to be, everyone uses resources that the world is running out of. We all have a carbon footprint, and one way to reduce your impact on the planet is to refrain from bringing another person into the world.  Let your friends and family know that you care about the environment and don’t want to contribute to greater strain. For example, say, “Raising a child currently takes a big toll on the environment and drains resources. I know I use more than I’d like to, and adding a child in the mix doesn’t feel right to me.” Unless there's a reason for you to consider having children, such as a romantic partner who really wants them, there's no reason for you to defend your decision at all. If you don't want kids, just say you don't want them. There’s no need to beat around the bush and if you are pushed on the subject, just walk away. For example, say, “I've just never wanted to have kids, so I'm not going to."

summary: Highlight what you enjoy about your lifestyle. Focus on your relationships. Talk about the environment. Explain that you don't see yourself as a parent.


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. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have sex with you, then you should show her what an amazingly dependable guy you are. If your girl is going to trust you enough to have sex with you, whether it's her first time or if she's had sex before, then she has to feel like she can depend on you. One of her fears may be that as soon as you have sex, she won't be able to rely on you anymore because you would have gotten what you wanted. So, prove her wrong by being an upstanding and dependable guy.  Show up when you say you're going to show up. If you routinely pick her up half an hour late for your dates, she'll think that you don't think she's so special, and she'll be less likely to have sex with you. Don't be a flake. If you say you're going to take her to the beach over the weekend, do it. If you don't stick to your word, she won't be able to trust you. Be her rock. Let her talk to you about her problems and insecurities while knowing that you can make her feel better. Don't go hours or even a day or two without returning her phone calls or texts. This will make her feel like she can't depend on you. Some guys can be ready to have sex with a girl in the time it takes to down a beer, while some girls can take months, or even longer, to decide that they're ready to make love. And some girls -- sorry, gentlemen -- are really adamant about holding out for the one, and don't even want to have sex before marriage. So, don't rush into it -- wait for the girl to trust you first.  If your girl is barely comfortable with kissing, then you shouldn't bring up the "s-word" for a while. However, if you and your girlfriend are already comfortable hooking up in bed all the time after just a few weeks, then you can start thinking about taking it to the next level. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have sex with you, the worst thing you can do is bring it up or try to force it when it's way too early. This will turn your girlfriend off and will make her much less likely to sleep with you. Let's face it -- if you're a male of a certain age who is desperate for his girlfriend to have sex with him, then you probably are obsessed with sex. But that doesn't mean you have to make jokes, innuendos, or even blatant references to sex all the time. The last thing you want your girlfriend to think is that you're a horndog who is so obsessed with sex that you don't care which lady comes into your bed. You should make her feel special, like you want only her.  You don't have to hide the fact that you're a man with needs, but you should avoid being vulgar, talking about sex all the time, or talking about other people who have sex all the time. Don't make derogatory comments about other women. This will make your girlfriend feel like a piece of meat. Remember that you're not with your bros, but with your special lady. If you want to make your girlfriend trust you, then you have to be loyal to her. She'll never have sex with you if she thinks you're talking to or checking out other women, or even hanging out with other women. Though you don't have to be rude to or ignore other women, you should have a laser-sharp focus on your girlfriend so she knows that you will always be there for her, especially after you start having sex.  Spend lots of time with her. Make sure that you plan at least one or two dates every week and that you check in with her at least once a day if you're not together. There's a difference between being loyal and being possessive and smothering your girlfriend with affection. You should make a point of seeing her when you both want to hang out, but don't try to see her 24/7 or she'll begin to pull back. You should not only show your girl that you're loyal by being loyal to her, but by showing that you're a loyal sibling, friend, and teammate. Show loyalty in many aspects of your life and your girl will be impressed.
summary: Be dependable Give it time. Do not act like you are obsessed with sex. Be loyal.