Q: Often, a bedridden person will qualify for having a social worker assist with their needs. A social worker can benefit you, too, as they can help you find the care you need for your parent, as well as other resources. Most hospitals have social services on-site, though you can also visit a Medicare/Medicaid office in your local community, or visit the offices of an insurance company that your parent goes through. When your parent is sick, you may feel like you're alone in the situation. However, more often than not, friends and family would like to help you, but they don't know how. Take the time to meet with friends and family members one at time to ask for help.  It is important to be assertive when asking for help from friends and family. Try saying, "I'm creating a weekly schedule for Mom's care. Please let me know which two days you would like this week." Offer a specific task if they don't seem to know how to help. If you have children, then you might also consider asking a friend or family member to watch them for you one evening per week while you care for your parent. Be sure to let your children know why you need someone to watch them during these times. If your parent has become bedridden, you'll likely need some help from professional caregivers. If you're caring for the person at home, you can get help from people who come to the house. If the person will need long-term care, you may need to consider placing them in a facility that can provide care. If your parent has a terminal illness, hospice care may provide some relief.  Both in-home care and care facilities can be expensive. Insurance and medicare may cover some in-home care (which sometimes includes in-home care at senior facilities). Have a talk with your parent about getting some help. They may not like the idea much, as some people are reluctant to have outside help. If you need help persuading them, try asking someone who's been in a similar situation to help. It might also be hard for your parent to hear this from you. You might consider asking someone who has a different relationship with your parent to talk with them instead, such as a close friend, a cousin, or a spiritual leader. You can hire whatever level of care you need. For instance, some non-medical care can help with basics like bathroom assistance and meals. However, if your parent needs medical care, you will need to hire nurses or nursing aides to help, though that kind of care is generally prescribed by a doctor.
A: Ask about a social worker. Request help from friends and family. Let the professionals help.

Q: If you want to get your date to hold your hand, start simple by making eye contact with him, smiling subtly. This lets him know you are interested in him and makes you seem open and receptive to physical contact. You can also try walking closer to him while you are walking. The physical proximity, added with the eye contact, will make you seem interested and responsive to his presence. Opening up the possibility of physical contact is important. Let your fingers brush at dinner or when you're walking from the car. If you are walking side by side, gently hold his arm or link your arms together. These are gentler forms of contact that let your date know that you are okay with touching. You can do a kind of hand holding test run by grabbing your date's hand and leading him somewhere, dropping it when you've reached your destination. This way, you hold hands for a short while but it isn't as nerve-racking as officially holding hands. Your date might need some clues that you want your hand held. Try giving him small hints that you want to hold hands. Your date might just be nervous, so encouraging him is always helpful.  If you're in a theater, place your arm and hand on the armrest, palm facing up in invitation. You can also let your hand drop over to his side on the armrest. Your date should take notice and get the hint that you want it held. Claim your hands are cold. Tell him that your hands are cold or ask him to feel if they are. Hopefully, your date will see if he can help warm them up. This is a cute, flirtatious way to get your date to hold your hand. Ask if you can compare your hand sizes. Bring your hand up in the air and when your date raises theirs, gently place your palms together, comparing the sizes. This gets your date's hand close to yours and is a subtle way to let him know you want to hold his hand. If for some reason your date has still not figured out that you want to hold hands, initiate contact yourself. Gently clasp his hand and squeeze it gently, letting him know you care. If you are nervous, it is likely that your date is as well. This may help both of you relax. Confidence and initiative are attractive qualities, so being the first to grab your date's hand lets him know that you are interested in them and that you want to become closer. Once you and your date have gotten comfortable holding hands, try taking the initiative this time and use a different, more intimate hand holding method. If you are clasping hands, open your fingers and move them until they are aligned with your date's fingers. Open your fingers slightly, pushing each of your fingers into the space between your date's fingers, interlocking your fingers.
A: Make eye contact. Touch them first. Give subtle hints. Be bold. Intensify the hold.

Q: Go to https://www.facebook.com/. This will open your Facebook News Feed if you're logged in. If you aren't logged in, enter your email address (or phone number) and password in the top-right side of the page. This field is at the top of the Facebook page. Type in the name of the person you want to find, then press ↵ Enter. Doing so brings up a list of people in your area with a matching (or similar) name. It's just below the search bar at the top of the Facebook page. You'll find this link on the left side of the page beneath the "City" heading. Clicking it opens a search bar. You'll see suggestions appear below the search bar as you type. It should be below the search bar. This will refresh the search results to display people who have both the name and the city you selected on their profile. For example: if you typed in "Sarah Smith" as the name and selected New York as the city, you would see a list of people named Sarah Smith who live in New York displayed here.
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Open Facebook. Click the search bar. Enter a person's name. Click the People tab. Click the Choose a city link. Type in a city's name. Click a city's name.