Q: Mass is meant to be attended in your “Sunday best.” Although you won’t be turned away for wearing flip-flops and a football jersey, you might seem a little rude. At a minimum, wear a button-down shirt with slacks or a dress. Mass is a holy event, so dress modestly by covering your skin as much as possible. Get to the church at least ten minutes early. You’ll feel much more comfortable if you can park and sit where you want. Arriving early gives you a chance to converse with the parishioners. Talking is discouraged once you step inside the main room of the church, although it isn’t a problem as long as you do it quietly.  Once Mass starts you shouldn’t talk at all, so arrive early if you need to say something! Some churches are more strict about how much talking is permitted than others. Taking off your hat is a traditional gesture of respect. Act in the church the same way you would in a school, at work, or other formal venue. Men are always expected to remove their hat. If you’re a woman, dress hats are okay, but always remove baseball caps. If you are with a small child or someone who is sick, you may bring water. Eat before you head to church so you don’t need to bring food. Food distracts from worshipping, which is the purpose of Mass. This includes gum. Don’t chew gum during Mass! Having your phone ring in the middle of a prayer is embarrassing. If you’re waiting for an emergency call, put it on vibrate mode. You are allowed to discreetly use your phone to follow along with readings and prayers, but this is rarely necessary. If you have to take an urgent phone call, walk out of the church first. Up to age three, you’ll most likely need to bring toys or coloring books for small children so they aren’t disruptive. Once you think they’re capable of listening and participating in the Mass, you can begin leaving the toys at home. Generally, bringing toys won’t seem appropriate for kids older than four, but this is up to you.  You can begin teaching young children the importance of Mass by giving them special clothing or toys they can only have on church days. If you have a child that may be disruptive, plan on sitting near the back so you can step outside when needed.
A: Dress in formal clothing. Come a few minutes early. Take off your hat when entering the church. Avoid bringing food or drinks into the church. Turn off your phone. Bring toys for small children.

Q: Multipurpose SUPs are the standard boards chosen by beginners, and they’re typically used for flat-water paddling on lakes, bays, and slow rivers. These boards are longer, wider, and have more volume than surfing or racing boards. These boards are typically made of fiberglass, which makes them light and easy to carry. Occasionally you will find plastic ones that are less expensive, but are also much heavier. Surfing paddleboards are usually shorter, narrower, and lighter than the other types of boards and they have a narrow nose and tail. They are designed for doing quick turns and specifically meant for use in the surf zone. Get this type of board only if you’re going to use it for surfing. They are less stable than longer boards and don’t work well on long-distance paddles. Race boards are longer and narrower than standard or surfing boards, and they’re meant for fast wave-riding competition. They can be pretty unstable unless they’re moving forward at a high speed, and should only be used by more advanced paddle-boarders. Whitewater SUPs are typically short to make them more easily maneuverable. They contain a rocker, or curve in the board, to allow the boards to ride over waves. These boards often are inflatable, making them light and more buoyant on the water. Yoga and fitness boards are wider and longer than wave or multipurpose boards. They also typically have a softer top, and include places to clip on various exercise tools. These boards often come with ways to anchor the boards so that you can stop drifting while exercising. Look into anchoring capabilities if you find a fitness board that doesn’t already come with an anchor.
A: Get an all-around, recreational, or touring board for multipurpose use. Choose a surfing board to ride waves. Buy a racing board if you’re an experienced paddle-boarder. Get a whitewater board for fast river use. Choose a yoga or fitness board to practice yoga on the water.

Q: Since one night stands are almost exclusively physical in nature, you’ll want to make yourself as alluring as possible. Shower and groom yourself meticulously. Pick out a clean, good looking outfit that accentuates your best features. Spritz on a little fragrance. Above all, project confidence. The more assured you appear, the more desirable you’ll be. Devote a little extra time to cleaning up your intimate areas if you think sex might be on the table. When you find a suitable partner, make an effort to learn her name and find out a bit about her. This will give you just enough insight into who you’re with to make your temporary connection memorable. Put her at ease by treating her like a person with a mind of her own, not just a sexual object. It’s one thing to have a fun fling, but no one wants to feel like they’re being used.  Don’t rush things. It only makes you look desperate. No one wants to get together with someone who’s just looking for an easy score. Pay attention to see if she's returning your interest. Coy eye contact, smiling, raised eyebrows and a willingness to flirt in an overtly sexual manner are all good signs. If she purses or licks her lips, touches her hair or body suggestively or emphasizes her erogenous parts to make sure you notice them, it's almost certainly a sure bet.  There’s no time limit for setting up a one night stand. Spend as long as you want getting to know your prospective partner. Make conversation, take her out to dinner, go for drinks. Ideally, you should both be excited by everything that comes before sex, too. As soon as the possibility of physical intimacy gets brought up, be direct with her about your desires. Don’t lie to her, misrepresent your feelings or string her along in order to get what you want. A one night stand should be a consensual experience for both people. You’re both mature, responsible adults and are capable of deciding whether you can live with a one-off hookup.  When it comes time to make your move, do it in a way that isn’t forceful. Say something like “I think you’re really attractive and I’d like to make you feel good for a night, if you’re interested.” If she’s hopeful about seeing you again in the future, she might feel pressured to do something she otherwise wouldn’t do. Always come prepared. If you’re a guy, stash a couple condoms in your wallet so you won’t be caught without a contraceptive. If you’re a girl, think about whether you’d feel comfortable bringing a dental dam along. It’s also best to be upfront about any sexually transmittable infections either of you may have to avoid any unpleasant surprises later.  It’s always better to have protection ready than to deal with unplanned consequences later on. Never withhold knowledge of an STD or illness. Your partner’s health matters. Since you've never been together before, you should be open to communicating with one another about your individual desires, hangups and level of comfort. Find out whether a given technique, position or behavior is okay with her before trying or asking for it. Respect her boundaries and be careful about making her feel pressured or judged, and be clear about what is and isn't alright for you in return. As long as you're on the same page, a night of casual intimacy can be a lot of fun for both of you.  A one night stand can be a great place to act out your most torrid fantasies without worrying about making things weird, but everyone has their limits. Remember that the two of you are essentially working together to satisfy each other, and, unless it's explicitly agreed upon beforehand, no one person should be in complete control.  You should have your partner's consent every step of the way. Whether the pressure comes before or after you're in bed together, it's still wrong.
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Look your best. Show an interest in her. Make your intentions clear. Bring protection. Make sure your partner is comfortable during the act.