INPUT ARTICLE: Article: When dealing with a crush who makes you jealous, you might wonder if his efforts at jealousy are intentional or accidental--and if you don't ask yourself this question, you probably should. Your crush might flirt with other girls in front of you to get your attention, but it's also possible that he's just a natural flirt who does it without thinking.  This issue typically occurs when the guy in question flirts with you and several other girls. It can be hard to know if he genuinely likes you, or if he's flirting indiscriminately. To figure out if he might like you more than the other girls he flirts with, ask yourself if there's a difference between his flirtation with you and his flirtation with others. For instance, when you see him in the hallway, pay attention to where his eyes are. If he immediately locks eyes with you, that's probably a good sign. On the other hand, if he's looking at another girl and barely acknowledges you (or doesn't acknowledge you at all), that's probably a bad sign.  Try not to assume that a guy who talks endlessly about his girlfriend in front of you is doing so to make you jealous. It's possible that he's genuinely head-over-heels for her and just trying to let you know. Even if he's honestly using his girlfriend to make you jealous and spur romantic feelings in you, the disloyalty and disrespect this behavior demonstrates should be a warning sign telling you to stay away from a potentially toxic mate. If you think your crush really is trying to make you jealous, the best thing you can do is tell him how you feel. There's a decent chance that his actions are caused by insecurity about how you feel. Letting him know that your feelings of attraction are mutual may resolve the problem.  This step is easier said than done, of course, and you do face the risk of rejection by following through and telling your crush you want to date him. Even so, clearing the air is the only way to fix the issue before it gets worse. Wait until the next time you two find yourselves flirting in a private, one-on-one setting, then let him know you're interested in something more. Wait for his response before determining how to approach the topic of jealousy. You'll need to deal with the jealousy issue regardless of how your crush responds to your feelings, but the exact method will vary on his reply.  If your crush is interested in dating you, let him know in a casual, joking manner that he needs to save his flirting for you. Try to avoid making him feel guilty, but make it clear that you don't want him flirting with other girls.  If your crush is lukewarm or rejects the idea of dating you, politely ask him to tone down the flirting he does with you. Dealing with regular flirtation from a guy who won't commit will only play with your emotions; it isn't healthy for either of you to continue like that. If your crush doesn't change his ways after you tell him your feelings and point out the problem, you're better off cutting ties.  Starting a relationship with a guy who can't stop flirting will likely lead to continued frustration and insecurity, which will damage the relationship in the long run. Continuing a friendship with a one-sided crush is always difficult, but if he's continuing to lead you on when he should know better, the best thing you can do for yourself is move on.

SUMMARY: Evaluate the actions in question. Be honest about your feelings. Point out the problem. Say your farewells if things don't work out.


INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Painter’s tape doesn’t leave any adhesive behind, so it’s the best choice for protecting the ceiling. Position it along the edge of the ceiling where it meets the wall. Make sure the tape is on the ceiling, not the wall. As you spread the tape out, press down on it to ensure it’s flat against the ceiling.  Try applying the tape in strips about 2 to 3 ft (0.61 to 0.91 m) long. Anything longer than that can be too difficult to work with. Any pockets of air underneath the tape could provide space for paint to seep into. Make sure the tape is as smooth and flat as you can make it! Protect yourself against paint fumes. If you don’t have any ventilation fans in the room, leave the windows and doors open. Also, keep other people out of the area until you’re finished. You don’t really need gloves or any other gear while painting, although they can be useful for avoiding messes. Using a standard painter’s tray will make the task more difficult since they tend to be bulky and difficult to maneuver up a latter. You could use a plastic bucket with a handle instead if you don’t have a suitable bowl. Fill it with primer that is compatible with the type of paint you plan on using.  Most indoor paints are water-based latex. There are also some oil-based paints, so make sure you get a compatible primer if you’re using one. If you are able to reach the ceiling without climbing very high, you could still put the paint in a tray or leave it in the canister. Start with an angled brush about 2 to 4 in (5.1 to 10.2 cm) long. Dip it into the primer so the bottom 1⁄2 to 1 in (1.3 to 2.5 cm) of the bristles are coated. The shape of the angled brush allows you to maneuver across the wall without getting paint on the ceiling. However, be careful to avoid adding too much primer to the wall at once.  Shake out the brush before using it. Tap it on the sides of the bowl. If it looks like it’s dripping or overloaded, brush some of the paint off on the bowl to prevent splattering. You could also try using a small roller. If you’re careful, it can be an effective tool that lets you work at a faster rate.

SUMMARY: Cover the ceiling near the wall with painter's tape. Put on a dust mask and open nearby windows. Pour 1 to 2 cups (240 to 470 mL) of primer into a small bowl. Dip a small, angled brush into the primer.


INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Sometimes, an annoying person may cross a line to the point you feel uncomfortable or threatened. In these scenarios, it's okay to stand up for yourself in the moment. Be assertive and address the situation.  Calmly tell the person they crossed a line. Let them know you do not tolerate this type of behavior. For example, "Don't talk to me like that. I don't need unsolicited advice." If you feel uncomfortable because of an annoying person at work or school, document this. You want to make sure you have information to give to a higher authority if it comes to that.  Each time the person gets on your case, briefly jot down what was said, who saw it, and the date and time. If you ever need to raise a formal complaint, you'll have a lot of information from which to pull. If someone is consistently annoying you, it's okay to calmly address the behavior. Wait until you can get a moment alone with the person and calmly and collectively explain what they are doing wrong.  For example, "I know you don't mean anything by it, but I don't love getting teased about my outfits." Let the person know how the behavior makes you feel. "It makes me feel uncomfortable at work, because people are always pointing out my looks now." Lastly, tell the person where to go from here. For example, you can say, "I really don't want you to make comments like that anymore. Do you understand?" Instead of criticizing the person, tell them what types of actions you won't tolerate. This will help prevent conflict. Instead of saying, "You're so annoying," you might say, "I really need quiet time to get my work done." If someone's behavior does not improve after a direct confrontation, call in a higher authority. If you're in school, let a teacher or principal know. If you're at work, talk to someone in the HR department. You have a right to feel comfortable at your place of work or your school.

SUMMARY:
Stand up for yourself in the moment. Document negative behaviors at work or school. Talk to the person about their behavior calmly. Bring in an outside authority figure.