Problem: Article: Don't start in negotiating about where you're going on vacation if your spouse is trying to deal with cooking dinner or getting the kids ready for school. Choose a quiet time when you are both calm, and have time to talk it out. When it comes to negotiating with a family member, it will be necessary for you to make compromises to preserve the relationship. That means that you need to know where you will stand firm and what you're willing to give up. When you're negotiating with someone you love, you have much more at stake than with a stranger. Don't be afraid to be open and honest with the person, as more communication will lead to you both understanding what the other person wants. Really listen to what the other person has to say. Even if you can't give into everything he wants, you should let him know that you hear and understand what he's feeling. That is, instead of blaming the other person, discuss your feelings, and be specific. For instance, instead of saying "You're so annoying sometimes." you could say, "When you play your music so loudly, I find it hard to concentrate." A little levity can lighten up the situation. However, don't take it too far, as your family member or friend may think you're not taking them seriously. Take some time to think through the problem together. Maybe you can come up with a creative solution that makes both sides happy. Don't forget that in every relationship, you're on the same team. Try not to pit yourself against the other person.
Summary: Pick a good time. Know what you really want. Let yourself be vulnerable. Be willing to listen as much as you talk. Be specific about your problems if you're trying to negotiate a better relationship. Don't be afraid to laugh. Work together.

Problem: Article: When creating Jello-O based Slime, you will need the following ingredients:  1 Five Gallon Bucket 6 large packages Jell-O 9 Pounds Flour 8 Ounces Johnson's Baby Shampoo 1 1/2 Gallons Water Green Food Coloring This recipe makes 3 gallons of gooey green slime. To make the mixing process less messy, combine the ingredients in a 5-gallon bucket.  Open the 6 large Jell-O packages and empty the contents into the bucket. Pour in 4 ½ pounds flour. Add 1 gallon of water. Whisk the mixture thoroughly until all lumps are removed. Achieving the ideal slime consistency is tricky. Go slow and check the texture constantly.  Add the remaining 4 ½ pounds flour to the mixture and stir. Gradually add the remaining ½ gallon of water while continuing to stir. Periodically lift the whisk out of the bucket. Observe how the slime drips from the utensil. If the mixture appears liquid and runny, continue to stir. If the mixture holds together as it slowly runs down the spoon and into the bowl, it is ready. Pour 8 ounces of Johnson's Baby Shampoo into the 5-gallon bucket. Add several drops of green food coloring to the mixture. Stir until the slime turns green. Add more green food coloring if needed.
Summary: Gather the ingredients and tools. Combine the Jell-O, flour, and water in a 5-gallon bucket. Add the remaining flour and water. Add the Johnson's Baby Shampoo and green food coloring.

Problem: Article: Introverts and extroverts think differently. Extroverts are more likely to “Do, Think, Do” pattern, while their introverted counterparts take more time to think before taking an action. No way is better than the other, but knowing how you personally think will help you streamline your own thinking patterns. Self-awareness has been tied to leadership, and leadership often reflects a person's ability to think on one's feet. You can become more self-aware by practicing self-reflection techniques. Being more self-aware will help you better understand the environment around you, and make it easier to think of solutions or answer more quickly. How to Self Reflect  Use a journal to write down your thoughts, feelings and reactions to mental stimuli throughout your day. Understand how you solve problems by considering each step you take Think about what emotions you feel during day to day tasks (I.e. Do you feel frustration while performing a specific task at work?) Think about why you might be feeling that emotion. To more effectively think on your feet, you need to gather as much information as possible about the situation you are in. One simple way of doing this is by asking questions about the task at hand. This will help you compile more information and help to educate you on a particular situation. Ask things like:  “I hear that you want a report written about this client. What are you concerned about, specifically?” ”You seem to be asking me about a project we finished last week. What was it that you wanted to know about it?” ”What do you mean by what you said?” (This can help you get not only a clearer understanding of what was said, but also give the speaker to think about what s/he wants from you). By being critical of presented information, you are more likely to pick up on weak points of a situation. This may help you to see solutions quicker.  Don't take everything at face value. If you are asked to do a specific task or answer a specific question, try to gather as much facts about the situation before you make a decision. While the goal is to think quickly and on your feet, you still want to be accurate and understanding. If you are asked to think on your feet by giving an answer to something that seems to be too good to be true (for example, a sale) be skeptical! It may very well be too good to be true!
Summary:
Consider how you think. Practice self-reflection and self-awareness. Ask questions. Be skeptical.