Ask yourself whether you seek something serious or something casual. Do you want a hookup situation, or a steady girlfriend, or a long-term partner? Think about where you are in life, and what your goals are beyond these two girls. It can be easy to let your judgment be clouded by passion. It may help to take a step back from the girls in order to understand what you're really after. Maybe you need to focus on your career right now. Maybe you need a certain stability or casualness that only one of these girls can provide. What do you need? Think about what they have in common, and try to understand how they're different. Consider what each of these girls offers, and envision how each of them makes you feel. If you're going to choose, you need to fully understand your choices.  Consider which girl you have better conversations with. Consider who is the most fun, and who inspires you to try new things. Perhaps you enjoy being with one girl more than the other. Think about which girl you can trust. Maybe one girl is a lot of fun, but you can't see yourself building a relationship with her. You may need to consider whether you want something more stable or something more exciting. Determine whether you communicate better with one girl or the other. Communication is incredibly important in any relationship, and you may want to choose the girl with whom you can speak most truthfully. Perhaps one girl makes you feel strong, capable, and worthy, while the other girl belittles you and makes you feel like a stranger to yourself. Maybe one lady makes you feel happy and carefree, while the other only stresses you out. Look for the changes in your own personality when you spend time with each of these girls. Consider which aspects of yourself you want to feed. If you can't bring yourself to give a definitive "Yes!" to either girl, then perhaps you shouldn't be getting serious with either of them. You don't need to force a serious relationship, of course, but it's important to understand why you're having so much trouble choosing. Maybe neither girl is looking for an exclusive relationship, or maybe one of the girls isn't even interested in you! This doesn't mean that you should "play" the girls at the same time; only that the situation might be simpler or stranger than you think. Try talking to the girls (individually) to better understand what they're looking for. Don't be afraid to think outside the box. There are many ways to make relationships work. The important thing is that everyone's on the same page, and that you aren't hurting anyone's feelings.
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One-sentence summary -- Consider what you're looking for. Analyze your relationship with each girl. Notice how each girl makes you feel about yourself. Be honest with yourself. Look for alternative options.


These can be colors that flatter your skin tone, look great together, or are simply your favorites.  Choose clothes that match your skin's undertones. People with warm undertones tend to look better with warm colors, while cool colors pair best with cool-toned skin. Make outfits that incorporate complementary colors. These are colors that are opposite each other on the color wheel: purple with yellow, blue with orange, and red with green. Try to build a wardrobe that includes staples of only one or two neutral colors. Neutrals will make up the foundation of most outfits but don't often look good together. For clothes, these neutrals are considered to be light and dark gray, light and dark brown, navy, and black.  Remember that you should wear what makes you happiest. If you have a favorite color that doesn't match your skin tone, then it still "works" for you. If you find an item that looks especially great on you right off-the-rack, check out other clothes by the same brand. You're more likely to find something else that looks great on you. While sizes and cuts are often inconsistent between brands, many brands keep their particular sizing the same over time.  At the same time, if you find a brand's quality going downhill or if it changes its sizing, start looking elsewhere. Keep in mind that American brands are typically more boxy and baggy compared to European ones. It's not uncommon for people to buy a few different versions of a particularly great piece. This will let you spice up your wardrobe while sticking with what you know works.  For workhorses like skirts and pants, consider buying even a couple identical pieces. This is an especially good idea if you have a lot of difficulty finding comfortable clothing that fits. If you can afford to purchase well-made, quality items now, you'll save money in the long run. For example, if a good pair of boots costs twice as much but lasts ten times as long, you'll end up spending much more money over time on ten pairs of cheap boots.  While expensive doesn't always equal well-made, well-made clothes are usually more expensive than poorly-made ones. With the exception of breathable summer clothes, a good sign of quality is whether or not a garment is lined. Check the seams before you buy. Make sure they're even and consistent. Poorly-stitched seams are a sign of poor quality. Go for quality over quantity. It's usually better to have a smaller wardrobe made up of well-made clothing than a larger one full of cheap pieces. If you're on a budget, don't forget to check online auctions and second-hand shops. You can often find what you're looking for at a fraction of the retail price.
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One-sentence summary -- Find colors that work for you. Stick with a brand that you like. Buy multiple versions of clothing that you like. Pay attention to each item's value.


This works well with baggy sweaters as well as more fitted ones. For the best look, wear a denim shirt with longer sleeves so you can roll the bottoms up over the cuffs of the sweater. Make sure to pull the collar out so it’s visible over the sweater.  Cardigans work well for this look, too. If you’re worried about looking or feeling bulky because of the multiple layers, try tucking the denim shirt into your pants. This will help hold the shirt down so it doesn’t bunch up under the sweater. This is a great way to dress down an outfit or show off a cool shirt. Stripes look great with denim, but don’t be afraid to wear a graphic tee or something bright and patterned. Stick with neutral tones if you want to maintain a classic look.  This essentially turns your denim shirt into a cardigan or jacket. If the weather is cool, you could even wear a long sleeved shirt under the denim one and roll the bottom cuff up over the denim cuff. This creates a nice visual effect between the 2 shirts. This is a really popular style for both men and women to wear to the office. You can button the blazer to make it look a little more fitted, or leave it unbuttoned to show off your layers even more. Make sure to pair your blazer with bottoms that complement the entire outfit. For example, you could wear a navy blue blazer, a light-denim shirt, and a pair of khakis for a neutral yet classy style. Try just tying together the bottom of the shirt rather than buttoning it up, that way the top of the dress will still be visible. If you get warm, you can take off the top and tie it around your waist.  This is a great way to transition your maxi-dresses from summer to fall. You have an extra layer in case you get cold, and it lets you enjoy those dresses for a few extra weeks before it gets too cold to wear them. You could even wear a maxi-shirt and a tank top and put the denim shirt on over the tank top for a very similar effect. If the temperature is cool, don a puffy vest overtop of your denim shirt the next time you head out. Leave your denim shirt buttoned, but leave the vest unfastened. You could even add a scarf to the outfit for additional warmth. Pair the vest and denim shirt with black jeans or leggings to really pull the look together.
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Put a sweater over top of your denim shirt for a casual yet preppy look. Wear a colored top underneath an unbuttoned shirt for a pop of color. Choose a blazer to dress up your denim shirt. Pair a denim shirt with a maxi-dress for a bohemian vibe. Add a vest to your ensemble for a preppy touch.