Problem: Article: First of all, if you’re getting a call from an unknown number that you suspect may be an automated message, don’t answer it. Though these calls are dispatched via computer, there are often attendants on the other end checking to see whether the calls went through. If they know that the calls are being answered, it will just make them more persistent. You can usually tell a robocall from a normal unknown number by looking for lengthy or unfamiliar extensions. Assuming that you’re receiving the calls on your mobile device, go into the blocked caller list in the Settings menu of your smartphone and enter the number that the robocalls are originating from. Once they’ve been blocked, the company or individual will no longer be able to place calls to your number.  This can usually be done by accessing your phone’s Settings menu then going to “Phone” or “Messages” and copying the number into the list.  On newer iPhones, you can also tap the “i” icon next to the name of the caller and scroll down until you find the option that says “block this caller.” Blocking numbers individually may work if you only receive an automated call here and there, but if it’s a frequent occurrence, you may need to take more drastic measures. By setting your phone’s “Do Not Disturb” feature to “manual,” you can choose to only allow calls by the people who are on your contacts list. This way, you can ensure that you’ll never be pestered by computer-based phone spammers again.  While this method is instantly effective, one major downside is that you’ll no longer be able to receive calls from people you know if you haven’t saved their numbers in your contacts. Be sure to put as many personal numbers as you think you may need in your contacts list before blocking numbers with the “Do Not Disturb” option. Thanks to the wonders of technology, there are now programs available for smartphones and tablets that turn away unsolicited robocalls automatically. When you install one of these apps, it will monitor your incoming calls, looking for signs that a call is coming from an automated source. The call will then be declined swiftly and unobtrusively, with no irritating notifications or interruptions.  Apps like PrivacyStar and Nomorobo are highly rated for their ability to intercept and dispense with frustrating computer calls.  These programs are a great way to put a stop to spam messages without the need to block each number individually, while also letting calls from unknown personal numbers through.
Summary: Don’t accept the call. Add the number to your blocked caller list. Ban all unlisted numbers. Download a call-screening app.

Problem: Article: Getting over a crush is hard work, and if it took you several months to become infatuated, it might take long to dig yourself back out.  Accept that it's a process, and plan ahead so you won't be derailed by a sudden relapse.  Here's how to deal with one:  Realize that you don't see this person realistically.  Limerence, or the overwhelming feeling of infatuation that you feel around your crush, can throw you out of logical thinking patterns and make you idealize your crush.  Repeat to yourself that no matter how you feel, no one is perfect, not even your crush, and recognize that you are intentionally overlooking their flaws. Treat it like a substance addiction.  You wouldn't point a recovering alcoholic toward a bar, so don't put yourself in situations where you're tempted to fuss over your crush.  Steer clear of intimate situations and avoid frequent contact, even if it's over text or chat and not in-person. Don't just transfer your feelings to a new target.  Finding a new person to attach all your feelings to is another form of relapsing — you might not be crushing on the same person, but you're feeling the same emotions.  Making someone your substitute isn't fair to them, because you're not seeing them for who they are, and it's not fair to you, because you're allowing yourself to fall back into the same cycle. Demonizing your crush might help you get over it in a short-term way, but it's not a long-term solution.  Here's the problem: thinking about how much you hate someone is still a way of obsessing over them, so you're functionally stuck at square one.  Don't make someone else responsible for your happiness.  Sure, maybe your crush didn't respond to your affections like you had hoped.  Maybe they even made it worse by teasing you or flirting incessantly, knowing full well how you felt.  But whatever happened, the only person charged with making you happy is you.  You're responsible for taking yourself out of a bad situation and moving forward, so don't hold your crush accountable for making you miserable. Try to wish them all the best.  If you truly care about someone, you want to see that person find happiness — even if it's not with you.  Resist the urge to become angry or start making comparisons if your crush starts dating someone else. Try to cultivate a spirit of being happy when the people you like are happy. This is quite tricky but very effective when done and understood in the right way. Your crush caught your eyes for all the good qualities you saw on them. Now you have to reverse it. You may think at first that your crush is "so perfect" but no, everyone has their share of flaws and that is what you have to keep in your mind. Time to stop dreaming. Think deeply about your crush and find as many ugly characteristics as you can find. List it down on a piece of paper and read it repeatedly. When you see them around, do not look at the good. Remember everything you wrote and don't lose focus.
Summary: Be wary of relapsing. Avoid becoming bitter. Make a list of bad things about your crush.

Problem: Article: Boysenberries go into dormancy during the winter season, so right before they start new growth is the best time to transplant. Check the soil on occasion, and plant when the ground has thawed after the last freeze of the season.  Boysenberries are pretty resilient in the face of cold weather, so they can handle if it stays cold for a little while after you plant them. Plants grow into full size throughout the summer. Planting depth varies depending on the starting size of plants, but use this as a guide. Plant them about as deep as the container they start in. It’s better to start with a larger hole than you need because you can fill it in as needed. Add at least a heaping handful of brown material compost or animal manure to the bottom of the hole. This helps give the plant a nutrient boost as it takes root in the soil. If you don’t have your own compost, buy some at a garden store. If you want to add a big shovelful, it won’t hurt. Also, mix some compost into the soil you’ll pack around the plant once you bury it. Once the growing area is all ready, place the plant into the hole. Shovel dirt around the roots and pack it down. Place a small layer of compost or manure around the base of the plant once it’s buried in the ground. Boysenberries keep growing as much as you let them. It’s important to give them a minimum of three feet (.9 m) to spread before they touch another plant. If you have the room, planing them five feet (1.5 m) apart leaves them plenty of room.  If you don’t have much room, you may want to consider only planting one or two plants. Otherwise, set your plants up in more than one space in your yard so they have room to grow. Another option, if you have limited space, is to grow the plants in containers. However, keep in mind that container-grown plants will need heavy pruning in order to keep the plant from getting oversized.
Summary:
Plant at the end of winter or start of spring. Dig one foot (.3 m) deep by one foot (.3 m) wide holes. Add well-rotted compost or manure to the hole. Place a plant into each hole. Space boysenberry plants three to five feet (.9-1.5m) apart.