Q: If you're faking your period because your friends have all started, you probably want to know when your own is likely to start. One way to find out is to ask your mom, because many times your own biological clock will be similar.  If your mom started her period at the age of 12, your own period is likely start within a year of your 12th birthday. You might start to get your period as young as 8 or 9, or you might be as old as 16. Your period usually will start within 2 years of the time your breasts buds appear. This means that your nipples will become raised, no longer laying flat on the surface of your chest.  The breast buds appear because of fat, tissue and milk ducts growing beneath the nipples, in preparation for providing milk to a newborn child. Your breasts can take from 1-4 years to grow into a rounded, adult shape from the time your breast buds appear. Usually the hair that appears below your lower stomach and between your legs is soft and light at first. Then, over time, it will grow darker and curlier.  Your period will usually start between 1-2 years from the time your pubic hair starts to grow. Some adult women choose to shave their pubic hair, but this isn't usually recommended for young girls because this is such a sensitive region. Like the hairs in your pubic area, your underarm hairs might seem light and soft at first, before growing darker and curly. You'll probably notice pubic hair growing first, and then hair beneath your arms.  Many girls choose to shave these hairs off with a razor. There are no health reasons to do this, however, so it's up to you to decide what you prefer. Underarm hair usually comes towards the end of puberty. If you notice yellow or white stains on your underpants, this is likely a natural fluid that helps your vagina stay clean and moist. You will most likely get your period within a year of noticing signs of discharge.  The discharge should not smell bad. If you have itching, or if the discharge is foul-smelling, you might have an infection and need to see a doctor. Most girls start to notice oilier patches of skin around  their face, due to hormonal changes in their bodies. Pimples and acne might also appear on your skin.  Make sure you're washing your face at least once daily with gentle soap and warm water. Don't scrub it, or you may cause scarring. Your doctor may prescribe treatment for acne if it's bad enough. Because no one knows exactly when she'll get her first period, it's a good idea to prepare a kit to keep with you just in case it comes. An emergency kit should contain everything that you need to take care of your menstrual flow when it arrives, including a small pantyliner, a pad, and a pair of clean underwear.  Having a kit will also be handy if you want to fake having a period, because other people can see that you're prepared. If you don't have your emergency kit when you get your first period, putting some toilet paper in the crotch of your underwear can serve as a temporary fix until you can get a real pad. A school nurse or clinic will usually have free pads that you can use. Some public restrooms have dispenser to sell single pads or tampons. If you're trying to figure out more about what having a period is like, ask an older woman who you trust. This might be your mom, your aunt, a teacher, or even an older sister. Even though conversations about private subjects like periods aren't common, the truth is that every woman has gone through the process of getting her period. She'll probably be happy to talk with you about it.  If you're not sure how to start the conversation, consider saying something like, "Can I ask you about something? I am wondering about getting my period...." Make sure you're asking her at a time when you have some privacy, and when you're not rushing to go somewhere else.
A: Ask your mom when her own period started. Look for your breasts to develop. Notice the growth of pubic hair. Check your armpits for hair. Notice some vaginal discharge. Observe changes in your complexion. Prepare an emergency kit for your first period. Ask an older woman for help.

Q: No one expects you to immediately understand all the elements of a new job right away, but they may be too busy to realize that you need help.  Don’t be embarrassed to ask someone to explain something to you; not only does it demonstrate that you care about the work you are doing, but it might even make the person you ask like you more.  It’s better to ask for help than to do something the wrong way.  Save you and your coworkers time by asking for clarification and doing things right the first time. Benjamin Franklin famously won over people that didn’t like him by asking for favors.  Asking for a favor can pacify someone that sees you as a rival and make them see you in a more positive light. You may find yourself without much to do on your first day at work.  After filling out human resources documents and completing orientation there may be time leftover that your supervisor or manager hasn’t accounted for.  Don’t let that time, or any time in your new job, go to waste.  Volunteer to help others with things so you can learn about the job and get to know your coworkers. Be proactive and complete tasks you know you will be asked to complete later. Be comfortable with the idea of doing things that might make you uncomfortable.  Doing new things is the only way to get good at them. Demonstrating an understanding of what the company does and how it works on your first day shows that you are well prepared and care about the job.  Research the company you will be working for and read about their operations and policies on their website if you can.  Look for the company in the news to see if there are any developing or recent stories that involve the company. Peruse press releases the company posts on its website. Shining a spotlight on the help others have provided or the hard work they’ve done goes far to demonstrate your confidence and that you are a team player.  If someone goes out of their way to assist you, mention it to the group or your supervisor in conversation.  Pointing out the achievements of others may strengthen your relationship with them. Demonstrating that you are willing to share the spotlight shows your employers and coworkers that you aren’t selfish. Now that you have established yourself as a valuable new member of your team, it's up to you to live up to the expectations that you've set for yourself.  Keep up your good habits to establish a long lasting impression as a team player and asset to the organization.  Be a hard worker, but be modest about your successes and achievements. Demonstrate a willingness to help others and be a part of the team. Be honest about mistakes and upbeat about every situation. Be ambitious and action oriented; don't be afraid to try new things.
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Ask for help. Take initiative. Know the company. Share the spotlight. Develop your first impression into a lasting impression.