Letting your tongue run wild and using profanity at work could cause you to be formally reprimanded or even fired. Think about your career future before you say whatever inappropriate thing comes to mind.  When giving feedback, remember to sandwich one bit of criticism between two positive notes. For example, “I can tell you put a lot of effort in this. It would be even stronger if we add more here. That addition would demonstrate the great possibilities you introduce earlier.” In meetings or other group discussions, be sure to take your 10-second pause. Don’t let your guard down in the break room. Don’t let the informal setting unleash your wild tongue. You are still at work so avoid gossiping, putting others down, obscenities, etc. Studies suggest that people that use profanity, insults, and sarcasm a lot are seen as less intelligent, mature, and able to handle stressful situations. Think about what you want your reputation to be and make sure that your wild tongue doesn’t interfere with that. Say things that show your intelligence, maturity, and problem-solving skills. Some of the things you say when your tongue is running wild could be upsetting your loved ones or making your significant other question whether she wants to stay together. Thinking about the effects of your words and the fact that you could be jeopardizing your relationships will help you tame your tongue.  For example, does your harsh tone and words make your partner feel that you don’t respect or care about her? Have family members told you that the things you say hurt their feelings? If you aren’t sure, ask your loved ones if and how your wild tongue is affecting them.

Summary: Protect your career. Preserve your reputation. Consider your relationships.


They can limit content such as movies, TV shows, and music by ratings, as well as limiting In-App purchase and access to the iTunes store, camera and FaceTime. Follow the same procedure for iPhone, iPad or iPod Touch:  Tap Settings > General. Tap Restrictions. Tap Disable Restrictions and enter your passcode. This will allow you to set a new passcode and retain all your data and contacts.  Tap Settings > iCloud, and turn off Find My iPhone. Now connect your phone to your computer and select your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch when it appears in iTunes under Devices. Select the Summary tab and click Back Up Now. On your computer, download a free trial of iBackupBot for iTunes and install it. Open iBackup and select the backup of your i-device that you just made. Click on System Files > Home Domain. Click on Library > Preferences. Find the file labeled com.apple.springboard.plist and open it with the iBot built in editor. (You will be prompted to purchase iBot. Press Cancel.) Find <key>country. You should see this text ( | indicates a line break): <key>countryCode</key> | <string>us</string> | </dict> On the line below </dict>, add ( | indicates a line break): <key>SBParentalControlsPIN</key> | <string>1234</string> Save the file. Connect your i-device and within the iBackup program, select it and then Restore from Backup. Select the backup you just made. When the backup is complete, your i-device will reboot. The Restrictions passcode will have been changed to 1234. Use this code to disable Restrictions as in Step 2 above. If your last backup is from before the restrictions were enabled, then you can restore from backup. Otherwise, you will have to restore as a new device. WARNING: this will delete all data and content on your phone, including songs, videos, contacts, photos, and calendar information.  Make sure you have the latest version of iTunes on your computer. Connect your device to your computer and select your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch when it appears in iTunes under Devices. Select the Summary tab. Select the Restore option. When prompted to back up your settings, do not do so, as this will only backup the restrictions you are trying to remove. Select the Restore option. When the process is complete, the device will restart and display the Apple logo. Keep your device connected until the “Connect to iTunes screen goes away, or you see “iPhone is activated.”

Summary: Be aware that on an iPhone, iPad, or iPod Touch, Parental Controls are called Restrictions. Turn off parental controls with the passcode. Turn off restrictions without a passcode using iBackupBot. Turn off restrictions without a passcode by restoring as a new device.


Pinning game kits are available for purchase in retail stores - specifically those that specialize in party materials. The upside to buying a kit is that it may be more convenient and save time. Purchasing a full game kit, however, may also be more expensive and less personal than making one yourself. For a cheaper option, hand draw a donkey on poster board. You may also consider printing your image from a computer. Make the donkey at least 12 inches wide and 18 inches tall. Standard kit sizes average 18-24 inches x 24-30 inches. Use game preparation as a party activity.  Allow the children to draw or decorate a group donkey.  Art activities help keep children engaged and entertained.  Being the creators of the donkey makes it entirely "their game." Drawing the donkey together may allow for bonding and insight into worldly perceptions and imagination. Have each player make and decorate his or her own donkey tail.  Use a variety of materials, such as string, paper, and ribbon.  Get creative by adding beads or glitter as personal decoration.  Write each player's name or initials somewhere on the tail. If labeling is not possible, make sure that the tails are unique enough to know who placed each one. Push a pin through or attach adhesive tape to one end of the tail for pinning. Place the image at an appropriate height for all participants. Choose mounting equipment based on donkey durability and personal preference. Options include adhesive tape or putty, tacks, and push pins. Note that sharp tacks and pins may hold better but are more dangerous and will leave small holes. Draw an “X” on the picture where the tail would normally be placed, as a reference point for determining a "winner."
Summary: Buy a Pin the Tail on the Donkey kit. Make your own donkey. Have the kids be creators. Personalize donkey tails. Mount the donkey image on a vertical surface, such as a wall. Mark your donkey.