Q: The key is to talk to your boss soon after submitting the letter. If you have a casual office, then drop in and ask to talk. However, schedule a meeting if your office is more formal. Tell the secretary that it is an emergency. Have a copy of your resignation letter with you in case your boss can’t find it. You’re feeling all kinds of nerves, which is natural. Fortunately, you don’t have to say a lot. Open the conversation by saying you really want to stay at the company and would like to retract your resignation. Your boss might already have started advertising to replace you. Or they might have asked a more junior person in the company to step up and replace you. By backing out now, you’re throwing a wrench in a lot of people’s plans. Say you’re sorry. For example, you might say, “I know this is a real inconvenience, but I’d love to continue working here.” Your resignation might have come out of nowhere like a thunderclap. You also might have resigned in a huff and not fully explained your decision. Expect plenty of questions about why you resigned in the first place. Everyone’s circumstances are different, but you should remember the following tips:  Emphasize things that are easy to fix first. For example, you might have wanted to leave for more professional development opportunities. If you’re a good employee, a current employer might be able to help you with that. Be honest but professional. You might be struggling with a coworker or a direct supervisor. Acknowledge as much, but remain tactful. “Janine and I have different communication styles, which has been apparent over the past six months” is better than, “I absolutely hate my boss, Janine.” You might want to retract your resignation because your next job fell through. This is a terrible thing to acknowledge to your boss. It’ll look like you really don’t want to work there but are forced to. For this reason, keep this information to yourself. If your boss asks you if you have another job offer, you can always say “no” if the offer fell through. You’re being honest. Emphasize the things you like about your job and how you realize your current job is a good fit. If you resigned in an eruption of anger, explain that you’ve cooled off and realize that there isn’t a better job for you out there. For example, you can say, “I was just angry when I resigned. I see now that the problems I have with Janine can be fixed easily and there’s no better place for me to grow than here.” Ideally, your boss will immediately say you can stay. Nevertheless, be prepared to sell yourself. Emphasize how dedicated you are to the company and explain how keeping you will benefit the business. For example, you can say, “I know that training someone for that position will take a lot of time, and this is a critical moment for the company right now. I want to stay to help us through the transition.”
A: Schedule a meeting ASAP. Say you want to stay. Apologize. Explain why you resigned. Know which information to leave out. Explain why you want to stay. Demonstrate your dedication.

Q: One of the largest keys to being popular is to make people notice you and want to be around you. In order to do that, you have to put yourself out there. If you're always walking around the halls by yourself, dreading your next class, or frowning all the way through gym class, you won’t make a good impression and people will think that it’s a drag to be around you. The secret to making people want to be around you is to let them see you laughing and having a great time so they want to spend time with you too.  When you’re hanging out with friends, make an extra effort and smile and have fun so people know you enjoy your time in school. Even when you're alone in the halls, smile at people and give off a positive vibe so that people want to get to know you. d reason. Having a pink mohawk or showing up to school in only your bathing suit will certainly make you stand out, but that may not be the kind of attention you want. To stand out in a good way, you have to let people know who you are and think positively of you when your name does come up. Here are some ways to get noticed:  You could be the guy who is always spotted with a guitar – and who actually knows how to play it. You could have a really great laugh that people can hear from anywhere in the building. You could stand out for your knockout sense of fashion. You could also rock a unique style, like looking like a hipster chick or a rocker guy, so that everyone knows who you are. Maybe you have a really low, throaty voice that sounds completely unique. Whatever your quirks are, don't try to hide them. Remember that you want to be noticed for what makes you special. Joining a team and playing a sport is not only a great way to get some exercise and feel happier, but it’s also an excellent way to meet new people and make yourself known. You don’t have to be the star of your soccer team to play the sport, just have fun and get a great workout after school. Whether your school has a team or you’re playing an intramural league, make an effort to play at least one sport so you’ll be more likely to meet a variety of interesting people.  You may not end up liking the sport or sticking to it. But if you spend at least a year of middle school pursuing a sport, you’ll be more likely to make friends and open up your social circle. Playing a sport also teaches you teamwork and how to deal with a variety of different talents and personalities, which can also help you manage people in your daily life and gain the skills that can help you become more popular. Joining clubs will also help you meet people, put yourself out there, and become a more interesting person as you pursue your interests. Pick something you really care about, like debate, French, Model UN, or a variety of other subjects, and stick to it. Become a leader in the club and use your position to improve the club and to get to know a wide variety of people.  Don’t think it’s uncool or nerdy to join a club. You’re just getting a leg up on the people who will be joining clubs in high school when they realize it is cool to be involved. Joining a club and playing a sport, if you have time for it, will be a great way to meet an even larger variety of people. You may not meet the same people in clubs that you’ll meet on your sports team. The more things you do, the more people you know. And the more people you know, the more likely you are to get noticed and for people not to have a blank look on their faces when your name comes up. You should play soccer, be in the drama club, and be a student aide in the library – do whatever you find interesting and use your position to meet new people. If you only pursue one interest, you’ll only be surrounded by one type of person. The key to truly being popular is being able to please a variety of different people. You may think it’s not cool to participate or even talk at all in class, and that you’re better off hanging out in the back of the room, looking like you have something better to do. Instead, you should participate in class, and do your homework so you actually look like you know what you’re talking about. You don’t have to be the teacher’s pet or anything, but you should talk enough so that all of the students in the class know who you are and like what you’re saying. Make sure you don’t come off like a know-it-all when you speak. Be respectful and open-minded when you answer the teacher.
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Put yourself out there.  – for a good reason. Join a team. Join clubs. Have diverse interests. Speak up in class.