Q: If you really want to have a successful and long-lasting relationship with an older woman, then you have to do more than just think of her as that sexy older woman you’ve been seeing. You have to make an effort to get to know the person who she really is and to remember that age is just a number. Let her see that you care about getting to know her and that you truly value the time you spend together. Here’s how:  Take the time to really listen to her when she talks to you. Put away your phone, make eye contact, and don’t interrupt her. Ask her questions about her childhood, her work, her friends, her family, and the things that interest her. Show her that you really want to know everything about her. Check in with her when you’re apart to show that you care about how her day is going and that you’re thinking of her. Give her compliments that show her that she really stands out to you. Don’t just tell her she’s hot; compliment her sense of humor or other aspects of her personality that really matter. If you want to make your relationship last, then you can’t be clingy. You have to respect the fact that your older woman is her own person and that she has a life going on outside of being with you. This could mean her time at work, spending nights with her girlfriends, or all of the time she spends doing her own thing, whether it’s yoga, writing poetry, or cooking. Don’t be needy or ask her to hang out with you all the time, and appreciate the fact that she has a life outside of your relationship.  Show an interest in the things she does when you’re not together. Ask her about her friends, her job, and her hobbies to show that you care. You can check in with her when you’re apart, but don’t call her three times when she’s hanging out with her girlfriends; you don’t want her to think that you have nothing else going on or that you’re jealous. If you want to make your relationship last, then you should be able to hold your own when it comes to having a conversation with your girlfriend. You don’t want her to feel like she’s doing all of the talking or like you don’t have any opinions of your own to contribute. You have to show her that you’re thoughtful, mature, and articulate if you want to keep her interested.  Read up on politics, world news, and other timely events. If she brings up a current event, you don’t want to look completely clueless. Talk about your experiences, such as your childhood memories or any traveling you’ve done. Don’t think that your experiences aren’t valid just because you’re younger. If something funny happened to you that day, then get comfortable sharing it. Don’t think that it has to be all serious just because you’re with a mature woman. Avoid talking about topics that make you sound young. If you got in a silly fight with your roommate or have to beg your parents for money, then these topics may be best avoided. If you want your relationship to last, then you can’t keep doing the same old thing with your girlfriend every time you go out. Be on the lookout for new restaurants to try, new places to visit, and new activities to try together, from taking salsa lessons to cooking an Italian meal together. If you get too comfortable doing the same thing together day after day, then you may come off as complacent and the older woman, who has more experience, may be wanting something more.  Though it’s great to develop some traditions to do together, you don’t want to fall into the same old dull routine day after day. Make sure you do something new together at least once a week. Write her a love letter telling her how much she means to you just because. Don’t think that the romance has to stop just because you’ve been together for a while. Be spontaneous. Suggest a weekend trip the day before, or take her on a surprise date to do something she’s always wanted to try, such as rock climbing. After you’ve been with your older woman for a while, you can start to ask yourself if it’s meant to be. If you feel like you’ve forgotten all about your age difference and that you have a meaningful, fun, and fulfilling relationship, then hats off to you. However, if you find that the most exciting thing about your relationship is your age difference and that that has worn off, then it’s time to move on.  If you find that dating an older woman was just a novelty, then you may not be in the relationship for the right reasons. Be honest with yourself. If the older woman wants more than you are comfortable giving her, then you may have to part ways. However, if you’re having an amazing time dating an older woman, then continue to enjoy your amazing relationship for as long as you want.
A: Show a real interest in who she is. Give her space. Learn to hold up your end of the conversation. Keep things exciting. See if it’s meant to last.

Q: In your schedule, carve out time for class, homework, and studying first. Then identify pockets of time when you are free. Fill in these time slots with activities like volunteering, club meetings, local events, and hanging out with friends. Additionally, keep your weekends free by doing most of your work during the week. This way, you will be able to hang out, attend events, or go out on a date during the weekend. Some assignments may take less time to finish than usual, leaving you with some down time. Instead of taking a break, use this time to get ahead on your school work. Once you are ahead on your school work, you can make more time for friends, hanging out, and meeting guys. Plus, you will be more relaxed when you do hang out. Unless you plan on studying during lunch, make use of your lunch time to meet up with guys you may be interested in. Meet at the dining hall between classes, or go to a restaurant off campus when you aren't so busy. Your school schedule may be so busy that finding any time for extracurricular activities may seem impossible. But taking a break from school is necessary if you want to avoid burning out. Make a point to set aside a couple hours a week to plan a lunch, coffee, or movie date with a guy you may be interested in. Make up for this time by getting up early the next morning, or by working a few extra hours at the end of the next day to finish any school work. Online dating sites are an efficient, as well as effective, way to meet new people. You don't need to leave the comfort of your own home to meet new guys. Once you create your profile, the site's algorithm will find potential matches for you. You can check the site and manage your account whenever you have down time between classes or during lunch. Check out online dating sites geared toward college students, such as the following:  Date My School Campus Hook University Love Connection College Passions Student Love
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Make a weekly schedule. Get ahead on your school work if you have extra time. Plan a lunch date. Set aside a few hours per week to meet up with a guy. Create a profile on an online dating site.