Q: Though it may be tempting to dodge your partner or act out and hurt them on purpose, having a mature discussion about how you feel will likely end in less hurt feelings and a more civil break up. Rather than play the avoidance game, recognize that your partner deserves to know how you’re feeling and that you are unhappy in the relationship. The healthiest way to get someone to break up with you is to discuss your unhappiness in the relationship with them in person, face to face. This will ensure you can part in a mature, respectful way that will not cause unnecessary pain to either of you. Be prepared for your partner to argue with you and claim they can change or that you are wrong about the relationship. Try to put yourself in their position and sympathize if they express hurt feelings or anger.  Remain calm and return to a phrase you feel comfortable with, such as: “This relationship isn’t working for me”, or “I no longer want to be in this relationship.” Avoid phrases that can seem like generic excuses, such as: “It’s not you, it’s me,” or “We just weren’t meant to be together.” Explain why you don’t want things between you to continue and focus on how you feel rather than listing your partner’s faults or issues. Keep in mind this may open you up to criticism or anger from your partner, so be prepared and try to remain calm. Regardless of any tears or raw emotion that come up during the conversation, it’s important to stick to your decision and commit to the break up. It is also important to give your partner space and time to accept the breakup so cut off communication with them and create distance between you. A ‘clean break’ is usually the best way to end a relationship. If you are trying to get an abusive or violent spouse to break up with you, it is not as simple as sitting them down for a one on one conversation. Telling your partner you plan to leave may be dangerous and greatly increase the risk of violence to you and/or others.  You will need time to plan your exit, possibly with the help of a trusted friend or family member. There are several free domestic violence helplines you can call to get advice on your options for leaving your spouse and getting out safely.
A: Think about the benefits of discussing your desire to break up with your partner. Sit your partner down and discuss your feelings in person. Be honest and straightforward, but also sensitive to their feelings. Be specific about why you want to break up. Be sensitive but firm about your decision to break up. Seek help if the relationship was/is abusive or violent.

Q: Prospective clients aren't just going to take your word for it when you tell them that you can successfully help them improve their image; they're going to want to see visual proof. That's why a portfolio of your successful makeovers is a must when you're trying to get clients. Even if you've only given free makeovers, before and after photos show potential clients what kind of results they can expect.  Make sure that your portfolio has high quality photos. If possible, take them with a digital camera instead of the one on your phone. Pay attention to the lighting in your photos. You want prospective clients to be able to see all of the details in your makeovers. It's a good idea to have both a physical portfolio that you can bring to meetings with clients, and a digital version that you can send to potential clients who may not be willing to commit to a meeting. While it's not a necessity, being certified as an image consultant can give you credibility that makes prospective clients feel more comfortable. The Association of Image Consultants International (AICI) offers certification that informs clients that you've achieved a certain level of knowledge in the field and are committed to staying on top of new trends and developments. Becoming certified means that you can include the "AICI CIC" designation after your name on your resume, website, business cards, and other promotional materials.  To become AICI certified, you're required to submit a portfolio which includes client evaluations and proof that you've performed 30 hours of work in the image field, along with other documentation. You also must sit for the AICI CIC Exam, which tests your knowledge of topics in the image field. When it comes to starting any kind of business, an online presence is a must because most prospective clients will start their search online. Create a website that contains contact information, your portfolio, bio, and client testimonials if possible. You should also establish Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other social media accounts to help promote your image consultancy business. It's a good idea to start a blog that focuses on image consultancy issues and tips. It can help you seem like an authority in the field. While a lot of people search for businesses online, some connections are still made by word of mouth. That's why it's a good idea to have business cards that you can pass out to potential clients. You might meet them at your other job, so it helps to have a card with all your contact info to pass on. You should also give some cards to your strategic partners, so they can give them to potential clients. Include your website and social media account information on your cards, so potential clients can check you out online.
A: Create a portfolio. Become certified. Start a website and social media accounts. Make up business cards.

Q: You could cut it curved or straight, however you prefer. Glue or staple gun handles on each side of the top of the water bottle. Suitable handle ideas include:  Leather or fabric straps Plaited twine or sisal Rubber lengths Braided fabric Old belts Anything else you can find around the house. Make the base of a bag (back, front, sides but not top); reserve the hot water bottle as the top of the bag. The base of the bag should be wide enough for the bottle to reach over from the bag back to the front, as a “lid”. Place a bag clasp into the portion of the bottle that was once the top. It’s quirky and will require some daring experimentation but it can look very different when done! In some versions of this bag, old military truck tarp was used as the back and sides of the bag.
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Cut the top of the bottle off. Attach handles. Another way to turn the hot water bottle into a bag: