Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Get to know everyone's expectations. Communicate effectively and openly. Balance your needs and your partner's needs. Watch for signs of dysfunction.

Answer: In any relationship, every participant should know what the expectations are in order to avoid feelings of being used or neglected.  If you're dating someone, it is important that both partners are on the same page when it comes to issues like how often you will see each other, how often you'll talk or text, how physically intimate you will be, and whether or not you will date other people. In marriage and work relationships, it is important to understand each person's role and responsibilities to avoid feelings of resentment or confusion. Every relationship can be improved just by improving communication. Unfortunately, most people don't learn how to communicate effectively as they grow up, so it can be difficult to have important conversations or stand up for yourself if you don't make a concerted effort to learn the basics of effective communication.  In a relationship, you should approach conflict and disagreement with the perspective that you are a team. Instead of viewing a disagreement as your chance to prove a point or win an argument, try to think of it as a challenge to come up with a mutually-beneficial solution. Don't sit on negative feelings for too long without expressing them to your partner. Otherwise, you could become resentful.  If you find yourself angry or sad about the relationship, think about why you're feeling that way and then talk to your partner about it. Let them know how you feel and what you think could help. We are often taught to put other people before our own needs, and being selfless in a relationship can be a great feature. However, you should not sacrifice your own needs or happiness to satisfy someone else. You'll end up burned out and disappointed.  Take time for yourself to recharge when you need to. It's ok to have a night out with just your friends, or take an evening to read by yourself when you want to. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what your needs are. Relationships of all kinds should make you feel good about yourself and happy that you know the other person. Sometimes, though, relationships become a burden and can even affect your state of mind. If your relationship is dysfunctional, it may be time to sever ties or seek counseling. Watch for these warning signs in any relationship:  One person has more power or control than the other, and demands that the other person does what he or she says or wants. This can include limiting who the other person can spend time with, how they spend money, or how physically affectionate they are. One person (or both) becomes emotionally manipulative and tries to get the other to respond by creating feelings of guilt, pity, or jealousy. One person is a giver and the other person is just a taker. For example, a friend may always expect you to drop your plans for them, get them out of a bind, or be physically affectionate with no commitment.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Create a face care schedule. Dedicate a special time for face care. Amend your routine to address changes in your skin.

Answer: A proper face care routine involves daily, weekly, and monthly tasks. Creating a schedule can help you keep track of these tasks, and ensure you don’t miss anything important. Here are some important parts of the routine to remember:  Morning and night: cleanse and moisturize Daily: tone, apply sunscreen, and apply a serum if necessary Weekly: exfoliate at least once a week, and possibly twice Monthly: do a self-exam to check for changes and problem areas Having a good routine is all about getting into good habits. The easiest way to do this is to set aside time at the same time every day to address your face care needs. That way, you do the same thing at the same time every day, and eventually it will become second nature.  For instance, if you start work or school at 9 a.m., set an alarm for 7 a.m. every day to remind your self to wash, tone, and moisturize your face. Similarly, if you go to bed around 11 p.m. every night, set a reminder to wash and moisturize your face before bed. Your skin changes over time, and as this happens, you may have to change the products you use. Similarly, if you notice that your skin is reacting badly to a specific product or step in your routine, consider using a different product.  For instance, if your skin starts to become drier as you get older, you may need to switch to a more hydrating moisturizer. Similarly, if you start to break out often, you may need to change the type of cleanser you're using and refrain from picking your face.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Decide whether you would prefer to limit your plan or cancel it entirely. Choose to change your DVD plan to a cheaper option. Cancel the DVD plan by going to the account page and clicking "Cancel DVD Plan. Return to the account page.

Answer: Click on the "Change Plan" link to downgrade the number of discs or types of discs you get each month. " Confirm you want to cancel Netflix DVDs. Click "Change Plan" to downgrade your streaming or "Cancel Streaming Plan" to cancel your Netflix account entirely.


Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Smile. Make the first move. Ask open-ended questions. Be an active listener. Look for signals that the person isn't engaged. Avoid dominating the conversation. Steer the conversation to subjects the shy person likes. End on a positive note.

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Before making contact with the shy person, you can let them know you’re a friendly and inviting personality by flashing a genuine smile, as though you're smiling at an old friend, not a stranger.  It’s a small, simple gesture, but it can do wonders to open up channels of communication and start building trust.  This is because, unlike other body language and gestures which vary across different cultures and historical periods, smiling constitutes a universally positive signal. Smiling has even been shown to have positive psychological effects for the person who is smiling, so remember that your friendly face isn’t just a good tool for conversation. Dealing with a shy person means you’ll probably have to extend the first overture.  After smiling from a distance, approach the shy person with a warm greeting.  Introduce yourself and have a topic ready so that you can get the conversation rolling immediately.  For example, bring up a book you've been reading or a short, funny anecdote.  Taking the initiative and approaching first takes pressure off the other person and puts them at ease. While you should try to avoid clichéd, boring comments about the weather, you don't need to find a dazzling, original greeting.  A simple, "Hi, how are you?" will do the job just fine. The best way to get a conversation started and keep it going is to ask questions.  All questions aren’t equally helpful, though.  Those which ask for a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ response will stop conversation dead in its tracks just as quickly as silence will, so make sure your questions are thoughtful and open-ended.  For example, instead of saying, "Do you like this music?" you might say, "What kinds of music do you listen to?” Avoid controversial topics with someone you just met! Otherwise showing an interest in someone is a great way to make them like you instantly. Being a good listener is one of the most important interpersonal skills and also one of the most difficult, so showing you’re a good listener will encourage the person to open up and trust you.  Show the person that you’re listening to them and engaged by making eye contact, keeping your face turned toward them, and nodding occasionally. Ask follow-up questions or restate their points to confirm you are listening. For example, if the person has just expressed an opinion or explained a complex idea, paraphrase what they've said in order to clarify that you've understood correctly. Try, "So, what you're saying is..." Sometimes even your best efforts to make small talk will be fruitless.  If the person you're talking to gives short, one-word answers, avoids eye contact, and steps back from you, chances are they're not just shy — they're also not interested in talking to you.  Don't sweat it when this happens: you won't connect with everyone you ever talk to, so it's not a personal insult or failure when you don't hit it off.  Cut your losses and move on to someone who's happy to talk. This doesn't mean you have to be rude or abrupt.  Smile, tell the person it was a pleasure meeting them, and excuse yourself. A shy person’s reticence can make it tempting to fill the silence with your own chatter, but try to resist this impulse.  Talking for extended periods of time may relieve the other person’s uncertainty and anxiety, but it’s unlikely to draw them out and get them talking.  Keep asking questions about the other person and give them time to answer.  It can help to remind yourself that, despite what pop culture might tell you, silence isn’t necessarily awkward.  On the contrary, a meaningful pause can signal thoughtfulness and respect, so try not to panic the moment a wave of silence sets in.  If it feels like you're pulling teeth to get the other person to talk, you might want to consider wrapping up the conversation.  You can do this in a graceful manner by excusing yourself to go get a drink or say hello to an acquaintance and making sure that you make eye contact before withdrawing. Once you’ve uncovered a few things that the shy person enjoys, guide the conversation in the direction of these personal preferences.  You can do this easily by playing the student and asking your interlocutor to explain or elaborate.  For example, if the person has revealed that they love cooking, you can say something like, "I don't know much about cooking but I've always wanted to get better at it.  How can I start doing that?  What are some of your favorite recipes?"  These learning-centered questions will show your interest while getting the person talking about something they love and feel confident about. If you don’t share their interests, try to suspend judgment and avoid expressing your conflicting tastes. This doesn’t mean you have to lie or pander, though.  Just try to keep an open mind and stay away from strong statements of disgust or disapproval. Once you’ve concluded your conversation, make sure your interlocutor walks away feeling good about the interaction.  You can do this by saying what a pleasure it was to talk or expressing interest in continuing the conversation at another time.  If they walk away thinking that you appreciate and like them, they’ll be more likely to branch out and talk in the future. If you’re at a business or networking event, shake hands before you part ways.  Friendly, personal contact is a good way to show respect and attentiveness while helping to leave a lasting, unique impression on your conversation partner.