The most basic way to respond to peer pressure is to just say ‘no.’ Standing up to peer pressure will save you the trouble of getting pressured again in the future because it sends a clear message that you're not interested. Be firm and make eye contact. This shows that you’re not willing to compromise.  There are lots of ways to say no. For example, say, “I don’t do that” or, “No thanks, I’ll pass.” You can also say, “I’d rather not, thanks.” Be careful not to get baited into doing something by being called “scared” or “a chicken.” Stay firm in your own decision. Avoiding the question might send the message that you're still interested but don’t want to respond. That may lead to further pressure later on. Changing the subject, however, will at least buy you some time until you feel ready to respond (or not respond at all).  Change the subject by saying, "Do you want to watch this movie with me? I've really been wanting to see it, but it's no fun watching it alone." If someone at a party is pressuring you into drinking, try asking "So what do you think of the DJ so far?" This is a great option if you're feeling shy or intimidated, or if you don't want to come off as being rude. Come up with some sort of an excuse, apologize, and get away as soon as you can. For example:  You could say “Oh, I just forgot, I have to study for the math exam," or "Oh my gosh! I just forgot that I have to meet Sue for that group project!" If the person is persistent, text your friend or your parent to call you. When your phone rings, pick it up, talk for a bit, then say you have to leave. Make sure that your excuse is believable. Don't mention that you have to talk to your sister if you don't have a sister.

Summary: Say ‘no’ like you mean it. Change the subject if you’re uncomfortable responding to questions. Make an excuse to leave.


There are lots of websites where you can get your item appraised by a professional appraiser. Search for websites which specialize in the kind of item you are trying to sell. Lots of websites are geared toward very specific kinds of antiques or collectibles, from furniture to stamps to vintage toys.  Once you choose your appraiser, you will send them photos and descriptions of your item. Usually within about a week, the appraiser will send back an estimate of your item’s value. Because online appraisers depend on photos to make their valuations, it’s important that the photos you send are high in quality.   Send photos of the item from every angle. Include close-ups of any distinct details in your item. Make sure your photos are well-lit, in color, and not blurry. Don’t hide any flaws in your item or misrepresent it. Don’t alter your photo to make your item look better than it does in person. Make sure to include photos of any damaged parts of your item, as well. Hiding or omitting flaws may get you a higher valuation for your item, but that value will not carry over when you try to sell it. The upside of using an online appraiser is that they are less expensive than in-person appraisers. Online appraisals vary in cost, but you can expect to pay at least $10-30. Because online appraisers don’t come in contact with your item, their appraisals cannot be as thorough as you’d get from an in-person appraisal. The best way to get an accurate appraisal of the value of your item is to hire an in-person appraiser.  It might be useful to get an online appraisal if you’re not sure whether your item is valuable enough to be worth paying an in-person appraiser.

Summary: Find the right website. Take good pictures of your item. Be prepared to pay for your appraisal. Take internet appraisals with a grain of salt.


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Summary: Wait for it to dry.