Article: Staying in contact with your ex will only keep feelings alive and prolong the heartache for both of you. Avoid going places you might run into them, delete their number from your phone, and resist the urge to look at their social media accounts. If you have any of their belongings, return them – preferably through a mutual friend – or get rid of them.  Even if you want to stay friends with your ex, remember that you both need time and distance to heal after a breakup. Be respectful of your ex’s feelings and give them space to move on after the relationship ends. Unfollowing or unfriending your ex on social media may also be a good option to reduce your reminders of them. After a breakup, it’s common to feel sad, stressed, and uncertain about the future. It might be tempting to call in sick at work and wallow in your feelings, but you’ll actually feel better if you stay busy and don’t skip your regular activities. Sticking to a routine can help preserve your sense of normalcy. If you don’t know what to do with yourself, try picking up a new hobby or joining a gym. Sometimes post-breakup pain can be a catalyst for personal development. You may have just ended one relationship, but don’t forget about all the other relationships in your life. Family and friends can be a source of strength and comfort while you’re working through the emotional fallout of a breakup. Don’t hesitate to call up a friend or spend extra time around your loved ones if you’re feeling down. Simply say to a loved one, “I know it was for the best, but I don’t want to be alone right now. Do you want to come over and watch a movie?” It’s usually not a good idea to get into a rebound relationship while your emotions are still raw. Instead, focus on healing and becoming the best version of yourself you can. If you have any unresolved issues that played a part in your last breakup, work on addressing those before you re-enter the dating world. Becoming emotionally healthy will help you attract a better relationship in the future.
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Cut all ties with your ex. Maintain your routine. Lean on others for emotional support. Be emotionally ready before getting involved with someone new.

If there are no children under the age of 21 born or adopted into the marriage and all property and debt division are unanimously agreed to, you can qualify for the expedited Uncontested Divorce Program. Only no-fault divorces, meaning the problems in the relationship have been ongoing for at least six months and cannot be reconciled, are eligible for this program. There can be no allegations of fault. At least one party must be willing to swear under oath to this breakdown of the marriage. To use this program, you must be at a computer equipped with Microsoft Word or the free Microsoft Word Viewer. The computer must also be attached to a printer to generate your filing copies. There is no online filing option in New York. The program has a checklist showing the information you will need before you start. Most of it is straight forward, such as names and contact information for the parties, the date and place of the marriage, and details of the settlement agreement.  A settlement agreement can be as simple as statements to the effect of, "Parties have separated the personal property and debts." If there are vehicles or leases, list them individually. For example, "Plaintiff will retain ownership of 2012 Toyota Camry, VIN #[number]," or "Defendant will retain the right to occupy the apartment located at [address]." If there is real estate, you must detail if it will be sold or if one of the parties will be keeping it. Detail out things like equity buy-outs or agreements on mortgage payments. For example, "Plaintiff will retain ownership and assume the mortgage of house located at [address]. Defendant will receive a lump sum payment of [amount] payable by [date]. Upon payment, defendant will execute the necessary deeds in favor of plaintiff." Even though you are using the Uncontested Divorce Program, consider consulting with an attorney to create the settlement agreement if there are any complicated issues such as investments and retirement accounts. A little work before filing can speed the divorce through the system. Regardless of who files as the plaintiff, if the wife or same-sex spouse adopted the other spouse's name in the marriage, the divorce petition can be used to legally restore the unmarried ("maiden") name. The same process can be used if both parties legally adopted hyphenated names. The divorce can restore the singular surname. This information can be entered in the form generator. Preparation of your documents will go faster if you already have your index number from the court. You can file a Summons and Notice  and pay the fee to receive your index number. At this time you will also file your application to have the fee waived. You will file at the courthouse in the county where you reside, even if another courthouse is closer. The state of New York, working with Legal Services, has created an interactive online program to generate a court-ready document package for uncontested divorces. One party can prepare the documents for the other to sign or you can work on it together. You can also hire an attorney or document preparation service to prepare your divorce package. You will not be paying for representation, but for consultation and tailoring of the documents and services to meet your unique situation. Once you have your divorce package, both parties must read and sign the documents. The petition will need to be signed in front of a notary in blue ink to show that it is an original signature. You and your spouse can sign them separately, but both signatures must be on the same divorce package. The state of New York provides a detailed step-by-step procedure to file your divorce documents. In summary, you will bring your index number, your summons, and your completed divorce forms.  Bring the original and two copies of all the documents. The court will keep the originals and return two file-stamped copies, one for each party, to you. In your uncontested divorce, the easiest way to speed your divorce through the court is for the defendant to waive service by signing an Affidavit of Defendant. If your spouse refuses to sign the affidavit, you will have to hire a process server to deliver a copy of the summons and complaint. The process server will file an affidavit of service. Expect to pay between $50 and $100 for this service. If your spouse has signed the Affidavit of Defendant, you can request an immediate calendar entry. If not, you will have to wait a minimum of 40 days after the date of service to request a court date. Procedures vary a bit from county to county. Some courthouses are more formal than others. Speak with the court clerk as to whether you can schedule a hearing with an oral request or will need to ask in writing. Depending on the county of filing, you may or may not have to appear in court. Ask the court clerk if there is a requirement for you to appear. Most courts, especially in the more populous counties may grant your divorce by signature. If this is the case, you will receive the postcard from your divorce package in the mail. At that time, you can pick the decree up at the court clerk's office. Bring your identification and expect to pay around $10. If you have an order waiving your fees, bring a copy and your document fees will also be waived. Give a copy to your spouse. You can now proceed with changing your name on documents, rewriting leases, or updating financial accounts.
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Review the requirements of the Uncontested Divorce Program. Verify your computer capabilities. Gather the necessary information. Determine if the spouses will go back to former names. Purchase an Index Number. Use the state program to generate your divorce petition. Review and sign the documents. File your divorce package. Determine if service of process is needed. Put your divorce on the court calendar. Receive your final judgment.