Article: Someone who shares traits with the stereotypical "alpha male" might occasionally act stubborn, impatient, and demanding, especially during quarrels. When he slips into these negative patterns, it is important that you do not act overly submissive or apologetic. Instead, remain calm and analytical as you state your case. Walk away from the argument if you need to, but do not flatter, pander, or give in too easily. Some scripts you might use include:  "I can see that we're not going to reach an agreement tonight. Let's continue talking about this tomorrow." "I know that we don't agree on this. But here are the reasons why I think I'm right . . ." "I am happy to find middle ground, but I am not willing to let go of my core beliefs. It is important that you are willing to compromise if I am going to compromise too." Be careful if he acts aggressively by breaking things, making threats, or frequently raising his voice to the point that you end up in tears. This is not acceptable behavior, and you deserve better. Leave the situation immediately if you feel personally threatened. Let him know that his actions are unacceptable, and seek help outside of the relationship from a friend, the authorities, or a domestic abuse hotline. In general, people are happy in relationships when there is an egalitarian power structure. In this case, both partners might share chores, have equal say over important decisions, and might both work outside of the home. These relationships are less likely to end in divorce or break-ups. While egalitarian relationships are the most successful in the long run, they might also reduce libido and sexual passion. If you are attracted to dominance, consider finding ways for this dominance to be expressed, even if it does not impact your day-to-day decision-making. For example, you might consider:  Introducing a dominant/submissive role-play during sex. Be sure to discuss your preferences and limitations in advance, and make sure that you can stop the role-play at any time by using a "safe-word." Finding outlets to perform traditional gender roles. For example, a woman might dress up in traditional feminine outfits; a man might dress up in athletic clothing.  Divide chores along gendered lines. If you are a woman in a heterosexual relationship, consider taking on some stereotypically feminine labor, such as cooking or washing dishes. Ask your partner to take on stereotypically masculine labor, such as repairing the car. This might increase sexual attraction. Many people who exhibit typical "alpha" traits communicate in a direct manner. They tend not to beat around the bush. Try to keep this in mind so that you are not offended at how direct and straightforward their conversation is. Instead, remember that direct communication can help a relationship avoid patterns of passive-aggression or mutual dissatisfaction: If your partner's bluntness is insulting or hurtful, however, these are warning signs that your partner is going well beyond "direct" communication and is instead hoping to injure your feelings. This is not a sign of confidence but of aggression, and you should consider whether he is worth your time and energy. Tell your partner what you find attractive about him and his confidence. Feel free to be direct about what makes you happy in a relationship.  If you enjoy his athletic ability, for example, tell him that and support his athletic successes. If you are attracted to chivalrous behavior, tell him that you love it when he buys you flowers, jewelry, or surprising you with exotic vacations. Express your delight and pleasure when he engages in these behaviors. If both you and your partner are confident people, you will likely have some independent interests and activities that the other one does not share. Be sure that you both maintain your independence in certain areas, even if you share many other activities. Keep your old friends, keep up with your old hobbies, and spend some time apart every now and again. Healthy boundaries will help the relationship last and will help you both maintain your self-confidence. True confidence is not about performing strength but rather about being honest about who you are and what your needs are. People who are confident will not be afraid to build a lasting bond with the right person. If the person you are dating is emotionally honest and is willing to commit, that is a good sign that he is a truly confident person who knows what he wants.
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Do not act overly submissive during disagreements. Do not accept aggressive behavior. Create a generally egalitarian relationship. Find healthy ways to explore dominance and submission, especially in the bedroom and in chores. Be prepared for bluntness. Communicate clearly. Have healthy boundaries. Turn confidence in himself into confidence in the relationship.
Article: Take the three chocolate-covered biscuit sticks and press them into the end of the tail so they stick out of the tail toward the sky like protective barbs. You can use either Pocky sticks or chocolate-covered pretzel sticks for the barbs.
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Add the tail barbs before serving.
Article: Other people might have seen something. Visit your neighbors and ask if they know anything about the situation. Check whether they know where the owner is and how to contact them.  By talking to your neighbors, you also spread the word that someone might be in the house illegally. Not all squatters are dangerous, but your neighbors should nevertheless be advised of who is there. If a neighbor has seen something, have them write down notes about who they saw and when. Ask them to describe the squatters, if they can. You’ll need to notify the police and the building owner, but you should have some evidence to share with them. This evidence will be useful if the owners need to sue to evict the squatters. Do the following:  Take detailed notes of who you see coming and going from the property. What do they look like? How many people are there? What dates have you seen them? Photograph the building if you see broken windows or graffiti. There might be an innocent explanation for why someone has been in the property. For example, the people you see going in and out might be the lawful owners. Ask the people you encounter who they are and why they are there.  You are not required to speak to the squatters, and you shouldn’t if you are scared of them. It’s enough to record what you have observed and then call the appropriate people. If you’re scared, another option is for a group of neighbors to go talk to the squatters. There’s safety in numbers.
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Talk to your neighbors. Document the squatting. Speak to the squatters if you aren’t afraid.