Your new partner won’t be perfect. No one is. This means they make mistakes. If your partner makes a mistake, remind yourself that it wasn't intentional. Don’t automatically assume the mistake was made to hurt you. Know what things are mistakes that will end a relationship. Because you have been cheated on before, any cheating behavior will probably be a dealbreaker. Lying may also be something that can lead to a breakup. However, small things, like forgetting something or disagreeing, don’t mean your new partner can’t be trusted. When you have trouble trusting someone, it can negatively impact your relationship. You may be standoffish, closed off, and put walls between you and the other person. This will eventually cause the relationship to stall and fall apart. Admit when you are doing things to interfere with the relationship. This may be keeping your new partner at arm’s length or breaking commitments. By facing your behavior, you can work to change it and build more trust. Part of what happens when trust is broken is that people build walls and become harder and more distant. This is often necessary, but when you find someone you care about, you should let yourself be vulnerable. Being open with your new partner can give you the opportunity to build a wonderful new relationship. Being open and vulnerable doesn’t mean that you forget what you learned, stop watching for warning signs, or stop being smart about the relationship. It just means you give your new partner a chance to prove that they are trustworthy. When you and your new partner start getting close, you should open up and explain your situation. Letting them know that you have been cheated on and have some trust issues can help you both set boundaries and know what is expected from each other. You can say, “My previous partner cheated on me, and it hurt me. I have trust issues, but I am working on it. I think we should talk about our ideas of trust and set boundaries with each other.” When you find yourself not trusting someone, stop and analyze those thoughts. Ask yourself why you are having these thoughts. Are they based on something the new person has done? Or are they a result of your own issues? Taking the time to address your worries can help you keep in control of them and not let past experiences of broken trust interfere with new relationships.
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One-sentence summary -- Recognize that everyone makes mistakes. Take responsibility for your actions. Learn to be open and vulnerable. Discuss your trust issues with your partner. Question mistrustful thoughts.

Article: While some external hard drives will be usable immediately after plugging them into an available USB port on your computer, most external hard drives need to be formatted to fit your computer's specific file system before you can use them. Formatting is a quick process that you can perform from within your computer's built-in settings. Most computers have USB 3.0 ports—which resemble rectangular holes in the side or front of your computer's housing—but modern Macs and some Microsoft-produced Windows computers use USB-C connections instead:   USB 3.0 — A rectangular port found on the majority of computers produced before 2017. Most external hard drives use USB 3.0 connectors.  USB-C — An oval port found on MacBooks and some Microsoft laptops. If you have a USB-C port, you'll either need to buy a USB 3.0 to USB-C adapter or find an external hard drive that includes a USB-C cable. External hard drives usually come in flavors of anything from 512 gigabytes to several terabytes in size. Make sure that you buy a hard drive that has more space than you need. Generally speaking, it isn't much more expensive to buy a terabyte (1024 gigabytes) hard drive than it is to buy a 512 gigabyte hard drive. Storage also tends to get cheaper the more of it you buy (e.g., a two terabyte hard drive will cost significantly less than two one terabyte hard drives). Solid-state drives (SSDs) are significantly faster than traditional external hard drives, but they're also much more expensive. If you're planning on running an operating system or editing software from the external drive, though, an SSD will be better for responsiveness than a traditional hard drive. Storage is cheap, but you'll still want to make sure that you're buying from a reputable manufacturer; don't pay more for a hard drive with a fancy case but a low-quality drive inside. If you're backing up something important, you want to make sure it's going to work! Popular external hard drive manufacturers include the following:  Western Digital Adata Buffalo Seagate Samsung Once you've purchased your drive from a tech department store or an online outlet, you can proceed with installing it on your Windows computer or Mac.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Understand how to add an external hard drive to your computer. Check your computer's connections. Consider your space requirements. Choose between a traditional hard drive and a solid-state drive. Know which brands to look for. Buy an external hard drive that fits your requirements.