You shouldn’t argue with your parents every time you disagree with them, if only because this strategy will make it harder for you to win when the argument is about something that is really important to you.   Weigh the benefits versus the costs. If the topic of the argument is significant to you, it might be worth the effort and the possible consequences of engaging in an argument with your parents. However, if there are minimal worthwhile results, it might be best to let this one go. For example, if your mom hates it when you play your music loudly, the only real benefit of having an argument about this is that you might get to play your music at a louder volume, and maybe only for a short period of time. It will also be perpetuating a behavior that your mom doesn’t like and will lead to more arguments in the future. But if your parents have a problem with your significant other and they don’t like you spending time with him/her, this might be an instance in which planning an argument is worth it because there are more possible benefits on the line for you. Causing a scene in public will only embarrass your parents and make them less likely to hear what you have to say. Make sure that your argument takes place at home or in a private space so that they are comfortable having the conversation with you.  If you start an argument with your parents in public, they will view it as a very immature thing to do and it will not be a good way to begin the argument. Some people get embarrassed when they think others know their business or are listening to them talk. This is not a good way get your parents to hear you out. Give your parents the courtesy of conducting your argument in private. They will probably not listen to you if they are upset. People are more likely to hear what you say to them and really consider your opinions when they are in a good mood. If you start an argument with your parents when they are already upset, they will probably brush you off or respond even more negatively.   Give yourself the best possible chance by starting your argument when your parents will be receptive to what you have to say. You might even try putting them in a good mood by doing things you know will make them happy – like cleaning your room, doing your homework, or spending time with them. Of course, don’t immediately bring up the argument after trying to get your parents in a good mood. That will be too obvious and they will think you only did the nice things for selfish reasons to get something that you want. Before you begin an argument, make sure that you have fully considered the entire situation. Try to think about it from your parents’ point of view so that you can predict what they will say in the argument. That way, you can prepare your side of the argument, but you can also think objectively about your position.  This can also help you see if you are being unreasonable. Try thinking about how you would feel if someone was treating you the way you are treating your parents. There are always two sides to every story and a good arguer knows that they need to consider both sides.
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One-sentence summary -- Pick your battles. Keep the argument private. Choose a moment when your parents are in a good mood. Put yourself in your parents’ shoes.

Q: Find someone you feel connected to and who you feel a strong connection with. It’s difficult (though not impossible) to start a meaningful conversation with a stranger or acquaintance. It might feel more comfortable to start a meaningful conversation with someone you’ve known for a while or already have some closeness in your relationship. You might not want to start a meaningful conversation with someone who’s often argumentative or focused on always being ‘right’. Think about someone you can engage with and share both speaking and listening. A meaningful conversation will often occur within a context that makes it meaningful. While some meaningful conversations can happen spontaneously, others may require some planning. Especially if it’s difficult to find time to meet up, choose a date and a time where both you and the other person can be present and fully engaged. For example, don’t have the conversation when one or both of you have a time constraint. Avoid busy or stressful days so that each person feels comfortable and not preoccupied or stressed. When talking, you don't want to be interrupted by surrounding noise. You probably also don’t want prying ears overhearing your conversation. Find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed or interrupted. This might include somebody’s home or a private meeting room.  For example, a restaurant may not be ideal as you may be interrupted or overheard. Look for a place with minimal distractions. Consider turning off your phone or the television so that it doesn’t interrupt your conversation. If your conversations are often scattered, disorganized, or tangential, you can pause to talk a moment to organize your thoughts. This helps keep the conversation on track, and can give you a confidence boost as well! If you know you're going to have a difficult conversation and want to prepare well in advance, you can also try writing down what you want to say to organize your thoughts! Put some effort into starting the conversation, especially if it’s a difficult topic. Decide on how you will start the conversation and what words you will say. Whether you enjoy it or not, small talk can help to open a conversation and make people feel more comfortable. Starting a conversation with something deep might be jarring or unexpected, so warm up with some small talk first. When you and the other person appear comfortable, bring up a more substantial topic. For example, ask how the person’s day is going or briefly talk about the weather.
A: Choose who you want to speak with. Choose an appropriate time to talk. Find a quiet place. Collect your thoughts before you speak. Start with small talk.

Article: If your pillow is covered with a slipcover or pillowcase, take the protective covering off. Check the care instructions on the tag of the cover, and wash the cover or pillowcase in the washing machine or by hand according to the instructions. Remember to wash your pillowcase and slipcover every 2 weeks at least to keep your pillow smelling fresh. Baking soda is a great deodorizer and can be used to freshen up a variety of surfaces, including gel and memory foam. Coat the entire pillow in a layer of baking soda, working on one side of the pillow at a time. If you have a very large or European-style pillow, you may need to use 3-4 tablespoons (43.2-57.6 grams) to cover the surface. Let the pillow sit while the baking soda absorbs the odors off of the surface of the gel pillow. If possible, let the baking soda sit on the pillow overnight.  If the pillow has a very bad smell, try placing it in a large plastic bag with the baking soda on it for 1-2 days. The baking soda will have time to absorb the odors from the pillow. If you have children or pets, place the pillow in a place where they can't access it, like on top of a cabinet or in the closet. After the baking soda has absorbed the smell from the pillow, vacuum the surface thoroughly. Working in sections, pull the brush across the pillow to make sure all of the baking soda is removed.  Make sure to clean and dry the vacuum attachment before using it on your pillow. It might take a few passes of the vacuum to remove all of the baking soda. After the first pass, run your hand across the pillow. If it still feels grainy, vacuum it again.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Remove the cover from your pillow. Sprinkle 2 tablespoons (28.8 grams) of baking soda over the pillow. Let the baking soda sit on the pillow for 30 minutes. Use the brush attachment of a vacuum to remove the baking soda.